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over a year ago
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Singles.....just a question for me personally I'm finding it really hard to find someone nice for a relationship,if you found someone would you like to be in a "normal" "vanilla" relationship or a swinging one? or person depending and talk about it and see what happens? Some people outside the scene might run a mile when you meantion swinging but they could be the "one" so what would you do? Thanks  |
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I've thought about this too! If I started dating one day, outside of here, could I tell them about swinging!
I suppose you have to think of it in a way that if they don't accept you for who you are and what you do and did previously, then they're possibly not right for you!
I personally would want someone I could maybe explore with. I could never do just 'vanilla' sex, all the time! Where's the fun in that!?! |
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"I've thought about this too! If I started dating one day, outside of here, could I tell them about swinging!
I suppose you have to think of it in a way that if they don't accept you for who you are and what you do and did previously, then they're possibly not right for you!
I personally would want someone I could maybe explore with. I could never do just 'vanilla' sex, all the time! Where's the fun in that!?!"
well it depends on how much your into them and if they are against it and you fall for them I suppose you would knock swinging on the head for happiness? I've had random sex good sex but there's no better feeling of being someone you want to be with and having it in return.I like the swinging scene obviously and I'm on dating sites but if I found someone who I like maybe who is into the scene who's decent loyal good laugh etc would be great but life isn't perfect,saying that I'll give my right arm for a good normal relationship too  |
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This is not a hypothetical question in my case. I have formed a vanilla relationship in the last 10 months, having previously indulged in (and been corrupted by) threesomes with a couple not on this site. I don't exclude swinging with my GF in the future, but I feel that there is more to life and relationships than the unrestrained pursuit of sexual pleasure, so swinging (or not) joins a larger universe of changes that may or may not happen. |
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"This is not a hypothetical question in my case. I have formed a vanilla relationship in the last 10 months, having previously indulged in (and been corrupted by) threesomes with a couple not on this site. I don't exclude swinging with my GF in the future, but I feel that there is more to life and relationships than the unrestrained pursuit of sexual pleasure, so swinging (or not) joins a larger universe of changes that may or may not happen. "
yes I'm agreed fully with there's more to life than sexual pleasure and sometimes it's just a urge and once you fulfil that urge sometimes it doesn't feel that great.
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"This is not a hypothetical question in my case. I have formed a vanilla relationship in the last 10 months, having previously indulged in (and been corrupted by) threesomes with a couple not on this site. I don't exclude swinging with my GF in the future, but I feel that there is more to life and relationships than the unrestrained pursuit of sexual pleasure, so swinging (or not) joins a larger universe of changes that may or may not happen. yes I'm agreed fully with there's more to life than sexual pleasure and sometimes it's just a urge and once you fulfil that urge sometimes it doesn't feel that great."
If there's so much more to life than sexual pleasures could anyone give me an acceptable reason as to why there's so many 'fabsingles' cheating on their partners. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"This is not a hypothetical question in my case. I have formed a vanilla relationship in the last 10 months, having previously indulged in (and been corrupted by) threesomes with a couple not on this site. I don't exclude swinging with my GF in the future, but I feel that there is more to life and relationships than the unrestrained pursuit of sexual pleasure, so swinging (or not) joins a larger universe of changes that may or may not happen. yes I'm agreed fully with there's more to life than sexual pleasure and sometimes it's just a urge and once you fulfil that urge sometimes it doesn't feel that great.
If there's so much more to life than sexual pleasures could anyone give me an acceptable reason as to why there's so many 'fabsingles' cheating on their partners."
Exactly THAT!! I can never ever be in a monogamous relationship again. Ever. I can be emotionally faithful and be one man's woman but physically it's impossible. Left Fab some months ago to pursue a 'vanilla' relationship and it didn't work out (hence back). So my life partner will be either form Fab or a Fab like forum. I just haven't found him yet lol.
That said, most blokes claim they love the idea of a wife who plays around but in reality many blokes can't take it and ruin it by getting jealous. First hand experience x several.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I am ever single I'll stay single. "
This is where I've found myself. Although I do prefer a more long term partner I don't think the relationship life is for me currently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Singles.....just a question for me personally I'm finding it really hard to find someone nice for a relationship,if you found someone would you like to be in a "normal" "vanilla" relationship or a swinging one? or person depending and talk about it and see what happens? Some people outside the scene might run a mile when you meantion swinging but they could be the "one" so what would you do? Thanks "
I would never be in a monogamous relationship. Never.
I don't believe in 'the one'. I have 'the two' already - and who knows how many more wonderful people I will meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is not a hypothetical question in my case. I have formed a vanilla relationship in the last 10 months, having previously indulged in (and been corrupted by) threesomes with a couple not on this site. I don't exclude swinging with my GF in the future, but I feel that there is more to life and relationships than the unrestrained pursuit of sexual pleasure, so swinging (or not) joins a larger universe of changes that may or may not happen. yes I'm agreed fully with there's more to life than sexual pleasure and sometimes it's just a urge and once you fulfil that urge sometimes it doesn't feel that great.
If there's so much more to life than sexual pleasures could anyone give me an acceptable reason as to why there's so many 'fabsingles' cheating on their partners."
They're shitbags. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is not a hypothetical question in my case. I have formed a vanilla relationship in the last 10 months, having previously indulged in (and been corrupted by) threesomes with a couple not on this site. I don't exclude swinging with my GF in the future, but I feel that there is more to life and relationships than the unrestrained pursuit of sexual pleasure, so swinging (or not) joins a larger universe of changes that may or may not happen. yes I'm agreed fully with there's more to life than sexual pleasure and sometimes it's just a urge and once you fulfil that urge sometimes it doesn't feel that great.
If there's so much more to life than sexual pleasures could anyone give me an acceptable reason as to why there's so many 'fabsingles' cheating on their partners."
I'm not sure but if I was unhappy I'll leave the relationship rather than cheat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The only way to find a happy relationship is to find someone whos kinks play well with your kinks. If you enter into a longterm relationship with someone and feel the need to hide what you like for fear of them running off screaming you may as well stay single in my book  |
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"This is not a hypothetical question in my case. I have formed a vanilla relationship in the last 10 months, having previously indulged in (and been corrupted by) threesomes with a couple not on this site. I don't exclude swinging with my GF in the future, but I feel that there is more to life and relationships than the unrestrained pursuit of sexual pleasure, so swinging (or not) joins a larger universe of changes that may or may not happen. yes I'm agreed fully with there's more to life than sexual pleasure and sometimes it's just a urge and once you fulfil that urge sometimes it doesn't feel that great.
If there's so much more to life than sexual pleasures could anyone give me an acceptable reason as to why there's so many 'fabsingles' cheating on their partners.
They're shitbags."
You might think that but I couldn't possibly comment  |
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