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By *igwilly2k OP Man
over a year ago
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Righty - I thought I would post this as ive been wondering why when women have on there profile they will meet someone for example 23 then you mail then and they come back and say too young!?
Is there any females out there that will meet young men in their early 20's!!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Righty - I thought I would post this as ive been wondering why when women have on there profile they will meet someone for example 23 then you mail then and they come back and say too young!?
Is there any females out there that will meet young men in their early 20's!!? "
I won't, simply because I'm not interested in playing with someone so much younger than me (I'm 49). It would feel weird shagging someone under 25 as they'd be less than half my age.
I have a preferred age range on my profile of 37-50 and while I'll bend it slightly if someone really grabs my attention I'm not going to bend it that much.
Had a 22-yr-old message me yesterday with a oner-liner (another no-no) that simply said "so you're not into younger guys then?" Er no, that's why I have an age range on my profile! Messages like that just waste everyone's time. Although if he'd bothered to write a proper message I might have bothered to reply instead of just deleting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to play with people older than my kids as well. I'm not comfortable with any younger. Also don't like the term older woman, puts me off. Would rather be refered too as mature. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also don't like the term older woman, puts me off. Would rather be refered too as mature.
Agree. Also hate the term "milf" - even more off-putting."
It's even worse when your a GILF xxxx  |
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Yeah, love younger guys - there's immaturity in any age, so that's not an issue exclusive to some young people, and someone having limited experience isn't an issue: where there's a will, there's a way, as they say. To those who haven't tried younger guys, you're missing out: but appreciate if you feel too different, then it may not work for all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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love younger guys! when i first split with my hubby i was fbs with a guy who was 20 (i was 37) and i loved his stamina and the fact i could teach him to be what i wanted in bed....he was a good pupil!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Righty - I thought I would post this as ive been wondering why when women have on there profile they will meet someone for example 23 then you mail then and they come back and say too young!?
Is there any females out there that will meet young men in their early 20's!!? "
we r same age as u and we do maturer women and men but we also do our age and up to fifty five but we have same trouble as u no one will take us cos of our young age |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"love younger guys! when i first split with my hubby i was fbs with a guy who was 20 (i was 37) and i loved his stamina and the fact i could teach him to be what i wanted in bed....he was a good pupil! "
Thats one of thr reasons for not having / meeting guys in their 20,s
I want someone who already knows the ropes so to speak...Someone comfortable within the swinging scene and knows all the do,s and donts...
I dont want to be anyones teacher |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"love younger guys! when i first split with my hubby i was fbs with a guy who was 20 (i was 37) and i loved his stamina and the fact i could teach him to be what i wanted in bed....he was a good pupil!
Thats one of thr reasons for not having / meeting guys in their 20,s
I want someone who already knows the ropes so to speak...Someone comfortable within the swinging scene and knows all the do,s and donts...
I dont want to be anyones teacher"
i had my reservations to start with dont get me wrong. But was for purely selfish reasons that i taught him...and we all have to start somewhere dont we?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last guy I had was 22. What he lacked in finesse he made up for in stamina. But do I want that all the time, nope. So it depends as and when I feel like a young victim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to use the " younger than my kids" route until it was pointed out to me that every year my kids get older so my lower age limt would have to go up every year, now I have made the cut off point as 25, unless the guy is exceptional but not found one yet who is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you had typed younger vs older, or some derivative of into the forum search, you would have found your answer there, would have saved you typing, im sure you could have done something far more valuable with your time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to use the " younger than my kids" route until it was pointed out to me that every year my kids get older so my lower age limt would have to go up every year, now I have made the cut off point as 25, unless the guy is exceptional but not found one yet who is"
I get what you are saying but unfortunately i too get older every year so i just keep the age difference the same |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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Interesting one.....
I am 30 this year. So have spent the last 6 years or so playing with more mature women. At first it did feel like I was their pupil...now I can hold my own.
I accept that being in my 20s means I am not everyone's cup of tea..but for me I know people that have played with me for my personality rather than age if that makes sense |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I play with the younger guy, as people who read my verifications will guess. However that doesn't mean I'll play with YOU! There has to be others things about you that attract me. Also I tend to meet the younger guys at parties and clubs as they usually cannot accommodate (neither can I). And finally, they are not conducive to a regular arrangement exactly because we will have less in common than I will with guys my own age.
But variety is the spice of life so I'll try just about anything once. Never say never. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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LOL didn't mean specific 'you', mean general 'you'.
Always worth a try though. If I am in the mood and there is somewhere to go and I am free then I am more likely to say yes than someone who can't accommodate trying it on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Though I have met, played with and enjoyed those both younger and older than myself, I wouldn't pigeon hole myself to one.
What does strike me as strange though is those that post trying to attract and gain interest purely based on age! Surely there is other criteria you can attract others with and try to "sell yourself" with!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind younger men but I struggle with younger women...
But I've had more let downs and time wasters in the under 25s than any other single men... however, just lately I have found I preferred older men. Just because of the attitude and presence I like from my playmates.
Katie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was going to start a thread...younger women for older men but it would only attract tumble and a howling wind with single bell tolling !  "
I would be watching out for new victims... errr I mean playmates on a thread like that
Older men do it for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any females out there that will meet young men in their early 20's!!? "
Depends on how I feel! But by the look of your verifications you don't have too much of a problem... |
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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago
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i have to agree with a few on here am 52 and i prefer to meet and play with guys 38/40 to 50 my choice as like others, why would i want to play with a guy in 20s who may just be wanting a quick wham bam.... sorry but not for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am 40s and meet men aged 20 up and i love it .... i dont feel my age and i feel i am alot better as a lover now then when i was 20s so fine with it all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tho im not old enough to have kids that age, im 36, so its not that reason that puts me off, but i still wouldnt play with a guy early 20s as they are just not experienced enough for me, i have met a few younger guys and i seem to spend more time 'teaching' them that getting on with the job in hand lol
Therefor id sooner meet guys older with a few more years of sexual experience under their belt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was going to start a thread...younger women for older men but it would only attract tumble and a howling wind with single bell tolling ! "
There are lots that do.. a lot of my sub friends have much older men... still looking for a younger sub to join our family... but I won't be sexual with her much.
A girl I talk to is 19 and her master 56 and they are very very happy... and I see lots of profiles on here from single girls under 25 that state 40plus... in fact a girl I saw that I thought master would like said master was to young she prefers guys 60ish... she is in her 20s.
So it depends what you want.
Katie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tho im not old enough to have kids that age, im 36, so its not that reason that puts me off, but i still wouldnt play with a guy early 20s as they are just not experienced enough for me, i have met a few younger guys and i seem to spend more time 'teaching' them that getting on with the job in hand lol
Therefor id sooner meet guys older with a few more years of sexual experience under their belt "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sent a message to someone quite a while ago only for her husband to say I wasn't young enough. One of the things she was after was a teen guy, so I thought she would be after someone 18-20. I'm 20 but I got a reply saying I wasnt a teen, she wanted someone 16 or 17. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Will get this right sorry first time posting I quite agree the older guy is great I am 26 and my fuck buddy is 54 and sex is great he so good I was lucky to get one orgasm before now it mutable orgasms he no just when to ease up and when bang hard you cant beat man with experience and that comes with age our problem s when we look at profiles I am either to young or he to old for what people are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sent a message to someone quite a while ago only for her husband to say I wasn't young enough. One of the things she was after was a teen guy, so I thought she would be after someone 18-20. I'm 20 but I got a reply saying I wasnt a teen, she wanted someone 16 or 17. "
Thats gross |
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"Was going to start a thread...younger women for older men but it would only attract tumble and a howling wind with single bell tolling ! "
now for me i like older men and i am 26 nearly 27 so i would have answered lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sent a message to someone quite a while ago only for her husband to say I wasn't young enough. One of the things she was after was a teen guy, so I thought she would be after someone 18-20. I'm 20 but I got a reply saying I wasnt a teen, she wanted someone 16 or 17.
Thats gross "
I think It's where men and women differ... men will look whether many would admit it or not at the younger but legal females... but most women don't look at young males the same...
Maybe we should get back to where young men are sent to older experienced women to learn lol kinda a finishing school lol
I btw in my teens would have preferred a much older man.
Katie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"love younger guys! when i first split with my hubby i was fbs with a guy who was 20 (i was 37) and i loved his stamina and the fact i could teach him to be what i wanted in bed....he was a good pupil!
Thats one of thr reasons for not having / meeting guys in their 20,s
I want someone who already knows the ropes so to speak...Someone comfortable within the swinging scene and knows all the do,s and donts...
I dont want to be anyones teacher"
Same here |
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When we meet we tend to meet in clubs so we don't really ask for drivers licence and passport.
Sex appeal & fun tend to be my requirements. Oh yeh a pair of breasts helps too.
Sorry, but if I was into guys I think it would be the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I started going out with my 1st serious girlfriend when I was 21 and she was 34. And we were compatible in lots of ways, we went out for just over 2 years. I wasnt a virgin when I met her, but I had'nt had much experience. We had a good and varied sex life, so some ladies must like younger guys...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had a memo from a 27 year old who claims he read my profile but decided to ask me anyway. Sigh...
They just don't get it. "
I get that all the time, the last one was 24 and offered me money so i reported him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i might have a severe case of benjiman button....ive been ID'd for fags and ID'd for booze(fair enuff thhe booze was for lookin under 25!!!)- compliment or curse lol
I rarely see age as a factor, but there really are some ridiculously ill behaved guys on the site and from what I see its the younger ones! |
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By *isub69Man
over a year ago
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The Couples that I have been with have all been older than me.
It has been fun. I find people my age on these sites don't tend to be after single young guys,
On another note, I think I may have spoken to 00hjane on another forum (ukRG).
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"Righty - I thought I would post this as ive been wondering why when women have on there profile they will meet someone for example 23 then you mail then and they come back and say too young!?
Is there any females out there that will meet young men in their early 20's!!? "
yes....email us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a couple of guys half my age,it as great fun and worked for me.
We don't really get this "younger than my kids thing".
I've had sex with women the same age as my sisters but don't think about my sisters when I'm licking them or fucking them with a strap on.
The same goes for Ric and young women,the idea that they're young enough to be our kids doesn't come into it,we're too busy having a good time.
We sometimes wonder if the truth is that as folk get older they may have a few body image issues,which may make them feel uneasy meeting younger people.
Well the truth is most people do,the thing to do is to forget it and enjoy!
XXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im another of the wouldnt go with someone the same age as my kids...is it because i worry about my body??? nooooooo sorry but its a gut feeling of just not being right, i do have a toyboy but he's a decent age, apart from energy what really has a 22 yr old got to offer?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a couple of guys half my age,it as great fun and worked for me.
We don't really get this "younger than my kids thing".
I've had sex with women the same age as my sisters but don't think about my sisters when I'm licking them or fucking them with a strap on.
The same goes for Ric and young women,the idea that they're young enough to be our kids doesn't come into it,we're too busy having a good time.
We sometimes wonder if the truth is that as folk get older they may have a few body image issues,which may make them feel uneasy meeting younger people.
Well the truth is most people do,the thing to do is to forget it and enjoy!
XXXX"
For me its not really a body image thing, for me its having things in common with someone
People always say age is just a number but lets face it its not, alsort of things come with age, maturity, sexual experience etc to be honest i really couldnt imagine meeting someone half my age around 18/20 and thats not cause they my kids age because my kids arnt that age yet lol but i just think what the hell would i have in common with someone that age? and both wanting a shag isnt enough for me, i have to me mentally and pysically attracted to someone before i can have sex with them and i just find young people of that age imature and not sexually attractive, that baby face look does nothing for me at all |
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They may have a back log of other guys so decided not to play with younger men at mo. They might not fancy you, but are letting you down gently. They might have had a bad experience the night/week before with someone young and too pushy.....who knows. But you should neither fret about it or question it.....people can say "no" juse because!! Move along. Anyway you will get older, hopefully wiser and more patient.ps I love attentions of younger men, but as Im an old bird that can be 90% of you on here, I have to be comfortable/fancy you and be able to relax. If you can make me cum I dont care how old you are, or not! Make the lady smile and your half way there!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a couple of guys half my age,it as great fun and worked for me.
We don't really get this "younger than my kids thing".
I've had sex with women the same age as my sisters but don't think about my sisters when I'm licking them or fucking them with a strap on.
The same goes for Ric and young women,the idea that they're young enough to be our kids doesn't come into it,we're too busy having a good time.
We sometimes wonder if the truth is that as folk get older they may have a few body image issues,which may make them feel uneasy meeting younger people.
Well the truth is most people do,the thing to do is to forget it and enjoy!
XXXX
For me its not really a body image thing, for me its having things in common with someone
People always say age is just a number but lets face it its not, alsort of things come with age, maturity, sexual experience etc to be honest i really couldnt imagine meeting someone half my age around 18/20 and thats not cause they my kids age because my kids arnt that age yet lol but i just think what the hell would i have in common with someone that age? and both wanting a shag isnt enough for me, i have to me mentally and pysically attracted to someone before i can have sex with them and i just find young people of that age imature and not sexually attractive, that baby face look does nothing for me at all "
I totally agree with you naughtynymphos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go for older men coz I find yunger guys want slim n I aint n I find older men are more open minded in bed. N I no that's not set in stone older men are just as capable of be a sizest pig n yunger men can b just as up for it but in general I have been more comfortable around older men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I much prefer younger men,and have met some really great younger guys from this site,i always state what i require on my profile,and i get it,although there are some older guys who message me with bad comments,but i put this down to just pure bad manners on their part,and i will continue with what i want,after all its my choice at the end of the day. |
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"I much prefer younger men,and have met some really great younger guys from this site,i always state what i require on my profile,and i get it,although there are some older guys who message me with bad comments,but i put this down to just pure bad manners on their part,and i will continue with what i want,after all its my choice at the end of the day."
Absloultely u do what u want with who u want n I no not all older men are decent n not all yunger men are idiots I have had more than a few older men who think I here purely for their needs n a piece of meet so its def not set in stone that older means mature hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And another thing that puts me off meeting younger guys is the money issue
What i mean by that is as i dont accommodate i have to use hotels or meet in clubs and the amount of younger guys who refuse to do this as they say its to expensive just got daft, now im more than happy to pay my way and go halfs with any hotels etc but i find young guys just dont have the money even for that and have in the past expected me to pay
Ive even had a few in the past expect me to travel to them and book a hotel, almost like im some kind of sugar mummy here to run around after them |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I think it really is different for all. I actually had a young guy offer to book a hotel room to meet me, which I agree was somewhat unexpected, but I don't see why young men have any less money than older guys. I've had boyfriends who expected me to pay for everything, and they were in their 30s and 40s!
I agree the conversation can be thin on the ground sometimes, and they are less likely to be able to accommodate or offer to book hotels, but not all are like that! And they have one big bonus - amazing stamina!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it really is different for all. I actually had a young guy offer to book a hotel room to meet me, which I agree was somewhat unexpected, but I don't see why young men have any less money than older guys. I've had boyfriends who expected me to pay for everything, and they were in their 30s and 40s!
I agree the conversation can be thin on the ground sometimes, and they are less likely to be able to accommodate or offer to book hotels, but not all are like that! And they have one big bonus - amazing stamina! "
I have a 50 and a 60 yr old that have amazing stamina so its not just the young lads that have it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the guy takes my eye then age doesnt come into it. Ive played with younger guys some need alittle teaching. And others have been mind blowingly good. But i can say that about the older guys too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me , i hate teaching and i like a man to know his way around the various errogenous zones , and there is just something so wrong in shagging someone who I could have potentially given birth too , I am no mrs robinson |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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very interesting to read these comments.
Im 21 but have a 'baby face' and look 16 so that puts people off and i always get the 'your too young'.
I would say i always come across very mature and caring and understanding but still never get any replies 
Oh well, as long as there people having a good time via/because of this site then its a good thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes! Yes! Yes! Waves hands in the air!
come and get it then! or is 25 to old lol
its about perfect I would say "
25 is young but at the same time stil have 10 years experiance lol so know how to please
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i won't cos playing with anyone younger than my kids just ain't right "
See I just don't get that at all.
To me playing with your kids just ain't right, but someone unrelated who is above the age of consent and knows that they want sexually is perfectly acceptable.
If someone appeals to me sexually and it's all legal like then it's a green light as far as I'm concerned regardless of age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i won't cos playing with anyone younger than my kids just ain't right
See I just don't get that at all.
To me playing with your kids just ain't right, but someone unrelated who is above the age of consent and knows that they want sexually is perfectly acceptable.
If someone appeals to me sexually and it's all legal like then it's a green light as far as I'm concerned regardless of age."
I agree with you.
I have played with afew young guys. And have to say they have been very intune with what any lady would want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i won't cos playing with anyone younger than my kids just ain't right
See I just don't get that at all.
To me playing with your kids just ain't right, but someone unrelated who is above the age of consent and knows that they want sexually is perfectly acceptable.
If someone appeals to me sexually and it's all legal like then it's a green light as far as I'm concerned regardless of age."
No-one is talking about playing with their own kids, its more that they are around the same age, therefore perhaps should be playing with them, have more in common with ones own children, perhaps look at them and compare 'bodies' and just not like the idea given their own age. I met a 25 yr old and all I saw was a young fit lad same age as my daughter, so glad he got himself a girlfriend as it saved me making excuses as I really couldn't have gone to the next stage, just think really he should be playing with my daughter not her mother |
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