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Is it right to be very fussy?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think so personally but I have had quite a few messages from guys saying I set my standards too high.
I disagree. You need to know exactly what you want on here and I have still managed to get plenty of meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think so personally but I have had quite a few messages from guys saying I set my standards too high.
I disagree. You need to know exactly what you want on here and I have still managed to get plenty of meets."
Your absolutely right . your here for what YOU want not everybody else  . Stick to what you like |
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100% right to be fussy, we have had the same said to us before today. Also we do not like to play too close to home and we have received a bit of hassle for that too. But at the end of the day it is our / your choice simple as. Those that don't like the rules you set for yourself are no doubt not the type of people you would want to meet any way. |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I think so personally but I have had quite a few messages from guys saying I set my standards too high.
I disagree. You need to know exactly what you want on here and I have still managed to get plenty of meets."
They're just miffed hun because they know they don't stand a chance. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting replies. A guy was in touch with me not long ago asking if I would come to his hotel. He had posted a meet asking if any fem or couple would meet him in a hotel. He also posted that he would pay for the hotel himself with any couple or lady. Does that sound like he was fussy or what??
I declined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not about setting your standards too high. It's about knowing what you like, and not being willing to settle for less. Why should you compromise that in any way? It's sex after all, not a handshake. I have my preferences, and if someone sees that as having too a high a standard, then so be it. I only share my body with those who fit what I am looking for, I could never compromise on that. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Don't think it's fussy, think it is value alignment. There are a lot of girls on here who I don't value align with.
Probably the ones who's ID is higher than there IQ and reality.
Luke life you choose, not make do, well in my world  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not about setting your standards too high. It's about knowing what you like, and not being willing to settle for less. Why should you compromise that in any way? It's sex after all, not a handshake. I have my preferences, and if someone sees that as having too a high a standard, then so be it. I only share my body with those who fit what I am looking for, I could never compromise on that. "
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Don't think it's fussy, think it is value alignment. There are a lot of girls on here who I don't value align with.
Probably the ones who's ID is higher than there IQ and reality.
Luke life you choose, not make do, well in my world "
really need to prune the size of my fingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm so so fussy
I have standards & expect the same. I'm not desperate & will filter & sift until I find someone the same
In fact when a guys profile is detailed & he seems fussy it makes me want to know more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I am very fussy, but I wouldn't have a clue who it was that I was looking for looks wise. The men I have met have not been physically similar, but their personality has been the part to make me want to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so so fussy
I have standards & expect the same. I'm not desperate & will filter & sift until I find someone the same
In fact when a guys profile is detailed & he seems fussy it makes me want to know more "
Glad I'm not the only one. If a guy has that kind of profile, it makes them more attractive. There's one on the forums ( not mentioning any names) who seems completely ungettable. Although I have not messaged him, he definitely has caught my attention . |
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