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"Did he not just join in to help . X " Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss | |||
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"Just came so close to being caught taking naked selfies by my husband....that would of been difficult to explain ! Just made me curious if anyone else on here has ever been caught out ? " Just tell him your here then he will know so may offer to help | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss" Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying  off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now... | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now..."Pork bloody scratchings | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now..."My thoughts, but keeping my mouth shut  | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...
My thoughts, but keeping my mouth shut "Well I'd keep my mouth shut to but I've got 2 pieces of pork scratchings in my gob  | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now..."He would effectively be committing fabicide and be hounded from the forums but angry locals with pitch forks  | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...
He would effectively be committing fabicide and be hounded from the forums but angry locals with pitch forks "Do you think,we couldn't possibly comment  | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now..."I thought this too. Please may I share your pork scratchingstrips?  xx | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...
I thought this too. Please may I share your pork scratchingstrips? xx"Course you can they are slightly different to pork scratchings and not as nice  | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...
I thought this too. Please may I share your pork scratchingstrips? xx
Course you can they are slightly different to pork scratchings and not as nice "Variety is the spice of life!!xx | |||
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Couldn't possibly tell my husband I'm on here, that would be suicide | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...
I thought this too. Please may I share your pork scratchingstrips? xx
Course you can they are slightly different to pork scratchings and not as nice
Variety is the spice of life!!xx"Oh yes | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...
I thought this too. Please may I share your pork scratchingstrips? xx
Course you can they are slightly different to pork scratchings and not as nice
Variety is the spice of life!!xx
Oh yes "Mmmm, pork scratchingstrips.... Sound like some sort of Chinglish product... | |||
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"Did he not just join in to help . X Not if he doesnt know about fab Miss Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now..."It's alright, it's women, it's all good | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. " Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say | |||
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"So pleased I'm not the only naughty one
Couldn't possibly tell my husband I'm on here, that would be suicide "Suicide? You mean financial suicide? But surely, you'd get to walk away with half his stuff anyway. | |||
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"So pleased I'm not the only naughty one
Couldn't possibly tell my husband I'm on here, that would be suicide
Suicide? You mean financial suicide? But surely, you'd get to walk away with half his stuff anyway."Where exactly does finances come into any of this ? | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say "true . If I was your partner, I would openly encourage you to seek out guys hehe | |||
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"I was playing with a married lady and her husband came home. I hid in the front room and she took him out back to show him something and I slipped out the front door. Fuck my heart was in my throat! Lol" Oh that's a bit close for comfort ! Bet it got the adrenaline flowing | |||
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"So pleased I'm not the only naughty one
Couldn't possibly tell my husband I'm on here, that would be suicide
Suicide? You mean financial suicide? But surely, you'd get to walk away with half his stuff anyway."Why would a woman commit financial suicide leaving a man? Some of us earn more than our partners | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say "Absolutely  it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it. | |||
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"So pleased I'm not the only naughty one
Couldn't possibly tell my husband I'm on here, that would be suicide
Suicide? You mean financial suicide? But surely, you'd get to walk away with half his stuff anyway.
Why would a woman commit financial suicide leaving a man? Some of us earn more than our partners " | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say "I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same . | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same . "I can guarantee you he isn't | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it."I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much. | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .
I can guarantee you he isn't "So long as he's happy | |||
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"Would be good if he was, and I'm sure you'd support him." It would be good if he was, I'd love nothing more than to do swinging with my huband. My life would then be about perfect | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.
I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much."So why are you here cheating then highlighting the fact on a forum? | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.
I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much."Are you for real? | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .
I can guarantee you he isn't
So long as he's happy "He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family | |||
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"This has to be a wind up" Why? | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .
I can guarantee you he isn't
So long as he's happy
He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family "Would he be extremely happy if he knew you were on here,just thinking out loud... | |||
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"Why do I feel a little uncomfortable reading this!" because it doesn't make great reading,it does however make a change to guy's starting these type of thread's. | |||
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"You have good reason to feel uncomfortable. But I do think it's a wind up" You've lost me now lol | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.
I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much.
So why are you here cheating then highlighting the fact on a forum? "and you love him so much you're cheating   | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.
I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much."I think if you love him very much, then why cheat on him. Cuz at the end of the day, no matter how you try to gloss this up, that is exactly what you are doing. And it isn't just you, lots of singles are on here under false pretences. You need to decide which side of the toast you want buttered. Play with fire and you will one day get burnt. Sorry if you don't like this response, but getting nearly caught and posting about it, is probably not a good idea. Xx | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .
I can guarantee you he isn't
So long as he's happy
He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family
Would he be extremely happy if he knew you were on here,just thinking out loud..."But he doesn't know so he is happy. Everyone's a winner | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.
I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much."Ok, I can understand that, I just can't reconcile it with enjoying nearly being caught and the thrill of the deceit - that aspect has never done anything for me whatsoever. | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.
I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much.
I think if you love him very much, then why cheat on him. Cuz at the end of the day, no matter how you try to gloss this up, that is exactly what you are doing.
And it isn't just you, lots of singles are on here under false pretences.
You need to decide which side of the toast you want buttered.
Play with fire and you will one day get burnt. Sorry if you don't like this response, but getting nearly caught and posting about it, is probably not a good idea. Xx"Thanks for your concern but my marriage is fantastic. Everyone is happy | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.
I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much.
Ok, I can understand that, I just can't reconcile it with enjoying nearly being caught and the thrill of the deceit - that aspect has never done anything for me whatsoever. "Each to their own | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.
I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much.
Ok, I can understand that, I just can't reconcile it with enjoying nearly being caught and the thrill of the deceit - that aspect has never done anything for me whatsoever.
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"Assuming this isn't a 'look at me, look at me' post, consider, for one moment, the fallout from discovery because one day you will slip up and get caught. See how far the professed 'love' gets you then." If that ever happens, though I seriously doubt it will, then I would deal with the consequences. | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .
I can guarantee you he isn't
So long as he's happy
He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family
Would he be extremely happy if he knew you were on here,just thinking out loud...
But he doesn't know so he is happy. Everyone's a winner "Thing's sometimes have a tendency to come out unfortunately,maybe you are oblivious to your husband's shagging like he is to yours. Maybe just maybe he's watching right now | |||
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OP your choice what you do and the risks you take as it is your marriage. | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.
I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much.
So why are you here cheating then highlighting the fact on a forum?
and you love him so much you're cheating "Oh if only life was as black and white as that, it would be easy | |||
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"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion. Best plan for the 'dealing with it'." You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money. | |||
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"This thread looks as though its gonna be a good one. Think im gonna sit and watch for gits and shiggles
OP your choice what you do and the risks you take as it is your marriage."Very well said. Life isn't black and white. Everyone has their own reasons for actions they take in life. | |||
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"I've never been caught out , but would love to see the selfies in question "
I don't have a husband lol! | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast "Think mine could be a 1 hour roasting | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast
Think mine could be a 1 hour roasting "That's the spirit just make sure it's at a hidden location lol | |||
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"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion. Best plan for the 'dealing with it'. You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money. " It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial. | |||
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"Assuming this isn't a 'look at me, look at me' post, consider, for one moment, the fallout from discovery because one day you will slip up and get caught. See how far the professed 'love' gets you then. If that ever happens, though I seriously doubt it will, then I would deal with the consequences. "The false optimism of doubting g you'll ever be caught is somewhat contradicted by your original post detailing how you were almost caught   | |||
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"Life isn't black and white. Everyone has their own reasons for actions they take in life. " True, but you'll find on here that a lot of people will try to dictate to everyone based on their own experience, making the assumption that no other experience, scenario or relationship could possibly exist. | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .
I can guarantee you he isn't
So long as he's happy
He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family
Would he be extremely happy if he knew you were on here,just thinking out loud...
But he doesn't know so he is happy. Everyone's a winner
Thing's sometimes have a tendency to come out unfortunately,maybe you are oblivious to your husband's shagging like he is to yours. Maybe just maybe he's watching right now "Well if he is, I hope he's having as much fun as I am. We could then swing together as man and wife. That would've even better | |||
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"Life isn't black and white. Everyone has their own reasons for actions they take in life. True, but you'll find on here that a lot of people will try to dictate to everyone based on their own experience, making the assumption that no other experience, scenario or relationship could possibly exist. " Very true....and that is called narrow mindedness | |||
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"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion. Best plan for the 'dealing with it'. You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money. It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial." Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails? | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast "true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes "Is it? | |||
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"Assuming this isn't a 'look at me, look at me' post, consider, for one moment, the fallout from discovery because one day you will slip up and get caught. See how far the professed 'love' gets you then. If that ever happens, though I seriously doubt it will, then I would deal with the consequences.
The false optimism of doubting g you'll ever be caught is somewhat contradicted by your original post detailing how you were almost caught "Caught taking selfies though , not with another man. Huge difference | |||
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"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment? And no, I haven't. Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white. Live and let live is what I say
I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .
I can guarantee you he isn't
So long as he's happy
He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family
Would he be extremely happy if he knew you were on here,just thinking out loud...
But he doesn't know so he is happy. Everyone's a winner
Thing's sometimes have a tendency to come out unfortunately,maybe you are oblivious to your husband's shagging like he is to yours. Maybe just maybe he's watching right now
Well if he is, I hope he's having as much fun as I am. We could then swing together as man and wife. That would've even better " | |||
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"This has to be a wind up" Why does it have to be a wind up? I meet a lady regularly from the site, she loves her husband, but loves the "illicit" enjoyment that our meeting bring. Everyone has the right to enjoy themselves in whatever way suits them. Live and let live. | |||
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"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion. Best plan for the 'dealing with it'." So, how many cheating relationships have you been in? I'm assuming that you have experience, otherwise how can you give an explanation, give advice and provide a judgement on what is right, wrong and best? | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes
Is it?"yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol | |||
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"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion. Best plan for the 'dealing with it'. You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money. It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial. Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails?" I wouldn't have put it like that no. It could be financial suicide for both of them. In the OP's case, given the plethora of verifications, she does seem to have quite a bit of time on her hands for meeting. I would bet that the meets are predominantly daytimes too. | |||
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"Assuming this isn't a 'look at me, look at me' post, consider, for one moment, the fallout from discovery because one day you will slip up and get caught. See how far the professed 'love' gets you then. If that ever happens, though I seriously doubt it will, then I would deal with the consequences.
The false optimism of doubting g you'll ever be caught is somewhat contradicted by your original post detailing how you were almost caught
Caught taking selfies though , not with another man. Huge difference"Well maybe your husband is stupid/gullible enough to not find anything odd about his wife taking naked selfies not for his benefit. Do you seriously believe that the only way you can be caught is if he catches you with another man? | |||
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"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion. Best plan for the 'dealing with it'. You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money. It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial. Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails? I wouldn't have put it like that no. It could be financial suicide for both of them. In the OP's case, given the plethora of verifications, she does seem to have quite a bit of time on her hands for meeting. I would bet that the meets are predominantly daytimes too. " More assumptions. I hate to break it to you but it's not 1956 any more. Some women actually earn their own money. | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast "Not entirely true. It's the whiners and those asking for forgiveness and support that get blasted. | |||
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"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion. Best plan for the 'dealing with it'. So, how many cheating relationships have you been in? I'm assuming that you have experience, otherwise how can you give an explanation, give advice and provide a judgement on what is right, wrong and best? " All I'm saying is best not assume that you'll never be caught. Best to think what being caught would actually be like and then consider the decision to cheat again. | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes
Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol"That's an insightful observation then | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes
Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol
That's an insightful observation then "yes, bow to my superior intellect | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes
Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol"You missed out other cheaters getting annoyed by comments that weren't directed at them | |||
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"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion. Best plan for the 'dealing with it'. You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money. It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial. Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails? I wouldn't have put it like that no. It could be financial suicide for both of them. In the OP's case, given the plethora of verifications, she does seem to have quite a bit of time on her hands for meeting. I would bet that the meets are predominantly daytimes too. More assumptions. I hate to break it to you but it's not 1956 any more. Some women actually earn their own money. " Thanks for 'breaking it' to me. | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast
Think mine could be a 1 hour roasting
That's the spirit just make sure it's at a hidden location lol " | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes
Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol
You missed out other cheaters getting annoyed by comments that weren't directed at them"Getting annoyed? Or just not agreeing with what those comments said. | |||
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"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion. Best plan for the 'dealing with it'. You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money. It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial. Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails? I wouldn't have put it like that no. It could be financial suicide for both of them. In the OP's case, given the plethora of verifications, she does seem to have quite a bit of time on her hands for meeting. I would bet that the meets are predominantly daytimes too. More assumptions. I hate to break it to you but it's not 1956 any more. Some women actually earn their own money. Thanks for 'breaking it' to me." You're welcome. | |||
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"Lines being drawn in the sand, sides being taken, this could prove eventful "My thoughts too
I predict 3 sides, those with the OP (including 'knights' in shining armour), those not with OP (including those who mention what if a guy posted) & those sitting on the fance as its the OPs choice (including those like me in it just for gits and shiggles ) | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast
Not entirely true.
It's the whiners and those asking for forgiveness and support that get blasted. " invariably this is the reason why cheating men get such a hard time, it's almost always self inflicted due to the nature of their posts. | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes
Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol
You missed out other cheaters getting annoyed by comments that weren't directed at them"If hypothetically speaking, a person points out that someone else is talking bullshit based on zero relevant experience, would that be allowed? | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes
Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol"Sorry, I'm confused. Are the people in the middle cheaters or not? You've generalised thread respondents into two (mutually exclusive) groups, then added to third group. | |||
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"Lines being drawn in the sand, sides being taken, this could prove eventful
My thoughts too
I predict 3 sides, those with the OP (including 'knights' in shining armour), those not with OP (including those who mention what if a guy posted) & those sitting on the fance as its the OPs choice (including those like me in it just for gits and shiggles )"Got that slightly wrong for me dude I mentioned what if a dude said it and I don't give a shit what other people do. I'm here for a laugh | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes
Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol
You missed out other cheaters getting annoyed by comments that weren't directed at them
Getting annoyed? Or just not agreeing with what those comments said."On this thread generally the latter. But in the context of cheating threads and 'how they always go' there is often someone that get way more defensive/aggressive than the OP because a nerve has been touched | |||
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"My only response to this would be to ask for more open mindedness. Quite often there are things going on in the background. Life isn't black and white, all multiple shades of grey. Everyone has different reasons for being here, fab appears to be a broad church and as such no-one should be going all morals and ethics. If the OP is caught then that is for her to deal with but there is that old saying about walking in other people's shoes... I just say fab on "Exactly everyone walks their own road. Just concern yourself with your own journey and choose who you meet on the way | |||
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"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion. Best plan for the 'dealing with it'. You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money. It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial. Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails? I wouldn't have put it like that no. It could be financial suicide for both of them. In the OP's case, given the plethora of verifications, she does seem to have quite a bit of time on her hands for meeting. I would bet that the meets are predominantly daytimes too. " Maybe she works nights or her hubby does. we both work long hours and they don't always coincide. Doesn't mean one of us isn't working | |||
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"I have nearly been caught by someone's husband...." Tell us more...... | |||
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"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why! "Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men | |||
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"Well that was an interesting read, thank you everyone for your input, but not many people answered my question about being caught, which actually was what this thread was meant to be about, but it seemed to go off on another tangent "To answer your question, if you're caught it looks like you'd be screwed. Think a bit more about what you're doing. | |||
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"My only response to this would be to ask for more open mindedness. Quite often there are things going on in the background. Life isn't black and white, all multiple shades of grey. Everyone has different reasons for being here, fab appears to be a broad church and as such no-one should be going all morals and ethics. If the OP is caught then that is for her to deal with but there is that old saying about walking in other people's shoes... I just say fab on "Couldn't of said it better myself. | |||
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"Well that was an interesting read, thank you everyone for your input, but not many people answered my question about being caught, which actually was what this thread was meant to be about, but it seemed to go off on another tangent
To answer your question, if you're caught it looks like you'd be screwed. Think a bit more about what you're doing."That wasn't the question either. | |||
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"Well that was an interesting read, thank you everyone for your input, but not many people answered my question about being caught, which actually was what this thread was meant to be about, but it seemed to go off on another tangent "Ha ha true the exam question has become a moral soul search! Shame on you, you soulless fuckghoul!
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Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men
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"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!
Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men
"My ex and father if my kids cheated on me and whilst it hurt at the time, I do not get involved in others business. I have been told I should because I have been the victim, but this is always by men, usually younger, who like to try to tell me what to think. If anything, at that point, or maybe some time after I thought about my part in it all and now I think how much I would have offered him meeting women who wanted nsa sex rather than one wanting a relationship. | |||
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" Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes
Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol
Sorry, I'm confused. Are the people in the middle cheaters or not?
You've generalised thread respondents into two (mutually exclusive) groups, then added to third group."no I haven't, i said some, not half. On a topic like this some are very aggressive and some very defensive. And people on the middle a bit calmer balancing the two. Who knows if they're cheaters or not, don't really matter fam. I'm not gonna check all they profiles lmao | |||
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"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!
Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men
Maybe, however I think that 98% of people on here aren't who or what they seem. Whether it's escapism or a total parrallel life for a multitude of reasons, there shouldn't be an expectation of reality in most conversations
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"It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it." White knights on both sides of the argument then? I daren't post anything - someone will accuse me of having an ulterior motive.. Er....youse are all bastids.... | |||
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"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!
Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men
My ex and father if my kids cheated on me and whilst it hurt at the time, I do not get involved in others business. I have been told I should because I have been the victim, but this is always by men, usually younger, who like to try to tell me what to think. If anything, at that point, or maybe some time after I thought about my part in it all and now I think how much I would have offered him meeting women who wanted nsa sex rather than one wanting a relationship. "Fair play and good on you for taking a broader view. Sorry to hear of the hurt tho | |||
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Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men
It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it."Chip on their shoulder,that's a pretty cruel thing to say. When someone knows the devastation cheating brings to themselves and their children,to say they have a chip on their shoulder is a little blasé I feel. | |||
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"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!
Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men
It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it.
Chip on their shoulder,that's a pretty cruel thing to say. When someone knows the devastation cheating brings to themselves and their children,to say they have a chip on their shoulder is a little blasé I feel."I don't think it is blasé actually. It applies perfectly to some. Not to all, of course. | |||
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"When someone knows the devastation cheating brings to themselves and their children,to say they have a chip on their shoulder is a little blasé I feel." Of course it's not a binary situation: don't cheat = bliss; vs cheat = devastatation | |||
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"This thread looks as though its gonna be a good one. Think im gonna sit and watch for gits and shiggles
OP your choice what you do and the risks you take as it is your marriage.
Very well said. Life isn't black and white. Everyone has their own reasons for actions they take in life. "It may not be black and white but you can choose the shade you wear. | |||
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"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!
Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men
It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it.
Chip on their shoulder,that's a pretty cruel thing to say. When someone knows the devastation cheating brings to themselves and their children,to say they have a chip on their shoulder is a little blasé I feel."Cheating does not necessarily bring devastation to the innocent party or the children. When I was cheated on I managed the situation so the children were not devastated. You dont have to dwell on the drama. | |||
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"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught. And you have experience and data? " Or; happened to you, therefore "most"? | |||
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"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught. And you have experience and data? " Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere | |||
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"Just came so close to being caught taking naked selfies by my husband....that would of been difficult to explain ! Just made me curious if anyone else on here has ever been caught out ? " OP fab up girl... break out them backless panties and get the selfies goin! | |||
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Excel or gtfo"Excel can only cry itself to sleep over what Sql Server can do! | |||
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"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught. And you have experience and data? Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function? Only after he pivoted her table Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns' (we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!) But did he insert values in her selection range? No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit" Oh that's a shame, she could have displayed her plot area and modified his vertical axis label. | |||
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"Just came so close to being caught taking naked selfies by my husband....that would of been difficult to explain ! Just made me curious if anyone else on here has ever been caught out ? " Yep, full on naked poses apart from hat and cigar when the gf walked in she thought I was doing the dirt, so I bent her over and fucked her so well, she never bought it up again | |||
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"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught. And you have experience and data? Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function? Only after he pivoted her table Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns' (we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!) But did he insert values in her selection range? No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit Oh that's a shame, she could have displayed her plot area and modified his vertical axis label." Nice | |||
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"I hate you all for the excel references now im going to jave work nitemares and at work i'll be thinking of this thread "Java nightmares? | |||
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"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught. And you have experience and data? Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function? Only after he pivoted her table Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns' (we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!) But did he insert values in her selection range? No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit Oh that's a shame, she could have displayed her plot area and modified his vertical axis label. Making him PasteSpecial all over himself... May need the bucket to fill her box Listbox or combobox?" Custom formula my friend | |||
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"I hate you all for the excel references now im going to jave work nitemares and at work i'll be thinking of this thread
Java nightmares? "Java? 99 little bugs in the code 99 little bugs in the code Take one down, patch it around 117 little bugs in the code | |||
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"I hate you all for the excel references now im going to jave work nitemares and at work i'll be thinking of this thread
Java nightmares? "You bastid !! | |||
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"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught. And you have experience and data? Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function? Only after he pivoted her table Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns' (we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!) But did he insert values in her selection range? No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit Oh that's a shame, she could have displayed her plot area and modified his vertical axis label. Making him PasteSpecial all over himself... May need the bucket to fill her box Listbox or combobox? Custom formula my friend "Ooh, put a button on my ribbon, dearie... | |||
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"Skube66 Snapchat add away" Funniest comment yet!!! | |||
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"I hate you all for the excel references now im going to jave work nitemares and at work i'll be thinking of this thread
Java nightmares? "Not fair picking on the Java people. They can't help it. They need our sympathy and support. | |||
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"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!
Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men
It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it.
Chip on their shoulder,that's a pretty cruel thing to say. When someone knows the devastation cheating brings to themselves and their children,to say they have a chip on their shoulder is a little blasé I feel.
Cheating does not necessarily bring devastation to the innocent party or the children. When I was cheated on I managed the situation so the children were not devastated. You dont have to dwell on the drama."Maybe my 6 year old crying in my arm's when I couldn't bare her daddy being around anymore and asked him to leave weren't tears of devastation then. Maybe two adults and two little girl's crying weren't tears of devastation when I couldn't cope and asked him to pick them up. Maybe every single time my girl's came back from spending the day with him and cried their eyes out until bedtime weren't tears of devastation. For them I can assure you it was,they had been with us two year's,it was the first time in their young life's that they knew what it was like to be apart of a 'normal' family and he/we cruelly took that away from them. We did however get back to a happy place for their sakes and for my own,you can't feel hatred forever. The consequences from divorce are still evident today to a minor degree,not with myself but with the kids. I don't care what anyone else does on here,but I just hate seeing people gloat about their cheating | |||
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