Who else gets passed off with Them? Trying to get single males to visit our home is a nightmare. We check them out as much as possible, speak to them on the phone to confirm....then they don't turn up. Wtf is that all About?  |
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"Who else gets passed off with Them? Trying to get single males to visit our home is a nightmare. We check them out as much as possible, speak to them on the phone to confirm....then they don't turn up. Wtf is that all About? "
Just seen your pics, clearly they have no taste, I certainly wouldn't mess you about |
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over a year ago
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I've been here before and left purely because of that very reason, fed up of sorting meets out and going to all the time and effort for a no show, genuine people getting harder to find |
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I was speaking with a couple on here and planned a meet after speaking a lot..i even got the room booked..A few days before the meet they went quiet etc so I cancelled the room..luckily I was able to cancel the room with out loss of funds..The annoying thing though is that they still come on to my page and like pictures etc
Annoying if you ask me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had quite a few men come to our house, and some several times. We'd meet somewhere neutral first though. We've never come across a true time-waster.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's terrible when that happens. I arranged to meet someone (from another site) and they didn't show, no message or anything.
Later on I got a message from them just saying "lol!" Charming! |
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"Had our fair share of time wasters too, the best one, I was talking to him on the phone and he said he would be five min he was at the bottom of the street, three years later we were still waiting for him 
Luckily he became a regular visitor when he finally plucked up the courage, but it is very annoying when people don't show, and it's not just the singles either, couples are just as bad x"
Did he ever explain his vanishing act? Cold feet I imagine. |
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
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With couples I think often one is keener than the other the less keen one bottles out.
It's still good manners to let you know meet is off, not just to disappear.
Happens to everyone, a fact of life. |
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"Had our fair share of time wasters too, the best one, I was talking to him on the phone and he said he would be five min he was at the bottom of the street, three years later we were still waiting for him
Luckily he became a regular visitor when he finally plucked up the courage, but it is very annoying when people don't show, and it's not just the singles either, couples are just as bad x"
Actually you don't hear much on the forums of second chances and eventual meets after an initial no show...worth a thread I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Once again I've been let down.
Planned to meet a women who was staying in a hotel about 15 minutes away from my work. We planned that I would get there just gone 12 when I finish. She was all happy with that. Been talking all evening. It gets to half 11 I say I'm nearly done and gonna come over and then all of a sudden
'I'm really tired'
'Don't think it will happen im to tired'
Now if I had done that to her then i would have got a bad reputation cause I'm a single male
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why don't men turn up to meet couples like yourselfs? Most likely because they use this site to fantasise about meeting couples like yourselfs. Another explanation is that they are nervous to move from fantasy to reality.
They piss me off as well, since I'm one of the males who does meet when I say I will. |
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"Had our fair share of time wasters too, the best one, I was talking to him on the phone and he said he would be five min he was at the bottom of the street, three years later we were still waiting for him x"
You must live on a very long street |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why don't men turn up to meet couples like yourselfs? Most likely because they use this site to fantasise about meeting couples like yourselfs. Another explanation is that they are nervous to move from fantasy to reality.
They piss me off as well, since I'm one of the males who does meet when I say I will."
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Who else gets passed off with Them? Trying to get single males to visit our home is a nightmare. We check them out as much as possible, speak to them on the phone to confirm....then they don't turn up. Wtf is that all About? "
op your looking for super confident self assure men .
I'm sure you realise must men are timid yes they talk a good game but with most its force confidence not real all for show .
it takes a very confident self assured guy to go to a couples own home and then preform in front of the hot wife's husband.
such men are super confident have a sense of self worth and easily get pissed off with how some couple choose to treat them , you know like walking cocks at there beck and call .
once that happens such guys walk away from the swinging world for a bit because think on this when have you ever seen a confident guy self assured guy struggling for sex the answer is never .
so the minute such a guy thinks he's not being treated fairly by play partners or the swinging scene in general he walks away on grounds he just doesn't need it .
which of coarse leads to a shortage of such guys hence your frustrations . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One stocks in mind more then the others.. I travel so I'm going out of my way for them to just sit at home and relax but one guy gave me a different address to his. I knocked and some random Guy answered. Could of been a potentially dangerous situation for me as a single female. I messaged him on here but instead of replying, he blocked me. I'm a 5ft2 woman so pose no threat to anyone, i just don't get some people.  |
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"Who else gets passed off with Them? Trying to get single males to visit our home is a nightmare. We check them out as much as possible, speak to them on the phone to confirm....then they don't turn up. Wtf is that all About? "
We feel your pain  |
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