Why are there so many of them? Honestly if you want to wank that's fine, just watch porn. Don't waste genuine swingers time.
I met a lovely couple recently & they'd put an open invite for a social on. They'd had over 200 _iews and dozens of allegedly confirmed attendees, as it happens the lady can be a bit of a greedy girl.
Of the dozens of confirmed, two of us turned up. We all had a great time, I just feel for her as she was particularly horny and really wanted more than 3 that night.
Single lads letting the side down again, by not showing up. |
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"And your problem is what exactly? You got to meet them and have more of their time. Their loss was your gain."
Oh believe me in many ways I am glad they didn't turn up, however on a different tack, it's the fact of the numerous time wasters that give single males a bad rep. my comment more of a point of discussion rather than a complaint.  |
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It sounds a bit more complaint like than discussion point but look on the bright side - you got to have sex and your reputation is sound so you'll get invited back and they won't. The thing about stupid men is that they don't spoil it for the rest of us, like you suggest, it makes it easier. |
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By *pices69Couple
over a year ago
Gravesend |
Hey OP.
Thank you for understanding.
Weve been there and been let down a number of times, but with kids to plan for, the semi military operation it takes to get out for an evening, its a huge let down when things go wrong. Chances are, that was your one time this month for fun.
On the upside, well done for going, hope you had a fab time and did what you could to help the lady. . Wish there were more genuine guys like you.
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When push comes fo shove they just can't be bothered getting off their arses,it's easier to wank over porn from the safety of their armchair. Give them a real woman and their cocks disappear up their backsides. |
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I dont understand why people do this
I would never do a no show if I say im gonna be there I will be
I dont understand what people get out of arranging a meet them not going and wasting peoples time. |
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"I dont understand why people do this
I would never do a no show if I say im gonna be there I will be
I dont understand what people get out of arranging a meet them not going and wasting peoples time."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont understand why people do this
I would never do a no show if I say im gonna be there I will be
I dont understand what people get out of arranging a meet them not going and wasting peoples time."
A wank. Didn't you read the thread title? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are there so many of them? Honestly if you want to wank that's fine, just watch porn. Don't waste genuine swingers time.
I met a lovely couple recently & they'd put an open invite for a social on. They'd had over 200 _iews and dozens of allegedly confirmed attendees, as it happens the lady can be a bit of a greedy girl.
Of the dozens of confirmed, two of us turned up. We all had a great time, I just feel for her as she was particularly horny and really wanted more than 3 that night.
Single lads letting the side down again, by not showing up. "
Agree entirely. Plenty of keyboard wankers on here. If we want 3 guys, we literally invite 10. If 10 pitch up, will be an even better night. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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I don't think these people give single guys a bad name particularly, there are loads of lovely and reliable single guys on here. You get let downs from single ladies and couples too. It's about trying to make good choices, including looking at their veries to see their reliability. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"When push comes fo shove they just can't be bothered getting off their arses,it's easier to wank over porn from the safety of their armchair. Give them a real woman and their cocks disappear up their backsides."
oh someone needs a reset me thinks   |
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I've had messages from so many people over the years who, as it turned out, were so turned on by the thought of meeting, that they wanked themselves silly thinking about it and then, of course, didn't show up. Their loss. |
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I was pretty naive until recently. I presumed that like myself other guys who got the chance to meet someone they liked would jump at the chance. The idea that lots of guys never show up to arranged meets never entered my head. Just find it bizarre. |
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"And your problem is what exactly? You got to meet them and have more of their time. Their loss was your gain.
Oh believe me in many ways I am glad they didn't turn up, however on a different tack, it's the fact of the numerous time wasters that give single males a bad rep. my comment more of a point of discussion rather than a complaint. "
Bit the supposed bad rep didn't stop you meeting her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This cuts both ways, there are other ways to arrange a meet with multiple men.
The easiest is an open invitation and hope that those who make contact turn up. It's also the laziest way. Or put some effort in and find men yourself but while that will probably get better results it's also a lot more work |
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"Why are there so many of them? Honestly if you want to wank that's fine, just watch porn. Don't waste genuine swingers time.
I met a lovely couple recently & they'd put an open invite for a social on. They'd had over 200 _iews and dozens of allegedly confirmed attendees, as it happens the lady can be a bit of a greedy girl.
Of the dozens of confirmed, two of us turned up. We all had a great time, I just feel for her as she was particularly horny and really wanted more than 3 that night.
Single lads letting the side down again, by not showing up. "
Was it a social or a play date? If it was a social, why was she playing? I dislike this as it means some men then go on to think groping is okay at a social too. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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If guys start on the filthy chat you know that eventually they’re going to shoot their load and disappear lol It's best to arrange a meet. Also I’m wary of guys who have been members for about an hour and have no pics and no veris. There are guys who invent and delete a different profile every day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When push comes fo shove they just can't be bothered getting off their arses,it's easier to wank over porn from the safety of their armchair. Give them a real woman and their cocks disappear up their backsides."
Yeah I think it's laziness too! |
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