"Just out curiousity, how many of you would play with someone outside of your age restrictions, if you met them at a club/social and got on well.? "
We have and we treat them as a preference, not set in stone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've gone over my age restrictions, and I would again if the man is youthful. It's highly unlikely that I would go under. If I did the man in question would have to have the manner, experience, and appearance of a much older man, as well as carry it with confidence.
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"Seems very arbitrary in some cases although it is their choice to make and therefore their loss if they miss out as a result.
Tablets of stone make you choke!! "
It's only a loss if I'm sitting there twiddling my thumbs wishing I had a meet. It's not a loss if there is no gap in our swinging life, and I don't know that I've missed out on something.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that might be the case for a lot of people, just some of them seem too specific, 27-37 for example was one I saw." .
How is a 10 yr range specific?
I could put mine to 25-35, and be meeting 5yrs younger or older, I could put it to 30-40 and be up to a decade older. Not really that narrow. |
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if that connection is there, most definetely. My filters are set to try a reduce the mail I get as much as reflecting who I want to meet. If I spot a likely younger or older chap, I contact them. |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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So long as there's an attraction and a level of chemistry then age doesn't necessarily come into it, although we'd both find it difficult to play with anyone close to our kids' age.
That said in a club environment we don't tend to ask peoples ages (nor do they ask ours) so our Fab profile parameters could well go out the window in either direction if we found someone attractive.
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