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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it the size or the fact that you seem somewhat preoccupied with it? It's the subject of your status, two thirds of your photos, your profile text and this thread. I'm sure you have more to offer the world of fab than a larger than average appendage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small? "
To be fair, looking g at your pics, it scares the life our of me.
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"Is it the size or the fact that you seem somewhat preoccupied with it? It's the subject of your status, two thirds of your photos, your profile text and this thread. I'm sure you have more to offer the world of fab than a larger than average appendage. "
Was just about to say similar I'm not a fan of guys that use their cock as their selling point regardless of its size |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it the size or the fact that you seem somewhat preoccupied with it? It's the subject of your status, two thirds of your photos, your profile text and this thread. I'm sure you have more to offer the world of fab than a larger than average appendage. "
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small? "
I suppose that both are as bad as each other, it's not as if you can do anything about either problem. Quite a few profiles ask for vwe so you will probably have some success  |
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I think I would be put off by someone who tells me what they are going to do to me, assuming that is what I am going to like ..... big or not, I want to have some part in deciding what is going to go down between us (nothing will in this case) .... the cock isn't everything, plus I have my own BBC at home (that is tongue in cheek, but true) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for commenting. I have hidden the other pictures because no used to pay attention to me. The ones you see were on friends only. But since changing them I get a winks.
I understand what you mean though thanks. X  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate as a guy saying this you've got an impressive cock but remember it's not what's between your legs that count it's how u use what's between your ears more.
Tbh I'm average Size right and I do not focus on my cock size but saying that I do try and use my brain instead. The body's biggest sexual organ some would say is the mind... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't turn you away because you're too big. If you're pleasant and interesting to chat too, that would be what I based my decision on. I know that you will find some ladies who don't "do" big. |
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"Is it the size or the fact that you seem somewhat preoccupied with it? It's the subject of your status, two thirds of your photos, your profile text and this thread. I'm sure you have more to offer the world of fab than a larger than average appendage. "
.. always great advice from this clued up young lady .. others should heed her words ...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I'm preoccupied with my penis size. If anything I'm using as an USP everyone here has there's and they use. Even if I was preoccupied with it, it works.
My point as some who have privately messaged me is that. Yes we have preferences but really a vigina stretches and it really shouldn't be a problem.
As to my brains I couldn't agree more that what I used to do. It didn't work as well as putting my status and pictures out. Now I get over 200 profile views and 50 winks a day etc. Before I would be happy to get one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say I'm preoccupied with my penis size. If anything I'm using as an USP everyone here has there's and they use. Even if I was preoccupied with it, it works.
My point as some who have privately messaged me is that. Yes we have preferences but really a vigina stretches and it really shouldn't be a problem.
As to my brains I couldn't agree more that what I used to do. It didn't work as well as putting my status and pictures out. Now I get over 200 profile views and 50 winks a day etc. Before I would be happy to get one. "
So; contrary to your original post, it isn't actually a problem at all. All is well in the world then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say I'm preoccupied with my penis size. If anything I'm using as an USP everyone here has there's and they use. Even if I was preoccupied with it, it works.
My point as some who have privately messaged me is that. Yes we have preferences but really a vigina stretches and it really shouldn't be a problem.
As to my brains I couldn't agree more that what I used to do. It didn't work as well as putting my status and pictures out. Now I get over 200 profile views and 50 winks a day etc. Before I would be happy to get one. "
If theres a cock competition your win every time but a lot of women don't like their cervix bashing. It really hurts them.
I've only got a 7/8 inch cock and I've bashed a lot of cervix's while being very very careful.
You really should learn to be gentle if you have a big dick. Not every women wants putting in a wheel chair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't say I'm preoccupied with my penis size. If anything I'm using as an USP everyone here has there's and they use. Even if I was preoccupied with it, it works.
My point as some who have privately messaged me is that. Yes we have preferences but really a vigina stretches and it really shouldn't be a problem.
As to my brains I couldn't agree more that what I used to do. It didn't work as well as putting my status and pictures out. Now I get over 200 profile views and 50 winks a day etc. Before I would be happy to get one.
If theres a cock competition your win every time but a lot of women don't like their cervix bashing. It really hurts them.
I've only got a 7/8 inch cock and I've bashed a lot of cervix's while being very very careful.
You really should learn to be gentle if you have a big dick. Not every women wants putting in a wheel chair. "
7/8 is that 7 8ths of an inch ? Or are you hiding the rest of it lol |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Different perspective from a woman. Yes a vagina can stretch to deliver a baby but that is enabled by several hours of labour, hormones and gradual build up.
To take a large cock requires time, foreplay, to be relaxed, etc.
Personally, I've had a pelvic floor repair and it's not always possible to take a large cock. So don't take it too personally when you're turned down.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Different perspective from a woman. Yes a vagina can stretch to deliver a baby but that is enabled by several hours of labour, hormones and gradual build up.
To take a large cock requires time, foreplay, to be relaxed, etc.
Personally, I've had a pelvic floor repair and it's not always possible to take a large cock. So don't take it too personally when you're turned down.
Thanks for this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" you just reminded me the saying once you go black you never go back.
Obviously I'm extremely careful after all I want her to cum because I know I will. Not forgetting the fact that I want reapet meet. So I always do my best. "
Never try and never ask a woman if shes cum, just be myself and do my thing  
Never had any complaints or bad reports  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small? "
I have the same problem as you, except that mine is bigger than yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say I'm preoccupied with my penis size. If anything I'm using as an USP everyone here has there's and they use. Even if I was preoccupied with it, it works.
My point as some who have privately messaged me is that. Yes we have preferences but really a vigina stretches and it really shouldn't be a problem.
As to my brains I couldn't agree more that what I used to do. It didn't work as well as putting my status and pictures out. Now I get over 200 profile views and 50 winks a day etc. Before I would be happy to get one.
If theres a cock competition your win every time but a lot of women don't like their cervix bashing. It really hurts them.
I've only got a 7/8 inch cock and I've bashed a lot of cervix's while being very very careful.
You really should learn to be gentle if you have a big dick. Not every women wants putting in a wheel chair. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not bored at all tbh. Reading a the variety of responses is interesting. It is a forum after all. "
I couldn't agree more it sure has helped me. Now I know that it's not just a matter of preference alone but it could also be medical, bad previous experiences etc.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"200 profile views a day. Mate, that's impressive if true."
What would I gain by lying lol I'm not and that's just women and couples not men, TVs. At the moment I already have 25. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Not bored at all tbh. Reading a the variety of responses is interesting. It is a forum after all.
I couldn't agree more it sure has helped me. Now I know that it's not just a matter of preference alone but it could also be medical, bad previous experiences etc.
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Or maybe they have seen one too many photo-shopped images put up by the otherwise, brain-dead  |
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"I wouldn't say I'm preoccupied with my penis size. If anything I'm using as an USP everyone here has there's and they use. Even if I was preoccupied with it, it works.
My point as some who have privately messaged me is that. Yes we have preferences but really a vigina stretches and it really shouldn't be a problem.
As to my brains I couldn't agree more that what I used to do. It didn't work as well as putting my status and pictures out. Now I get over 200 profile views and 50 winks a day etc. Before I would be happy to get one.
If theres a cock competition your win every time but a lot of women don't like their cervix bashing. It really hurts them.
I've only got a 7/8 inch cock and I've bashed a lot of cervix's while being very very careful.
You really should learn to be gentle if you have a big dick. Not every women wants putting in a wheel chair. "
And I have to agree with you leaves me bruised for at least a week if done harshly  |
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small? "
What a really odd question for a guy to ask when he has uploaded pictures taken from a porn site.
Best use your own pics hunni I am sure the size and the scariness will rapidly diminish. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"#humblebrag
I think someone has been indiscreet with your profile pic, as it comes up on Tineye
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Simple explanation; That was when he was a winner in the cock welterweight competition |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small? "
yes give half of yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small? "
To be fair youd knock a horse out with that thing
Can't imagine any "regular" sized dudes feeling confident beside you tbf |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small? "
Same here but once it's in they love it especially the hubby when he see me entering wife |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So we start by saying "i cant find women who will take my monster" then continue to say "i get 100 views and 50 winks a day i do fine
This is a "look at me look at me i need attention and affirmation desperately" thread then yeah? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So we start by saying "i cant find women who will take my monster" then continue to say "i get 100 views and 50 winks a day i do fine
This is a "look at me look at me i need attention and affirmation desperately" thread then yeah? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say I'm preoccupied with my penis size. If anything I'm using as an USP everyone here has there's and they use. Even if I was preoccupied with it, it works.
My point as some who have privately messaged me is that. Yes we have preferences but really a vigina stretches and it really shouldn't be a problem.
As to my brains I couldn't agree more that what I used to do. It didn't work as well as putting my status and pictures out. Now I get over 200 profile views and 50 winks a day etc. Before I would be happy to get one.
If theres a cock competition your win every time but a lot of women don't like their cervix bashing. It really hurts them.
I've only got a 7/8 inch cock and I've bashed a lot of cervix's while being very very careful.
You really should learn to be gentle if you have a big dick. Not every women wants putting in a wheel chair. "
Hear hear... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I had to use Tineye after reading this thread!
To be fair it could be the OP in the pics that the various cam sites and US based bloggers have stolen. Benefit of the doubt I think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP has been here for four weeks and gets hundreds of views a day, but only four verified meets and only one on show.
Something is not right"
To be fair, 4 weeks and 'only' 4 meets is doing pretty damn well. The displayed Veri seems genuine enough. |
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small? "
does it matter..?
either way its a no thanks..
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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small?
does it matter..?
either way its a no thanks..
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Yep, not sure it matters really! As a single male your not going to get want you are looking for on here anyway, regardless of size shape looks ect.. There's little respect for us unfortunately in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small?
does it matter..?
either way its a no thanks..
Yep, not sure it matters really! As a single male your not going to get want you are looking for on here anyway, regardless of size shape looks ect.. There's little respect for us unfortunately in my experience. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small?
does it matter..?
either way its a no thanks..
Yep, not sure it matters really! As a single male your not going to get want you are looking for on here anyway, regardless of size shape looks ect.. There's little respect for us unfortunately in my experience. "
That's simply not true in my experience. Treat the ladies with respect and they will you too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small?
does it matter..?
either way its a no thanks..
Yep, not sure it matters really! As a single male your not going to get want you are looking for on here anyway, regardless of size shape looks ect.. There's little respect for us unfortunately in my experience. "
Two bulls in a field; one old, one young; as they wander over the brow of a field the see a field of heifers.
"let's run down there and fuck one of those beauties" says the young bull
"no" says the old bull
"but why not?" says the young bull
"Lets walk down there and fuck them all" replies the old bull...
here endeth the lesson (angelic ahhh ahhh ahhh ahhh ahhhhhhhh) |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Well I had to use Tineye after reading this thread!
To be fair it could be the OP in the pics that the various cam sites and US based bloggers have stolen. Benefit of the doubt I think! "
Yep, that must be it |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I keep getting turned away because I'm big down below. Does anyone get turned away because they're small. Which one is worse being turned away because your BIG or small?
does it matter..?
either way its a no thanks..
Yep, not sure it matters really! As a single male your not going to get want you are looking for on here anyway, regardless of size shape looks ect.. There's little respect for us unfortunately in my experience. "
Not true
Guys who get to meet women here are mostly respected. Probably because they respect women so the respect is reciprocated
Only those who can't get to meet cite male to female ratios on this site or it is because "most men will f**k anything or anyone". Absolute rubbish, in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I had to use Tineye after reading this thread!
To be fair it could be the OP in the pics that the various cam sites and US based bloggers have stolen. Benefit of the doubt I think!
Yep, that must be it "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its the same guy that always posts "look at my cock" threads.
They are not even his own pics!
What a loser.
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Not even pics of the same fake person either..... the belly button gives that away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mate as a guy saying this you've got an impressive cock but remember it's not what's between your legs that count it's how u use what's between your ears more.
Tbh I'm average Size right and I do not focus on my cock size but saying that I do try and use my brain instead. The body's biggest sexual organ some would say is the mind... "
Totally agree with this...it's not all about getting fucked hard ...we are much more likely to engage in conversation that has intrigued and excited us by using their imagination |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not all the pics are the same person.
Is this true ?  "
Well just to let all those that do like a decent size cock, not to long and plenty of width i have done a remote pic like once mentioned, but as i have been adviced its staying hidden in my friends only images |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never yet turned anyone down because of the size of their cock. I have turned many down for having fake photos. At least be consistent. "
Seems theres alot of it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never yet turned anyone down because of the size of their cock. I have turned many down for having fake photos. At least be consistent.
Seems theres alot of it ?"
Yeah, they're easy to spot though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never yet turned anyone down because of the size of their cock. I have turned many down for having fake photos. At least be consistent.
Seems theres alot of it ?
Yeah, they're easy to spot though "
Nothing fake about me thank god |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never yet turned anyone down because of the size of their cock. I have turned many down for having fake photos. At least be consistent.
Seems theres alot of it ?
Yeah, they're easy to spot though
Nothing fake about me thank god "
No one would fake those slippers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never yet turned anyone down because of the size of their cock. I have turned many down for having fake photos. At least be consistent.
Seems theres alot of it ?
Yeah, they're easy to spot though
Nothing fake about me thank god
No one would fake those slippers "
Fair point lol |
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After reading this thread i am glad that my cock is average size. How a cock is used is more important and getting to know a girls body and what she likes. Making a girl reach a powerful orgasm matters most to me. |
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Can people stop virtue signalling?
. .no one cares that you want to give the clichè comment of 'its not the size, its what you do with it"
*vomits*
Dont these people have anything original to say??
haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can people stop virtue signalling?
. .no one cares that you want to give the clichè comment of 'its not the size, its what you do with it"
*vomits*
Dont these people have anything original to say??
haha "
I don't think anyone has said that particular phrase on here.... more pointing out that he's got someone else's cock on his profile |
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