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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

what is it with some single guys . they message you for weeks , speak on the phone then once they arrange to meet they disapear off the face of the earth , what is that all about ??????????. it isnt good for the genuine guys on here as it makes the decent folk very wary and we are getting sick of it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well having just looked at your profile I think he must be mad. And, no, I don't understand it either, they must be fantasisiers (good word) or pretending to be single. Luckily some of us are 'normal' and when we say we will meet, we do. Keep the faith and you will find some good ones.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I agree it's hard enough to arrange a meet as a single guy, without idiots wasting peoples time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Unfortunatly it happens chick but there are sum nice genuine ones u just have to sift

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By *andKCouple  over a year ago

Norfolk

how about this though, guy messages us this morning, we politely say 'no thanks' then 10 hours later get same message! obviously forgot where he got to on the list pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i have to argree with what the others sad he must be mad not turning to meet you, wish i was working back in immingham lol. luckly its only a minority that are idiots but they do have a lasting effect on peoples opinion on single blokes. hope you have fun and not let put you off

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By *teve_SoleilCouple  over a year ago

Malaysia

Ahhh....maybe he got cold feet...I know those...and then when you sent them messages asking what happen they either don't read or read but don't reply to it...:D

Poor guy...maybe he got stage fright...and no confidence...:D

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By *eznhannahCouple  over a year ago

leeds

we dont meet single guys but we did do, once upon a time, and no disrespect to genuine guys on here, we found the best way to meet them was go to a club, and if we didnt play on the night maybe get there details, the advantages were we could see who we were getting, and if they were in a club they were obviously serious about swinging,

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By *andKCouple  over a year ago

Norfolk

opps posted this on the wrong thread

how about this though, guy messages us this morning, we politely say 'no thanks' then 10 hours later get same message! obviously forgot where he got to on the list pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"what is it with some single guys . they message you for weeks , speak on the phone then once they arrange to meet they disapear off the face of the earth , what is that all about ??????????. it isnt good for the genuine guys on here as it makes the decent folk very wary and we are getting sick of it "

It's not just single guys, there are supposed single girls and supposed couples on here who do exactly the same thing.

Not always easy to spot but vert easy to eventually catch out which is what you have done, so keep on trying as there are lots of genuine folk out there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

its not just single men that do that, couples do it too lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman  over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"its not just single men that do that, couples do it too lol"

Personally I think couples are much worse at stringing it out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"its not just single men that do that, couples do it too lol

Personally I think couples are much worse at stringing it out."

Genuine couples or "couples" profiles? Unfortunately the wannabe comes in many guises

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By *he_original_poloWoman  over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"its not just single men that do that, couples do it too lol

Personally I think couples are much worse at stringing it out.

Genuine couples or "couples" profiles? Unfortunately the wannabe comes in many guises "

Couples = man plus a woman who does exist.... couldn't call them 'genuine' though or they wouldn't be stringing their wannabe fantasy out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"its not just single men that do that, couples do it too lol

Personally I think couples are much worse at stringing it out.

Genuine couples or "couples" profiles? Unfortunately the wannabe comes in many guises

Couples = man plus a woman who does exist.... couldn't call them 'genuine' though or they wouldn't be stringing their wannabe fantasy out."

Could not agree more and we have found that the "can we chat on the telephone request" is what very quickly sorts the men from the boys so to speak

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By *he_original_poloWoman  over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"its not just single men that do that, couples do it too lol

Personally I think couples are much worse at stringing it out.

Genuine couples or "couples" profiles? Unfortunately the wannabe comes in many guises

Couples = man plus a woman who does exist.... couldn't call them 'genuine' though or they wouldn't be stringing their wannabe fantasy out.

Could not agree more and we have found that the "can we chat on the telephone request" is what very quickly sorts the men from the boys so to speak "

Oh they want to talk on the phone and talk on cam.... it all adds to their fantasy of pretending they would actually meet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"its not just single men that do that, couples do it too lol

Personally I think couples are much worse at stringing it out.

Genuine couples or "couples" profiles? Unfortunately the wannabe comes in many guises "

see even single guys get the blame for time wasting couples lol

YES genuine couples, and i men genuine as in there really is a female, time watse too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"its not just single men that do that, couples do it too lol

Personally I think couples are much worse at stringing it out.

Genuine couples or "couples" profiles? Unfortunately the wannabe comes in many guises

Couples = man plus a woman who does exist.... couldn't call them 'genuine' though or they wouldn't be stringing their wannabe fantasy out.

Could not agree more and we have found that the "can we chat on the telephone request" is what very quickly sorts the men from the boys so to speak

Oh they want to talk on the phone and talk on cam.... it all adds to their fantasy of pretending they would actually meet "

They or he, genuine enquiry as we have not come accross the "they" thing before

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By *he_original_poloWoman  over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"its not just single men that do that, couples do it too lol

Personally I think couples are much worse at stringing it out.

Genuine couples or "couples" profiles? Unfortunately the wannabe comes in many guises

Couples = man plus a woman who does exist.... couldn't call them 'genuine' though or they wouldn't be stringing their wannabe fantasy out.

Could not agree more and we have found that the "can we chat on the telephone request" is what very quickly sorts the men from the boys so to speak

Oh they want to talk on the phone and talk on cam.... it all adds to their fantasy of pretending they would actually meet

They or he, genuine enquiry as we have not come accross the "they" thing before "

They - I ensure there are two people via cam or phone (not just photos) at a very early stage.

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By *resh freddieMan  over a year ago

Penistone


"what is it with some single guys . they message you for weeks , speak on the phone then once they arrange to meet they disapear off the face of the earth , what is that all about ??????????. it isnt good for the genuine guys on here as it makes the decent folk very wary and we are getting sick of it "

Well speaking from a man’s point of view I always phone before setting off and again 5 mins out. If I say I am going to do something then I do it, simple as that.

I am surprised though if you have spent weeks getting to know someone, speaking on the phone and then not to follow through its a loss.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Guess that you have spoken to wrong single guys frustrating though don't let it put you two off theres others that will accom you I'm sure .However yeah wander what there deal is after making contact with you then not meeting maybe just another time waster .good much guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thats concideration freddie yeah my meets do same with me then theres others that just don't like what happened in this case to this couple .So when single guys winge why people won't meet them I know it's not all singles but begins to put other people of single guys .have a gr8 day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i guess some guys get off on winding people up. i do know that when i eventually meet a couple i will be nervous about it, but i also know that if i agree to meet it would take something major to stop me going.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just noticed your location. there are some single guys around here that are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I guess we must have lived a very lucky life as we have never encountered this, and long may that continue

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

as a singel man is difficult to meet of here as there are load of timewasters just caught a guy out who say was a cupell then asked qustion i got to speek to gf first and then all of a sudden went off line funny that

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By * and P 50 48Couple  over a year ago

Idaho Falls

I sincerely hope the wife and I never waste anyones time. Ive been known to write back and tell them that it is a waste. We are up front when we post. That shouldnt be to much to ask from most, right? Why cant people just be up-front to begin with? Solves alot of things.

I dont think I could keep up with the lies.

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Oh dear

Yet another one of those tiresome threads that tries to single out single males for doing something that is common right across the board.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

maybe we should open a forum purely for single guy bashing!....it does verge on the ridiculous at times.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan  over a year ago

er...guess


"maybe we should open a forum purely for single guy bashing!....it does verge on the ridiculous at times. "

That's not such a daft idea but I'd widen it to being a forum for moans of all sorts. I've already made clear how I feel about the amount of time and effort expended in grumbling about stuff we can do nothing about so let's have a forum especially for those with too much time on their hands

Any 'moaning' threads found elsewhere should be immediately banished to the Grumpy So and So Forum and left there. Those who feel they have value can view them there whilst the rest of us get with why we're here.

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

[Removed by poster at 19/07/09 11:29:25]

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"maybe we should open a forum purely for single guy bashing!....it does verge on the ridiculous at times. "

I think it can all be traced back to the time that the Titanic struck a single male and sank

We've had a bad rap ever since

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"maybe we should open a forum purely for single guy bashing!....it does verge on the ridiculous at times.

I think it can all be traced back to the time that the Titanic struck a single male and sank

We've had a bad rap ever since"

Swingers Chat: This is the place to discuss anything and everything about swinging

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By *obbytupperMan  over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"what is it with some single guys . they message you for weeks , speak on the phone then once they arrange to meet they disapear off the face of the earth , what is that all about ??????????. it isnt good for the genuine guys on here as it makes the decent folk very wary and we are getting sick of it "

I find it hard to believe that some idiots mess you about, you're one of the nicest couples I know and so accommodating. Whenever you're let down ring me!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I agree it's hard enough to arrange a meet as a single guy, without idiots wasting peoples time."

Tell me about it.

I think all the single guys on here have been tarnished with the same brush, so to speak.

I've had quiet a few no shows and it's really annoying.

We're not all timewasters!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"maybe we should open a forum purely for single guy bashing!....it does verge on the ridiculous at times.

I think it can all be traced back to the time that the Titanic struck a single male and sank

We've had a bad rap ever sinceSwingers Chat: This is the place to discuss anything and everything about swinging"

Yes but this type of thread is getting a bit boring now.

There are time wasters across the board, couples, singles, bi guys and gay guys.

I get a bit sick and tired of reading threads such as this one.

So come on folks lets not single out one particular group.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well I can understand someone getting cold feet but there's no excuse for being ignorant about it.

Having said that alot couples on here can be very ignorant towards even genuine single males....how many of you have sent a polite message just to watch it change to deleted without even a short 'thanks but no thanks reply'.

I think everyone needs to be a little more polite.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan  over a year ago

er...guess


"maybe we should open a forum purely for single guy bashing!....it does verge on the ridiculous at times.

I think it can all be traced back to the time that the Titanic struck a single male and sank

We've had a bad rap ever sinceSwingers Chat: This is the place to discuss anything and everything about swinging

Yes but this type of thread is getting a bit boring now.

There are time wasters across the board, couples, singles, bi guys and gay guys.

I get a bit sick and tired of reading threads such as this one.

So come on folks lets not single out one particular group.

"

I suggested this a wee while back. One dedicated thread for moans and moaners.

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By *peedypeteMan  over a year ago

derby

I get the same with couples. Theyu say they are defiantely coming to a hotel u have booked, maybe one, two or even three couples. Guess hwo many show up, that right none. I am afraid its a common thing whwther ur looking for couples or singles, soe folks just get kicks from settign up meets without ever intending to go on one.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

well lucky me has had no probs with couples or singles on here ,, all my meets have happenned and that goes for the other site i frequent ,,, never been stood up in a hotel ,, and all but one have shown up on time ,,, and that lady is a very good pal of mine... the painters arrived without warning ,,, so guys ,,, keep plugging away and fight the good fight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Arranged a meet with 2 guys a couple of weeks ago . Asked us 2 pick them up from the station . got ther no 1 around , text them said had family problem that was bad enough . read profile the next day had travel 100 miles 4 meet so no intention of coming 2 see us

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i think there are alot of fakes on here coz its a free site and wannabe swingers sign up coz of that and when it comes to the crunch they have got the balls!they get there frills from the messages and what they want to do during meet.makes genuine people look bad

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