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over a year ago
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I always prefer bare, but always respect other people's personal preferences.
However the alternative is not "safe" - it is just "safer" in certain conditions! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm going to guess that everyone would actually prefer bare if they could guarantee no diseases or pregnancy.
However that can't be guaranteed so some people don't want to take the risk and use a condom, others way up the risks and play bare. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bare with Paul condoms with everyone else. Seriously the worry isn't worth it, the panic when your waiting for your test results to come in is scary enough when you play safe. I've put myself in that situation once- never again. |
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"Bit of both, but most ladies insist im bare and to cum in them which ever hole they choose.
Do they?"
Yes. According to XHamster. Oh no. People have got confused about reality and fantasy again 
Easily done.
I recently went for a job interview. The bloke asked what my weakest attribute is.
"I have a difficulty discerning fantasy from reality"
To which he then asked what my strongest quality was.
"I'm Batman", I replied.
See? Easily done. That's what happened when that chap responded in here. That's all!  |
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We never use condoms between ourselves but if we were to move away from soft swing I we would use them with other partners. For me unprotected penetration is too intimate to share with anybody else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I go bare with a lover I consider it safe. If not I wouldn't be going bare with them. In fact probably bare with someone I know well who has been tested is safer than so-called safe sex with someone I don't know well and the condom splitting or falling off.
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"Safe, I don't understand those who play bare. "
Some don't understand how you can have sex with strangers you meet of a swingers site etc. Some take more sexual risk than I, but that's their business not mine. |
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"If I go bare with a lover I consider it safe. If not I wouldn't be going bare with them. In fact probably bare with someone I know well who has been tested is safer than so-called safe sex with someone I don't know well and the condom splitting or falling off.
Mrs"
About communication and agreeing/planning beforehand so everyone knows they're on the same page and try to remove the doubt and concern |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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Definitely bare for me. I love the feeling of a man cumming in me and love the intimacy of natural spunky sex. I'm happy to openly admit my preference. I take a long time before meeting so manage to vet my lovers. I get tested every month, the GUM clinic knows me by first name. So far so good, I'm still standing. I appreciate it's not what many prefer and they're entitled to their own choices. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Safe is my preference. Obviously bare feels better! Haha. But I had a couple of slip ups a few years ago, and it's really not worth the stress for me. I don't judge people who play bare. They are in charge of their own sexual health. It's their body, and their choice after all. Nothing to do with me  |
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"Safe, I don't understand those who play bare.
Some don't understand how you can have sex with strangers you meet of a swingers site etc. Some take more sexual risk than I, but that's their business not mine."
This.
We all take different levels of risk simply being members of this site and lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a perfect world I'd have bareback all the time. In the real world full of STD's and people not using other forms of contreception rarely do I want to go bareback. |
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