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Finding a relationship on fab
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone found their other half on fab? Or at a club even?
I'm at an age where I want to settle down and I know I want to be with someone who is open to this lifestyle.
Has anyone done this? Are you happily together now? If not what went wrong? General opinions welcome too. |
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"Has anyone found their other half on fab? Or at a club even?
I'm at an age where I want to settle down and I know I want to be with someone who is open to this lifestyle.
Has anyone done this? Are you happily together now? If not what went wrong? General opinions welcome too."
There are lots, as previous threads on this have shown. I am not sure many go looking for the relationship though. For us we weren't, but from our first meet, as singles, we clicked ..... |
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We met on fab.
We were both here as singles and neither of us we're looking for anything more. When we met we really hit it off and one thing lead to another and before we knew it were we're head over heels for each other.
I moved in just over 2 1/2 years ago and we've been married 18 months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Redhead and I met through fab and it's fantastic!
It does happen OP and there are lots of couples that can attest to that too. Socials and clubs are a good way of meeting people although I know several (ourselves included) met through random threads
Beard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst it does happen and uts lovely to see this isnt a dating site and I wish alot of women would see that instead of tryi g to talk me into meeti g them with a view to a relationdhip
There is a reason im here. I got hurt bad by my ex and have no desire to get into another relationship and this lifestyle suits me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst it does happen and uts lovely to see this isnt a dating site and I wish alot of women would see that instead of tryi g to talk me into meeti g them with a view to a relationdhip
There is a reason im here. I got hurt bad by my ex and have no desire to get into another relationship and this lifestyle suits me."
You know how to say no don't you?
A lot of women like emotional sex unlike a man some of us can't just fuck anything.
Emotionless men I find a huge turn off, the brain is the biggest sexual organ and some men think it's in there cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and J met as singles on here, both in the mind that we didn't want a relationship with anyone anytime soon. We clicked, fucked and ended up dating properly and now here we are- together! |
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I've had 2 relationships off fab 1 lasted around 6 months 1 about 3 years. I can't just fuck and go, I like the social side too and I've got to have intimacy. I doubt Id be able to perform without some kind of spark  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We net via another well known swinging site. Neither of us were looking for anything other than nsa sex but we fell in love and have been together ten years now and married for over 3 years. We have a great life  |
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I think if you're open to any possibilities, then you're more likely to find those that can become more than just a shag
I found who is now one of my closest friends through here
Some dating sites are also more friendly to those that don't want to date in the conventional way
The cupid one for instance, has many of the same people that are on here and on fet sites |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have previously met people on here and gone on to have relationships with them, even though that wasn't what I was using the site to look for at the time..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met one of my partners on A.N.Other fetish website and four and a half years later we're still together. I've had shorter relationships with a couple of guys from clubs too. |
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I met my ex in a club. He had messaged me on here before we met but I hadn't answered him. We kept our singles profile then made a couples profile. Unfortunately it all went horribly wrong before we met anyone |
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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago
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We met on another fetish website just over 10 years ago. We are celebrating 10 year collaring in December and been married for 8 years now.
We met as singles and thought we were 'safe' as both recently come out of relationships and not looking for another one. Life had other plans!
-Matt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You never know when cupid will sneak up and bite you on the arse. Sometimes it works out, other times he forgets to bite both of you the same amount. "
That.. Sums it up perfectly. |
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We met on a similar hook up site and joined here together, neither looking for anything at the time but eighteen months later we are still together... It does happen but not if you go looking for it, just go with the flow..... |
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By *issLissCouple
over a year ago
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It definitely does happen! And I'd say it would be easier for a guy to find then a woman as most woman are more open to a relationship - especially if you start having regular fantastic sex lol we are programmed that way.
I've been hoping to find a guy on fab as vanilla guys aren't for me. I've tried turning a few from tinder but they either don't want any part of it or they want to fuck around... I want something in between!! Lol
So I've given up on guys and focusing on women now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my prevous partner on fetlife and lasted 3 years could definately see myself finding someone on here, if theyre friendly and kinky then we'll get on great |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It definitely does happen! And I'd say it would be easier for a guy to find then a woman as most woman are more open to a relationship - especially if you start having regular fantastic sex lol we are programmed that way.
I've been hoping to find a guy on fab as vanilla guys aren't for me. I've tried turning a few from tinder but they either don't want any part of it or they want to fuck around... I want something in between!! Lol
So I've given up on guys and focusing on women now "
Women aren't any easier, trust me ?????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could imagine that people on here could end up being very compatible and the openness sexually that you would have would lead to a very fucking fun and happy relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is truly my ultimate game.. I want someone I can have naughty filthy sex with: combined with passionate sensual sex.. Meet other couples and occasionally play as singles but have a relationship so nice things together meals, cinema, theatre, holidays-- my mr right needs to be my mr wrong too X |
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"I could imagine that people on here could end up being very compatible and the openness sexually that you would have would lead to a very fucking fun and happy relationship."
That is us and totally open, no secrets. Neither of us ever had that with any previous partners ...we also have trust which means neither of us has to prove anything to the other one, so its chilled and exciting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is truly my ultimate game.. I want someone I can have naughty filthy sex with: combined with passionate sensual sex.. Meet other couples and occasionally play as singles but have a relationship so nice things together meals, cinema, theatre, holidays-- my mr right needs to be my mr wrong too X "
I think you've said it perfectly, it's great to read that it's happened for others on here too. I think the idea of meeting someone on fab definitely means meeting someone you can be totally open with sexually and that to me is a huge part of a relationship, not everything but a very big part. |
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