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By *alt Pepper OP Couple
over a year ago
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We have always wondered if there was someway of letting others know we are swingers when out on the town but discreetly. We have read that wearing a black ring on your right hand is used, has anyone else heard of this or know of it. |
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over a year ago
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The thing with anything like this, is it starts off as a secret message and then gets out in to the public domain and then average Joe public find out and before you know it your iota pub and everyone is gossiping about you because you have a black ring on
We will stick to swinging for swinging and vanilla for vanilla |
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over a year ago
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ive always found looking longingly at your friends wifes tits with your tongue hanging out and drooling can sometimes let them know your into swinging....there can also be side affects to this approach |
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By *uffnsmovCouple
over a year ago
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"We have always wondered if there was someway of letting others know we are swingers when out on the town but discreetly. We have read that wearing a black ring on your right hand is used, has anyone else heard of this or know of it. "
Me and SWMBO have just bought black rings as a commitment gesture. ...I had no idea about this |
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"We have always wondered if there was someway of letting others know we are swingers when out on the town but discreetly. We have read that wearing a black ring on your right hand is used, has anyone else heard of this or know of it. "
Ah, the secret sign again.
I think you will find that most swingers prefer discretion. Wearing some sort of sign would destroy that discretion.
We swing. But only with people we want to swing with. We don't want to be approached by strangers in the street. |
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"We have always wondered if there was someway of letting others know we are swingers when out on the town but discreetly. We have read that wearing a black ring on your right hand is used, has anyone else heard of this or know of it.
Ah, the secret sign again.
I think you will find that most swingers prefer discretion. Wearing some sort of sign would destroy that discretion.
We swing. But only with people we want to swing with. We don't want to be approached by strangers in the street."
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I remember hearing on a radio chat show, that having a blue ornament in your window, was a sign you are a swinger.
According to a friend having a shaven pussy, is a dead give away you are a swinger as well. |
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"I remember hearing on a radio chat show, that having a blue ornament in your window, was a sign you are a swinger.
According to a friend having a shaven pussy, is a dead give away you are a swinger as well. "
If you display a shaven pussy in your window, the RSPCA will come knocking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Go up to the nearest people you find attractive and say "fancy a fuck", but do so discreetly.
That appears to answer the query you posted within your contraints.
Sorry I was being flippant above. I've heard of the black ring thing, and I do often go into town and think - are those people swingers. The failing here is even if I was in town and looking for swingers I'd just assume the people were wearing the black rings because they liked the jewlery, rather than being swingers.
So I think my first jokey suggestion is still more sensible |
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