 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Evening all, have anyone ever had to often prepare backup plans for meets and arrangements from here or anywhere in the swinging scene, as the first meet tends to be a let down for some reason? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
No I haven't had to do that, thankfully. Even if I had a no show, I wouldn't try to find another meet at short notice. I'm too fussy in my selection process
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"No I haven't had to do that, thankfully. Even if I had a no show, I wouldn't try to find another meet at short notice. I'm too fussy in my selection process
"
In his defence...he didn't say it was necessarily "someone else".
Only girls have that luxury on here  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We've had occasions where we have booked a hotel and have been let down.
You can't exactly go back over the others that showed an interest in your advertised meet and tell them they are back up or second choice so we see who's about.
Usually no-one, so we usually ravage each other and upload new pictures letting the let downs see what they missed.
Some then try to make contact with rubbish excuses and get blocked. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We'd always have a backup plan but it would involve just us. We'd find it disrespectful to plan with someone else just in case. How must it feel for the person 'on standby' so to speak. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No I haven't had to do that, thankfully. Even if I had a no show, I wouldn't try to find another meet at short notice. I'm too fussy in my selection process
In his defence...he didn't say it was necessarily "someone else".
Only girls have that luxury on here "
In his defense?? I was in no way offensive to the OP, and just replied to the post in the way that I read it.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've been a back up plan....at least I assume a message saying ah it's ok, I'm sorted for tonight now implies I was plan b....she contacted me and this was after a few messages back and forth |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Yes to a degree.... if meeting privately its always not far from a club .. or meet in a club as then if it all goes pete tong then plenty of other options |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
For first meets off here I always have a back up plan. It means if the meet is cancelled for any reason (which is frequently) I don't have to mope about for the next few hours wondering what to do. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"For first meets off here I always have a back up plan. It means if the meet is cancelled for any reason (which is frequently) I don't have to mope about for the next few hours wondering what to do. "
You're bringing all the old posts back, huh?  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
