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Have u told any one you swing
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi just wondering if any one has told there family or friends they met outher people we've been spotted bye a freind not sure if to deny or confess we don't want to be judged |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. Close friends and family knew I joined fab. I probably wouldn't normally have told quite so many but I was mid-mania and my judgement was off. Fortunately they were all, with the exception of my brother, fine with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About half a dozen friends know, but the only bad reaction I've had is from my best friend. An ex knows and he's on here too. My current lover knows I'm here too and he's been a bit curious about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, my brother knows and my ex found out which caused a giant shit storm but to be honest I'm glad that people know.
I have no time for people judging my choices in reference to their moral high towers though. Its what I do and I'm happy. It's like Dr Seuss said; 'The people that matter don't mind and the people that mind don't matter.'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But in next breath how many do you see with full face pics on here....very few and i wonder why"
I have young children and I'd hate to think my being on here could impact negatively on them. Only the people I trust know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But in next breath how many do you see with full face pics on here....very few and i wonder why"
Because we don't fancy being asked if we fancy a fuck in Tesco. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Point made because no one wants anyone knowing. slag on street....he'll fuck owt... and to be fair theres plenty of both"
. I gather u wouldn't let ur partner join in thresome with men then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few close friends know, and I also told my brother recently. I also have face pics on here but as a single guy am I really a swinger?? When I was with my ex wife, and we were on the scene we were a lot more guarded, but as she was a district nurse and regularly went into people's homes alone, I think that was only right. |
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Several of our friends know - mainly because Tif likes to fuck them on nights out! We live in quite a tight military community in Italy so word spreads quite quickly out here so most of our friends and colleagues are aware that we invite others into our sex life. We don't rub it in people's faces but if people ask we never deny it because we are not in the slightest bit ashamed! We find very few people judge us and those that do we don't need as friends anyway! |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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No one outside of this world knows i do, i think from family abd friends there would be a hell of alot of judgement. They dont even know im bi let alone anything else. after a very awkward conversation a few months back my mouth is staying truely shut about this side of things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We went to a birthday party and decided it was a bit of a bust so we figured we'd bail out and go to quest, as we were about leave I (ess) announced to our friends ( whom I have known pretty much all my life and grew up with) that we were going to a swinger's club, as I'm the jovial clown of the group I don't think they believed me but I do know that they will all have questioned my sincerity of the announcement Lol, I'm just waiting for one of them to ask me if I was joking or not Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow . Any way don't be afraid . U can recon if he insist , what the fuck , u are only spicing you're sexual lid nothen else . And it's also you're choice . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I told a friend I'd known for years, and within a month she'd joined up. I also told another friend a few years back, she also joined, but because she lives in a town, it would seem that half the male population of that town are also on here, and she's met them, she came off it as she kept getting stares from the wives as she recognised the men while shopping in Tesco. I have told two other friends, they aren't interested in joining as it's not for them.... oh and I did tell a psychiatrist too  |
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our family,s know what we do. some guy (on a different site) tried to blackmail us years ago, saying if we don,t meet him he would tell mrs,s family as he knew who we where. we told him to fill his boots. he never did, would loved to see his face when they said so what? we already know,lol.  |
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