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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladys, do guys vary in the way they lick pussy? I feel oral is different with someone new eveytime but is it the same with guys going down on a lady? And can you really be bad at it?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How the FUCK can you not know where the clit is? That's like saying you can't find their navel. It's RIGHT there sticking out all red going hello lick me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it remember checking out google how to do it well.
Nothing worse than a smelly pussy tho yuk "
Depends how smelly and what kind of smelly. There's bad smelly but there's good smelly too.
Good smelly is how a female with good hygiene, who showers and puts on clean knickers every day smells when she wakes up in bed before she gets up and showers. I LOVE eating a pussy that has the morning due on it and the musky sweet slightly acidic aroma.
Any kind of fishy/dairy smell is vile obviously. |
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"I love it remember checking out google how to do it well.
Nothing worse than a smelly pussy tho yuk
Depends how smelly and what kind of smelly. There's bad smelly but there's good smelly too.
Good smelly is how a female with good hygiene, who showers and puts on clean knickers every day smells when she wakes up in bed before she gets up and showers. I LOVE eating a pussy that has the morning due on it and the musky sweet slightly acidic aroma.
Any kind of fishy/dairy smell is vile obviously."
and going off topic,,,sorry to those with a weak stomach,,, finding a lump of cheese under the foreskin is,,,so delightfully tasty,, crackers to hand lol |
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"I love it remember checking out google how to do it well.
Nothing worse than a smelly pussy tho yuk
Depends how smelly and what kind of smelly. There's bad smelly but there's good smelly too.
Good smelly is how a female with good hygiene, who showers and puts on clean knickers every day smells when she wakes up in bed before she gets up and showers. I LOVE eating a pussy that has the morning due on it and the musky sweet slightly acidic aroma.
Any kind of fishy/dairy smell is vile obviously."
They're called natural pheromones.
As a man you're physiologically programmed to find these intoxicatingly arousing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladys, do guys vary in the way they lick pussy? I feel oral is different with someone new eveytime but is it the same with guys going down on a lady? And can you really be bad at it??"
really bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Listen I met a guy who called the clit a "clitorious". Have even met someone years ago who thought a vibrator was a hearing aid. So no...some folk are very naive when it comes.to sexual matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes some guys can be bloody awful at it (as I'm sure can women)
No rhythm
Too harsh
Pointed tongue poking
Basically like a dog at a dinner bowl
If you use a technique you have seen in porn it's likely that your technique is bad as well ... I just wince at some of those moves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Listen I met a guy who called the clit a "clitorious". Have even met someone years ago who thought a vibrator was a hearing aid. So no...some folk are very naive when it comes.to sexual matters."
Clitorious...hahaha hilarious ..ive been victorious ive found her clitorious!!!
Saying that in my head like a older guy in t with handlebar moustache !!
Sorry silly saturday x mustdash  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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In my experience the more a guy thinks he's good at oral sex the worse he his. Enjoying doing something does not automatically make you any good at it.
And incidentally OP, the expression "eating pussy" is a reall turn off for me. No one eats any part of my anatomy, and particilarly not the most sensitive part. |
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"Yes some guys can be bloody awful at it (as I'm sure can women)
No rhythm
Too harsh
Pointed tongue poking
Basically like a dog at a dinner bowl
If you use a technique you have seen in porn it's likely that your technique is bad as well ... I just wince at some of those moves "
You forgot the ones who push their forehead (or some hard part of their head) into your pubic bone ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes some guys can be bloody awful at it (as I'm sure can women)
No rhythm
Too harsh
Pointed tongue poking
Basically like a dog at a dinner bowl
If you use a technique you have seen in porn it's likely that your technique is bad as well ... I just wince at some of those moves
You forgot the ones who push their forehead (or some hard part of their head) into your pubic bone ... "
And those who 'nibble' on your clit - owww |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it remember checking out google how to do it well.
Nothing worse than a smelly pussy tho yuk
Depends how smelly and what kind of smelly. There's bad smelly but there's good smelly too.
Good smelly is how a female with good hygiene, who showers and puts on clean knickers every day smells when she wakes up in bed before she gets up and showers. I LOVE eating a pussy that has the morning due on it and the musky sweet slightly acidic aroma.
Any kind of fishy/dairy smell is vile obviously.
They're called natural pheromones.
As a man you're physiologically programmed to find these intoxicatingly arousing.
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pmsl some guys hey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes some guys can be bloody awful at it (as I'm sure can women)
No rhythm
Too harsh
Pointed tongue poking
Basically like a dog at a dinner bowl
If you use a technique you have seen in porn it's likely that your technique is bad as well ... I just wince at some of those moves
You forgot the ones who push their forehead (or some hard part of their head) into your pubic bone ...
And those who 'nibble' on your clit - owww"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found the best technique is to have no technique - it's all about experimenting and reading your partner's reactions until you find what works for her, then you go from there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Listen I met a guy who called the clit a "clitorious". Have even met someone years ago who thought a vibrator was a hearing aid. So no...some folk are very naive when it comes.to sexual matters.
Clitorious...hahaha hilarious ..ive been victorious ive found her clitorious!!!
Saying that in my head like a older guy in t with handlebar moustache !!
Sorry silly saturday x mustdash "
One of my brothers mates said "I love licking her clint". We didn't make anything of it because he was too nice for piss taking but I'll never ever forget that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it remember checking out google how to do it well.
Nothing worse than a smelly pussy tho yuk
Depends how smelly and what kind of smelly. There's bad smelly but there's good smelly too.
Good smelly is how a female with good hygiene, who showers and puts on clean knickers every day smells when she wakes up in bed before she gets up and showers. I LOVE eating a pussy that has the morning due on it and the musky sweet slightly acidic aroma.
Any kind of fishy/dairy smell is vile obviously.
They're called natural pheromones.
As a man you're physiologically programmed to find these intoxicatingly arousing.
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AND I'm a dirty bastard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My last arse was not good, not patient and once I came, was gone, didn't even care if I was finished lol!! Head on public bone is not good I agree, I adore long licks like I'm the most lush, slushy lolly but rarely get that lol!! And I love being nibbled so I guess it's upto the individual. The thought of someone going down on me in the morning is sooooo hot!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How the FUCK can you not know where the clit is? That's like saying you can't find their navel. It's RIGHT there sticking out all red going hello lick me! "
What's a clit?
I need a map!!
That's why I go straight for the ole rimming! Star marks the spot!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladys, do guys vary in the way they lick pussy? I feel oral is different with someone new eveytime but is it the same with guys going down on a lady? And can you really be bad at it??"
I've had a couple guys who say they are great at it.... I've nearly offered them a map to the clit....  but one guy I had was lush at it... had him for 5 months.... what would I give to have his tongue back!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the poster who said that good hygiene is a must for oral, not just for women, but also men.
Presenting a smelly pussy for a man to lick is the same as a man expecting a woman to suck on a cheesy cock.
All that aside I like to eat a pussy that is positioned over my face, I love to lick and suck on the clitty and also tongue out the bum hole too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find men fall into two categories. Either awful with a flappy tongue and a "I think I'm so good that I can't be bothered to make an effort " attitude or are that good at doing it they get you off time and time again with ease and clearly enjoy doing it (not just say they do)
I'll let you know when I find the latter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Receiving oral bores me silly,there's just not enough stimulation. As it is with some men with bjs. "
Same for me. And NO, I don't need a "man who knows what he's doing" - I need people who have the intelligence and sensitivity to leave it alone and find out what I really do want....!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find men fall into two categories. Either awful with a flappy tongue and a "I think I'm so good that I can't be bothered to make an effort " attitude or are that good at doing it they get you off time and time again with ease and clearly enjoy doing it (not just say they do)
I'll let you know when I find the latter "
Agree totally. I've found a couple of men who really know how to give great oral but they are few and far between in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find men fall into two categories. Either awful with a flappy tongue and a "I think I'm so good that I can't be bothered to make an effort " attitude or are that good at doing it they get you off time and time again with ease and clearly enjoy doing it (not just say they do)
I'll let you know when I find the latter
Agree totally. I've found a couple of men who really know how to give great oral but they are few and far between in my opinion. "
It's true, we are a rare breed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it's difficult and yes it can be rubbish!
Different is ok but the guy needs to be open to listening to the woman
Even if she isn't given spoken directions she will be giving signs ..."
Exactly, it's not that hard to read the reactions and let that guide you |
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"I love it remember checking out google how to do it well.
Nothing worse than a smelly pussy tho yuk
Depends how smelly and what kind of smelly. There's bad smelly but there's good smelly too.
Good smelly is how a female with good hygiene, who showers and puts on clean knickers every day smells when she wakes up in bed before she gets up and showers. I LOVE eating a pussy that has the morning due on it and the musky sweet slightly acidic aroma.
Any kind of fishy/dairy smell is vile obviously.
They're called natural pheromones.
As a man you're physiologically programmed to find these intoxicatingly arousing.
AND I'm a dirty bastard "
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"Yes some guys can be bloody awful at it (as I'm sure can women)
No rhythm
Too harsh
Pointed tongue poking
Basically like a dog at a dinner bowl
If you use a technique you have seen in porn it's likely that your technique is bad as well ... I just wince at some of those moves
You forgot the ones who push their forehead (or some hard part of their head) into your pubic bone ... "
Wow!!! If their forehead is pushing into your pubic bone, where the hell were they licking?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think there is anything wrong with a lady saying there when you hit the spot. I find it abit if a turn on when a lady tells me how she wants it. and even grabs a scruff of my hair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love eating pussy which i great at i think doing it for hours if i could knowing their g spot that one thing i real like but i love to try other thing too.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the main thing is to let the lady guide with her responses. I've know ladies who hate anything other than a quite hard flicking of the clit with the tongue all pointy and rigid, but know others to prefer having their pussy enveloped and sucked, lips clit and all.
I've known some who like to be tongue fucked, others who don't. You got to play to audience. |
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Was reading last night a book called the Lesbian Sex Bible. She was saying the way to great oral sex is for the partner to say, note, say, what she likes. Harder, higher, etc.
So many women seem to think it is instinctive to know. It is not. And some help is surely a win win ladies?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was reading last night a book called the Lesbian Sex Bible. She was saying the way to great oral sex is for the partner to say, note, say, what she likes. Harder, higher, etc.
So many women seem to think it is instinctive to know. It is not. And some help is surely a win win ladies?
B2"
Laying there like a sack of spuds helps no-one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"having said that, the older men are better at it and more attentive than just licking your pussy like it was a Mr Whippy ice cream"
I would much prefer to lick a clitty than a whippy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a large clit but really I prefer it not to be sucked or nibbled..I prefer a soft non pointed tongue run up the groove on my right hand side of it. My clit is far too sensitive and doesn't appreciate being treated rough. And if the bloke puts me in some porny position then I'm even less likely to cum. Only one man has ever made me cum through oral.
Most men who have tried are all pretty similar so maybe I'm the different one. |
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been with a few men that couldnt find the clit and thats with
a sat nav
map
Goggle
and me directing them
(why is it men dont like taking direction from a female?)
"I want you here"
they move to the left or right
"no here!"
they move again
"HERE"
move again
its at this point i say sod it, push them away and have a play with it! if they wont find it, i can and i know how to use it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"been with a few men that couldnt find the clit and thats with
a sat nav
map
Goggle
and me directing them
(why is it men dont like taking direction from a female?)
"I want you here"
they move to the left or right
"no here!"
they move again
"HERE"
move again
its at this point i say sod it, push them away and have a play with it! if they wont find it, i can and i know how to use it! "
nothing sexier than watching a lady touch herself, as you say they know exactly where and how to touch, big turn on watching a lady bring her self of in her own way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"been with a few men that couldnt find the clit and thats with
a sat nav
map
Goggle
and me directing them
(why is it men dont like taking direction from a female?)
"I want you here"
they move to the left or right
"no here!"
they move again
"HERE"
move again
its at this point i say sod it, push them away and have a play with it! if they wont find it, i can and i know how to use it! "
Lol...can't say I've had this issue but some guys just know how to get you nearing orgasm just by fingering and licking your pussy...others....don't have much of an impact you just let them carry on for the sake of it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"been with a few men that couldnt find the clit and thats with
a sat nav
map
Goggle
and me directing them
(why is it men dont like taking direction from a female?)
"I want you here"
they move to the left or right
"no here!"
they move again
"HERE"
move again
its at this point i say sod it, push them away and have a play with it! if they wont find it, i can and i know how to use it!
Lol...can't say I've had this issue but some guys just know how to get you nearing orgasm just by fingering and licking your pussy...others....don't have much of an impact you just let them carry on for the sake of it "
Its my favourite thing to do and ive never had a complaint, didnt realise it varies with how men do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"been with a few men that couldnt find the clit and thats with
a sat nav
map
Goggle
and me directing them
(why is it men dont like taking direction from a female?)
"I want you here"
they move to the left or right
"no here!"
they move again
"HERE"
move again
its at this point i say sod it, push them away and have a play with it! if they wont find it, i can and i know how to use it! "
I know how to find it and pleasure it dam good but that for me to know and u to find out |
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"Listen I met a guy who called the clit a "clitorious". Have even met someone years ago who thought a vibrator was a hearing aid. So no...some folk are very naive when it comes.to sexual matters."
... was it gino d'campo.... ?? .. lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On my profile I specify I like prolonged oral. I had a guy wanting to meet me who said he was an expert pussy licker. He was a hot guy so I met him. He was absolutely clueless! He admitted after the meet via a message that he had lied and had no experience of oral or making a woman orgasm. I sent him a message back saying (because I was a little annoyed) along these lines...
If you don't know how to make a girl orgasm... fucking Google it. Find out where the clit lives, how it looks, what it's habits are and what it eats for breakfast. Because let me tell you a secret; most women can't orgasms just from fucking! And while I'm at it ~ if you also don't know how to fingerbang a girl, then don't. Fingers can bend in a way a cock can't, so if you just stick them in there, it feels like you are fucking me with a tiny cock. You've got to insert, curve up and rake. For your next meet, please just be honest.
I didn't hear from him again! My bad
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Receiving oral bores me silly,there's just not enough stimulation. As it is with some men with bjs. "
I agree. Some men do it like they are licking a lolly for gods sake. But I like to be eaten.. none of this softly softly approach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"been with a few men that couldnt find the clit and thats with
a sat nav
map
Goggle
and me directing them
(why is it men dont like taking direction from a female?)
"I want you here"
they move to the left or right
"no here!"
they move again
"HERE"
move again
its at this point i say sod it, push them away and have a play with it! if they wont find it, i can and i know how to use it! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Listen I met a guy who called the clit a "clitorious". Have even met someone years ago who thought a vibrator was a hearing aid. So no...some folk are very naive when it comes.to sexual matters."
How big were his ears ffs.? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes some guys can be bloody awful at it (as I'm sure can women)
No rhythm
Too harsh
Pointed tongue poking
Basically like a dog at a dinner bowl
If you use a technique you have seen in porn it's likely that your technique is bad as well ... I just wince at some of those moves "
I cringe when some blokes say "But you haven't tried me yet!"
We all like it different.
Doing it like they do in porn, is just idle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladys, do guys vary in the way they lick pussy? I feel oral is different with someone new eveytime but is it the same with guys going down on a lady? And can you really be bad at it??"
Yeah they do!
Some have no clue, no rythem, give up after 5 mins thinking that's enough. Some don't listen because they think they know it all. Like blokes we all like to differently. It's only good if they get to know how you like it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some are terrible at it, some appear to have a God given talent.
I always avoided younger guys, on the assumption that they'd be awful due to lack of experience... how wrong was i?! The best i've ever had was a 23 year old, he was absolutely amazing. He somehow managed to get it exactly right - the technique, pressure etc - he'd give me the most mind blowing orgasm within about 90 seconds 
I wish every guy did it like him. |
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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago
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From what ive been told (and seen!) My oral skills are pretty good, above average. So ive actually found something in life i am good at haha
Not too sure what i do that works well, im scared that if i ask ill start over thinking it and it'll all go wrong!haha
So better to stay natural.
I know that tip of the tongue , gentle pressure, and quick licks = a lot of wriggling and moaning! |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"From what ive been told (and seen!) My oral skills are pretty good, above average. So ive actually found something in life i am good at haha
Not too sure what i do that works well, im scared that if i ask ill start over thinking it and it'll all go wrong!haha
So better to stay natural.
I know that tip of the tongue , gentle pressure, and quick licks = a lot of wriggling and moaning! "
Get your arse up here and I'll give you adult written appraisal and marks out of ten |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Well, I am rather partial to it Starting just like a deeply passionate kiss and then building up with lots of writhing as the intensity increases
Or sometimes just languorous and sensual. Depends on the moment, mood and reading your partner "
Aren't you just.....
(ladies be warned, Georgie will send you delirious with pleasure!) |
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"Some are terrible at it, some appear to have a God given talent.
I always avoided younger guys, on the assumption that they'd be awful due to lack of experience... how wrong was i?! The best i've ever had was a 23 year old, he was absolutely amazing. He somehow managed to get it exactly right - the technique, pressure etc - he'd give me the most mind blowing orgasm within about 90 seconds
I wish every guy did it like him. "
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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Get your arse up here and I'll give you adult written appraisal and marks out of ten
Haha ok then!
Will there be scorecards, graphs, analysis and review sessions haha  "
You get weekly review options if you are any good |
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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago
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Get your arse up here and I'll give you adult written appraisal and marks out of ten
Haha ok then!
Will there be scorecards, graphs, analysis and review sessions haha
I'll make sure i give 200% then!
You get weekly review options if you are any good "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladys, do guys vary in the way they lick pussy? I feel oral is different with someone new eveytime but is it the same with guys going down on a lady? And can you really be bad at it??"
Most of the guys I have met don't even give oral never mind do it bad
I don't mind bad oral at least they are making an effort |
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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago
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Most of the guys I have met don't even give oral never mind do it bad
I don't mind bad oral at least they are making an effort "
Never accept bad oral!
Its always my first port of call
( maybe poor phrasing there) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most of the guys I have met don't even give oral never mind do it bad
I don't mind bad oral at least they are making an effort
Never accept bad oral!
Its always my first port of call
( maybe poor phrasing there)"
In all honesty your not going to have a mind blowing experience with a guy you have just met off here
To have great oral they need to know your body and although most guys feel they are the king of oral to all women I fear they are just kidding themselves, nobody knows how to please everybody even more so the first time they have sex
I've never had a guy make me cum the first time I've played with him and to be honest I would not expect it from somebody who does not know my body |
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"Ladys, do guys vary in the way they lick pussy? I feel oral is different with someone new eveytime but is it the same with guys going down on a lady? And can you really be bad at it??
Most of the guys I have met don't even give oral never mind do it bad
I don't mind bad oral at least they are making an effort "
I'd love to give you good oral and make the effort |
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"Some are terrible at it, some appear to have a God given talent.
I always avoided younger guys, on the assumption that they'd be awful due to lack of experience... how wrong was i?! The best i've ever had was a 23 year old, he was absolutely amazing. He somehow managed to get it exactly right - the technique, pressure etc - he'd give me the most mind blowing orgasm within about 90 seconds
I wish every guy did it like him. "
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Most of the guys I have met don't even give oral never mind do it bad
I don't mind bad oral at least they are making an effort
Never accept bad oral!
Its always my first port of call
( maybe poor phrasing there)
In all honesty your not going to have a mind blowing experience with a guy you have just met off here
To have great oral they need to know your body and although most guys feel they are the king of oral to all women I fear they are just kidding themselves, nobody knows how to please everybody even more so the first time they have sex
I've never had a guy make me cum the first time I've played with him and to be honest I would not expect it from somebody who does not know my body "
This also applies to sex IMO, I've married three times & never really thought too much about it, met H & it's like i'm superstud, multiples are easy, I make her cum just from kissing, caressing etc. I thought it was just her, but she tells me nope not done it with any other lovers but did it with me from day one..but I still don't consider i'm anything more than average, its just that we "fit" each other very very well..I'd be a fool to think it would happen with someone else just because it happens with H.
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I tend to steer clear of men who say they love licking pussy and can do it 'for hours' as I honestly have had enough after around 10 minutes...
Mind..and pussy numbingly boring... |
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"I tend to steer clear of men who say they love licking pussy and can do it 'for hours' as I honestly have had enough after around 10 minutes...
Mind..and pussy numbingly boring... "
Loving the act and doing it for hours straight are completely different! I'd get lockjaw after a while! |
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And incidentally OP, the expression "eating pussy" is a reall turn off for me. No one eats any part of my anatomy, and particilarly not the most sensitive part."
Yeh, it's like the blow job thing. I'm not paying you a wage, nor do I expect you to blow. But let's still call it a blow job that way we both know what we're talking about !  |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I tend to steer clear of men who say they love licking pussy and can do it 'for hours' as I honestly have had enough after around 10 minutes...
Mind..and pussy numbingly boring... "
They do it for hours to make up for the 10mins of frantic thrusting, other issue is a lot of guys see their cumming as totally the end of the sex and are wiping their cocks before you've finished shuddering the first time (if your lucky!). Been there, done that, shown them the door, I actually used this once with someone "You could've waited till the adverts, I was watching that programme". didn't see him again
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"Yes some guys can be bloody awful at it (as I'm sure can women)
No rhythm
Too harsh
Pointed tongue poking
Basically like a dog at a dinner bowl
If you use a technique you have seen in porn it's likely that your technique is bad as well ... I just wince at some of those moves "
. Fully understand yes however unless were told differently at point of licking we won,t know that were doing it all wrong ......surely..
Isn,t up to the lady to STOP..!! faking its great !! |
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"Ladys, do guys vary in the way they lick pussy? I feel oral is different with someone new eveytime but is it the same with guys going down on a lady? And can you really be bad at it??"
Yes, you can be bad at it. Everyone is different and each woman probably likes it done slightly differently just as men have different wanking styles or blow job preferences.
My worst experience was someone who was so aggressive oral was actually painful.
For me I like my man/girl to start off with plenty of tongue on clit action building up speed. Once I'm in the zone I like to be teased with fingers too and then when I'm on an edge I want them pushed deep inside. Also, don't you dare thing about taking your tongue off my love button in case I lose my stride! Haha! That's just me. That for me if perfect oral. I have to be relaxed and 'in lust' with my partner otherwise it won't happen. |
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I just love it down there. My favourite place in the world!!!
Every girl limes something a little different. You gotta start slow and work with their reactions. Put their hands on your head. If they want it rougher she can guide you. Ask her to tell you what she likes about what you are doing.
Morning pussy is the BEST X |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I just love it down there. My favourite place in the world!!!
Every girl limes something a little different. You gotta start slow and work with their reactions. Put their hands on your head. If they want it rougher she can guide you. Ask her to tell you what she likes about what you are doing.
Morning pussy is the BEST X"
Looks like a morning meet for us then! |
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"Ladys, do guys vary in the way they lick pussy? I feel oral is different with someone new eveytime but is it the same with guys going down on a lady? And can you really be bad at it??
Yes, you can be bad at it. Everyone is different and each woman probably likes it done slightly differently just as men have different wanking styles or blow job preferences.
My worst experience was someone who was so aggressive oral was actually painful.
For me I like my man/girl to start off with plenty of tongue on clit action building up speed. Once I'm in the zone I like to be teased with fingers too and then when I'm on an edge I want them pushed deep inside. Also, don't you dare thing about taking your tongue off my love button in case I lose my stride! Haha! That's just me. That for me if perfect oral. I have to be relaxed and 'in lust' with my partner otherwise it won't happen. "
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"Ladys, do guys vary in the way they lick pussy? I feel oral is different with someone new eveytime but is it the same with guys going down on a lady? And can you really be bad at it??
Most of the guys I have met don't even give oral never mind do it bad
I don't mind bad oral at least they are making an effort "
Love this woman lol |
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I reckon if I lay back blindfolded and let every guy I had ever been with lick me I could tell exactly who it was after a few seconds.
Now that's a bloody excellent idea ! |
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"I tend to steer clear of men who say they love licking pussy and can do it 'for hours' as I honestly have had enough after around 10 minutes...
Mind..and pussy numbingly boring... "
This is so true |
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"My tongue is all yours Hanky Panky x
Can have mine also if you want
At the same time?
I'll lick from behind. He can take the front!! "
Sounds like a very good plan that does we will have to swap after though |
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"I tend to steer clear of men who say they love licking pussy and can do it 'for hours' as I honestly have had enough after around 10 minutes...
Mind..and pussy numbingly boring...
This is so true "
We can do that if you want |
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"Some are terrible at it, some appear to have a God given talent.
I always avoided younger guys, on the assumption that they'd be awful due to lack of experience... how wrong was i?! The best i've ever had was a 23 year old, he was absolutely amazing. He somehow managed to get it exactly right - the technique, pressure etc - he'd give me the most mind blowing orgasm within about 90 seconds
I wish every guy did it like him.
Whats his username? "
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"My tongue is all yours Hanky Panky x
Can have mine also if you want
At the same time?
I'll lick from behind. He can take the front!!
Sounds like a very good plan that does we will have to swap after though "
Grrrr horny Hanky! |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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"In my experience the more a guy thinks he's good at oral sex the worse he his. Enjoying doing something does not automatically make you any good at it.
And incidentally OP, the expression "eating pussy" is a reall turn off for me. No one eats any part of my anatomy, and particilarly not the most sensitive part."
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"On my profile I specify I like prolonged oral. I had a guy wanting to meet me who said he was an expert pussy licker. He was a hot guy so I met him. He was absolutely clueless! He admitted after the meet via a message that he had lied and had no experience of oral or making a woman orgasm. I sent him a message back saying (because I was a little annoyed) along these lines...
If you don't know how to make a girl orgasm... fucking Google it. Find out where the clit lives, how it looks, what it's habits are and what it eats for breakfast. Because let me tell you a secret; most women can't orgasms just from fucking! And while I'm at it ~ if you also don't know how to fingerbang a girl, then don't. Fingers can bend in a way a cock can't, so if you just stick them in there, it feels like you are fucking me with a tiny cock. You've got to insert, curve up and rake. For your next meet, please just be honest.
I didn't hear from him again! My bad
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Not bad at all - better to be honest, shame he wasn't upfront!!
Communication is the key as different strokes for different folks - there isn't one technique that 'fits all' plus some women prefer penetration as opposed to oral! Likewise some men love to give oral, in whatever guise that 'cums' in (hopefully)!
Go with the flow and enjoy!! |
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Yes it is possible to be crap at it. Some men/women don't seem to know how to read body language or signs and don't seem to know what a clit is.
I've had guys and girls who seemed to fail to even attempt to lick my clit and just sort licked everything else as I lay there silently wanting to push them off.
Most guys we have met haven't made me cum from oral and have just made me cringe. It's always the guys that say they are amazing that are utter shite.
One guy we met though... wow some of things he did with his tongue... was magnificent
Dorian knows how to work his tongue on me. So much so that's he made me squirt from oral. Poor guy got a mouthful
I love a lick out from him and he always makes me cum
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"Was reading last night a book called the Lesbian Sex Bible. She was saying the way to great oral sex is for the partner to say, note, say, what she likes. Harder, higher, etc.
So many women seem to think it is instinctive to know. It is not. And some help is surely a win win ladies?
B2"
A bit of guidance is always appreciated. No matter how hard we look for the signals such as breathing or moans shaking legs or the gushing just having some guidance at times always helps and makes for more enjoyment for all concerned |
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1. Pay attention to her response and adjust accordingly.
2. Take time. Tease.
3. Differ in speed and firmness.
4. Use more than just your tongue.
(Keep those Teath away)
5.PAY ATTENTION TO HER RESPONSE AND ADJUST ACCORDINGLY.
well it's worked a treat for me (so far)  |
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"In my experience the more a guy thinks he's good at oral sex the worse he his. Enjoying doing something does not automatically make you any good at it.
And incidentally OP, the expression "eating pussy" is a reall turn off for me. No one eats any part of my anatomy, and particilarly not the most sensitive part."
Very good post and absolutely agree with you there.
Ive not found many guys who can do it well. But i dont like the softly softly approach when it comes to oral and most guys are too gentle for me. |
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"1. Pay attention to her response and adjust accordingly.
2. Take time. Tease.
3. Differ in speed and firmness.
4. Use more than just your tongue.
(Keep those Teath away)
5.PAY ATTENTION TO HER RESPONSE AND ADJUST ACCORDINGLY.
well it's worked a treat for me (so far) "
Now i like the teeth nibbling at my clit.. so every woman is different. |
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Now i like the teeth nibbling at my clit.. so every woman is different."
Exactly. I love giving a woman oral but there's no such thing as one perfect technique... we all like different things! If you want to be good at licking pussy or sucking cock, the key is to be prepared to explore a new lover in different ways and find out what works for them and what doesn't. Try something... if they like it keep doing it and if they don't then don't do it again and try something else...
Patience, imagination and listening are the keys. |
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I don't know why some guys are so clueless about this. It's not hard to learn where the clit is, and where the g-spot is. Those are your starting points, then just vary your technique until you find what makes her hit the ceiling. I've followed this basic outline for years and constantly received glowing feedback from my partners.
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"I don't know why some guys are so clueless about this. It's not hard to learn where the clit is, and where the g-spot is. Those are your starting points, then just vary your technique until you find what makes her hit the ceiling. I've followed this basic outline for years and constantly received glowing feedback from my partners.
(Sorry for the sickening "I'm so awesome" post )"
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