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We're looking to get in to a bit of flashing.
We were thinking of Lisa wearing mini-skirts and no underwear, maybe very thin tights, possible very thin leggings.
Then sitting near people she fancies on public transport and doing a bit of a tease. Buses, trains seem like they'd lend themselves to it.
We were also thinking of larger warehouse shops, B+Qs, Costco, that sort of thing.
Letting her walk around and seeing if she catches an eye or two.
Anyone do anything like this and anyone have any tips?
I think if she's alone/me in the background, that people will take it better and see it as less threatening/overtly sexual, so hopefully we'd be clear of any complaints. You see people walking around all the time with very thin leggings on, she could just act innocent of the whole thing...
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"We're looking to get in to a bit of flashing.
We were thinking of Lisa wearing mini-skirts and no underwear, maybe very thin tights, possible very thin leggings.
Then sitting near people she fancies on public transport and doing a bit of a tease. Buses, trains seem like they'd lend themselves to it.
We were also thinking of larger warehouse shops, B+Qs, Costco, that sort of thing.
Letting her walk around and seeing if she catches an eye or two.
Anyone do anything like this and anyone have any tips?
I think if she's alone/me in the background, that people will take it better and see it as less threatening/overtly sexual, so hopefully we'd be clear of any complaints. You see people walking around all the time with very thin leggings on, she could just act innocent of the whole thing...
Anything else worth trying? "
Love the thought of this |
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"its great as a fantasy scenario between consenting people. I don't advise it in a public place, non consensual sexual behaviour is never ok. "
I agree. If a man flashed, he could get arrested. It's forcing your sexual thrill onto others without their consent. |
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"its great as a fantasy scenario between consenting people. I don't advise it in a public place, non consensual sexual behaviour is never ok.
I agree. If a man flashed, he could get arrested. It's forcing your sexual thrill onto others without their consent. "
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"We're looking to get in to a bit of flashing.
We were thinking of Lisa wearing mini-skirts and no underwear, maybe very thin tights, possible very thin leggings.
Then sitting near people she fancies on public transport and doing a bit of a tease. Buses, trains seem like they'd lend themselves to it.
We were also thinking of larger warehouse shops, B+Qs, Costco, that sort of thing.
Letting her walk around and seeing if she catches an eye or two.
Anyone do anything like this and anyone have any tips?
I think if she's alone/me in the background, that people will take it better and see it as less threatening/overtly sexual, so hopefully we'd be clear of any complaints. You see people walking around all the time with very thin leggings on, she could just act innocent of the whole thing...
Anything else worth trying? "
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Although a woman can't be arrested for flashing, unless causing a public nuisance or disturbance... a naked woman isn't a sexual offence, unlike a man where if he gets his bits out in public regardless of if any one minds, it's a sexual offence (unless in a legally permitted place or covered by some by-laws)
I think the point is your missus walking about with you in b&q in short skirt, no knickers, bra less with see through top would give the desired thrill you seek, and of course the attention you want, but without really being suggested that you are deliberately insighting some form of sexual thing on anyone. Actually you walking together rather than away, would make it seem more less threatening in my view, you just a couple out for the day, and that's the way she chooses to dress...
Wander through any high street on a Saturday night and your missus probably think she was overdressed in b&q lol |
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A women once whispered in my ear on tube she wanted to be fucked. Took me by surprise for sure and didn't do. Was ages ago but still think about it. Would love for it to be steup now. |
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"A women once whispered in my ear on tube she wanted to be fucked. Took me by surprise for sure and didn't do. Was ages ago but still think about it. Would love for it to be steup now. "
The state of the tubes nowadays and how rammed they are - you end up that close to people I think I may have been fucked by time I get off! |
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"Although a woman can't be arrested for flashing, unless causing a public nuisance or disturbance... a naked woman isn't a sexual offence, unlike a man where if he gets his bits out in public regardless of if any one minds, it's a sexual offence (unless in a legally permitted place or covered by some by-laws)
I think the point is your missus walking about with you in b&q in short skirt, no knickers, bra less with see through top would give the desired thrill you seek, and of course the attention you want, but without really being suggested that you are deliberately insighting some form of sexual thing on anyone. Actually you walking together rather than away, would make it seem more less threatening in my view, you just a couple out for the day, and that's the way she chooses to dress...
Wander through any high street on a Saturday night and your missus probably think she was overdressed in b&q lol"
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Great pics on profile I'd love to help you out with covering them |
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I used to work in B&Q and this happened a couple of times....the manager's told us at the team brief to look out for it as it was unacceptable....although they watched the cctv more than a few times lol x |
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"My bird does it in pubs or bars..she's not fussy if she's seen but gets her cheeky arse out..thing is sometimes I'm working there ffs  "
hope its not a family pub |
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I was on a train pulling into a station when I noticed a very attractive young woman sitting on a bench on the opposite platform. She clocked me looking at her and very slowly crossed her legs purposely revealing her stocking tops and suspenders. We smiled at each other, the train pulled away with that glorious moment locked into my brain. |
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I think a woman sitting one a park bench with short skirt and no knickers on is very sexy and as long as she makes sure that no children are close enough to be able to see is acceptable.
After all only the people interested would take a good enough look |
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Totally get the naughty excitement of this but unfortunately in this society all it would take is one person catching a glimpse that didn't see the harmless side and you'd end up on a sex offenders register
Sad for sure, as I would love a cheeky peek at a lady playing flash |
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?"
If there is no act of sex going on, how can it be either?
There are no sexual laws on a woman exposing herself, even if she was to strip totally naked equally in this case define exposing herself? She's still dressed, at what point do I take offence or consider my self sexually harassed by a dressed female because of the way she dressed? Showing cleavage? A minimum skirt length based on a height to leg length ratio? Erect nipples in the winter? A woman in sports wear, showing her midriff?
Half the reason we have the sexual problems, deviants, offenders, is due to the prude nanny state, that for whatever weird reason makes some individuals become a problem in society, sensationalising naked flesh - we all got it and if we weren't so obsessed and behave like mrs wood house, then half the nutters wouldn't exist.
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Mrs likes flashing her stocking tops in pubs there is a pic in our profile with her and a friend doing it,I love seeing other guys trying to catch a glimpse |
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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago
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I think if correctly done it's a hot idea.
Personally I'd choose somewhere not too busy and definitely with no kids around.
If you'd see a guy take an interest then take it slowly, gauge his reaction and have fun
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Like it has just been said...done with thought and care and picking your place and moment it would be fun. I doubt any guys that get a glimpse of something they usually wouldn't are going to complain...ever.!! I think if anyone notices you "working" together especially staff...then you could get caught. There are many supermarket flash pics on here so i suspect retailers are aware it happens. Like most guys... I've seen things...not flashing as such...but say a girl with a great butt wear leggings that are so thin you just see her knixs...the colour of them etc wedged up her...and it is a thrill to see. I'm sure some girls know when they put them on that they are showing a lot..!!! |
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For us, ideas like this are best approached as role play. Put an ad on Fab that you want to do this and include a special password in it. Then go out and if anyone comes up to you and says the password then, as discreetly as possible, give them a personal little peek. The point is to keep everything consensual and not upset innocent bystanders. That's why it's really best to think of it as a bit of kinky public role play.
Also... make sure the password is more unusual than "hello" |
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"For us, ideas like this are best approached as role play. Put an ad on Fab that you want to do this and include a special password in it. Then go out and if anyone comes up to you and says the password then, as discreetly as possible, give them a personal little peek. The point is to keep everything consensual and not upset innocent bystanders. That's why it's really best to think of it as a bit of kinky public role play.
Also... make sure the password is more unusual than "hello" "
that's a neat idea...!!! |
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?
If there is no act of sex going on, how can it be either?
There are no sexual laws on a woman exposing herself, even if she was to strip totally naked equally in this case define exposing herself? She's still dressed, at what point do I take offence or consider my self sexually harassed by a dressed female because of the way she dressed? Showing cleavage? A minimum skirt length based on a height to leg length ratio? Erect nipples in the winter? A woman in sports wear, showing her midriff?
Half the reason we have the sexual problems, deviants, offenders, is due to the prude nanny state, that for whatever weird reason makes some individuals become a problem in society, sensationalising naked flesh - we all got it and if we weren't so obsessed and behave like mrs wood house, then half the nutters wouldn't exist.
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Using unwitting members of the public to gain personal sexual thrills is non consensual sexual behaviour and that is never acceptable. I think that the problem in society doesn't stem from sensationalising naked flesh but from not accepting or understanding the concept of consent. |
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MrsH lovesa bit of outdoor type flashing but have to be so careful with all the CCTV cameras in stores etc. now.
When MrsH is role playing we go for a night out round town we put a meet on here and put a code word on here saying something like "your hair looks fab" and saying if you say that to her she will give you a BJ. we put on our ststus which pub we are going too but No one has ever approached us yet though. |
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"For us, ideas like this are best approached as role play. Put an ad on Fab that you want to do this and include a special password in it. Then go out and if anyone comes up to you and says the password then, as discreetly as possible, give them a personal little peek. The point is to keep everything consensual and not upset innocent bystanders. That's why it's really best to think of it as a bit of kinky public role play.
Also... make sure the password is more unusual than "hello" "
Great idea! |
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"We're looking to get in to a bit of flashing.
We were thinking of Lisa wearing mini-skirts and no underwear, maybe very thin tights, possible very thin leggings.
Then sitting near people she fancies on public transport and doing a bit of a tease. Buses, trains seem like they'd lend themselves to it.
We were also thinking of larger warehouse shops, B+Qs, Costco, that sort of thing.
Letting her walk around and seeing if she catches an eye or two.
Anyone do anything like this and anyone have any tips?
I think if she's alone/me in the background, that people will take it better and see it as less threatening/overtly sexual, so hopefully we'd be clear of any complaints. You see people walking around all the time with very thin leggings on, she could just act innocent of the whole thing...
Anything else worth trying? "
Let me know when I will take up DIY |
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Depends on the extent of the flash and how public..
Provocative so that people who want to see, get a glimpse. And those that don't, won't even notice.
Presumably it's the thrill of exciting onlookers, and the foresight to provide a subtle glimpse to those who want to see. Some people may even keep walking past!!! In which case ask them to join you, go somewhere way way more private and she can flash them
1) night club short skirt, no knickers dancing but not overtly flashing..
2) pub or 100% adult populated area, sat down and the occasional wind blowing or legs crossing to entice people who are looking
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?
If there is no act of sex going on, how can it be either?
There are no sexual laws on a woman exposing herself, even if she was to strip totally naked equally in this case define exposing herself? She's still dressed, at what point do I take offence or consider my self sexually harassed by a dressed female because of the way she dressed? Showing cleavage? A minimum skirt length based on a height to leg length ratio? Erect nipples in the winter? A woman in sports wear, showing her midriff?
Half the reason we have the sexual problems, deviants, offenders, is due to the prude nanny state, that for whatever weird reason makes some individuals become a problem in society, sensationalising naked flesh - we all got it and if we weren't so obsessed and behave like mrs wood house, then half the nutters wouldn't exist.
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The woman here is not flashing because she wants to be nude in public (which I can get behind - I'm a naturist) she's flashing because she and her male partner want to get a sexual thrill from exposing her genitals to other people.
The problem is that the couple did not check first with the other person to ensure that they were consenting to this sexual behaviour. It's non-consensual sexual activity when you involve someone in your sex games that hasn't consented.
There might be no sexual laws in place to stop a woman being nude in public, but I would encourage wholeheartedly any person who had been involved non-consensually in another couples sex games to report it to the authorities. Non-consensual sexual activity is not acceptable. |
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"Guys are NOT going to complain I mean..!!!"
I have a couple of friends who would be extremely upset actually. A couple of them are gay, the other has severe social anxiety.
It's really unpleasant to paint all men as neanderthal pleasure-seekers who constantly want to get their rocks off with anyone who owns a vagina. |
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?
If there is no act of sex going on, how can it be either?
There are no sexual laws on a woman exposing herself, even if she was to strip totally naked equally in this case define exposing herself? She's still dressed, at what point do I take offence or consider my self sexually harassed by a dressed female because of the way she dressed? Showing cleavage? A minimum skirt length based on a height to leg length ratio? Erect nipples in the winter? A woman in sports wear, showing her midriff?
Half the reason we have the sexual problems, deviants, offenders, is due to the prude nanny state, that for whatever weird reason makes some individuals become a problem in society, sensationalising naked flesh - we all got it and if we weren't so obsessed and behave like mrs wood house, then half the nutters wouldn't exist.
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You forget the times we live in where people go out of their way to be offended..I think it's a new hobby for the middle classes of the uk.. |
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"Guys are NOT going to complain I mean..!!!
I have a couple of friends who would be extremely upset actually. A couple of them are gay, the other has severe social anxiety.
It's really unpleasant to paint all men as neanderthal pleasure-seekers who constantly want to get their rocks off with anyone who owns a vagina."
..love em, they get offended by human body parts.do they need cwtch(hug)... |
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"Guys are NOT going to complain I mean..!!!
I have a couple of friends who would be extremely upset actually. A couple of them are gay, the other has severe social anxiety.
It's really unpleasant to paint all men as neanderthal pleasure-seekers who constantly want to get their rocks off with anyone who owns a vagina.
..love em, they get offended by human body parts.do they need cwtch(hug)... "
No, they would be offended by the assumption that they would get off sexually by being shown a woman's genitals.
If I was a gay man, I'd be pretty offended by that actually. Because it would just be another incidence of someone forgetting that gay people exist. |
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?
If there is no act of sex going on, how can it be either?
There are no sexual laws on a woman exposing herself, even if she was to strip totally naked equally in this case define exposing herself? She's still dressed, at what point do I take offence or consider my self sexually harassed by a dressed female because of the way she dressed? Showing cleavage? A minimum skirt length based on a height to leg length ratio? Erect nipples in the winter? A woman in sports wear, showing her midriff?
Half the reason we have the sexual problems, deviants, offenders, is due to the prude nanny state, that for whatever weird reason makes some individuals become a problem in society, sensationalising naked flesh - we all got it and if we weren't so obsessed and behave like mrs wood house, then half the nutters wouldn't exist.
You forget the times we live in where people go out of their way to be offended..I think it's a new hobby for the middle classes of the uk.."
No it's called people standing up for their own feelings for a change. And the other half of the population being so entitled they think their own pleasures come before the feelings of others.
All hidden in a complaining "everyone gets offended these days, they need to man up" line. Umm how about being more considerate? |
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"Guys are NOT going to complain I mean..!!!
I have a couple of friends who would be extremely upset actually. A couple of them are gay, the other has severe social anxiety.
It's really unpleasant to paint all men as neanderthal pleasure-seekers who constantly want to get their rocks off with anyone who owns a vagina.
..love em, they get offended by human body parts.do they need cwtch(hug)...
No, they would be offended by the assumption that they would get off sexually by being shown a woman's genitals.
If I was a gay man, I'd be pretty offended by that actually. Because it would just be another incidence of someone forgetting that gay people exist."
Lmao..your mates sound like a bunch of pussies to be honest.. |
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Recently we have taken to wandering around the city centre in the evening with my wife dressed up in goth gear . Very low top , no bra , stockings , short skirt etc....
We go into pubs ( separately ) and she flashes willing suitors . More often than not she pulls , and anything from heavy flirting ( snogging , touching etc... ) to finding a quiet spot for more fun occurs .
This can also be the case from just wandering about town and finding a guy or girl who wants to cop off with her .
It's so exciting and certainly not offensive to anyone . We gauge who seems willing to participate and have never had a problem so far .
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"Guys are NOT going to complain I mean..!!!
I have a couple of friends who would be extremely upset actually. A couple of them are gay, the other has severe social anxiety.
It's really unpleasant to paint all men as neanderthal pleasure-seekers who constantly want to get their rocks off with anyone who owns a vagina.
..love em, they get offended by human body parts.do they need cwtch(hug)...
No, they would be offended by the assumption that they would get off sexually by being shown a woman's genitals.
If I was a gay man, I'd be pretty offended by that actually. Because it would just be another incidence of someone forgetting that gay people exist.
Lmao..your mates sound like a bunch of pussies to be honest.. "
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"Guys are NOT going to complain I mean..!!!
I have a couple of friends who would be extremely upset actually. A couple of them are gay, the other has severe social anxiety.
It's really unpleasant to paint all men as neanderthal pleasure-seekers who constantly want to get their rocks off with anyone who owns a vagina.
..love em, they get offended by human body parts.do they need cwtch(hug)...
No, they would be offended by the assumption that they would get off sexually by being shown a woman's genitals.
If I was a gay man, I'd be pretty offended by that actually. Because it would just be another incidence of someone forgetting that gay people exist.
Lmao..your mates sound like a bunch of pussies to be honest..
Wow. You sound like such a lovely person."
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?""
I think it's kind of wierd people think it's ok to flash their bits in public
If a man got his cock out in Costa there would be an uproar so how can it possibly be ok for a woman to sit legs open showing her minge
I can't see how anybody can think that's ok personally |
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?"
I think it's kind of wierd people think it's ok to flash their bits in public
If a man got his cock out in Costa there would be an uproar so how can it possibly be ok for a woman to sit legs open showing her minge
I can't see how anybody can think that's ok personally"
i completely agree....and if someone cant see a difference going out in the evening into pubs/clubs scantily dressed is very different to wandering around B&Q in daytime,then i doubt there's much point attempting to explain it to them. |
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?"
I think it's kind of wierd people think it's ok to flash their bits in public
If a man got his cock out in Costa there would be an uproar so how can it possibly be ok for a woman to sit legs open showing her minge
I can't see how anybody can think that's ok personally"
We don't often have a polarised difference of opinion to you , but this is one .
In a pub , or simply out if an evening , it's not difficult to gauge who may be turned on by this scenario . And as a guy , I sure as hell know it's as horny as fuck to have the opportunity to see it .
Perhaps that's why we see it differently ?
Never once have we engaged in this and offended anyone . And we've done it often enough to be able to speak from a lot of experience .
It's not acceptable to do it to those who wouldn't appreciate it , or while there are people about who may be offended . But when in the right place with the right people it's a real thrill for all involved .
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?"
I think it's kind of wierd people think it's ok to flash their bits in public
If a man got his cock out in Costa there would be an uproar so how can it possibly be ok for a woman to sit legs open showing her minge
I can't see how anybody can think that's ok personally
We don't often have a polarised difference of opinion to you , but this is one .
In a pub , or simply out if an evening , it's not difficult to gauge who may be turned on by this scenario . And as a guy , I sure as hell know it's as horny as fuck to have the opportunity to see it .
Perhaps that's why we see it differently ?
Never once have we engaged in this and offended anyone . And we've done it often enough to be able to speak from a lot of experience .
It's not acceptable to do it to those who wouldn't appreciate it , or while there are people about who may be offended . But when in the right place with the right people it's a real thrill for all involved .
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But they are talking about in B&Q and Costco, how do you know a child's not going to run round the corner and see you flashing your gash
Surely nobody can think it's ok to flash in such places?? |
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"And as a guy , I sure as hell know it's as horny as fuck to have the opportunity to see it .
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As a woman I find it a massive turn off. I don't want to be forced to join in with other peoples sex games. |
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?"
I think it's kind of wierd people think it's ok to flash their bits in public
If a man got his cock out in Costa there would be an uproar so how can it possibly be ok for a woman to sit legs open showing her minge
I can't see how anybody can think that's ok personally
We don't often have a polarised difference of opinion to you , but this is one .
In a pub , or simply out if an evening , it's not difficult to gauge who may be turned on by this scenario . And as a guy , I sure as hell know it's as horny as fuck to have the opportunity to see it .
Perhaps that's why we see it differently ?
Never once have we engaged in this and offended anyone . And we've done it often enough to be able to speak from a lot of experience .
It's not acceptable to do it to those who wouldn't appreciate it , or while there are people about who may be offended . But when in the right place with the right people it's a real thrill for all involved .
But they are talking about in B&Q and Costco, how do you know a child's not going to run round the corner and see you flashing your gash
Surely nobody can think it's ok to flash in such places??"
Oh my no .... I'm talking about nights out .
Daytime public places with kids about ? No way . |
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"And as a guy , I sure as hell know it's as horny as fuck to have the opportunity to see it .
As a woman I find it a massive turn off. I don't want to be forced to join in with other peoples sex games."
And as a child you could end up on some register |
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?"
I think it's kind of wierd people think it's ok to flash their bits in public
If a man got his cock out in Costa there would be an uproar so how can it possibly be ok for a woman to sit legs open showing her minge
I can't see how anybody can think that's ok personally
We don't often have a polarised difference of opinion to you , but this is one .
In a pub , or simply out if an evening , it's not difficult to gauge who may be turned on by this scenario . And as a guy , I sure as hell know it's as horny as fuck to have the opportunity to see it .
Perhaps that's why we see it differently ?
Never once have we engaged in this and offended anyone . And we've done it often enough to be able to speak from a lot of experience .
It's not acceptable to do it to those who wouldn't appreciate it , or while there are people about who may be offended . But when in the right place with the right people it's a real thrill for all involved .
But they are talking about in B&Q and Costco, how do you know a child's not going to run round the corner and see you flashing your gash
Surely nobody can think it's ok to flash in such places??
Oh my no .... I'm talking about nights out .
Daytime public places with kids about ? No way ."
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"And as a guy , I sure as hell know it's as horny as fuck to have the opportunity to see it .
As a woman I find it a massive turn off. I don't want to be forced to join in with other peoples sex games."
We make it clear that we only engage in it with willing third parties .
I think we would easily ascertain that wouldn't be you , so we wouldn't try to force you to join in our sex games |
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?"
I think it's kind of wierd people think it's ok to flash their bits in public
If a man got his cock out in Costa there would be an uproar so how can it possibly be ok for a woman to sit legs open showing her minge
I can't see how anybody can think that's ok personally
We don't often have a polarised difference of opinion to you , but this is one .
In a pub , or simply out if an evening , it's not difficult to gauge who may be turned on by this scenario . And as a guy , I sure as hell know it's as horny as fuck to have the opportunity to see it .
Perhaps that's why we see it differently ?
Never once have we engaged in this and offended anyone . And we've done it often enough to be able to speak from a lot of experience .
It's not acceptable to do it to those who wouldn't appreciate it , or while there are people about who may be offended . But when in the right place with the right people it's a real thrill for all involved .
But they are talking about in B&Q and Costco, how do you know a child's not going to run round the corner and see you flashing your gash
Surely nobody can think it's ok to flash in such places??
Oh my no .... I'm talking about nights out .
Daytime public places with kids about ? No way .
There you go we are drinking from the same cup after all "
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I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me  but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions |
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?"
I think it's kind of wierd people think it's ok to flash their bits in public
If a man got his cock out in Costa there would be an uproar so how can it possibly be ok for a woman to sit legs open showing her minge
I can't see how anybody can think that's ok personally"
Well the law does / man did that arrested, woman did it not a single thing happen to her, best could be causing a public disturbance ( due to all the people rushing in to have a look!)
I think it's all a bit prude personally - not agreeing people should actively go out to cause offence and push it in people's faces - but really don't see the issue, i see half dressed women every day, the biggest offence is some really should cover up - same as some lads with their tops off in the summer ...if I don't like I just choose not to look, if in b&q there plenty of other isles to look at instead,
Go on holiday and all of a sudden it's no issue that people half naked, yet where they are is someone else's place of work or street, but suddenly we don't care, so the Spanish waiter my missus showed her virtually naked body to - should be allowed to come and walk down my street half naked to! |
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"Guys are NOT going to complain I mean..!!!
I have a couple of friends who would be extremely upset actually. A couple of them are gay, the other has severe social anxiety."
A friend of a friend was working as a waiter in a restaurant in a Mediterranean island. Our common friend told me that he was suffering at work because randy (foreign) holidaymakers would perpetually hit on him just cos he was there and looked fit, and others would flash him their genitals etc for kicks, to tease or entice. He was engaged to be married and was profoundly religious so this was very disturbing to him, to the point of making his life a misery.
A few years ago on another swinging site's chat a couple set it up so that the woman would flash the pizza delivery guy, live on camera. A whole throng of regulars cheered on and congratulated as the hapless driver barely reacted to the display, probably more interested in meeting his delivery quota than enjoying a totally random out-of-place attempt at titillation.
It is such a relief for me to hear of others who believe this is not acceptable behaviour. I think a lot of horny people tend to ignore that not everybody is open to these experiences or up for it 24/7, if at all.
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions "
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave. |
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"We're looking to get in to a bit of flashing.
We were thinking of Lisa wearing mini-skirts and no underwear, maybe very thin tights, possible very thin leggings.
Then sitting near people she fancies on public transport and doing a bit of a tease. Buses, trains seem like they'd lend themselves to it.
We were also thinking of larger warehouse shops, B+Qs, Costco, that sort of thing.
Letting her walk around and seeing if she catches an eye or two.
Anyone do anything like this and anyone have any tips?
I think if she's alone/me in the background, that people will take it better and see it as less threatening/overtly sexual, so hopefully we'd be clear of any complaints. You see people walking around all the time with very thin leggings on, she could just act innocent of the whole thing...
Anything else worth trying? "
Buses, trains, b&q, Costco.....what if there are kids about? Doesn't sound very responsible or innocent in my view |
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions "
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave."
Your whole day? Wow! |
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave.
Your whole day? Wow!"
Yup. Something like that can break my confidence for the whole day. I am a freelancer who enjoys going out and working in coffee shops and things. So making gestures like the gentleman above means I need to move on and work somewhere else, or go home. It literally means I have to reschedule my day to get away from creepy idiots. |
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave.
Your whole day? Wow!
Yup. Something like that can break my confidence for the whole day. I am a freelancer who enjoys going out and working in coffee shops and things. So making gestures like the gentleman above means I need to move on and work somewhere else, or go home. It literally means I have to reschedule my day to get away from creepy idiots."
Best stay indoors, you never know whos ogling you! |
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave.
Your whole day? Wow!
Yup. Something like that can break my confidence for the whole day. I am a freelancer who enjoys going out and working in coffee shops and things. So making gestures like the gentleman above means I need to move on and work somewhere else, or go home. It literally means I have to reschedule my day to get away from creepy idiots.
Best stay indoors, you never know whos ogling you!"
There's a massive difference between checking someone out and thinking they're attractive, and making eye contact to try and get them to open their legs so that you can look at their underwear.
If you can't tell the difference between those two things, perhaps it's you that should indoors... |
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Maybe I didn't put my point across too well. I would hope I've never made anyone feel uncomfortable. It would be more of a quick glance and that would be it. I wouldn't sit staring. It's probably why I've never seen anyone flash. I would have thought a quick glance in their direction would be enough, if they were there with the intention of flashing someone. I would hate to think I'd made someone feel uncomfortable or not able to wear what they want. |
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"Maybe I didn't put my point across too well. I would hope I've never made anyone feel uncomfortable. It would be more of a quick glance and that would be it. I wouldn't sit staring. It's probably why I've never seen anyone flash. I would have thought a quick glance in their direction would be enough, if they were there with the intention of flashing someone. I would hate to think I'd made someone feel uncomfortable or not able to wear what they want. "
From the perspective of someone who does enjoy a bit of consensual flashing , a quick glance would be enough to know it's ok to do it .
Those who are totally opposed to any level of flashing shouldn't be subjected to it . And this is the moot point here . If the flasher isn't aware of her surroundings , or the willingness of the people she flashes to see it , she shouldn't be doing it at all . |
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"I mean, it's basically either sexual harassment or non-consensual sexual behaviour.
If you're cool with that... well.. cool?
If there is no act of sex going on, how can it be either?
There are no sexual laws on a woman exposing herself, even if she was to strip totally naked equally in this case define exposing herself? She's still dressed, at what point do I take offence or consider my self sexually harassed by a dressed female because of the way she dressed? Showing cleavage? A minimum skirt length based on a height to leg length ratio? Erect nipples in the winter? A woman in sports wear, showing her midriff?
Half the reason we have the sexual problems, deviants, offenders, is due to the prude nanny state, that for whatever weird reason makes some individuals become a problem in society, sensationalising naked flesh - we all got it and if we weren't so obsessed and behave like mrs wood house, then half the nutters wouldn't exist.
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I don't like it because I think it makes other women vulnerable. Of course, if it becomes the norm, then who's to think my teenager, who were skimpy clothes as that's the fashion isn't 'inviting' men on. She is shocked at the number of men who try to talk to her and she is only 14. She doesn't wear anything out of the ordinary for her age. I personally would approach a woman or a man who was doing this in public and tell them to get a life. I would encourage them to think of the implications of their ridiculous acting out and attention seeking for others around them. I am not the sort of person who would just say this in the forums, I would follow it up in real life |
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"Maybe I didn't put my point across too well. I would hope I've never made anyone feel uncomfortable. It would be more of a quick glance and that would be it. I wouldn't sit staring. It's probably why I've never seen anyone flash. I would have thought a quick glance in their direction would be enough, if they were there with the intention of flashing someone. I would hate to think I'd made someone feel uncomfortable or not able to wear what they want. "
I glance at people all the time when I'm in public - because I'm a human who isn't blind.
I don't want them to show me their underwear or get their cock out just because I looked at them while they were in public.
You have some funny ideas about how people interact with strangers. |
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"Maybe I didn't put my point across too well. I would hope I've never made anyone feel uncomfortable. It would be more of a quick glance and that would be it. I wouldn't sit staring. It's probably why I've never seen anyone flash. I would have thought a quick glance in their direction would be enough, if they were there with the intention of flashing someone. I would hate to think I'd made someone feel uncomfortable or not able to wear what they want.
I glance at people all the time when I'm in public - because I'm a human who isn't blind.
I don't want them to show me their underwear or get their cock out just because I looked at them while they were in public.
You have some funny ideas about how people interact with strangers."
As we said earlier , there's a big difference between a glance which shows an interest in provocative and suggestive behaviour and a glance which says there is zero interest in such behaviour .
If the flasher can't tell the difference , then it's inappropriate to do it . End of . No argument there from us .
But , and this is the point , there are plenty of people who find it erotic , thrilling and exciting . Including us . And as we said earlier , we have never offended anyone with our behaviour .
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"Maybe I didn't put my point across too well. I would hope I've never made anyone feel uncomfortable. It would be more of a quick glance and that would be it. I wouldn't sit staring. It's probably why I've never seen anyone flash. I would have thought a quick glance in their direction would be enough, if they were there with the intention of flashing someone. I would hate to think I'd made someone feel uncomfortable or not able to wear what they want.
I glance at people all the time when I'm in public - because I'm a human who isn't blind.
I don't want them to show me their underwear or get their cock out just because I looked at them while they were in public.
You have some funny ideas about how people interact with strangers.
As we said earlier , there's a big difference between a glance which shows an interest in provocative and suggestive behaviour and a glance which says there is zero interest in such behaviour .
If the flasher can't tell the difference , then it's inappropriate to do it . End of . No argument there from us .
But , and this is the point , there are plenty of people who find it erotic , thrilling and exciting . Including us . And as we said earlier , we have never offended anyone with our behaviour .
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There's also a world of difference between that kind of behaviour in an adult environment like a nightclub or a bar at night - and doing it during the day in a coffee shop or something. |
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"Maybe I didn't put my point across too well. I would hope I've never made anyone feel uncomfortable. It would be more of a quick glance and that would be it. I wouldn't sit staring. It's probably why I've never seen anyone flash. I would have thought a quick glance in their direction would be enough, if they were there with the intention of flashing someone. I would hate to think I'd made someone feel uncomfortable or not able to wear what they want.
I glance at people all the time when I'm in public - because I'm a human who isn't blind.
I don't want them to show me their underwear or get their cock out just because I looked at them while they were in public.
You have some funny ideas about how people interact with strangers.
As we said earlier , there's a big difference between a glance which shows an interest in provocative and suggestive behaviour and a glance which says there is zero interest in such behaviour .
If the flasher can't tell the difference , then it's inappropriate to do it . End of . No argument there from us .
But , and this is the point , there are plenty of people who find it erotic , thrilling and exciting . Including us . And as we said earlier , we have never offended anyone with our behaviour .
There's also a world of difference between that kind of behaviour in an adult environment like a nightclub or a bar at night - and doing it during the day in a coffee shop or something."
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"We're looking to get in to a bit of flashing.
We were thinking of Lisa wearing mini-skirts and no underwear, maybe very thin tights, possible very thin leggings.
Then sitting near people she fancies on public transport and doing a bit of a tease. Buses, trains seem like they'd lend themselves to it.
We were also thinking of larger warehouse shops, B+Qs, Costco, that sort of thing.
Letting her walk around and seeing if she catches an eye or two.
Anyone do anything like this and anyone have any tips?
I think if she's alone/me in the background, that people will take it better and see it as less threatening/overtly sexual, so hopefully we'd be clear of any complaints. You see people walking around all the time with very thin leggings on, she could just act innocent of the whole thing...
Anything else worth trying? "
No it is wrong, what makes you think members of the public would want to see your wife's fanny. It's just as disgusting as a man flashing.
If you and your wife do it and a complaint is made to the police, you could both be prosecuted and put on the sex offenders register. |
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"Maybe I didn't put my point across too well. I would hope I've never made anyone feel uncomfortable. It would be more of a quick glance and that would be it. I wouldn't sit staring. It's probably why I've never seen anyone flash. I would have thought a quick glance in their direction would be enough, if they were there with the intention of flashing someone. I would hate to think I'd made someone feel uncomfortable or not able to wear what they want.
I glance at people all the time when I'm in public - because I'm a human who isn't blind.
I don't want them to show me their underwear or get their cock out just because I looked at them while they were in public.
You have some funny ideas about how people interact with strangers."
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave."
Jesus Christ love
This is a swingers site! Get over yourself, it's all a bit of sexual fun |
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave.
Jesus Christ love
This is a swingers site! Get over yourself, it's all a bit of sexual fun"
The whole point is that it isn't a bit of sexual fun .... it spoils people's days and lives, it intimidates people ... or are you denying this? So, if a man, or anyone for that matter, wants to impose on the personal space and rights of another for their fun, then they have to put up with it? |
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave.
Jesus Christ love
This is a swingers site! Get over yourself, it's all a bit of sexual fun"
But the people who you are doing it with *are not swingers*.
Besides - public flashing *isn't my kink* and therefore I don't want anything to do with it. So if you are doing it to me in public - that's entirely non-consensual! |
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave.
Jesus Christ love
This is a swingers site! Get over yourself, it's all a bit of sexual fun
The whole point is that it isn't a bit of sexual fun .... it spoils people's days and lives, it intimidates people ... or are you denying this? So, if a man, or anyone for that matter, wants to impose on the personal space and rights of another for their fun, then they have to put up with it? "
Yeah we will deny it spoils people's day , and that it's intimidating . And it is a bit of sexual fun enjoyed by many of us .
Daytime in public places is wrong , but in the right environment with the right people it's great .
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If you read what the poster said, she is sitting in a café trying to work. Why would you not understand some people would be intimidated by this? I would be, in that situation, but not in an adult situation in any way .... |
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"I was on a train pulling into a station when I noticed a very attractive young woman sitting on a bench on the opposite platform. She clocked me looking at her and very slowly crossed her legs purposely revealing her stocking tops and suspenders. We smiled at each other, the train pulled away with that glorious moment locked into my brain. "
This happened to me on London Bridge station during rush hour, slowly and deliberately spread her legs and smiled at me, the train pulled in and she was gone. |
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"A women once whispered in my ear on tube she wanted to be fucked. Took me by surprise for sure and didn't do. Was ages ago but still think about it. Would love for it to be steup now. "
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"A women once whispered in my ear on tube she wanted to be fucked. Took me by surprise for sure and didn't do. Was ages ago but still think about it. Would love for it to be steup now.
Did you not worry she could have been a psychotic man killer and wanted to wear your balls as earrings?"
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave.
Jesus Christ love
This is a swingers site! Get over yourself, it's all a bit of sexual fun
But the people who you are doing it with *are not swingers*.
Besides - public flashing *isn't my kink* and therefore I don't want anything to do with it. So if you are doing it to me in public - that's entirely non-consensual! "
Wouldn't flash at you anyway hunni! If you don't like the post why comment! The op is testing fantasies!
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave.
Jesus Christ love
This is a swingers site! Get over yourself, it's all a bit of sexual fun
But the people who you are doing it with *are not swingers*.
Besides - public flashing *isn't my kink* and therefore I don't want anything to do with it. So if you are doing it to me in public - that's entirely non-consensual!
Wouldn't flash at you anyway hunni! If you don't like the post why comment! The op is testing fantasies!
Simple "
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave.
Jesus Christ love
This is a swingers site! Get over yourself, it's all a bit of sexual fun
But the people who you are doing it with *are not swingers*.
Besides - public flashing *isn't my kink* and therefore I don't want anything to do with it. So if you are doing it to me in public - that's entirely non-consensual!
Wouldn't flash at you anyway hunni! If you don't like the post why comment! The op is testing fantasies!
Simple "
There's really no need to be unkind and nasty. That's not an appropriate way to have an adult discussion. Hunni. |
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave.
Jesus Christ love
This is a swingers site! Get over yourself, it's all a bit of sexual fun
But the people who you are doing it with *are not swingers*.
Besides - public flashing *isn't my kink* and therefore I don't want anything to do with it. So if you are doing it to me in public - that's entirely non-consensual!
Wouldn't flash at you anyway hunni! If you don't like the post why comment! The op is testing fantasies!
Simple "
The OP isn't merely fantasising, they asked for opinions and instruction on how to flash in various situations including every-day ones, safely and successfully. This is exactly what we are all discussing here.
I am a little mystified as to how simple glances can communicate such complicated intentions, or even consent without any reason for doubt. Could it be simply the assumption that men are always up for being flashed, and wishful thinking that women may be up for flashing...
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"I think there is a difference between overtly flashing and subtle flashes. In all my years of looking, I have yet to see anyone flash me but if I see a lady with a short skirt sat down, I will try and make eye contact and then look at her legs. I reckon that's pretty obvious that I wouldn't mind seeing. They can then discreetly flash me, without others seeing or being offended.
And on that note, if any ladies do fancy flashing me, I'm open to location suggestions
Men like you are why I don't wear skirts in public anymore in the summer. I find that kind of behaviour really intimidating, and if a man makes it known that he wants to indulge in sexual play with me while I'm sitting in a cafe trying to work or similar, that's basically just ruined my day because I now don't want to be in the same space as him and will leave.
Your whole day? Wow!
Yup. Something like that can break my confidence for the whole day. I am a freelancer who enjoys going out and working in coffee shops and things. So making gestures like the gentleman above means I need to move on and work somewhere else, or go home. It literally means I have to reschedule my day to get away from creepy idiots.
Best stay indoors, you never know whos ogling you!
There's a massive difference between checking someone out and thinking they're attractive, and making eye contact to try and get them to open their legs so that you can look at their underwear.
If you can't tell the difference between those two things, perhaps it's you that should indoors..."
See you are partially correct there, I wouldn't be able to tell if someone was trying to encourage me to part my legs, just by the way they were looking at me. I wish I could, then I would be able to flash people who wish to see!
As I can't, I don't.
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"We're looking to get in to a bit of flashing.
We were thinking of Lisa wearing mini-skirts and no underwear, maybe very thin tights, possible very thin leggings.
Then sitting near people she fancies on public transport and doing a bit of a tease. Buses, trains seem like they'd lend themselves to it.
We were also thinking of larger warehouse shops, B+Qs, Costco, that sort of thing.
Letting her walk around and seeing if she catches an eye or two.
Anyone do anything like this and anyone have any tips?
I think if she's alone/me in the background, that people will take it better and see it as less threatening/overtly sexual, so hopefully we'd be clear of any complaints. You see people walking around all the time with very thin leggings on, she could just act innocent of the whole thing...
Anything else worth trying? "
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