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over a year ago
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I've never had anyone stepping over my boundaries.Tend to go with the flow on meets but I wouldnt want to have a bad meet where I was asked to do something I think is just past my threshhold of my already pretty open nature |
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Met a couple and he was " bi curious " as well...told him I was straight but very comfortable in mfm 3some etc...he continually tried to suck my cock and fondle despite me continually saying no...she was stunning and it was quite clear he was not interested in her at all...I think he just used her as a lure !
I had to leave them as it was just not happening. |
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"Met a couple and he was " bi curious " as well...told him I was straight but very comfortable in mfm 3some etc...he continually tried to suck my cock and fondle despite me continually saying no...she was stunning and it was quite clear he was not interested in her at all...I think he just used her as a lure !
I had to leave them as it was just not happening."
I wouldnt care knowing that the male half is bi-curious(and i've met a good few), but even men have the right to say "NO"- there should have been INSTANT stoppage to his play on u, this is what straight men fear when meeting bi-curious males from couples.And no matter how hot she was its never worth giving in to make him or her happy! |
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"Met a couple and he was " bi curious " as well...told him I was straight but very comfortable in mfm 3some etc...he continually tried to suck my cock and fondle despite me continually saying no...she was stunning and it was quite clear he was not interested in her at all...I think he just used her as a lure !
I had to leave them as it was just not happening.
I wouldnt care knowing that the male half is bi-curious(and i've met a good few), but even men have the right to say "NO"- there should have been INSTANT stoppage to his play on u, this is what straight men fear when meeting bi-curious males from couples.And no matter how hot she was its never worth giving in to make him or her happy!"
Well I didn't in the end..to be honest I wanted to deck him ...!! |
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over a year ago
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Im pretty much very open minded and have only a couple of boundaries,we all like to feel comfortable and I would'nt try to cross anyone elses its about repsect
I always tell guys what they are and they have never tried to cross them....oops im lying once they did and then I just got up got dressed and went home 
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over a year ago
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As long as boundaries are set out before a meet and they are agreed upon, then I dont see why they should be crossed.
I would think thats what makes us human.To respect each other. |
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think it depends on the bounderies and how they being pushed ,i have being going to a club with 1 guy for ages now and thanks to him pushing my bounderies a little bit each time we gone i have gone from someone who had never and would never have thought of playing in a club with others and only playing behind closed doors with him to being full of confidence get in there lets have fun ,all done very slowly with no pressure and i thank him for that . |
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"we all have boundaries and anyone who dont are telling porkie pies 
im wondering how do u get people to respect your boundaries?
just curious  "
To be honest, we are totally up front with how we play before even getting to the call stage..
So we have only once had someone think that they could perhaps push it.. and that was someone thinking that they could get me to cheat..
Apart from that.. no.. never had anyone on a meet push their luck...
But I think Master overseeing all keeps them in line.
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"think it depends on the bounderies and how they being pushed ,i have being going to a club with 1 guy for ages now and thanks to him pushing my bounderies a little bit each time we gone i have gone from someone who had never and would never have thought of playing in a club with others and only playing behind closed doors with him to being full of confidence get in there lets have fun ,all done very slowly with no pressure and i thank him for that ."
One of the reasons we started swinging was to push our boundaries after very vanilla previous marriages. It was very liberating to do 'new' things. Apart from full swaps our two most significant boundaries were playing in separate rooms and much later sleeping swapped in separate rooms when friends stayed overnight - now we're fine about these. When we're with new people we've always made it clear at the outset what we won't do - anal, facials, pain, watersports - and nobody has tried to push either of us. |
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"we never had a guy step out of line yet choose carfully dont rush in go with ur gut feelings if a guy has to much feed back we avoid him for the less experenced guys they not so pushy"
Sorry I don't agree with that just cos a guy has plenty of feedback does not make him pushy or disrespectful of others and if you respect each others boundries there shouldn't be any issues or problems. |
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