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What's your personal definition of swinging?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Curious as to what different people define as swinging? Was it originally a couples party and "car keys in a bowl" take your pic, or some people it's dating and others it's one night stands or bdsm
I was naively going for a drink with a girl and going back to mine afterwards but was "tricked" into it after she said "I know a nice little pub" (townhouse). Greedy girls night and I got alot more than I bargained for.
When single I'd like a regular fb or occasionally go to a club
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me swinging is just somebody who is sexually open
You don't have to use a swinging site or swinging clubs to be a swingers you can find sex anywhere your achieving the same goal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To me swinging is just somebody who is sexually open
You don't have to use a swinging site or swinging clubs to be a swingers you can find sex anywhere your achieving the same goal "
Yeah, I just look at it as open to try new things and actively doing it  |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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For us. It's something we enjoy together. And swapping/swinging with other like minded couples. Wether they be a married couple, partners, fwb or fb's. As long as they play as a couple.
That's our take on swinging. Xxxxx Suzi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The urban dictionary describes swinging as 'a lifestyle of non-monogany where sexual relations occur outside the established couple'. I think that's a very good definition, however it doesn't take into account single people in the swinging lifestyle, and I know a number of singles who regard themselves as swingers and contribute to the swinging lifestyle. So perhaps I would describe swinging as sex involving more that 2 people, e.g. threesomes, foursomes, partner swaps, orgies, cuckolding/hotwifing etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's really going to clubs to partake in casual sex. Occasionally I might do it at home - but then it's just casual sex. Swinging is when it happens in a swinging club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The urban dictionary describes swinging as 'a lifestyle of non-monogany where sexual relations occur outside the established couple'. I think that's a very good definition, however it doesn't take into account single people in the swinging lifestyle, and I know a number of singles who regard themselves as swingers and contribute to the swinging lifestyle. So perhaps I would describe swinging as sex involving more that 2 people, e.g. threesomes, foursomes, partner swaps, orgies, cuckolding/hotwifing etc.
Mrs"
Also a good definition. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious as to what different people define as swinging? Was it originally a couples party and "car keys in a bowl" take your pic, or some people it's dating and others it's one night stands or bdsm
I was naively going for a drink with a girl and going back to mine afterwards but was "tricked" into it after she said "I know a nice little pub" (townhouse). Greedy girls night and I got alot more than I bargained for.
When single I'd like a regular fb or occasionally go to a club
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Honest fun within a relationship.....Were sure 90 per cent of single men will see it differently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My definition would be seeing sex could be something that could be done among friends - and of course doing that. "
Love it! I used to think at regular parties, or get-togethers with friends, how cool it would be if we could all end up having sex. Then I joined the swing scene and found I could do just that. Love going to a party, having a drink, chat and a play with friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I consider myself to be a swinger, although ideally I'd like a partner to share that with, I'm happy to go along to clubs just for the atmosphere rather than play, but will play if invited, so for me swinging is being amongst like minded adults. Play is not always necessary. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thinking back to past relationships I wouldn't have been able to do the couple swap or couple join in.. selfishly I'd always do "mff" should the opportunity in a relationship pop up, but wouldn't due to the hypocrisy of not doing "mmf" I'm the relationship..
As single lots of sex lots of people try different things. In a relationship - just us two
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before I started looking into the lifestyle, I always thought I'd want relationships to be monogamous. However, my mind is completely changing the more people I meet through here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Typical teenage behaviour....? I know when I was in my (later) teens our parties often ended up with casual sex....different people at different times and as often as not more than two people in each room....!
The difference being it didn't tend to involve "couples" as swinging does.
Maybe swingers just haven't grown up....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Typical teenage behaviour....? I know when I was in my (later) teens our parties often ended up with casual sex....different people at different times and as often as not more than two people in each room....!
The difference being it didn't tend to involve "couples" as swinging does.
Maybe swingers just haven't grown up....?"
Yes, that's probably me. I always missed those student parties, the pulling, the dating. Missing all that tempted me into swinging and hotwifing. But doing this as an adult is so much more fun. And I don't remember having piles of naked bodies at student parties  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you think a woman who shags 20 men a month as a single should be classed as swinging and the trail of married men trapesing in and out of her revolving door should be classed as swingers?
Also if a male meets a female from this site and they fuck ,how is that swinging as they could meet in a pub on a night out and its just casual sex.
When a married guy approaches us and says he has been into the swinging lifestyle for years ,does he not just mean he has been fucking over his poor cow of a wife for years ..is he also a swinger?
Because a single/married man can pay through the nose to go into a club paying three times more than couples does that make him a swinger if he just wanks himself off whilst watching someone shag... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think a woman who shags 20 men a month as a single should be classed as swinging and the trail of married men trapesing in and out of her revolving door should be classed as swingers?
Also if a male meets a female from this site and they fuck ,how is that swinging as they could meet in a pub on a night out and its just casual sex.
When a married guy approaches us and says he has been into the swinging lifestyle for years ,does he not just mean he has been fucking over his poor cow of a wife for years ..is he also a swinger?
Because a single/married man can pay through the nose to go into a club paying three times more than couples does that make him a swinger if he just wanks himself off whilst watching someone shag..."
I personally don't regard a single man meeting a single woman for sex as swinging. I used to do that when I was single, and I had never heard of swinging back then. However we have a number of single friends, both make and female, who regard themselves as swingers. This is because they meet couples for sex, and get involved with group sex at parties. But I think if they were to have a one-on-one meet, with nobody else involved, they would regard that as a date not swinging. Well one of our single friends definately thinks that because I asked him.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm single and class myself as a swinger because I enjoy clubs. I do meet 1 to 1, have had several really lovely FWB over the last year where we sometimes meet just us two together, and sometimes share others in a club. I personally wouldn't class people who only meet 1 to 1 as swingers, but each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So can a single man be a swinger ?.....maybe if he attends parties or clubs ?"
Id say so yes, as can a single female as long as both are meeting Cpls or groups for sex or visiting clubs, parties, events etc etc.
But I've seen many single mens profiles just looking for woman, and many single woman's profiles just looking for men, both for 1-1s, that to me is not swinging, its simply meeting for casual sex. which is fine but doesn't (in my opinion) count as a swinging meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So can a single man be a swinger ?.....maybe if he attends parties or clubs ?
Id say so yes, as can a single female as long as both are meeting Cpls or groups for sex or visiting clubs, parties, events etc etc.
But I've seen many single mens profiles just looking for woman, and many single woman's profiles just looking for men, both for 1-1s, that to me is not swinging, its simply meeting for casual sex. which is fine but doesn't (in my opinion) count as a swinging meet."
I agree with this. Although I do see myself as a swinger, when I'm meeting 1 to 1 I don't see *that* as swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup have come to the conclusion that if a single guy plays with a couple at least....then he is 'swinging'...as its non conventional sexual activity...mind you the same could be said for saddle sniffing !....I'm damming my own arguement !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh my god, I've come to the realization I'm a complete tart  "
I always knew I was a tart, but tried not to be. As a swinger I can be the real me without judgement |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
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swinging for us is just a game of sex .with person or people unknown for a short time who you may or may not see again.it has changed from its origin of wife swapping. because as you can see on this site gay guys are openly out .tv ts cross dressers trans gender .are now in the swinging sites and clubs.in the begining gang bang happened not planed .and most couples now have so much more options as we bring a female that will play. |
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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago
north kensington w10 |
"Curious as to what different people define as swinging? Was it originally a couples party and "car keys in a bowl" take your pic, or some people it's dating and others it's one night stands or bdsm
I was naively going for a drink with a girl and going back to mine afterwards but was "tricked" into it after she said "I know a nice little pub" (townhouse). Greedy girls night and I got alot more than I bargained for.
When single I'd like a regular fb or occasionally go to a club
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Movement from side to side or back and forth in a kind of pendulum motion! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fucking strangers "
I did that all over the south east easily achieved with a Geordie accent..i did it for 6 yrs...never trawled for it on a laptop though and never called myself a swinger whilst doing it... |
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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago
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"I'm single and class myself as a swinger because I enjoy clubs. I do meet 1 to 1, have had several really lovely FWB over the last year where we sometimes meet just us two together, and sometimes share others in a club. I personally wouldn't class people who only meet 1 to 1 as swingers, but each to their own. "
exactly
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