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"Absolutely love it, the bigger the better! Really has me gushing "Same here, there is a certain technique to it though | |||
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"Absolutely love it, the bigger the better! Really has me gushing "Depend on the person doing it but mmmmm | |||
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"i wanna b but havent been able to take it , yet hehe its on my to do list for sure" Its the only thing left on our to do list lol | |||
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"I would say that in principal its a mistake to 'try' if you follow my drift. Things like that tend to 'happen' when the time/mood etc. are right. Setting a 'goal' tends to create trepidation and tension especially if you have 'tried' and 'failed', the anticipation of failure often sets things up for failure. I'd suggest you forget about it, meaning try not to think about it. Then one day when things are 'just so' it will happen. "Wise words!! We have both 'tried' and let it happen...thanks for the advice tho x | |||
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"Are there many girls out there that really enjoy fisting. The ability to take a fist and enjoy it are two different things. Just wondering as it is something I have tried without success x" *Waves* i have ickle tiny girly hands and have been a few womens first pleaurable fistee! 
i absolutely adore it,i orgasm and gush and was recently left semi conscious from the number of orgasm a fisting gave me. | |||
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 ouch! Done well it's very, very good and very, very enjoyable! | |||
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"Absolutely love it, the bigger the better! Really has me gushing "Me too! | |||
"never tried it, it just dont appeal to me at all, im scared if i have something up my muff as big as a had regular i'll end up with a bucket fanny lol When i watch other women being fisted i just think, jesus christ what mans going to touch the sides now lmao " You may think that, but it actually has the opposite effect.. I only allow master to do this.. and can not always do it... It is a myth that you end up like a bucket after.. But it does take trust and someone that knows what they are doing. Katie x | |||
"never tried it, it just dont appeal to me at all, im scared if i have something up my muff as big as a had regular i'll end up with a bucket fanny lol When i watch other women being fisted i just think, jesus christ what mans going to touch the sides now lmao " Never appealed to me either,I wouldn't like to think I could. The way we see it,no matter what anyone says,the more times you blow a balloon up,the less it looks like it did when it came out of the packet!  T
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"never tried it, it just dont appeal to me at all, im scared if i have something up my muff as big as a had regular i'll end up with a bucket fanny lol When i watch other women being fisted i just think, jesus christ what mans going to touch the sides now lmao " lol lol lol | |||
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 but as said it has to be done properly.. and not every guy can do it properly!!! Oh and double fisting even better | |||
"never tried it, it just dont appeal to me at all, im scared if i have something up my muff as big as a had regular i'll end up with a bucket fanny lol When i watch other women being fisted i just think, jesus christ what mans going to touch the sides now lmao " it just doesnt work like that !! im as tight as u like but i love being fisted it really is amazing .. i think most of my guys have touched the sides afterwards!!! | |||
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but still like the stretching when trying and playing | |||
"Been fisted twice and enjoyed it, however im alway's worried it will make my pussy loose and my MrNaughty love's my tight pussy "see post above women are designed to be stretched !!! | |||
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"I would say that in principal its a mistake to 'try' if you follow my drift. Things like that tend to 'happen' when the time/mood etc. are right. Setting a 'goal' tends to create trepidation and tension especially if you have 'tried' and 'failed', the anticipation of failure often sets things up for failure. I'd suggest you forget about it, meaning try not to think about it. Then one day when things are 'just so' it will happen. "I'd agree with you 100 per cent. I've been fortunate enough to be able to do it to a few people, all bar one were long term relationships where the trust was there, she was relaxed and it just happened - usually after a vibrator had been there to bring her to an orgasm, so was well lubricated naturally. I would suggest that trying to 'force it' as it were, would lead to a natural reaction to tense up, making it far more difficult. | |||
"Absolutely love it, the bigger the better! Really has me gushing
Depend on the person doing it but mmmmm"I have very big hands !! | |||
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"Are there many girls out there that really enjoy fisting. The ability to take a fist and enjoy it are two different things. Just wondering as it is something I have tried without success x" Thought I would update the thread - I have now had a very successful fisting session lol!!! | |||
"Are there many girls out there that really enjoy fisting. The ability to take a fist and enjoy it are two different things. Just wondering as it is something I have tried without success x Thought I would update the thread - I have now had a very successful fisting session lol!!!" Congratulations | |||
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"I've tried the past 2 times with my fb but it's not happening lol. When does the pain turn into pleasure. I pull back as soon as the thumb goes in. Maybe i need to relax more and keep trying "The only way I have ever been able to do this (damn I am now revealing another kink), and well ok, I do it quite a lot (if asked too of course) is; Mood - quite simply, you have to be in a nice chilled out "space" in your head, so a knock on the door, run upstairs, lets play "hide the Sekonda" probably wont work. Sitting downstairs, just chatting, relaxing, talking about "normal" stuff for a while, essentially, the lady has to be really comfortable with the guy who is going to do this, Trust...... (Note the capital T) Preparation - Oral and finger masturbation and plenty off it (cries off "oh no do I have too" - yeah right you love it! ). I am guessing that I wouldn't begin the activity without the woman having had 2 or 3 orgasms through "frigging" and "cunilingus", this means that the area is sensitive, but, very receptive, the muscles have expanded and contracted a number of times in orgasm and are therefore more receptive to movement
Lubrication - Its what you need (poor old Roy), now there are a million lubes on the market, most of which I find can be quite "sticky" (ironic huh), the best by far (IMHO) are good old fashioned KY or baby oil, and get ready to use a lot of it (for those on a budget, Joe's Chip Van man have spare oil)
Technique - Ok Guys PAY ATTENTION!! trying to "drill your way in with a hand is bloody painful for the woman, no twisty twisty!! either palm up or down but it must go in all the way in the same position, twisting half way is not good yo increase the width required by the act of turning and it will be painful for firs-timers I prefer palm up, tuck thumb right across to the little finger and maintain that shape, insert the four fingers until they have vanished (magic!) then slowly "frig" the lady in this position, add more lube, paying attention to the "fat" part of the thumb palm, the gentle act of moving backwards and forwards will eventually see more of your hand disappear, until you get to the fat part of the thumb, more lube and a gentle push and you should be all the way in (just above the wrist), pull your fingers back to make a fist, be mindful of the "height" of the woman's vagina, don't scratch the roof.
Needless to say, this is not medical advice, this is a guy thats been around a bit saying "this is what works for me".
Cut your nails and have fun
P xxx | |||
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"Are there many girls out there that really enjoy fisting. The ability to take a fist and enjoy it are two different things. Just wondering as it is something I have tried without success x" love it, and have initiated several women into it...little girly hands here | |||
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" (damn I am now revealing another kink) Mood - quite simply, you have to be in a nice chilled out "space" in your head, so a knock on the door, run upstairs, lets play "hide the Sekonda" probably wont work. P xxx" Gotta love this forum | |||
"No! For a start you need to be a little slack down there and secondly it always reminds me of someone mixing a bucket of wallpaper paste in a bucket. " i think you will find actually that a lot of ladies who like fisting have amazing muscles down there ........the art of is knowing how to use them and im not saying anything else | |||
"No! For a start you need to be a little slack down there and secondly it always reminds me of someone mixing a bucket of wallpaper paste in a bucket. " I wouldn't think that....that's kinda like saying anyone who has had a child will always been slack!! | |||
"Are there many girls out there that really enjoy fisting. The ability to take a fist and enjoy it are two different things. Just wondering as it is something I have tried without success x" i only once got fisted and loved it didnt even know wot was happening till it was over but yeah felt tight and was erotic, think if i'd known i'd prob have stoped, he said he just got carried away as we got dirtier and wetter | |||
"I've tried the past 2 times with my fb but it's not happening lol. When does the pain turn into pleasure. I pull back as soon as the thumb goes in. Maybe i need to relax more and keep trying "When he does it right. Most men have no clue what they are doing. Raming and Pounding with a penis is one thing, and unless the penis is very large wont' cause pain. Few men have any knowledge about anatomy and biology and hence think with their little dick, rather than their big head to ensure they are in fact creating pleasure. I'd say your FB is pretty uneducated and ignorant about your body. I've had people try and fist me by trying ti ram, and others who have been totally amazing. I've also fisted others with care and knowledge and all have been very successful experiences. Even my very first time with a friend was amazing, it was over about 40 mins and my (now ex) partner kept coming in to see how far things were getting! It it causes pain, it's being done wrong and you should stop straight away. You do not want tears, bleeding, or infections. | |||
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"I would say that in principal its a mistake to 'try' if you follow my drift. Things like that tend to 'happen' when the time/mood etc. are right. Setting a 'goal' tends to create trepidation and tension especially if you have 'tried' and 'failed', the anticipation of failure often sets things up for failure. I'd suggest you forget about it, meaning try not to think about it. Then one day when things are 'just so' it will happen. "This ^^^^^ Tried it a couple of times - hurt like hell ... Then a couple of weeks ago, chilled and horny... Bingo...!! Plenty of lube... Once it's in (which can feel a bit tight) ... It's fab!! | |||
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