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Any couples ever experience someone else falling for your partner?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry this is really directed at couples.
Have any couples met with other's in the swinging world, all is going well then either the male half or female have become infatuated with your partner or even yourself?
Or maybe you were the one who was infatuated with the other.
This has never happened to us thankfully, but we do worry this could happen and how to deal with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi all..yes this happened to me and my now ex partner 2 years ago, we met a local couple off here.
Its became obvious to me that my partner and her partner had become very close, to cut a long story short she had an affair with him and left me just over a year ago.
She now lives with him and it caused so much shite for both families and friends etc, but to be honest our r.ship wasnt in a good place.
So my advice to any couple is make sure you r.ship is solid, and be careful who you invite into it.
On the plus side ive moved on and in back as a singleton, and life is great and im loving being back here on fab after a 2 year break..hope this helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow great topic. I do agree that you should be a solid couple.
We find keeping everything out in the open is the best way to avoid that sort of situation. Because guys always try i, a sneaky kik msg outside the group etc. Block! Very disrespectful. |
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Every contact we ever have is usually in a group on on here. Even if its a direct chat the other always reads it. I think as long as you're open and honest about everything and know what you both want you shouldn't have anything to worry about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've not met up with many couples but I doubt it would ever be an issue for us. Mrs has a few WhatsApp messages off one fella that are quite flirty but as long as we're both open about it then the trust is there. |
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"Wow great topic. I do agree that you should be a solid couple.
We find keeping everything out in the open is the best way to avoid that sort of situation. Because guys always try i, a sneaky kik msg outside the group etc. Block! Very disrespectful."
We were chatting with a couple in a group chat once. The man from the other couple messaged my girlfriend privately asking her to meet up alone. I asked him to keep all the messages in the group as we wouldnt be meeting alone. His partner then started swearing and calling him all sorts of names telling him she's told him about doing that and she'll not stand for it anymore, they vanished off fab a couple of hours later! |
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"Yes, me (R) and the male half of another couple dated for a while a few years ago, with everyone's knowledge. That's how we discovered we could be poly  "
This!
Having feelings grow between playmates was how I discovered I'm poly
Emotions becoming involved isn't a bad thing for some, can make things complicated but again, that's not necessarily a bad thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey i could have written a whole lot more but tried to keep it brief,i think its important for your relationship to be in a good place.
As for some couples it will happen very naturally, but for others its a massive step into the unknown to bring third parties into your relationship.
I think judging from the replies alot of couples have experienced something negative, for all the decent people on here you will have 20 who want to cause as much damage as possible.
I do feel talking openly in a forum will help others make an educated choice, i do hope my post have assisted and if anyone wishes to dicuss this just message me |
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but I've heard this is one of the reasons why some only meet once.