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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Why so people cancel a meet because oh no so busy, dad's cats died or some other excuse and then get verified by that day...

Is it eggs in basket

Oe

Disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Move on pal, not worth worrying about

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow

Clearly wanted to bang someone else don't take it personal

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Clearly wanted to bang someone else don't take it personal "

tell him like it is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nature of the site I'm afraid. Everyone gets cancelled on at some point. Just dust yourself off OP, and move on to the next one

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's annoying but try not to let it worry you. In some ways it could be considered disrespectful, especially if a meet had been arranged but then again it's nsa sex.....no strings.

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"Clearly wanted to bang someone else don't take it personal

tell him like it is"

No point sugar coating it, this ain't match dot com

People are mostly here for nsa or uncomplicated liaisons so don't take it personal as someday you will do the same and change your mind and the shoe will be on the other foot

As angel said, don't let it hit your pride move on and find someone else who floats yer boat mutually

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol

Its the name of the game on here...

I have double booked a meet a few times due to thinking one or both are messers and I wanted a night out.....

If both are genuine then it becomes awkward x sounds like thats what happened to you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was once cancelled because her living room wall had fallen down. Ladies if you're gonna cancel make it believable

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"I was once cancelled because her living room wall had fallen down. Ladies if you're gonna cancel make it believable "

Ha ha that's so lame it's probably true

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Clearly wanted to bang someone else don't take it personal

tell him like it is

No point sugar coating it, this ain't match dot com

People are mostly here for nsa or uncomplicated liaisons so don't take it personal as someday you will do the same and change your mind and the shoe will be on the other foot

As angel said, don't let it hit your pride move on and find someone else who floats yer boat mutually "

I got stood up off match

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"Its the name of the game on here...

I have double booked a meet a few times due to thinking one or both are messers and I wanted a night out.....

If both are genuine then it becomes awkward x sounds like thats what happened to you "

Chrissy!! shame hedging yer bets lol

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By *ynecplCouple  over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Clearly got a better off, not worth getting worked up about. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very disrespectful. Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was once cancelled because her living room wall had fallen down. Ladies if you're gonna cancel make it believable "

*makes a note*

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"Clearly wanted to bang someone else don't take it personal

tell him like it is

No point sugar coating it, this ain't match dot com

People are mostly here for nsa or uncomplicated liaisons so don't take it personal as someday you will do the same and change your mind and the shoe will be on the other foot

As angel said, don't let it hit your pride move on and find someone else who floats yer boat mutually

I got stood up off match "

See lol and you pay a higher subscription for that!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was once cancelled because her living room wall had fallen down. Ladies if you're gonna cancel make it believable "

Oh no! The more outlandish, the more believable it is! It has them thinking ' surely she can't be lying about that!'

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Clearly wanted to bang someone else don't take it personal "

Here's my issue whilst I understand what's the need for immature b/s and lies

Man up and say sorry got a better offer - I would

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"I was once cancelled because her living room wall had fallen down. Ladies if you're gonna cancel make it believable

Oh no! The more outlandish, the more believable it is! It has them thinking ' surely she can't be lying about that!' "

Lol all these devious people

I was abducted by aliens...!!! Oh yeah that's why Paul the Alien just verified you the same night... hope you enjoyed the anal probe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Clearly wanted to bang someone else don't take it personal

tell him like it is

No point sugar coating it, this ain't match dot com

People are mostly here for nsa or uncomplicated liaisons so don't take it personal as someday you will do the same and change your mind and the shoe will be on the other foot

As angel said, don't let it hit your pride move on and find someone else who floats yer boat mutually

I got stood up off match

See lol and you pay a higher subscription for that!!"

Don't remind me!

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"Clearly wanted to bang someone else don't take it personal

Here's my issue whilst I understand what's the need for immature b/s and lies

Man up and say sorry got a better offer - I would "

Totally get that bro, same here. I pmd a couple once, were chatting and then I offered to come round she just said sorry there isn't an attraction. I said cool no worries happy fabbing. It's no drama

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I was once cancelled because her living room wall had fallen down. Ladies if you're gonna cancel make it believable

Oh no! The more outlandish, the more believable it is! It has them thinking ' surely she can't be lying about that!' "

Have to say that trump's my best cancellation excuse

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow

It's tough to put your personality and attractiveness over this type of site.

Best thing I've found is mingling on forums and going to clubs. Still can't beat meeting in real life

Make loads new connections with people that probably wouldn't look twice in profiles

Keep yer chin and yer boaby up my friend

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was once cancelled because her living room wall had fallen down. Ladies if you're gonna cancel make it believable

Oh no! The more outlandish, the more believable it is! It has them thinking ' surely she can't be lying about that!'

Lol all these devious people

I was abducted by aliens...!!! Oh yeah that's why Paul the Alien just verified you the same night... hope you enjoyed the anal probe "

Hahahaha

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"Its the name of the game on here...

I have double booked a meet a few times due to thinking one or both are messers and I wanted a night out.....

If both are genuine then it becomes awkward x sounds like thats what happened to you

Chrissy!! shame hedging yer bets lol "

I blame the messers!!

My nights out are few and far between, I get a lot of offers but just as many messers.

don't hate the player

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"Its the name of the game on here...

I have double booked a meet a few times due to thinking one or both are messers and I wanted a night out.....

If both are genuine then it becomes awkward x sounds like thats what happened to you

Chrissy!! shame hedging yer bets lol

I blame the messers!!

My nights out are few and far between, I get a lot of offers but just as many messers.

don't hate the player "

Away in the corner and have a word with yer self

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow

Besides if they both turned up you should just joined them in the party ! Wahey

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's bloody rude, and something we have no time for, and wouldn't dream of doing. But if they must cancel due to a better offer then the least they can do is make sure you don't find out.

Mrs

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"Its the name of the game on here...

I have double booked a meet a few times due to thinking one or both are messers and I wanted a night out.....

If both are genuine then it becomes awkward x sounds like thats what happened to you

Chrissy!! shame hedging yer bets lol

I blame the messers!!

My nights out are few and far between, I get a lot of offers but just as many messers.

don't hate the player

Away in the corner and have a word with yer self "

Your right I am just a bad person... Wanna fuck? lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It happens. I don't know why, cold feet sometimes or pure fakery. I just make a cuppa and enjoy my evening, there'll be other days and other men.

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"Its the name of the game on here...

I have double booked a meet a few times due to thinking one or both are messers and I wanted a night out.....

If both are genuine then it becomes awkward x sounds like thats what happened to you

Chrissy!! shame hedging yer bets lol

I blame the messers!!

My nights out are few and far between, I get a lot of offers but just as many messers.

don't hate the player

Away in the corner and have a word with yer self

Your right I am just a bad person... Wanna fuck? lol"

lol I'm sure you're a nice person... if I was that way inclined I might have climbed the ladder in yer tights!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Like others have said just move on.

Some times life happens and things come up so you have to cancel plans but I'm pretty sure you will know the genuine ones.

Just don't have a go like someone did to me for having 2 meets in 1 day looking at my veris. It was not really like that but one took a week to write it!

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"Like others have said just move on.

Some times life happens and things come up so you have to cancel plans but I'm pretty sure you will know the genuine ones.

Just don't have a go like someone did to me for having 2 meets in 1 day looking at my veris. It was not really like that but one took a week to write it! "

So what if you did have two meets in one day? Nobodies business, could've been a gangbang in installments

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Like others have said just move on.

Some times life happens and things come up so you have to cancel plans but I'm pretty sure you will know the genuine ones.

Just don't have a go like someone did to me for having 2 meets in 1 day looking at my veris. It was not really like that but one took a week to write it!

So what if you did have two meets in one day? Nobodies business, could've been a gangbang in installments "

That's true but sounded so silly coming from him! I wouldn't have minded as much if I actually had that much fun in a day

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"Like others have said just move on.

Some times life happens and things come up so you have to cancel plans but I'm pretty sure you will know the genuine ones.

Just don't have a go like someone did to me for having 2 meets in 1 day looking at my veris. It was not really like that but one took a week to write it!

So what if you did have two meets in one day? Nobodies business, could've been a gangbang in installments

That's true but sounded so silly coming from him! I wouldn't have minded as much if I actually had that much fun in a day "

He was just butt hurt you should said it was a 10 guy gangbang and each one was ahead of him in the pretence queue. Dry yer eyes son and man up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was once cancelled because her living room wall had fallen down. Ladies if you're gonna cancel make it believable

Oh no! The more outlandish, the more believable it is! It has them thinking ' surely she can't be lying about that!' "

Poor woman had the generosity to let me know while surrounded in bricks and plaster.

I did message her about a year after asking how her wall is now and she asked if I was taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP, as you say it's either a basket case or they are discrespectul, in both cases I'd block them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why so people cancel a meet because oh no so busy, dad's cats died or some other excuse and then get verified by that day...

Is it eggs in basket

Oe

Disrespectful. "

Could be that the verification was left that day but from a meet a few days earlier. or they said about meeting to 2 different people not thinking both would say yes. Should of been honest though but maybe they thought they were being nice. Happens a lot even to couples as said before suck it up and don't let it worry you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why so people cancel a meet because oh no so busy, dad's cats died or some other excuse and then get verified by that day...

Is it eggs in basket

Oe

Disrespectful. "

At least they let you know rather than just not turning up. To be honest I'd rather women cancelled, if they are not really interested, than just turned up and went through the motions. At least they are not wasting my time...

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