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How long are men supposed to last?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and sorry, forgot to answer your question, some guys can last an hour or two, others a few minutes. Everyone's different but there are ways to tease and play to ensure it lasts as long as I need it to  |
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The longest I lasted was about a minute but my ex reckoned it was less than that hence why she found a lover
The most I lasted giving her oral was about 3 hours once as she lay on the sofa chatting on fab
My neck and back ached and my mouth was red for hours
But she did cum as she flirted with a hunk on here |
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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago
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I've never been much good for more than a few minutes which is why I focus far more on foreplay. I did have one girlfriend who was fairly insatiable so we were at it several times a day and I ended up being able to go on pretty much as long as needed, certainly 30mins plus. Probably in a catch 22 these days, try and avoid actual fucking so when I do, it's not a marathon. And with that statement, I've probably blown all my future meets out the water |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can last anything from minutes to 15 20 or half hour tho depends how sensitive my cock is and how many times I've cum
Once fucked the whole day literally from 9-5 and cum only twice then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slut has a regular well hung fuck buddy who can last a couple of hours and cums on demand. She is always satisfied when he leaves "
Cums on demand wow it's been years since i could do that I had a slutty ex who would suck n swallow me whenever and sometimes make me cum soon as she gave me one lick lol but when I fucked her took ages to cum. |
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"Sometimes I'm fairly quick, sometimes it's hours. I don't time myself, because how long one lasts isn't the sole or particularly important factor in good sex."
This 
Although if you cum in 10seconds it kinda fucks play up if you're not a repeater... Happened to me twice now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everybody's different. I've never been able to last more than a couple of minutes so tend to focus on foreplay and hopefully get a lady to climax through non-penetrative sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends really, I seldom cum from penetration, I tend to have tons of foreplay, then lots of penetration and then back to foreplay, at my ripe old age my hips tend to seize up before I cum so I usually end up being finished off my hand or mouth, or by finishing myself off as the lady gets the feeling back in her legs, do any other girls feel like their legs have popped off by the way?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's more about the build up for me. Fingers, tongue, lips even a strategically placed thigh all add to the pleasure.
The actual in out shake it all about bit is not as interesting as hearing the moaning and breath get quicker while pressing the right buttons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Half an hour of high quality pounding (with oral in between) does me. Then a rest. Then Part 2.
I can't be doing with having oral performed on me for ages. It's a pre-cursor to sex, not the main course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It varies from partner to partner and it's not something I've ever felt I needed to run a stopwatch against.
Besides actual preventative sex is just a small part of the overall sexual experience. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I had one man that only lasted approx 30 seconds XXX"
that long bloody hell bet you was well pleased with his Olympic style performance
I hope you thank him afterwards for his herculean effort  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm wanting it to last I have a few techniques to avoid making him cum, my last time I had sex I had two men and between them they lasted an hour but one of them had to leave early due to the travel back. The man before that came relatively quickly but we went for 2 rounds which I was more than pleased with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every woman is different. Some like marathon sessions of an hour or so, others like multiple sessions of say 10/15 mins each.
The trick is to learn what makes them tick and adapt your style to their needs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like guys who last for ages. Unless they can Cum when I want them too. I find most guys don't actually last that long. I don't really mind once they put effort into the play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like guys who last for ages. Unless they can Cum when I want them too. I find most guys don't actually last that long. I don't really mind once they put effort into the play."
When I started out I found it hard to cum, because I was nervous. It took some time for me to be able to fully relax and let myself orgasm with someone. These days I still last quite a while, but am able to make it happen pretty much whenever I want |
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70 yrs, if the average age is anything to go by, lol.
Had a fantastic Friday night and Saturday morning, about 4 hours in total but it certainly wasn't all penetrative sex. Hands and mouths exploring each others bodies, massage and some penetrative sex all of which is amazing.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like questions like this. It's like how big should a womans breasts be? If we are more likely to agree on the meaning of life that agree on the answer.
The answer is of course what you and the person/people you're playing with both enjoy! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had one man that only lasted approx 30 seconds XXX"
I had one who ejaculated as soon as he entered me. A memorable experience... Just not for the right reasons  |
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This! Is usual for partners I have had... FB into foreplay big time, then when we have sex its quick ish but amazing! He moves/grinds it into me ... slowly and purposefully
My other half, is not as into foreplay but can last ages... Has me all over in different positions and fucks me hard! Love that too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends, a quickie 10-15 minutes but if your playing and stopping and starting changing from oral to penetration to tactile play then I can last for a good couple of hours before I come.
I've never looked at it as a race |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i like to spend more time pleasuring a woman in all ways rather than worry about how long I am going to last. Question is, how long till you can go agin? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i like to spend more time pleasuring a woman in all ways rather than worry about how long I am going to last. Question is, how long till you can go agin? lol "
Straight away
Contrary to popular belief your tounge works as soon as you've cum |
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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago
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"How long does an average male last in sex in one go.
My record was 15 minutes through constant penetration last night. "
As long as it takes for the lady to be fully satisfied i guess! |
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Really takes d hours and he puts the effort in to please me makes my legs go to jelly and my fanny tingle and pop for days
Don't like quickeys
Pentration is just a part of sex and shouldn't be rushed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How long does an average male last in sex in one go.
My record was 15 minutes through constant penetration last night. "
4 hours but thats not constant fucking, thats lots of sucking, playing, fucking, teasing and stroking ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me i tend to go one of 2 ways either i cum in 5-10 mins or so or i cant cum at all and i get to the point where i think im going to and the sensation goes i find that even more frustrating as i then get in my own head thinking is she bored do i carry on, do i stop, will she take it personally etc etc but have to stop otherwise i could be banging away for an hour and never get there 
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there a right or wrong answer to this? It depends on the situation if it needs to be quick then it can be and similarly if we have all day/night can pace it accordingly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me i tend to go one of 2 ways either i cum in 5-10 mins or so or i cant cum at all and i get to the point where i think im going to and the sensation goes i find that even more frustrating as i then get in my own head thinking is she bored do i carry on, do i stop, will she take it personally etc etc but have to stop otherwise i could be banging away for an hour and never get there
Mr"
this for me that's why second no limit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like questions like this. It's like how big should a womans breasts be? If we are more likely to agree on the meaning of life that agree on the answer.
The answer is of course what you and the person/people you're playing with both enjoy! lol"
Easy DD |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there a right or wrong answer to this? It depends on the situation if it needs to be quick then it can be and similarly if we have all day/night can pace it accordingly! "
exactly...and everyone and every situation is different, so the answer will always be different too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i tend to try and stop fucking when I feel I'm cumming so I can last a bit longer . I just pull out then proceed to lick pussy which I feel is my speciality as I have a large tongue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One lady's profile I've read today demands at least 3 hrs from her studs. When I was 17 I'd cum all the time, by the bucket-load!
Now I'm older I can fuck for well over an hour. Depends on the lady, how horny we are, the comfort of the bed or area, the position, the speed at which we're going at it. Obviously, the faster you go the more energy you consume, the sooner you'll lose your stamina.
Remember, it's not so much about the destination so much as the journey. Take care to enjoy the journey. Explore, take time, indulge her and gently, slowly, forget the worries about stamina and energy and focus on enjoying the feeling of her and giving her the time to enjoy feeling you. You'll last tons longer and she'll probably be very grateful for it. Speed isn't everything! Less is more! |
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Not as long as I used to do as a younger man. It varies now, so I do like to spend as long as Mrs S likes with oral and foreplay before the actual penetration side of things. At the end of the day its Mrs S's satisfaction that is the ultimate goal for me, however that is achieved. Either on my own or with the help of a friend.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had times where it's 5 minutes and times where I couldn't cum at all. I find generally if I try and delay until my partner cums then if I don't cum right at the point she does then I probably won't cum at all so I can go all night. That's a blessing and a curse at the same time. I've been accused of not finding partners attractive but it's a mental thing whereby I've resisted cumming and then can't let go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well sex is only intended in our natural state as a reproductive act, that is to make a baby.
As cavemen and women we needed our energy for hunting and gathering. Sex takes up too much precious energy.
Therefore in its basic form men are supposed to be quick as a lot of energy is needed.
Just banging away men should only last 5-8 minutes as that's what nature intended (crap sex)
But doing it right and getting your Fab subs paid up then....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find in a group of 5 or 6 men there are usually cumers after 10 to 15 mins but they recover to fuck again... Others can last 2 hours and then cum. It's all down to control it seems.... |
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