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After chatting pleasantly I hasten to add we arrange to meet right up until yesterday things were ok ,, them an hour before you are supposed to meet she cancelled and blocked me !!!! I find this so hard to understand why chat for a week giving the impression your keen and then blow it out an hour before ??? If ya don't have the balls why keep chatting for a week and why block the person total fuck wit !!! Rant over sorry!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the other poster said, unfortunately it happens on here. I suppose the only saving grace is she cancelled rather than say nothing and waste your time further going to the meeting place.
Some people cannot respectfully say they've changed their mind, as people are more than etitiled to do. Maybe its lack of self confidence, immaturity or fear that the other person may become abusive. Whatever it is, there really is no need for it but it will never change. |
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"After chatting pleasantly I hasten to add we arrange to meet right up until yesterday things were ok ,, them an hour before you are supposed to meet she cancelled and blocked me !!!! I find this so hard to understand why chat for a week giving the impression your keen and then blow it out an hour before ??? If ya don't have the balls why keep chatting for a week and why block the person total fuck wit !!! Rant over sorry!! "
It could be for any number of reasons.
What precautions did you take to ensure that she was genuine or did you let the little brain think for your bigger one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said was it definitely a lady?
Did you do anything that put her off?
It doesn't just happen to single guys. We've got to the place of the meet and been stood up so just put it down to experience and move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
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""She" probably did have the balls. "
And the award for best comment goes to......!
Joking aside, sorry to hear about your bad luck OP, hope your fortunes change for the better soon!   |
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"After chatting pleasantly I hasten to add we arrange to meet right up until yesterday things were ok ,, them an hour before you are supposed to meet she cancelled and blocked me !!!! I find this so hard to understand why chat for a week giving the impression your keen and then blow it out an hour before ??? If ya don't have the balls why keep chatting for a week and why block the person total fuck wit !!! Rant over sorry!! "
Because it was a fantasist or a fella you were chatting to  |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"After chatting pleasantly I hasten to add we arrange to meet right up until yesterday things were ok ,, them an hour before you are supposed to meet she cancelled and blocked me !!!! I find this so hard to understand why chat for a week giving the impression your keen and then blow it out an hour before ??? If ya don't have the balls why keep chatting for a week and why block the person total fuck wit !!! Rant over sorry!! "
I no how you fill.
It Sounds like my 1st meet that never haptound cos of this. So im still waiting to get a meet. |
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"If ya don't have the balls why keep chatting for a week "
They chat for a week because that's all they want to do. They are fantasists and you provided them with some wank fodder, for them job done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess I am hoping that the lady that failed to meet and then blocked me sees this and gets a complex and maybe treats the next poor fecker a bit more respectfully thanks all xx "
You still haven't said what precautions you took.
You are not silly, are you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess I am hoping that the lady that failed to meet and then blocked me sees this and gets a complex and maybe treats the next poor fecker a bit more respectfully thanks all xx "
Oh I bet she will treat him all right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After chatting pleasantly I hasten to add we arrange to meet right up until yesterday things were ok ,, them an hour before you are supposed to meet she cancelled and blocked me !!!! I find this so hard to understand why chat for a week giving the impression your keen and then blow it out an hour before ??? If ya don't have the balls why keep chatting for a week and why block the person total fuck wit !!! Rant over sorry!! "
Some people are idiots! Happened to me too twice! |
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"I guess I am hoping that the lady that failed to meet and then blocked me sees this and gets a complex and maybe treats the next poor fecker a bit more respectfully thanks all xx "
Do you know 100% it was a woman OP? Hear her voice on the phone? It is a bit callous, if it was a genuine profile. It is pretty bad form not to just be upfront about it, after chatting for a week... Then to block you too. Thank God you didn't get stood up though. Much worse lol. |
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Sorry hun but best to just move on. There's alot of that sort of thing going around (it's not just you) x
