Hi,
I,ve been fortunate enough to have had a few meets. Though I,ve enjoyed each on its individual merits. Yet they all been pretty much getting to it straight away with expectations on the usual positions.
Does any woman actually prefer a slower build up ,where she is comfortable for guy to explore her ... B4 winding up to a climax.
Get the feeling as your new the trust just isn,t there,and is preserved purely for lover / partner....
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By *N_FunMan
over a year ago
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I think that comes with repeated meets with the same person - am firmly of the opinion that sex gets better the more you get to know someone, regardless of whether it's a partner or a swinging meet |
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"I think that comes with repeated meets with the same person - am firmly of the opinion that sex gets better the more you get to know someone, regardless of whether it's a partner or a swinging meet"
yes think your right there.
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"Hi,
I,ve been fortunate enough to have had a few meets. Though I,ve enjoyed each on its individual merits. Yet they all been pretty much getting to it straight away with expectations on the usual positions.
Does any woman actually prefer a slower build up ,where she is comfortable for guy to explore her ... B4 winding up to a climax.
Get the feeling as your new the trust just isn,t there,and is preserved purely for lover / partner....
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Good god no - my best first meet was a seven hour session of extreme sensuality!  |
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"I think that comes with repeated meets with the same person - am firmly of the opinion that sex gets better the more you get to know someone, regardless of whether it's a partner or a swinging meet"
I think your point reinforces what I already thought to be the case - that many of us on fab are really aiming to meet one regular partner for fun instead of multiple folk. That is certainly my aim. I am keen to establish a great sexual partnership with just the one guy...and be happy to have one off social meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that comes with repeated meets with the same person - am firmly of the opinion that sex gets better the more you get to know someone, regardless of whether it's a partner or a swinging meet"
I think your point reinforces what I already thought to be the case - that many of us on fab are really aiming to meet one regular partner for fun instead of multiple folk. That is certainly my aim. I am keen to establish a great sexual partnership with just the one guy...and be happy to have one off social meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about hard, fast, sweary sensuality. While strapped to the bed?
Sounds hot but I wouldn't ever let someone 'new' tie me up!!!
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You could always tie him up instead! |
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"What about hard, fast, sweary sensuality. While strapped to the bed?
Sounds hot but I wouldn't ever let someone 'new' tie me up!!!
You could always tie him up instead! "
Sensually, obviously  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"What about hard, fast, sweary sensuality. While strapped to the bed?
Sounds hot but I wouldn't ever let someone 'new' tie me up!!!
You could always tie him up instead!
Sensually, obviously "
I've not met a man yet who would let me tie them up......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about hard, fast, sweary sensuality. While strapped to the bed?
Sounds hot but I wouldn't ever let someone 'new' tie me up!!!
You could always tie him up instead!
Sensually, obviously
I've not met a man yet who would let me tie them up...... "
Wusses  |
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"Hi,
I,ve been fortunate enough to have had a few meets. Though I,ve enjoyed each on its individual merits. Yet they all been pretty much getting to it straight away with expectations on the usual positions.
Does any woman actually prefer a slower build up ,where she is comfortable for guy to explore her ... B4 winding up to a climax.
Get the feeling as your new the trust just isn,t there,and is preserved purely for lover / partner....
Good god no - my best first meet was a seven hour session of extreme sensuality! "
seven hours !!.  ....yeah a bit over over the top that precisely 4hrs 20 minutes 34 seconds to long to be excact ...ha ha ha |
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"What about hard, fast, sweary sensuality. While strapped to the bed?
Sounds hot but I wouldn't ever let someone 'new' tie me up!!!
You could always tie him up instead!
Sensually, obviously
I've not met a man yet who would let me tie them up......
Wusses "
that is a good point...its very rare for a guy to enjoy being tied up.. |
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"What about hard, fast, sweary sensuality. While strapped to the bed?
Sounds hot but I wouldn't ever let someone 'new' tie me up!!!
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who said anything about tie up ?? Where that come from ??
Eeeeek no no not really interested in that ... How's that sensual ?? |
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"Sensual meets are our favourite types of meet. Plenty of kissing, stroking and slow build up all make it far more erotic for us."
Is it something do you think should be put on profiles..??
Or does it give the impression that the guy is a lightweight. ?? |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Hi,
I,ve been fortunate enough to have had a few meets. Though I,ve enjoyed each on its individual merits. Yet they all been pretty much getting to it straight away with expectations on the usual positions.
Does any woman actually prefer a slower build up ,where she is comfortable for guy to explore her ... B4 winding up to a climax.
Get the feeling as your new the trust just isn,t there,and is preserved purely for lover / partner....
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you need to talk before the fun OP this approach may help with the problem .
I for one prefer only kissing teasing exploring and toy play on a first play date with maybe a bit of light over the knee spanking .
there is nothing wrong with you expressing how you like to conduct a first play date in fact it can put new partners at ease to know your willing to go slow build learn there bodies reactions and needs ramping up the play over the dates slowly . |
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
Halton |
"Sensual meets are our favourite types of meet. Plenty of kissing, stroking and slow build up all make it far more erotic for us."
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Completely agree with this.
When meeting someone new or catching up with people I already know in a club.
Why would I want to rush the experience.
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Sensual, tactile, erotic build up. Taking my time to be part of something that pleases and pleasures.
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Yes, occasionally you get caught up in the heat of the moment and it becomes something a little quicker and 'raw'
But if all I wanted was a 5 minute personal end result 
Then I may as well stay at home, save my money and sort myself out.
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So for me, I like to meet for the experience and take my time over that experience. Regardless of first time meets or regular. As why would I want to rush such a pleasurable experience.  |
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