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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I find myself looking for a new playmate/FB but wanting something more than just meet up once in a while. Been on that match site and the one that's a bit "Fishy" but how do you say you're looking for a partner that also likes the swinging lifestyle? Anyone know of any specific "dating" places where you tend to get people who are into our lifestyle but wanting someone more permanent to enjoy it with?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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put it on your profile about looking for swinging partner.
you're not allowed to ask for sex on that site, that's all. but i have mentioned it on my profile, just edited it this morning and added this:
Also, yes I am on another site looking for NSA. But if you notice that profile was hidden while I was dating (and blocked all messages) because I'm usually loyal from the start when seeing someone. After recent events I have decided I'm not being loyal as nobody seems to be worth it and I don't see why I should deny myself coz you men certainly aren't. So I will be continuing with NSA on other sites and using here for dating and I'm serious about not having sex with anyone I'm dating. No-one from here will get sex from me under false pretences. You don't have the right to take my body and use it like that. You don't have the right to deny me consent. You don't have the right to mess with my head either.
Anyone genuinely after a relationship will get my consent after they've proved themselves trustworthy, reliable, consistent, and have legally committed to me. I really don't care any more. You need to stop disrespecting women, stop causing them mental distress, and stop lying to them and go wank some more coz I ain't your wank sock. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why wouldn't you look on a swinging website for a partner who is into swinging?"
From experience. There doesn't seem to be many ladies on here looking for that. I could be wrong or just butt ugly and they aren't interested who knows. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello. Mr P and I met on a casuals site (18 mths ago) - and he bravely stated that swinging was an interest of his. Not surprisingly he got lots of "we like your profile, but not keen on the swinging idea" but for all the ones that moved on by, he did get the occasional one that wasn't put off. He thought more sensible to put it out there straight away and not ambush someone with it later. Just from our point of view. We are still building our relationship - we didn't properly start coupling up until May 16 - but the swinging fun is a lovely enhancement. Best of luck! Mrs P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on both traditional dating sites and on here (obviously!!). I'd be open to a relationship from here if I met the right person but majority guys/girls look for NSA fun on here - nature of the site I guess. Vanilla is a bit of a let down tho so hard to find sexually compatible elsewhere...or is it just more openly spoken about on here? |
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My profile very openly says that I'm looking for a swinging relationship, but so far my experience is telling me that not many women are interested in the same thing.
But it only takes one person to feel the same way so I'll keep on searching  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why wouldn't you look on a swinging website for a partner who is into swinging?
From experience. There doesn't seem to be many ladies on here looking for that. I could be wrong or just butt ugly and they aren't interested who knows. X "
the last 2 relationships I have had were with people from here...
obviously they started out as just meets so maybe not look too hard lol
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Just say you're open to it in your profile here.
I intermittently say the same thing but then sometimes take it down after I get disillusioned. Like a few weeks ago someone I'd had one dinner date with losing it because I told him I was meeting someone else. Not everyone gets it!
I live in hope that the right sexually and life compatible man for a relationship with trust honesty and respect is there for me but it's bloody hard going! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My profile very openly says that I'm looking for a swinging relationship, but so far my experience is telling me that not many women are interested in the same thing.
But it only takes one person to feel the same way so I'll keep on searching "
I met S through a normal dating website. He didn't mention swinging on his profile but told me about it soon after we started seeing each other.
I'd never done anything like this before, so I took a bit of time to think about it and talk about it with him, and found the idea quite exciting. So I said I wanted to try... And here we are now!
So keep looking OP, you're not asking for something impossible. |
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The only thing I'd say op is that you state in your profile that you're already one half of a swinging couple - so I'd imagine most would assume you're already in a relationship - and single women looking for a relationship probably wouldn't meet you with anything in mind other than NSA sex. |
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"The only thing I'd say op is that you state in your profile that you're already one half of a swinging couple - so I'd imagine most would assume you're already in a relationship - and single women looking for a relationship probably wouldn't meet you with anything in mind other than NSA sex. "
Oh didn't see that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why wouldn't you look on a swinging website for a partner who is into swinging?
From experience. There doesn't seem to be many ladies on here looking for that. I could be wrong or just butt ugly and they aren't interested who knows. X "
For me thats a great idea. I dont know if i could ever be monogomous again after having been on fab a while but someone who is open minded and wants more than just a fuck now and again appeals to me also and i think quite a few men and women on this site. But I think its difficult to find.
Hope you find someone, good luck |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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the only relationship id consider is from here or a 'kink' site . most want you to be exclusive to them straight away though, and i'm like, i'm not giving up my other lovers for you..not from the beginning...sorry, no deal... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the only relationship id consider is from here or a 'kink' site . most want you to be exclusive to them straight away though, and i'm like, i'm not giving up my other lovers for you..not from the beginning...sorry, no deal..."
Easier for ladies on here I expect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The only thing I'd say op is that you state in your profile that you're already one half of a swinging couple - so I'd imagine most would assume you're already in a relationship - and single women looking for a relationship probably wouldn't meet you with anything in mind other than NSA sex. "
Yes. We do meet up now and again but she has moved away so only play once in a blue moon now. And normally with other couples as she is greedy lol
Looking for something more permanentish closer to me. |
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"The only thing I'd say op is that you state in your profile that you're already one half of a swinging couple - so I'd imagine most would assume you're already in a relationship - and single women looking for a relationship probably wouldn't meet you with anything in mind other than NSA sex.
Yes. We do meet up now and again but she has moved away so only play once in a blue moon now. And normally with other couples as she is greedy lol
Looking for something more permanentish closer to me. "
Without trying to upset Pebbles in any way - as I'm sure she's lovely - if you're serious about looking for a 'real' swinging relationship then I'd suggest you remove the reference to your couples profile from your single profile!
I'm sure there are many single females on fab, myself included, who'd be happy to meet someone special on here - but upon reading your profile they'd be likely to assume you're in a relationship already and therefore wouldn't consider anything other than a one-off with you!
Oh - and you look far from ugly in your pics - you look very nice! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The only thing I'd say op is that you state in your profile that you're already one half of a swinging couple - so I'd imagine most would assume you're already in a relationship - and single women looking for a relationship probably wouldn't meet you with anything in mind other than NSA sex.
Yes. We do meet up now and again but she has moved away so only play once in a blue moon now. And normally with other couples as she is greedy lol
Looking for something more permanentish closer to me.
Without trying to upset Pebbles in any way - as I'm sure she's lovely - if you're serious about looking for a 'real' swinging relationship then I'd suggest you remove the reference to your couples profile from your single profile!
I'm sure there are many single females on fab, myself included, who'd be happy to meet someone special on here - but upon reading your profile they'd be likely to assume you're in a relationship already and therefore wouldn't consider anything other than a one-off with you!
Oh - and you look far from ugly in your pics - you look very nice! "
Lol. Thanks. We still play but distance has made it less now. I've heeded your advice. Thanks x |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"the only relationship id consider is from here or a 'kink' site . most want you to be exclusive to them straight away though, and i'm like, i'm not giving up my other lovers for you..not from the beginning...sorry, no deal...
Easier for ladies on here I expect. "
really? its the guys who want nsa most of the time..ive heard alot of women on here are only on here till they find the right relationship..im on here cos i like the way i live my life, its not a stop gap for me... if someone comes along, i'm not adverse, but im not looking for a relationship. i still want to like the way, i live my life, that is a big ask, which is why i am content the way i am, for now x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That Fish dating place is diabolical. Rude people and stuck up own arses.
I'm still looking. Lol x I left it too"
Good choice. Must be better places. If only there was a site like here where you could find someone into swinging too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"the only relationship id consider is from here or a 'kink' site . most want you to be exclusive to them straight away though, and i'm like, i'm not giving up my other lovers for you..not from the beginning...sorry, no deal...
Easier for ladies on here I expect. really? its the guys who want nsa most of the time..ive heard alot of women on here are only on here till they find the right relationship..im on here cos i like the way i live my life, its not a stop gap for me... if someone comes along, i'm not adverse, but im not looking for a relationship. i still want to like the way, i live my life, that is a big ask, which is why i am content the way i am, for now x"
You sound perfect lol |
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My husband and I met on pof. True romantic relationship. He did tell me about his love of swinging in first or second date. Not my thing but after discussions we tried it a couple of weeks later, and we now attend clubs most weeks when work allows. Happy in marriage and happy to share sex with others |
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