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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to be clear.
No one one this site couples, single males, single females are owed a meet or an explanation as to why a meet cant take place.
Rejection can be a bitter pill to swallow...
Advice to "sensitive" males...
Take it on the chin and move on, when you moan an accuse people of being teases, chances are their gonna think your a prick and not want to meet at all.
There are fantastic people on fab....but some really daft childish people too...
Sorry for the rant lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to be clear.
No one one this site couples, single males, single females are owed a meet or an explanation as to why a meet cant take place.
Rejection can be a bitter pill to swallow...
Advice to "sensitive" males...
Take it on the chin and move on, when you moan an accuse people of being teases, chances are their gonna think your a prick and not want to meet at all.
There are fantastic people on fab....but some really daft childish people too...
Sorry for the rant lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But good manners cost nothing. One line messages may be safely ignored, but if someone takes the trouble to send a sensible message then do at least have the courtesy to reply, even if it is only to say thanks but no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No advice for other fab users. Only men 
Advice to 'up on their own pedestal' couples. You aren't all that ... get over yourselves ...."
we have never had issues with couples or single fems...
only single males...
would you like us to be more clear ??
please dont turn this into an argument. it was a bit of a rant after another rude male message.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But good manners cost nothing. One line messages may be safely ignored, but if someone takes the trouble to send a sensible message then do at least have the courtesy to reply, even if it is only to say thanks but no thanks."
No ...im sorry your owed nothing in this life...if we replied to every message we got. we would never be off fab.
If a personal doesnt respond take it as your not there type and move on ... |
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"No advice for other fab users. Only men
Advice to 'up on their own pedestal' couples. You aren't all that ... get over yourselves ....
we have never had issues with couples or single fems...
only single males...
would you like us to be more clear ??
please dont turn this into an argument. it was a bit of a rant after another rude male message.
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Its not an argument, its advice, just like yours was. We have had lots of bother from 'up their arse' couples on both of our single profiles. Amazingly they talk differently to my OH on the couple profile ... and to me too. Fed up with rude and entitled couples, to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
No drama then  "
Oh yeah sorry, forgot that some thrive on the drama and attention |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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before all the forum bullies chip in read the whole of the opening post...
and take a minute to see where we are coming from ...
would you put up with rude men in real life and say nothing..??
no one male, female or coues are owed any form of explanation of any kind on here.
if people dont want to meet and just stop talking, thats there choice ...if thats hard to grasp then tough.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
No drama then "
bloody hell that's just too sensible come on it is fab  |
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"before all the forum bullies chip in read the whole of the opening post...
and take a minute to see where we are coming from ...
would you put up with rude men in real life and say nothing..??
no one male, female or coues are owed any form of explanation of any kind on here.
if people dont want to meet and just stop talking, thats there choice ...if thats hard to grasp then tough.
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But similarly, would you put up with anyone rude? Or only challenge rude men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"before all the forum bullies chip in read the whole of the opening post...
and take a minute to see where we are coming from ...
would you put up with rude men in real life and say nothing..??
no one male, female or coues are owed any form of explanation of any kind on here.
if people dont want to meet and just stop talking, thats there choice ...if thats hard to grasp then tough.
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The difference on here is you can actually stop them from messaging you so you don't encounter rude men in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No advice for other fab users. Only men
Advice to 'up on their own pedestal' couples. You aren't all that ... get over yourselves ....
we have never had issues with couples or single fems...
only single males...
would you like us to be more clear ??
please dont turn this into an argument. it was a bit of a rant after another rude male message.
Its not an argument, its advice, just like yours was. We have had lots of bother from 'up their arse' couples on both of our single profiles. Amazingly they talk differently to my OH on the couple profile ... and to me too. Fed up with rude and entitled couples, to be honest"
we are not rude ... you dont know us. and are never likely too... you make a good point about up their own arse couples...
*cough* |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"before all the forum bullies chip in read the whole of the opening post...
and take a minute to see where we are coming from ...
would you put up with rude men in real life and say nothing..??
no one male, female or coues are owed any form of explanation of any kind on here.
if people dont want to meet and just stop talking, thats there choice ...if thats hard to grasp then tough.
But similarly, would you put up with anyone rude? Or only challenge rude men?"
ffs read the whole post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to be clear.
No one one this site couples, single males, single females are owed a meet or an explanation as to why a meet cant take place.
Rejection can be a bitter pill to swallow...
Advice to "sensitive" males...
Take it on the chin and move on, when you moan an accuse people of being teases, chances are their gonna think your a prick and not want to meet at all.
There are fantastic people on fab....but some really daft childish people too...
Sorry for the rant lol
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Always best to get it off your chest |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
No drama then bloody hell that's just too sensible come on it is fab "
there are great guys on here why should we ban them all because a small percentage act ridiculous...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just to be clear.
No one one this site couples, single males, single females are owed a meet or an explanation as to why a meet cant take place.
Rejection can be a bitter pill to swallow...
Advice to "sensitive" males...
Take it on the chin and move on, when you moan an accuse people of being teases, chances are their gonna think your a prick and not want to meet at all.
There are fantastic people on fab....but some really daft childish people too...
Sorry for the rant lol
Always best to get it off your chest "
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"No advice for other fab users. Only men
Advice to 'up on their own pedestal' couples. You aren't all that ... get over yourselves ....
we have never had issues with couples or single fems...
only single males...
would you like us to be more clear ??
please dont turn this into an argument. it was a bit of a rant after another rude male message.
Its not an argument, its advice, just like yours was. We have had lots of bother from 'up their arse' couples on both of our single profiles. Amazingly they talk differently to my OH on the couple profile ... and to me too. Fed up with rude and entitled couples, to be honest
we are not rude ... you dont know us. and are never likely too... you make a good point about up their own arse couples...
*cough*"
We don't know you, that's right, as we dont meet couples ... up their arse or otherwise, and I block them on my single profile. Plenty of them on the forums though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?"
Because that involves doing work for themselves. Plus there'd be nowt to moan about either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No advice for other fab users. Only men
Advice to 'up on their own pedestal' couples. You aren't all that ... get over yourselves ....
we have never had issues with couples or single fems...
only single males...
would you like us to be more clear ??
please dont turn this into an argument. it was a bit of a rant after another rude male message.
Its not an argument, its advice, just like yours was. We have had lots of bother from 'up their arse' couples on both of our single profiles. Amazingly they talk differently to my OH on the couple profile ... and to me too. Fed up with rude and entitled couples, to be honest
we are not rude ... you dont know us. and are never likely too... you make a good point about up their own arse couples...
*cough*
We don't know you, that's right, as we dont meet couples ... up their arse or otherwise, and I block them on my single profile. Plenty of them on the forums though. "
we can see that.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
No drama then bloody hell that's just too sensible come on it is fab
there are great guys on here why should we ban them all because a small percentage act ridiculous...
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Then you have to put up with it and get on with it as it will never change, no point getting your knickers in a twist over it, they're harder to get off when twisted! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
No drama then bloody hell that's just too sensible come on it is fab
there are great guys on here why should we ban them all because a small percentage act ridiculous...
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You choose to rant about the small percentage rather than say something nice about the vast majority. That says a lot |
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"But good manners cost nothing. One line messages may be safely ignored, but if someone takes the trouble to send a sensible message then do at least have the courtesy to reply, even if it is only to say thanks but no thanks.
No ...im sorry your owed nothing in this life...if we replied to every message we got. we would never be off fab.
If a personal doesnt respond take it as your not there type and move on ..."
All these Cpls that talk about the high volumes of messages make me feel really inadequate, We must be right mingers because my Cpls profile maybe gets 2 messages a day MAX
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
Because that involves doing work for themselves. Plus there'd be nowt to moan about either."
genius....block all single men then unblock to message them ...then to block again to stop the nobheads ...why didnt we think of that...
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
Because that involves doing work for themselves. Plus there'd be nowt to moan about either.
genius....block all single men then unblock to message them ...then to block again to stop the nobheads ...why didnt we think of that...
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Lots of people do that. Fine to set your filters its nit actually a block |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
Because that involves doing work for themselves. Plus there'd be nowt to moan about either.
genius....block all single men then unblock to message them ...then to block again to stop the nobheads ...why didnt we think of that...
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You don't need to unblock them to message them, by messaging a group you have filtered out in you message filters, it breaks the block to the individual you have messaged allowing them to reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And to be fair the OP says that no-one is "entitled" makes, females or couples......others are assuming it's aimed at us single guys. (Though to be fair, as a long time user of these forums it is more often that not the guys....often the new Ines who moan after a week and a half without 27 meets) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
No drama then bloody hell that's just too sensible come on it is fab
there are great guys on here why should we ban them all because a small percentage act ridiculous...
You choose to rant about the small percentage rather than say something nice about the vast majority. That says a lot "
what does it say...
it says we dont put up with bullshit.
we are on here because we enjoy swinging and interacting with nice people...
dont like it ...tough... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And to be fair the OP says that no-one is "entitled" makes, females or couples......others are assuming it's aimed at us single guys. (Though to be fair, as a long time user of these forums it is more often that not the guys....often the new Ines who moan after a week and a half without 27 meets)"
They then go on to say advice for sensitive males......... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And to be fair the OP says that no-one is "entitled" makes, females or couples......others are assuming it's aimed at us single guys. (Though to be fair, as a long time user of these forums it is more often that not the guys....often the new Ines who moan after a week and a half without 27 meets)"
thank you for reading it all and understanding what we ment...
there are some on these forums that just love to start arguments |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And to be fair the OP says that no-one is "entitled" makes, females or couples......others are assuming it's aimed at us single guys. (Though to be fair, as a long time user of these forums it is more often that not the guys....often the new Ines who moan after a week and a half without 27 meets)
They then go on to say advice for sensitive males........."
yes childish sensitive males....
not decent males of which there are a lot ...
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"And to be fair the OP says that no-one is "entitled" makes, females or couples......others are assuming it's aimed at us single guys. (Though to be fair, as a long time user of these forums it is more often that not the guys....often the new Ines who moan after a week and a half without 27 meets)
They then go on to say advice for sensitive males........."
The advice is to sensitive males who are rejected by those amazing couples. From experience, the very same couples who 'reject' the OH on his single profile are chomping at the bit to meet us on our couple profile. Ridiculous double standards |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
Because that involves doing work for themselves. Plus there'd be nowt to moan about either.
genius....block all single men then unblock to message them ...then to block again to stop the nobheads ...why didnt we think of that...
You don't need to unblock them to message them, by messaging a group you have filtered out in you message filters, it breaks the block to the individual you have messaged allowing them to reply."
we then there is a glitch o. the site as we have tried this before and didnt work |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And to be fair the OP says that no-one is "entitled" makes, females or couples......others are assuming it's aimed at us single guys. (Though to be fair, as a long time user of these forums it is more often that not the guys....often the new Ines who moan after a week and a half without 27 meets)
They then go on to say advice for sensitive males.........
The advice is to sensitive males who are rejected by those amazing couples. From experience, the very same couples who 'reject' the OH on his single profile are chomping at the bit to meet us on our couple profile. Ridiculous double standards "
maybe they want to meet a couple not a single guy... |
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"And to be fair the OP says that no-one is "entitled" makes, females or couples......others are assuming it's aimed at us single guys. (Though to be fair, as a long time user of these forums it is more often that not the guys....often the new Ines who moan after a week and a half without 27 meets)
They then go on to say advice for sensitive males.........
The advice is to sensitive males who are rejected by those amazing couples. From experience, the very same couples who 'reject' the OH on his single profile are chomping at the bit to meet us on our couple profile. Ridiculous double standards
maybe they want to meet a couple not a single guy..."
Why be rude and blow him off though? He is still the same person whether he is with me or not? And presumably the male would still want to play with him .... especially as his profile says he isn't a single guy |
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"And to be fair the OP says that no-one is "entitled" makes, females or couples......others are assuming it's aimed at us single guys. (Though to be fair, as a long time user of these forums it is more often that not the guys....often the new Ines who moan after a week and a half without 27 meets)
They then go on to say advice for sensitive males.........
The advice is to sensitive males who are rejected by those amazing couples. From experience, the very same couples who 'reject' the OH on his single profile are chomping at the bit to meet us on our couple profile. Ridiculous double standards
maybe they want to meet a couple not a single guy...
Why be rude and blow him off though? He is still the same person whether he is with me or not? And presumably the male would still want to play with him .... especially as his profile says he isn't a single guy"
its called choice..
free will...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Another silly bad men rant
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For those that read and cant comprehend...we are sorry we havnt got time to explain...
It was just a bit of a rant about a few single men...
we are gonna leave this thread now ...
have fun pulling it to bits...
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"And to be fair the OP says that no-one is "entitled" makes, females or couples......others are assuming it's aimed at us single guys. (Though to be fair, as a long time user of these forums it is more often that not the guys....often the new Ines who moan after a week and a half without 27 meets)
They then go on to say advice for sensitive males.........
The advice is to sensitive males who are rejected by those amazing couples. From experience, the very same couples who 'reject' the OH on his single profile are chomping at the bit to meet us on our couple profile. Ridiculous double standards
maybe they want to meet a couple not a single guy...
Why be rude and blow him off though? He is still the same person whether he is with me or not? And presumably the male would still want to play with him .... especially as his profile says he isn't a single guy
its called choice..
free will...
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His profile says he isn't single. They dont want to meet him without me, but I dont play. Hmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
Because that involves doing work for themselves. Plus there'd be nowt to moan about either.
genius....block all single men then unblock to message them ...then to block again to stop the nobheads ...why didnt we think of that...
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You can still send messages out to single guys if you have them blocked...They just can't message you. Once you message someone it allows them to circumnavigate the block to reply...bingo..a conversation is born
Guessing by this you haven't even tried it.
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
Because that involves doing work for themselves. Plus there'd be nowt to moan about either.
genius....block all single men then unblock to message them ...then to block again to stop the nobheads ...why didnt we think of that...
You can still send messages out to single guys if you have them blocked...They just can't message you. Once you message someone it allows them to circumnavigate the block to reply...bingo..a conversation is born
Guessing by this you haven't even tried it.
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Apparently they did but it didn't work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
No drama then bloody hell that's just too sensible come on it is fab
there are great guys on here why should we ban them all because a small percentage act ridiculous...
You choose to rant about the small percentage rather than say something nice about the vast majority. That says a lot
what does it say...
it says we dont put up with bullshit.
we are on here because we enjoy swinging and interacting with nice people...
dont like it ...tough..."
Like it...don't like it...
I don't really care. It's your own time on here your spoiling and not mine.
Tools are available to get around this but you choose not to be bothered about using them |
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over a year ago
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"Another silly bad men rant
For those that read and cant comprehend...we are sorry we havnt got time to explain...
It was just a bit of a rant about a few single men...
we are gonna leave this thread now ...
have fun pulling it to bits...
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Do as you wish
You are not the first
Nor the last
There will be rants about messages, tomorrow, the next and the next.
If they make the OP feel better, so be it. |
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OP I know I'm no magician, but I doubt if that would stop even if you post this topic again.
If you choose to meet single guys, then you must accept everything that comes with it (like a marriage where you have to accommodate your partners flaws).
Maybe you can block all single guys from messaging you which only lets those you've been chatting with get in touch and you get in touch with a potential meet. |
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"Why not block all single men and message the ones that interest you then you won't have this issue?
Because that involves doing work for themselves. Plus there'd be nowt to moan about either.
genius....block all single men then unblock to message them ...then to block again to stop the nobheads ...why didnt we think of that...
You can still send messages out to single guys if you have them blocked...They just can't message you. Once you message someone it allows them to circumnavigate the block to reply...bingo..a conversation is born
Guessing by this you haven't even tried it.
Apparently they did but it didn't work. "
They don't have a clue how the filter system works so I think they didn't try very hard |
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