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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
Your last line... exactly that.
We're here for our own pleasure, and some people forget that when they pop their judgy pants on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
Your last line... exactly that.
We're here for our own pleasure, and some people forget that when they pop their judgy pants on!"
Totally agree with this...
Some women need to find a life, and get on with it IMO |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're not bothered by it carry on as you are and leave them to their sad little lives 
If you do care about it maybe hide the veri summary and just show a few veris so people wont see how many meets you've had and be so judgemental
Either way carry on enjoying yourself exactly how you want to   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
It pisses me off that some people think they have to cut others down in order to succeed here. These women are clearly just jealous because you have a very striking look and understandably us guys are into it! Keep doing what you're doing and forget the haters!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
ive had this in the past as a single... Mr got told that sorry but not meeting you pair because of me... ( he had similar amount of verifications at the time)
Been called a slut at a club too.... and once had a guy say thank you..but dont leave me a veri as people won't like it..
It did actually make me kerb my ways now im a couple as dont want people thinking badly off Mr. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had this on my previous profile......apparently for a single guy...who played as you do I had WAY too many verifications and had met far too many people.
It didn't bother me and wasn't the reason why I deleted my old profile. In fact I felt sorry for the sad (jealous?) individuals ....mainly men, who felt they had to message me just to say so.
It's not just ladies! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So long as it isn't stopping YOU from having fun...
Fuck EVERY guy, so the bitches either have to get over you and your sex life, or they have to move somewhere else. "
I like your thinking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
I've met guys and had them ask me not to verify them because I work at a local sex club and apparently it puts women off meeting them
I've had a few guy tell me after we have met women have turned them down because they don't meet guys who meet whores
Like you I get checked regular, ever four weeks it's a condition of working at the club, if you don't show a clean certificate every month you don't get any more dates till you do, so I'm probably one of the least likely people on here to give you anything
Yet women still run a mile from guys who have met me |
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By *ooking for bbwsCouple
over a year ago
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
It is ridulass some man even bull sh*t too, an make others not want too meet u. Then the funnest bit of a no reason is that cause I've got over 150verication, he wood not meet me! When most our repeats, an i was gunna do a social with him anyways!
But it's each to there own an don't mess or let others down! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's just so wrong! Who you meet is your business. Women shouldn't put other women down on here to look purer. It's a swinging site, hardly a christian dating website. Just keep doing what your doing. As long as you are enjoying yourself, let them bitch while you fuck  . |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
Firstly op - sending you a big hug!!
Secondly - yes I know exactly what you're saying! When I first found fab I thought it would be a lovely happy-clappy world where everyone could fulfil their (legal) sexual desires and fantasies without fear of judgement from others. Sadly this certainly isn't the case. Many on here think that the only 'right' way to swing is their way, and are very judgemental of anyone who wishes to do things differently!
Sadly - there are horrid people everywhere - fab is no different!
Have another hug!!
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Experienced this first hand "I'm not meeting you because you have fucked her"you never see a guy saying I won't fuck u because u fucked him I might be wrong but I bet I'm not it's a jealousy thing why her not me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Haha thanks guys...I am nothing out of the ordinary n would hate to make assumptions about jealousy etc...they have no idea who I am or what I am like so can only be due to numbers....or that the guys they would play with have asked me first...who knows...it won't stop me but I think it is a shame that it might stop some of the amazing men I have met having fun with girls that might be great playmates...because the guys definitely are...it will say so on my veri!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women on here should empower each other instead of being so hateful and envious of one another.
Send them this message:
"If you have a problem with me, please write it nicely on a piece of paper, fold it up, put it in an envelope and shove it up your ass".
May be not, but try to ignore them, carry on letting them watch your posts. You will still be happy and pretty! x |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
Firstly op - sending you a big hug!!
Secondly - yes I know exactly what you're saying! When I first found fab I thought it would be a lovely happy-clappy world where everyone could fulfil their (legal) sexual desires and fantasies without fear of judgement from others. Sadly this certainly isn't the case. Many on here think that the only 'right' way to swing is their way, and are very judgemental of anyone who wishes to do things differently!
Sadly - there are horrid people everywhere - fab is no different!
Have another hug!!
Xx"
You mean we are having sex the wrong way?!  . Haha!
Give me one of those huggles too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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End of the day it's a sex site and as far as I'm aware there is no set limits to how many people you meet or how many times but I have been declined meets because I have a few verifications some are just social meets while others are sex encounters been told I won't meet u because you go to parties even got a rollicking for meeting a lass and then she met two other guys in quick succession and told why don't u go back to your trollop I said it's a sex site not pof |
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OK I'll.play devils advocate.....there are some women near me who get veris almost daily, they look skanky, and she has BB pics on her profile so I will block any man who has been with her, that's just personal choice though and in no way am I comparing OP.
It acts as a filter for me for some people, same as some men, have lots of BB pics and daily veris, I value my health too much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"End of the day it's a sex site and as far as I'm aware there is no set limits to how many people you meet or how many times but I have been declined meets because I have a few verifications some are just social meets while others are sex encounters been told I won't meet u because you go to parties even got a rollicking for meeting a lass and then she met two other guys in quick succession and told why don't u go back to your trollop I said it's a sex site not pof"
I think a lot of people, mainly women have to justify to themselves what they are doing
Women have always been put down for being sexually open, being called slags etc
So in order to not be seen as a slag they put down other women by making sure everybody know they aren't like them and they have standards
Thats what I have always put this kind of behaviour down too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How very dare you come on a swinging/sex site and be so successful!! they are probably jealous..I know I am a little! You go girl..it's what we're here for after all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
I've met guys and had them ask me not to verify them because I work at a local sex club and apparently it puts women off meeting them
I've had a few guy tell me after we have met women have turned them down because they don't meet guys who meet whores
Like you I get checked regular, ever four weeks it's a condition of working at the club, if you don't show a clean certificate every month you don't get any more dates till you do, so I'm probably one of the least likely people on here to give you anything
Yet women still run a mile from guys who have met me "
Says something about the guys that won't show the veris too.
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
Firstly op - sending you a big hug!!
Secondly - yes I know exactly what you're saying! When I first found fab I thought it would be a lovely happy-clappy world where everyone could fulfil their (legal) sexual desires and fantasies without fear of judgement from others. Sadly this certainly isn't the case. Many on here think that the only 'right' way to swing is their way, and are very judgemental of anyone who wishes to do things differently!
Sadly - there are horrid people everywhere - fab is no different!
Have another hug!!
Xx
You mean we are having sex the wrong way?! . Haha!
Give me one of those huggles too xx"
You can have a huggle any time lady - but yes - you're definitely having sex the wrong way! Not every orifice is for fucking - leave your ears out of it in future!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK I'll.play devils advocate.....there are some women near me who get veris almost daily, they look skanky, and she has BB pics on her profile so I will block any man who has been with her, that's just personal choice though and in no way am I comparing OP.
It acts as a filter for me for some people, same as some men, have lots of BB pics and daily veris, I value my health too much."
That's not devils advocate. That's just you passing judgement on someone else's profile. |
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"OK I'll.play devils advocate.....there are some women near me who get veris almost daily, they look skanky, and she has BB pics on her profile so I will block any man who has been with her, that's just personal choice though and in no way am I comparing OP.
It acts as a filter for me for some people, same as some men, have lots of BB pics and daily veris, I value my health too much."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"End of the day it's a sex site and as far as I'm aware there is no set limits to how many people you meet or how many times but I have been declined meets because I have a few verifications some are just social meets while others are sex encounters been told I won't meet u because you go to parties even got a rollicking for meeting a lass and then she met two other guys in quick succession and told why don't u go back to your trollop I said it's a sex site not pof
I think a lot of people, mainly women have to justify to themselves what they are doing
Women have always been put down for being sexually open, being called slags etc
So in order to not be seen as a slag they put down other women by making sure everybody know they aren't like them and they have standards
Thats what I have always put this kind of behaviour down too"
but the irony is one of the ladies who condemned me for attending parties then tried to organise one the very next week talk about double standards |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've never understood this mentality. It seems crazy to join a swingers/sex site then comment on someone being to promiscuous. Surely it's normal for people choosing this lifestyle to have multiple partners. Fortunately I haven't seen this attitude in practice, I'm just aware of it from the forums. You know, people commenting about 'too many verifications'. FFS how many partners is 'too many' for a swinger? Or are people you expected to stop once they've reached that certain unacceptable number? Are we not all in this because we want to embrace sexual liberation and freedom? I guess not  |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
Ladies can be bitches at times and very jealous childish in my experience more than men. They can be territorial. I'd not worry and maybe hide veris or just a few. I have never in the past shown mine for similar reasons x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me personally most of my verifications come from regular encounters with same people been told I do well for a single guy and I don't disagree but I'm not going to be dictated to by some jealous person telling me who I can and can't meet if I want to meet them I just say your loss and do my own thing and op I think u should do what u enjoy stay safe and fuck the haters |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I feel that it is sad that females are not as sexually liberated as they like to think and there is such a massive distinction between girls and womens attitudes to sex too..which has feck all to do with age...and as I am pretty much the only woman that meets guys with no veris...these girls are gonna start coming unstuck and are not gonna be playing with many of the local boys at some point  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If I don't show my veris then it looks worse as some are just social...but I am not bothered enough to hide anything...I won't stop until I want to...I am not ashamed about what I get up to...and it doesn't bother the guys I play with... infact some love it..so sod em!  |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
Firstly op - sending you a big hug!!
Secondly - yes I know exactly what you're saying! When I first found fab I thought it would be a lovely happy-clappy world where everyone could fulfil their (legal) sexual desires and fantasies without fear of judgement from others. Sadly this certainly isn't the case. Many on here think that the only 'right' way to swing is their way, and are very judgemental of anyone who wishes to do things differently!
Sadly - there are horrid people everywhere - fab is no different!
Have another hug!!
Xx
You mean we are having sex the wrong way?! . Haha!
Give me one of those huggles too xx
You can have a huggle any time lady - but yes - you're definitely having sex the wrong way! Not every orifice is for fucking - leave your ears out of it in future!! "
I prefer my ears to my arse!! |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
I've met guys and had them ask me not to verify them because I work at a local sex club and apparently it puts women off meeting them
I've had a few guy tell me after we have met women have turned them down because they don't meet guys who meet whores
Like you I get checked regular, ever four weeks it's a condition of working at the club, if you don't show a clean certificate every month you don't get any more dates till you do, so I'm probably one of the least likely people on here to give you anything
Yet women still run a mile from guys who have met me
Says something about the guys that won't show the veris too.
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I question those that don't..... I met one in particular who came across goody two shoes but in fact was a filth monster who has met many off here and other sites - took me a while to get that out of him though!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem? "
Because if you're in a swinging site, a site where people hope to come to express their sexuality without "normal" judgements, then turning someone down solely on the basis they slept with someone who slept with someone is ridiculous!
Fine, do it if you want. No one wants anyone to fuck anyone they don't want.
If someone won't take a "no thank you" then ignore or block. Why make it bitchy and personal? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem? "
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for! |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem? "
I agree with this and i wouldnt bother explaining to a man why i didnt want to meet him anyway, whats the point. Just say thanks but youre not really my type which is true. |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
Firstly op - sending you a big hug!!
Secondly - yes I know exactly what you're saying! When I first found fab I thought it would be a lovely happy-clappy world where everyone could fulfil their (legal) sexual desires and fantasies without fear of judgement from others. Sadly this certainly isn't the case. Many on here think that the only 'right' way to swing is their way, and are very judgemental of anyone who wishes to do things differently!
Sadly - there are horrid people everywhere - fab is no different!
Have another hug!!
Xx
You mean we are having sex the wrong way?! . Haha!
Give me one of those huggles too xx
You can have a huggle any time lady - but yes - you're definitely having sex the wrong way! Not every orifice is for fucking - leave your ears out of it in future!!
I prefer my ears to my arse!! "
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"OK I'll.play devils advocate.....there are some women near me who get veris almost daily, they look skanky, and she has BB pics on her profile so I will block any man who has been with her, that's just personal choice though and in no way am I comparing OP.
It acts as a filter for me for some people, same as some men, have lots of BB pics and daily veris, I value my health too much."
Whilst I understand what you are saying it actually means little..... Some men don't verify and others don't show their verifications. You have no idea what they have or haven't done.
I had bareback (unplanned - thanks Durex!) with someone like this and only afterwards found out what a naughty boy he actually was! I initially thought he was a quiet one who had only met one other months before!!
I will just add that I got tested appropriately after the event..... |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
I've met guys and had them ask me not to verify them because I work at a local sex club and apparently it puts women off meeting them
I've had a few guy tell me after we have met women have turned them down because they don't meet guys who meet whores
Like you I get checked regular, ever four weeks it's a condition of working at the club, if you don't show a clean certificate every month you don't get any more dates till you do, so I'm probably one of the least likely people on here to give you anything
Yet women still run a mile from guys who have met me
Says something about the guys that won't show the veris too.
I question those that don't..... I met one in particular who came across goody two shoes but in fact was a filth monster who has met many off here and other sites - took me a while to get that out of him
though!! "
and did that put u off having fun with him or did u accept it's part and parcel of being on site |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
well op your right they should look to themselves first. but you have learn a truth about the swinging world some in it a rather a judgemental bunch and that includes a few who have posted in here .
my advice to you would be to stick two fingers in the air at those who pass judgement on you while you fuck someone on there hot list who they were to slow to go after  |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
I've met guys and had them ask me not to verify them because I work at a local sex club and apparently it puts women off meeting them
I've had a few guy tell me after we have met women have turned them down because they don't meet guys who meet whores
Like you I get checked regular, ever four weeks it's a condition of working at the club, if you don't show a clean certificate every month you don't get any more dates till you do, so I'm probably one of the least likely people on here to give you anything
Yet women still run a mile from guys who have met me
Says something about the guys that won't show the veris too.
I question those that don't..... I met one in particular who came across goody two shoes but in fact was a filth monster who has met many off here and other sites - took me a while to get that out of him
though!! and did that put u off having fun with him or did u accept it's part and parcel of being on site "
I didn't find out til well after the event as we are still in touch. My point is you never truly know who you are meeting. You see what they want you to.... |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for! "
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about? |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
I've met guys and had them ask me not to verify them because I work at a local sex club and apparently it puts women off meeting them
I've had a few guy tell me after we have met women have turned them down because they don't meet guys who meet whores
Like you I get checked regular, ever four weeks it's a condition of working at the club, if you don't show a clean certificate every month you don't get any more dates till you do, so I'm probably one of the least likely people on here to give you anything
Yet women still run a mile from guys who have met me
Says something about the guys that won't show the veris too.
I question those that don't..... I met one in particular who came across goody two shoes but in fact was a filth monster who has met many off here and other sites - took me a while to get that out of him
though!! and did that put u off having fun with him or did u accept it's part and parcel of being on site
I didn't find out til well after the event as we are still in touch. My point is you never truly know who you are meeting. You see what they want you to...."
good job I'm an open book then lol |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
Because if you're in a swinging site, a site where people hope to come to express their sexuality without "normal" judgements, then turning someone down solely on the basis they slept with someone who slept with someone is ridiculous!
Fine, do it if you want. No one wants anyone to fuck anyone they don't want.
If someone won't take a "no thank you" then ignore or block. Why make it bitchy and personal?"
Why indeed! Why do men feel the need to message women abuse , why do people make up fake profiles and pretend to be something they are not! This is fab at least 50 of ppl on here are fucktards! And then you have the forums! |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
Yes I've had this done. Or they say they won't veri me or I don't need to veri them cause it will course dramas. It's sad really. Like you've said we are all here for our love of sex. Just take it on the chin. If they don't wanna meet you. That's there loss Hun |
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"I have seen in some mens profiles hinting that women are undesirable, if they have more than a few veries too.
Miss"
im not bothered by the amount of veris as most people on here have a very active social live where they meet people at clubs and parties doesn't mean they have fucked everyone they have met just means they have made a good impression on those they meet |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
"Fuckem" live your life how you want. Besides your gawjus.x |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
Because if you're in a swinging site, a site where people hope to come to express their sexuality without "normal" judgements, then turning someone down solely on the basis they slept with someone who slept with someone is ridiculous!
Fine, do it if you want. No one wants anyone to fuck anyone they don't want.
If someone won't take a "no thank you" then ignore or block. Why make it bitchy and personal?
Why indeed! Why do men feel the need to message women abuse , why do people make up fake profiles and pretend to be something they are not! This is fab at least 50 of ppl on here are fucktards! And then you have the forums! "
Indeed. And some people show themselves to be truly beautiful people |
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There are people who I would decline meets and party invites etc because of; however, as it is merely my perception of some aspects of the lifestyle that I personally choose not to expose myself to, I'd not go into details of my reasons as it is incredibly subjective and rather indiscreet to name those individuals.
If I don't like something on the menu in a restaurant, I'll select something else without finding the need to persuade my fellow diners to do likewise. I don't like fennel, others love it. Not my place to bemoan their selection. |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?"
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it |
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"But the women turning down these men that have met you aren't getting at you. It's their choice. And a bit indiscreet of these men to tell you that!"
They have told them it is because I have verified them and called me names...the guys have only told me about it...they haven't told me who it was |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"You can understand why so many people don't show verifications
Life is so much easier when you avoid the verification system. "
oh my god yes it is especially for those who choose to play with a guy like me |
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If someone doesn't want to meet me I just accept it. I really don't see the point in getting pissy about it, no matter what their reason is.
So people are allowed to turn others down if they don't fancy them... but if that reason involves who they previously had sex with it's utter carnage? Bollocks.
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It's the same for us guys remember. You find this annoying how girls judge guys because they have a veri from you, but when we msg girls they don't respond even with a no thanks. I find that annoying. Some people feel they don't have to respond where as some feel they don't wanna fuck someone who has a veri from a person with a so called "reputation ". |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it"
You said you have been given several chats sent to you! So you must know who the chats have been from? There's a lot of things I don't understand but I do understand that people have the right to say no! and not even no thanks for whatever reason they want! And it has fuck all to do with being jealous! |
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"It's the same for us guys remember. You find this annoying how girls judge guys because they have a veri from you, but when we msg girls they don't respond even with a no thanks. I find that annoying. Some people feel they don't have to respond where as some feel they don't wanna fuck someone who has a veri from a person with a so called "reputation "."
But that is usually down to not having time to respond/ not getting to see the message before it disappears in your inbox carnage or that they have obviously not even looked at your profile...not to insult you or who you have a veri from |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it
You said you have been given several chats sent to you! So you must know who the chats have been from? There's a lot of things I don't understand but I do understand that people have the right to say no! and not even no thanks for whatever reason they want! And it has fuck all to do with being jealous! "
I have only been sent what was said not who said it...and I don't assume it is jealousy...wtf is there to be jealous about? I just think the insults are not needed is all |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it
You said you have been given several chats sent to you! So you must know who the chats have been from? There's a lot of things I don't understand but I do understand that people have the right to say no! and not even no thanks for whatever reason they want! And it has fuck all to do with being jealous!
I have only been sent what was said not who said it...and I don't assume it is jealousy...wtf is there to be jealous about? I just think the insults are not needed is all"
Well it's the internet and a sex site and women get insulted on here on a daily basis! Insults may not be needed but they happen! If you haven't developed a thick skin yet then you are going to struggle! We get insulted for not replying we get insulted for replying and now we can't even choose who we decide to fuck! I think whatever reason you dont want to fuck someone is up to you there's enough people that say no blacks or Asians! Yet they don't know them but choose not to fuck them! |
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I suppose. But the more chocolate you have around you the less you have to scrutinise about what you want. You can be picky and sometimes that leads to almost being conceited. Jmo |
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It is interesting how thjngs come across. I suppose people are just being selective to their choice but I just think some people excpect a lot from this site but people are people and some are bigots, Racist or just downright rude. |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it
You said you have been given several chats sent to you! So you must know who the chats have been from? There's a lot of things I don't understand but I do understand that people have the right to say no! and not even no thanks for whatever reason they want! And it has fuck all to do with being jealous!
I have only been sent what was said not who said it...and I don't assume it is jealousy...wtf is there to be jealous about? I just think the insults are not needed is all
Well it's the internet and a sex site and women get insulted on here on a daily basis! Insults may not be needed but they happen! If you haven't developed a thick skin yet then you are going to struggle! We get insulted for not replying we get insulted for replying and now we can't even choose who we decide to fuck! I think whatever reason you dont want to fuck someone is up to you there's enough people that say no blacks or Asians! Yet they don't know them but choose not to fuck them! "
I am old enough and ugly enough to be able to handle insults...and I totally agree that we are entitled to our own preferences..but is the fact that "people insult other people all the time" a decent enough excuse to do it yourself? The whole "if you have nothing nice to say" thing could make things alot nicer...my point....there is no need for it! Just say no thanks and move on |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it
You said you have been given several chats sent to you! So you must know who the chats have been from? There's a lot of things I don't understand but I do understand that people have the right to say no! and not even no thanks for whatever reason they want! And it has fuck all to do with being jealous!
I have only been sent what was said not who said it...and I don't assume it is jealousy...wtf is there to be jealous about? I just think the insults are not needed is all
Well it's the internet and a sex site and women get insulted on here on a daily basis! Insults may not be needed but they happen! If you haven't developed a thick skin yet then you are going to struggle! We get insulted for not replying we get insulted for replying and now we can't even choose who we decide to fuck! I think whatever reason you dont want to fuck someone is up to you there's enough people that say no blacks or Asians! Yet they don't know them but choose not to fuck them!
I am old enough and ugly enough to be able to handle insults...and I totally agree that we are entitled to our own preferences..but is the fact that "people insult other people all the time" a decent enough excuse to do it yourself? The whole "if you have nothing nice to say" thing could make things alot nicer...my point....there is no need for it! Just say no thanks and move on"
bravo that lady!
It's a sad fact (in my opinion - I haven't done research on it) that single fems seem to judge/bitch about other single fems more than any other group!
It makes me very sad! You'd hope that as a 'sexually liberated minority' on here we'd offer each other solidarity, friendship and support instead of bitching and judging! |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it
You said you have been given several chats sent to you! So you must know who the chats have been from? There's a lot of things I don't understand but I do understand that people have the right to say no! and not even no thanks for whatever reason they want! And it has fuck all to do with being jealous!
I have only been sent what was said not who said it...and I don't assume it is jealousy...wtf is there to be jealous about? I just think the insults are not needed is all
Well it's the internet and a sex site and women get insulted on here on a daily basis! Insults may not be needed but they happen! If you haven't developed a thick skin yet then you are going to struggle! We get insulted for not replying we get insulted for replying and now we can't even choose who we decide to fuck! I think whatever reason you dont want to fuck someone is up to you there's enough people that say no blacks or Asians! Yet they don't know them but choose not to fuck them!
I am old enough and ugly enough to be able to handle insults...and I totally agree that we are entitled to our own preferences..but is the fact that "people insult other people all the time" a decent enough excuse to do it yourself? The whole "if you have nothing nice to say" thing could make things alot nicer...my point....there is no need for it! Just say no thanks and move on
bravo that lady!
It's a sad fact (in my opinion - I haven't done research on it) that single fems seem to judge/bitch about other single fems more than any other group!
It makes me very sad! You'd hope that as a 'sexually liberated minority' on here we'd offer each other solidarity, friendship and support instead of bitching and judging! "
Thank you! And yes you would think that wouldn't you! But hey ho...we can't have it all eh? |
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i don't get pissy about it myself, but yeah there are some women on here who seem to have met everyone in my area and it does put me off meeting the guys who have met them. i have enough fb anyway so don't really need to meet anyone new now.
i don't hold a grudge against that person who has met everyone but i just think the guy must be desperate or shit coz the person who verified them seems to be constantly meeting new people, and a lot of the people they've met seem like rubbish people - because i also notice these women have met some of my own personal inbox pests and the guys who seem desperate also.
so yeah, no matter how decent the guy seems himself, if he has met someone who doesn't seem that picky then i instantly don't wanna meet them. although most guys will fuck anything i don't like that being shoved in my face. |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it
You said you have been given several chats sent to you! So you must know who the chats have been from? There's a lot of things I don't understand but I do understand that people have the right to say no! and not even no thanks for whatever reason they want! And it has fuck all to do with being jealous!
I have only been sent what was said not who said it...and I don't assume it is jealousy...wtf is there to be jealous about? I just think the insults are not needed is all
Well it's the internet and a sex site and women get insulted on here on a daily basis! Insults may not be needed but they happen! If you haven't developed a thick skin yet then you are going to struggle! We get insulted for not replying we get insulted for replying and now we can't even choose who we decide to fuck! I think whatever reason you dont want to fuck someone is up to you there's enough people that say no blacks or Asians! Yet they don't know them but choose not to fuck them!
I am old enough and ugly enough to be able to handle insults...and I totally agree that we are entitled to our own preferences..but is the fact that "people insult other people all the time" a decent enough excuse to do it yourself? The whole "if you have nothing nice to say" thing could make things alot nicer...my point....there is no need for it! Just say no thanks and move on"
Why because the insult is aimed at you? You can't dictate to people what they can and cant say! There is no need for a lot of things but it still doesn't stop it from happening! And I haven't insulted anyone your just assuming I have! |
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"i don't get pissy about it myself, but yeah there are some women on here who seem to have met everyone in my area and it does put me off meeting the guys who have met them. i have enough fb anyway so don't really need to meet anyone new now.
i don't hold a grudge against that person who has met everyone but i just think the guy must be desperate or shit coz the person who verified them seems to be constantly meeting new people, and a lot of the people they've met seem like rubbish people - because i also notice these women have met some of my own personal inbox pests and the guys who seem desperate also.
so yeah, no matter how decent the guy seems himself, if he has met someone who doesn't seem that picky then i instantly don't wanna meet them. although most guys will fuck anything i don't like that being shoved in my face."
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"i don't get pissy about it myself, but yeah there are some women on here who seem to have met everyone in my area and it does put me off meeting the guys who have met them. i have enough fb anyway so don't really need to meet anyone new now.
i don't hold a grudge against that person who has met everyone but i just think the guy must be desperate or shit coz the person who verified them seems to be constantly meeting new people, and a lot of the people they've met seem like rubbish people - because i also notice these women have met some of my own personal inbox pests and the guys who seem desperate also.
so yeah, no matter how decent the guy seems himself, if he has met someone who doesn't seem that picky then i instantly don't wanna meet them. although most guys will fuck anything i don't like that being shoved in my face."
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
I still struggle that so many people are so judgemental on what should be a ' liberated' sex site. Totally ignore these people, if you want to play with hundreds of men or just one it is your body and your choice so screw the bitches and name callers!! |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it
You said you have been given several chats sent to you! So you must know who the chats have been from? There's a lot of things I don't understand but I do understand that people have the right to say no! and not even no thanks for whatever reason they want! And it has fuck all to do with being jealous!
I have only been sent what was said not who said it...and I don't assume it is jealousy...wtf is there to be jealous about? I just think the insults are not needed is all
Well it's the internet and a sex site and women get insulted on here on a daily basis! Insults may not be needed but they happen! If you haven't developed a thick skin yet then you are going to struggle! We get insulted for not replying we get insulted for replying and now we can't even choose who we decide to fuck! I think whatever reason you dont want to fuck someone is up to you there's enough people that say no blacks or Asians! Yet they don't know them but choose not to fuck them!
I am old enough and ugly enough to be able to handle insults...and I totally agree that we are entitled to our own preferences..but is the fact that "people insult other people all the time" a decent enough excuse to do it yourself? The whole "if you have nothing nice to say" thing could make things alot nicer...my point....there is no need for it! Just say no thanks and move on
Why because the insult is aimed at you? You can't dictate to people what they can and cant say! There is no need for a lot of things but it still doesn't stop it from happening! And I haven't insulted anyone your just assuming I have! "
I never said anything about you insulting anyone...and the thread was started because I had been insulted but what is the point in insulting anyone is kinda my point? I am not sure why you are getting so het up about my responses...I mean no malice toward you...nor even to whoever it was that called me those things...I just want to understand why they felt the need when I was not part of the conversation nor had anything to do with them to feel they had to behave that way...as far as I am aware...I don't know that many local females from Fab so ya know..is just hard to fathom for me is all |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
I still struggle that so many people are so judgemental on what should be a ' liberated' sex site. Totally ignore these people, if you want to play with hundreds of men or just one it is your body and your choice so screw the bitches and name callers!!"
The thing is...if I get a new veri people assume it is from that day...often they are reveris or just late ones...the fact that I haven't had many meets lately as I see one guy most days...and never meet anyone else on the days I see him...and not always on the days I don't either...well...how would they know I have standards...they don't know me! |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it
You said you have been given several chats sent to you! So you must know who the chats have been from? There's a lot of things I don't understand but I do understand that people have the right to say no! and not even no thanks for whatever reason they want! And it has fuck all to do with being jealous!
I have only been sent what was said not who said it...and I don't assume it is jealousy...wtf is there to be jealous about? I just think the insults are not needed is all
Well it's the internet and a sex site and women get insulted on here on a daily basis! Insults may not be needed but they happen! If you haven't developed a thick skin yet then you are going to struggle! We get insulted for not replying we get insulted for replying and now we can't even choose who we decide to fuck! I think whatever reason you dont want to fuck someone is up to you there's enough people that say no blacks or Asians! Yet they don't know them but choose not to fuck them!
I am old enough and ugly enough to be able to handle insults...and I totally agree that we are entitled to our own preferences..but is the fact that "people insult other people all the time" a decent enough excuse to do it yourself? The whole "if you have nothing nice to say" thing could make things alot nicer...my point....there is no need for it! Just say no thanks and move on
Why because the insult is aimed at you? You can't dictate to people what they can and cant say! There is no need for a lot of things but it still doesn't stop it from happening! And I haven't insulted anyone your just assuming I have!
I never said anything about you insulting anyone...and the thread was started because I had been insulted but what is the point in insulting anyone is kinda my point? I am not sure why you are getting so het up about my responses...I mean no malice toward you...nor even to whoever it was that called me those things...I just want to understand why they felt the need when I was not part of the conversation nor had anything to do with them to feel they had to behave that way...as far as I am aware...I don't know that many local females from Fab so ya know..is just hard to fathom for me is all "
Haha het up? Hardly! Then why dont you ask the bloke who felt the need to grass that person who wouldn't meet him because he had met you? Ask her directly as I'm sure she is the only one who can answer why she doesn't want to sleep with him and why she feels you are the whoriest whore in town? |
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"Some treat this as a dating site rather than a swinging site - we are here to have sex, so that's what we do (well you and I do, sadly not all!).
Ignopre em lovely x $-"
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
I still struggle that so many people are so judgemental on what should be a ' liberated' sex site. Totally ignore these people, if you want to play with hundreds of men or just one it is your body and your choice so screw the bitches and name callers!!
The thing is...if I get a new veri people assume it is from that day...often they are reveris or just late ones...the fact that I haven't had many meets lately as I see one guy most days...and never meet anyone else on the days I see him...and not always on the days I don't either...well...how would they know I have standards...they don't know me! "
Honey - now you're justifying and explaining yourself - and I can guarantee from personal experience that it won't make one iota of difference to the people who slag you off! They've decided 'what you are' and nothing you can say will ever change that sadly!
I've lost countless hours sleep in the past worrying about other peoples accusations and opinions - and only knocked it on the head very recently!
I'm much happier for it! Those people still have their opinions but I leave them to it, refuse to get involved in a slanging match, and get on with my life!
I can highly recommend it!
PM me if it keeps getting you down and you need to have a friendly natter.
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Ignopre em lovely x $-
I totally agree with this!!"
To an extent I use it as a dating site too! I don't see that as a problem to be honest - it's people's judgement and intolerance of others that's the problem imo! Xx |
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it
You said you have been given several chats sent to you! So you must know who the chats have been from? There's a lot of things I don't understand but I do understand that people have the right to say no! and not even no thanks for whatever reason they want! And it has fuck all to do with being jealous!
I have only been sent what was said not who said it...and I don't assume it is jealousy...wtf is there to be jealous about? I just think the insults are not needed is all
Well it's the internet and a sex site and women get insulted on here on a daily basis! Insults may not be needed but they happen! If you haven't developed a thick skin yet then you are going to struggle! We get insulted for not replying we get insulted for replying and now we can't even choose who we decide to fuck! I think whatever reason you dont want to fuck someone is up to you there's enough people that say no blacks or Asians! Yet they don't know them but choose not to fuck them!
I am old enough and ugly enough to be able to handle insults...and I totally agree that we are entitled to our own preferences..but is the fact that "people insult other people all the time" a decent enough excuse to do it yourself? The whole "if you have nothing nice to say" thing could make things alot nicer...my point....there is no need for it! Just say no thanks and move on
Why because the insult is aimed at you? You can't dictate to people what they can and cant say! There is no need for a lot of things but it still doesn't stop it from happening! And I haven't insulted anyone your just assuming I have!
I never said anything about you insulting anyone...and the thread was started because I had been insulted but what is the point in insulting anyone is kinda my point? I am not sure why you are getting so het up about my responses...I mean no malice toward you...nor even to whoever it was that called me those things...I just want to understand why they felt the need when I was not part of the conversation nor had anything to do with them to feel they had to behave that way...as far as I am aware...I don't know that many local females from Fab so ya know..is just hard to fathom for me is all
Haha het up? Hardly! Then why dont you ask the bloke who felt the need to grass that person who wouldn't meet him because he had met you? Ask her directly as I'm sure she is the only one who can answer why she doesn't want to sleep with him and why she feels you are the whoriest whore in town?"
Not wanting to meet him is her choice...the way she felt she had to make derogatory remarks, about someone she knows nothing about, to justify not meeting him is what I find unnecessary...and I can't ask her nor want to talk to her as I don't know who she is...plus...the post is asking others if they have had the same is all |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
Firstly op - sending you a big hug!!
Secondly - yes I know exactly what you're saying! When I first found fab I thought it would be a lovely happy-clappy world where everyone could fulfil their (legal) sexual desires and fantasies without fear of judgement from others. Sadly this certainly isn't the case. Many on here think that the only 'right' way to swing is their way, and are very judgemental of anyone who wishes to do things differently!
Sadly - there are horrid people everywhere - fab is no different!
Have another hug!!
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"Some treat this as a dating site rather than a swinging site - we are here to have sex, so that's what we do (well you and I do, sadly not all!).
Ignore em lovely x "
I openly treat this like a dating site. I manage to not judge others and have quite a large supportive female friend group from the swinging and fetish scene.
There is the odd female that is simply awful. Notoriously awful. They will judge you for whatever. Behave like the teenage clique bitch at high school when they are more than old enough to know better.
But I wouldn't worry about it. It just taints people's opinion of them not of you.
I should add too, some of the men can be as bitchy and unpleasant as those women. |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
Firstly op - sending you a big hug!!
Secondly - yes I know exactly what you're saying! When I first found fab I thought it would be a lovely happy-clappy world where everyone could fulfil their (legal) sexual desires and fantasies without fear of judgement from others. Sadly this certainly isn't the case. Many on here think that the only 'right' way to swing is their way, and are very judgemental of anyone who wishes to do things differently!
Sadly - there are horrid people everywhere - fab is no different!
Have another hug!!
Xx
Can I have a hug!! Your stunning!!! "
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"But the women turning down these men that have met you aren't getting at you. It's their choice. And a bit indiscreet of these men to tell you that!
They have told them it is because I have verified them and called me names...the guys have only told me about it...they haven't told me who it was"
And what are these guys hoping to gain from telling you these things as zero comes from doing so ??
" Oh someone you don't even know and doesn't know you ,has said something based solely on there own assumptions " . It's MEANINGLESS ...why do they even give it any air time by passing this tittle tattle on ?? Nothing posative comes from it so I'd be wondering about their motive personally .
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"If a woman doesn't want to meet someone based on who they have met that is her prerogative! Any man who instead of taking a no...Will then say why not and pester until he gets a reply he doesn't like And then feels the need to go whining back to someone that they are the reason he cant get a meet isn't someone I want to meet anyway!
It has nothing to do with jealousy or anyone being asked first it's to do with personal preference! I couldn't give a fuck how many men you feel the need to sleep with but if I don't want to them sleep with them why should that be a problem?
This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested...personal preference is fine..we all have it...but to start getting nasty about people you have no clue about is uncalled for!
So everyone must be nice about everyone? This is a sex site as ppl keep pointing out! Women get abused daily and it's full of dickheads that have no clue! But you point out that it doesn't bother you but then it does! and then go on to have your own bitchfest about the same ladies you are looking for sympathy about?
I am sure I haven't actually bitched about anyone...infact I have tried to avoid doing so...and I wasn't looking for sympathy nor am I bothered...I just don't understand and wondered if anyone else had experienced it
You said you have been given several chats sent to you! So you must know who the chats have been from? There's a lot of things I don't understand but I do understand that people have the right to say no! and not even no thanks for whatever reason they want! And it has fuck all to do with being jealous!
I have only been sent what was said not who said it...and I don't assume it is jealousy...wtf is there to be jealous about? I just think the insults are not needed is all
Well it's the internet and a sex site and women get insulted on here on a daily basis! Insults may not be needed but they happen! If you haven't developed a thick skin yet then you are going to struggle! We get insulted for not replying we get insulted for replying and now we can't even choose who we decide to fuck! I think whatever reason you dont want to fuck someone is up to you there's enough people that say no blacks or Asians! Yet they don't know them but choose not to fuck them!
I am old enough and ugly enough to be able to handle insults...and I totally agree that we are entitled to our own preferences..but is the fact that "people insult other people all the time" a decent enough excuse to do it yourself? The whole "if you have nothing nice to say" thing could make things alot nicer...my point....there is no need for it! Just say no thanks and move on
Why because the insult is aimed at you? You can't dictate to people what they can and cant say! There is no need for a lot of things but it still doesn't stop it from happening! And I haven't insulted anyone your just assuming I have!
I never said anything about you insulting anyone...and the thread was started because I had been insulted but what is the point in insulting anyone is kinda my point? I am not sure why you are getting so het up about my responses...I mean no malice toward you...nor even to whoever it was that called me those things...I just want to understand why they felt the need when I was not part of the conversation nor had anything to do with them to feel they had to behave that way...as far as I am aware...I don't know that many local females from Fab so ya know..is just hard to fathom for me is all
Haha het up? Hardly! Then why dont you ask the bloke who felt the need to grass that person who wouldn't meet him because he had met you? Ask her directly as I'm sure she is the only one who can answer why she doesn't want to sleep with him and why she feels you are the whoriest whore in town?
Not wanting to meet him is her choice...the way she felt she had to make derogatory remarks, about someone she knows nothing about, to justify not meeting him is what I find unnecessary...and I can't ask her nor want to talk to her as I don't know who she is...plus...the post is asking others if they have had the same is all"
But you have said several women have said they wouldn't meet someone after they have met you? are they all insulting as well?
Well to answer your question no it hasn't happened to me and I dont give a fuck what people on here feel the need to say about me and yes I have told someone I wouldn't meet them based on who they have met |
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If people wish to use verifications as a tool to vet meet s then they are free to .
If people wish to meet as many folks as they are wanting again they are free to!
If anyone makes nasty remarks about anyone for any reason they that's not on . If they do wish to meet due to any reason only thing you need to say is a polite" thanks but I'm afraid you aren't what I'm after " . No one is required to provide any exspaination .
Rather than judge how others use the site people would be best served just taking care of their own shit and not concerning themselves with what others do or how they use the site . |
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I've a high sex drive and had quite a few meets ,I don't care what people say ,women can be so bitchey ,most of it is pure jealousy as some of the women on here look like they need a paper bag over there heads before being shagged ,yes I to can be a bitch lol ,but I'm here to have fun and really don't give a rats arse what other swingers say about me
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Lots of jealous bitching in the swing scene ... if you are hot - that's wrong , if you are picky - you are up yourself but if you are a goer you're a slag
And women get protective of their meets and stalk you if you date ho near them even tho they say they aren't looking for anything more than NSA !!
Fuck 'em concentrate on what you like and just smile and wave xx |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
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"Lots of jealous bitching in the swing scene ... if you are hot - that's wrong , if you are picky - you are up yourself but if you are a goer you're a slag
And women get protective of their meets and stalk you if you date ho near them even tho they say they aren't looking for anything more than NSA !!
Fuck 'em concentrate on what you like and just smile and wave xx "
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am? "
I have turned men down who have met women who have "bareback only" on their profile. However, I've never said why I didn't want to meet them, it's unnecessary. |
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"OK I'll.play devils advocate.....there are some women near me who get veris almost daily, they look skanky, and she has BB pics on her profile so I will block any man who has been with her, that's just personal choice though and in no way am I comparing OP.
It acts as a filter for me for some people, same as some men, have lots of BB pics and daily veris, I value my health too much."
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"This has happened a few times...I have been sent conversations from girls that up until they saw I had verified them had been up for meeting but then felt the need to insult me instead of just saying they were no longer intetested..."
That you are being slut-shamed on a swinging site of all places is unfortunate. Many people here have prejudices and double standards, that much is clear. But I will agree with the others who have questioned this - what is more interesting here is the lack of discretion. What are your friends trying to achieve by sharing these insulting comments with you? Are they indirectly blaming you for missing out on meeting with someone else? What is the point of telling you? If it was me I would do my best to shield you from this negativity, rather than expose you to malicious criticism.
"There are people who I would decline meets and party invites etc because of; however, as it is merely my perception of some aspects of the lifestyle that I personally choose not to expose myself to"
This speaks sense. Different people are comfortable with different levels or types of play. Everybody eventually finds their level. Keep to your own thing and let others look what they like |
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"I am a single female with a ridiculously high sex drive, I rarely go to clubs, and when I have I've only played with guys I knew, have only been to one gangbang and never been dogging, but have played with alot of single guys since joining..but some of the local guys have been turned down by girls because they have a verification from me...apparently I am "the whoriest whore in town" I get checked regularly aswell as play safe so I really don't get their problem...if I was part of a couple that go dogging n GBs etc would they treat me the same? I'm not worried about it... I just think it is a bit pathetic and unnecessary. Has anyone else come across this? Do you think these girls should look at why they are on here instead of why I am?
I have turned men down who have met women who have "bareback only" on their profile. However, I've never said why I didn't want to meet them, it's unnecessary. "
this for us too x wouldn't say why.. just not for us |
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"OK I'll.play devils advocate.....there are some women near me who get veris almost daily, they look skanky, and she has BB pics on her profile so I will block any man who has been with her, that's just personal choice though and in no way am I comparing OP.
It acts as a filter for me for some people, same as some men, have lots of BB pics and daily veris, I value my health too much.
That's not devils advocate. That's just you passing judgement on someone else's profile."
Agreed, a woman may meet 6 men a day but only actually get verified by one each month...point is you can't know by veris alone how many men have fucked her, but by your (and many others) standards she's ok to meet up with |
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"Interesting that people are judging people for judging people!
I've never ever known anyone to be completely non-judgemental and this thread illustrates that!"
The whole these girls need to look at themselves is very judgy indeed! |
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"Interesting that people are judging people for judging people!
I've never ever known anyone to be completely non-judgemental and this thread illustrates that!
The whole these girls need to look at themselves is very judgy indeed! "
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