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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know and understand that attraction is an aspect of sex. But surely the cock, pussy and physic are also.
Why do people say not for me when you send them a face pic a model? Are they going to be fucking my face? The funny thing is that they're not all that themselves.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A cock isn't what attracts me. I like to be attracted to the person before I get to their cock.
They don't have to be a oil painting but they have to have something more than a cock to attract me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A cock isn't what attracts me. I like to be attracted to the person before I get to their cock.
They don't have to be a oil painting but they have to have something more than a cock to attract me "
Fair enough, I know everyone has their own preference. But does it have to be a physical attraction can't it be a good sense of humour or intellect? You see some dismiss before they know you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can, and that's where the forums can come in handy as you can like people by what they post, I've met people who generally I wouldn't even have been attracted to had I not seen their forum posts.
But on the other hand if you have 2 people message you with the same personality type but one is good looking and one isn't, well who would you choose? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's just sex so for me I want a physical attraction, I wouldn't fuck someone if I didn't find them attractive, you might not agree but it's my choice "
Fair enough but what if it turns out that they are shit in bed and can't fuck. I guess it couldn't matter right as long as their attractive.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A cock isn't what attracts me. I like to be attracted to the person before I get to their cock.
They don't have to be a oil painting but they have to have something more than a cock to attract me
Fair enough, I know everyone has their own preference. But does it have to be a physical attraction can't it be a good sense of humour or intellect? You see some dismiss before they know you. "
You've already mentioned the fact that they won't necessarily be fucking your face so would they be fucking your sense of humour or intellect? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey my face might be down there doing its thing if the meeting is going well .. So in answer to your question some ladies might well be fucking my face!
Sadly I've had a few slaps around the face with the ugly stick so that's pretty rare, but I guess it's all about attraction innit?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The term sapiosexual is for people that physical attraction alone is not what's all about;
Regardless though, there has to be chemistry and physical attraction is a start, a very good start as a matter of fact
But a pretty face alone doesn't always cut it; |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never have sex with someone I don't find attractive. That means if I don't find them physically attractive OR intellectually attractive. Why would anyone? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I know and understand that attraction is an aspect of sex. But surely the cock, pussy and physic are also.
Why do people say not for me when you send them a face pic a model? Are they going to be fucking my face? The funny thing is that they're not all that themselves. "
When meeting/ fucking, I'll usually be seeing the person's face a far bit. Id rather look at one that I find attractive/pleasing than one I don't.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just sex so for me I want a physical attraction, I wouldn't fuck someone if I didn't find them attractive, you might not agree but it's my choice
Fair enough but what if it turns out that they are shit in bed and can't fuck. I guess it couldn't matter right as long as their attractive. "
What if they have a great personality but they're shit in bed and can't fuck?
As I'm purely after sex if they were shit in bed I'm not going to thing hey ho, at least we had an interesting conversation. They'd still be out the door.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know and understand that attraction is an aspect of sex. But surely the cock, pussy and physic are also.
Why do people say not for me when you send them a face pic a model? Are they going to be fucking my face? The funny thing is that they're not all that themselves. "
If they are not 'all that' why are you trying to meet them......ah they rejected you. I get it  |
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By *oobs1Woman
over a year ago
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My tastes vary wildly! So no actual type as such, it really is down to the way a person carries themselves. Physical appearance or a damn good mind fuck. It's swinging and about the freedom of choice to play with people you wouldn't ordinarily be In contact with. It's not a dating site. I like a face picture purely to establish some kind of connection when chatting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just sex so for me I want a physical attraction, I wouldn't fuck someone if I didn't find them attractive, you might not agree but it's my choice
Fair enough but what if it turns out that they are shit in bed and can't fuck. I guess it couldn't matter right as long as their attractive.
What if they have a great personality but they're shit in bed and can't fuck?
As I'm purely after sex if they were shit in bed I'm not going to thing hey ho, at least we had an interesting conversation. They'd still be out the door..... "
I get. That ....(funny)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're not going to know they're shit in bed until you meet them, the only way you're meeting them is if you find them attractive.
Where's your common sense OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're not going to know they're shit in bed until you meet them, the only way you're meeting them is if you find them attractive.
Where's your common sense OP? "
it's a fact when it comes to the physics of mating it's based on facial attraction they look at the face first makes a decision in the 7second ruling a bit like. when you first meet somebody (men) well me I look at the woman's tits first haha  |
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By *oobs1Woman
over a year ago
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"I talk to faces not their vagina.
And I asume that if the woman were to talk to a cock pic, it would be the arse that replied. "
I actually think I choked laughing then!! That's something I say with regards to cocks, when asking for a face pic... *Well I'm not going to be talking to your cock all night*.... Lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I talk to faces not their vagina.
And I asume that if the woman were to talk to a cock pic, it would be the arse that replied.
I actually think I choked laughing then!! That's something I say with regards to cocks, when asking for a face pic... *Well I'm not going to be talking to your cock all night*.... Lmao"
I put a smile on a ladys face on a Monday morning. That's a nice thought  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just sex so for me I want a physical attraction, I wouldn't fuck someone if I didn't find them attractive, you might not agree but it's my choice
Fair enough but what if it turns out that they are shit in bed and can't fuck. I guess it couldn't matter right as long as their attractive. "
people with great personalities can be shit fucks too...anyone can, it's the gamble you take when meeting multiple people for casual sex...we all like and hate different things... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just sex so for me I want a physical attraction, I wouldn't fuck someone if I didn't find them attractive, you might not agree but it's my choice
Fair enough but what if it turns out that they are shit in bed and can't fuck. I guess it couldn't matter right as long as their attractive.
people with great personalities can be shit fucks too...anyone can, it's the gamble you take when meeting multiple people for casual sex...we all like and hate different things..."
We've met a lot of single men, and it was the one I found most interesting to talk to and had a lot in common with that couldn't get it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Broadly speaking it's a mixture of personality, face, and how a man presents himself eg dress sense, then to a lesser extent stature and body type. These are the factors that contribute to sexual attraction for me. If I don't fancy a man facial, it is occasionally possible to make up for that if our personalities chime. But it is hard to gauge a personality from a profile or email, and can take time, so we don't usually bother. It's probably better to get to know people in clubs and organised social if you are dependent on your personality to win the day. A picture of a man's cock has no bearing on whether I would be interested in a man sexually, as that picture would not tell me if he is any good sexually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I also add to this, if someone was only interested in me and only wanted to fuck me because of my personality I would be really offended- I like seeing the lust in the mans eyes before he goes in for the kiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll also add.
If I wasn't attracted to their looks. Where's the sex appeal?
This is what 'glory holes' have no appeal to me. I need to be attracted to them. Their personality and then their body immediately starts to become more and more attractive.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll also add.
If I wasn't attracted to their looks. Where's the sex appeal?
This is what 'glory holes' have no appeal to me. I need to be attracted to them. Their personality and then their body immediately starts to become more and more attractive.
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A message :face pic ? With just that content is so rude? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know and understand that attraction is an aspect of sex. But surely the cock, pussy and physic are also.
Why do people say not for me when you send them a face pic a model? Are they going to be fucking my face? The funny thing is that they're not all that themselves. "
I find I'm attracted to people as a whole - I like their whole bodies and what's in their minds. Sex is attraction isn't it? |
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"I know and understand that attraction is an aspect of sex. But surely the cock, pussy and physic are also.
Why do people say not for me when you send them a face pic a model? Are they going to be fucking my face? The funny thing is that they're not all that themselves. "
Sometimes I do fuck a persons face. |
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"A cock isn't what attracts me. I like to be attracted to the person before I get to their cock.
They don't have to be a oil painting but they have to have something more than a cock to attract me "
What I consider to be attractive many others won't and vice versa. I wouldn't meet anyone I wasn't physically attracted to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A cock isn't what attracts me. I like to be attracted to the person before I get to their cock.
They don't have to be a oil painting but they have to have something more than a cock to attract me
What I consider to be attractive many others won't and vice versa. I wouldn't meet anyone I wasn't physically attracted to "
horse's for courses isn't it.... facial attraction is the key point in this process ....if a face is disfigoured,imperfected (for what ever reason)it will always be beauty first when looking for a mate it's in the DNA |
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