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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have had over 50 meets on fab but my rule is never to disclose my surname or address to a meet. It is amazing how you can then Google a name and Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter details etc come up. Then if it's a peat who becomes needy you can find it a nightmare.
To me privacy is an essential part of swinging so no meets at homes for me.
I have been to a few parties and am always amazed at how trusting folk are! But I think that caution is always wise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't give out any personal details to people i meet on here
i dont meer at home, swap numbers give out my name and i dont use facebook or twitter
I'm single and have three daughets i don't want a guy off here turning up at my front door while my girls are home
some nutters out there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i don't give out any personal details to people i meet on here
i dont meer at home, swap numbers give out my name and i dont use facebook or twitter
I'm single and have three daughets i don't want a guy off here turning up at my front door while my girls are home
some nutters out there "
Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only give our address to people we meeting there. That's after careful vetting. However saying that, we did have a single guy who stalked Mrs m for ages, he found out where we lived and have no idea how, had to get the police involved in the end. |
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By *adysilkCouple
over a year ago
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"i don't give out any personal details to people i meet on here
i dont meer at home, swap numbers give out my name and i dont use facebook or twitter
I'm single and have three daughets i don't want a guy off here turning up at my front door while my girls are home
some nutters out there
Totally agree"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was a little nieve last time I was in fab. Was at a party and stupidly gave my full name. The person was then able to goole me and turn up at my house. Can never be to careful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have met some nice people on here, arranged meets in clubs. Became good friends and only then invited them over."
This!
We just trust our judgement not to swing with nutters in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was a little nieve last time I was in fab. Was at a party and stupidly gave my full name. The person was then able to goole me and turn up at my house. Can never be to careful."
Exactly
The power of Google |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't give surnames out at all or address have had a few meets at home but only after careful social and meets at clubs...bit different for single females I would imagine...think most of the nutters would think more than twice though about couples. |
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I am suprised at how much info some people share on here,ie work placesand ,mobiles and even areas they are in.
It doesnt take much for people to be able to identify you ,especially if you have a face picture on display.
We only use kik,meet publically first etc.
Miss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it quite amazing how people can track you down and there's no way of knowing what kinds of people are out there.
I'm always amazed by single women who want to meet me in their own home for the first meet.
Now where's my hacksaw and black bags? 
And yes it's me being flippant making a tastless joke. |
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We use a phone purely for play. This helps keep our numbers private.
We also have a few other bits in place to protect ourselves from those who could potentially stalk us.
Proper planning prevents piss poor performance...touch wood we havent had any come backs on it yet, but no system is totally perfect |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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Contrary to most, I do meet at mine almost exclusively. I take a long time before I meet and so out a lot of jerks. I almost never do spontaneous "spur of the moment" meets. So far (touch wood) I've had zero problems. I'm a single female but I have no kids at home (if I did, no way would anyone come to my home). As far as people recognizing me I don't really care, I've seen people I know here on Fab and if anyone wants to find out my work place be my guest. I am picky about phone numbers - only give out mine on the day of the meet not before. I never do phone "chats" or KIK or Whatsup or other shite like that. Maybe having a play phone as suggested above is a good idea but I can't be bothered with having 2 numbers |
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