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The single man Part Dos

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As the last post seemed popular (gulp) I thought I'd go for round 2. Only this time, I'll try to be a little more positive.

I don't hate single guys.. I am one and I've been guilty of most things I pointed out.. In my past, at some point. I didn't even realise what I was doing till it was pointed out to me.

So I'm a long way from great or experienced in this.. But how about we all write down one tip. I could do with someone telling me what to write on my profile! To help a genuine single guy to get what he craves?

I bet it applies to all of us.. Male, female, bi, straight or fluid, coupled or not.

My tip is..

* Use the forums occasionally, not just to intro yourself. Join in other topics, sexy or not. It'll help you get talking to people and get an inkling of their personality.

Anyone got another tip? Don't leave me hanging.. (please don't let it be "The OP is clearly a jealous, whining, white KNIGHTING fuck face!)

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Read more than you write.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Read more than you write."

I feel like I could benefit from that one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As the last post seemed popular (gulp) I thought I'd go for round 2. Only this time, I'll try to be a little more positive.

I don't hate single guys.. I am one and I've been guilty of most things I pointed out.. In my past, at some point. I didn't even realise what I was doing till it was pointed out to me.

I bet it applies to all of us.. Male, female, bi, straight or fluid, coupled or not.

My tip is..

* Use the forums occasionally, not just to intro yourself. Join in other topics, sexy or not. It'll help you get talking to people and get an inkling of their personality.

Anyone got another tip? Don't leave me hanging.. (please don't let it be "The OP is clearly a jealous, whining, white KNIGHTING fuck face!) "

Can say I don't believe this is white knighting this time

My first tip would be to do exactly as you have just done, honest and sincere.

Being honest and sincere will get you further than most other traits IMO.

My second tip would be to loose all expectations of this site and swinging.

Expectations can breed dissapointment and bitterness when unfulfilled or not reciprocated.

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By *eliz NelsonMan over a year ago

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"As the last post seemed popular (gulp) I thought I'd go for round 2. Only this time, I'll try to be a little more positive.

I don't hate single guys.. I am one and I've been guilty of most things I pointed out.. In my past, at some point. I didn't even realise what I was doing till it was pointed out to me.

I bet it applies to all of us.. Male, female, bi, straight or fluid, coupled or not.

My tip is..

* Use the forums occasionally, not just to intro yourself. Join in other topics, sexy or not. It'll help you get talking to people and get an inkling of their personality.

Anyone got another tip? Don't leave me hanging.. (please don't let it be "The OP is clearly a jealous, whining, white KNIGHTING fuck face!)

Can say I don't believe this is white knighting this time

My first tip would be to do exactly as you have just done, honest and sincere.

Being honest and sincere will get you further than most other traits IMO.

My second tip would be to loose all expectations of this site and swinging.

Expectations can breed dissapointment and bitterness when unfulfilled or not reciprocated."

Plus, you will never get an inkling of someones personality from the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As the last post seemed popular (gulp) I thought I'd go for round 2. Only this time, I'll try to be a little more positive.

I don't hate single guys.. I am one and I've been guilty of most things I pointed out.. In my past, at some point. I didn't even realise what I was doing till it was pointed out to me.

I bet it applies to all of us.. Male, female, bi, straight or fluid, coupled or not.

My tip is..

* Use the forums occasionally, not just to intro yourself. Join in other topics, sexy or not. It'll help you get talking to people and get an inkling of their personality.

Anyone got another tip? Don't leave me hanging.. (please don't let it be "The OP is clearly a jealous, whining, white KNIGHTING fuck face!)

Can say I don't believe this is white knighting this time

My first tip would be to do exactly as you have just done, honest and sincere.

Being honest and sincere will get you further than most other traits IMO.

My second tip would be to loose all expectations of this site and swinging.

Expectations can breed dissapointment and bitterness when unfulfilled or not reciprocated."

Definitely definitely guilty of that.. Everyday still lmfao

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As the last post seemed popular (gulp) I thought I'd go for round 2. Only this time, I'll try to be a little more positive.

I don't hate single guys.. I am one and I've been guilty of most things I pointed out.. In my past, at some point. I didn't even realise what I was doing till it was pointed out to me.

I bet it applies to all of us.. Male, female, bi, straight or fluid, coupled or not.

My tip is..

* Use the forums occasionally, not just to intro yourself. Join in other topics, sexy or not. It'll help you get talking to people and get an inkling of their personality.

Anyone got another tip? Don't leave me hanging.. (please don't let it be "The OP is clearly a jealous, whining, white KNIGHTING fuck face!)

Can say I don't believe this is white knighting this time

My first tip would be to do exactly as you have just done, honest and sincere.

Being honest and sincere will get you further than most other traits IMO.

My second tip would be to loose all expectations of this site and swinging.

Expectations can breed dissapointment and bitterness when unfulfilled or not reciprocated.

Plus, you will never get an inkling of someones personality from the forums"

I sense you have a playful personality?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't believe you should make rules on how single men should act in the forum. Be yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't believe you should make rules on how single men should act in the forum. Be yourself"

Tips.. Not rules.. Don't misread it. I agree with you if it's rules.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't believe you should make rules on how single men should act in the forum. Be yourself

Tips.. Not rules.. Don't misread it. I agree with you if it's rules. "
tips also.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't believe you should make rules on how single men should act in the forum. Be yourself"

Definitely agree "be yourself" Even if you're an Eastern diamondbacks Tibetan yeti...youll be found out in the end.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Before you decide to write a message to anyone, read their profile, and then read it again to make sure you fully understand what THEY are looking for.

If you don't match up, don't message them, as the reply will often offend.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Before you decide to write a message to anyone, read their profile, and then read it again to make sure you fully understand what THEY are looking for.

If you don't match up, don't message them, as the reply will often offend.

If you get offended by someone not matching what you're looking for messaging you, then you must be offended away from fab alot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not me who gets offended, it's the pricks that message without even bothering to read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not me who gets offended, it's the pricks that message without even bothering to read our profile.

"
abit harsh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Liam... wanna swap profiles for a day?

See if it's a bit harsh after you get the retards messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Liam... wanna swap profiles for a day?

See if it's a bit harsh after you get the retards messaging you.

No thanks, take the stick out your arse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well that's original eh!

Just like 90% of the idiots on here, nothing better to do but try and insult people? I must try that sometime!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well that's original eh!

Just like 90% of the idiots on here, nothing better to do but try and insult people? I must try that sometime! "

Read your past posts. Nutters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very polite young man... Enoder why you have to hide your profile? You can't be THAT ugly surely??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Very polite young man... Enoder why you have to hide your profile? You can't be THAT ugly surely??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our 2 tips are for guys contacting couples: keep in mind when writing your message that you're contacting both people, not just the female half.

And:

Couples aren't a back up option if you're unable to get meets with single women.

We wouldn't want to go into any more detail. We're not into guy bashing threads. We've had great meets with single guys.

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