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By *umCum999 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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Tried numerous Viagra tabs and they make no difference whatsoever. At 62 yrs old never had normal sex for about 12-15 years and frightened to have a relationship and really scared to be on my own for the rest of my life. Is there ANYTHING I can do or is it a case of acceptance, someone please help.?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First CALM down Viagra only helps blood flow if that's the issue. If for instance, you have chronic back pain, depression or any number of other TREATABLE conditions causing it.
GO to the doctor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not been to doc I'm afraid."
We'll definitely. You need an MOT, tell them when you book appointment. High blood pressure causes ED. that's just an example how other problems cause it. If it is blood pressure, and they put you on medication to correct it, not only do you get hard ons again, you get to not die. Bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shit. Did you mean "not been to docs. I'm afraid?? Dude it ok if you are that good ole self preservation. They got stuff for all sorts mate they will put you right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once fear / anxiety increases it can be self perpetuating, but do go to your doctor there are other medications and the most common causes arec psychological.
Sending big hugs.. I went through a patch years ago when I was at uni, shyness, inexperience and drinking too much, just try and confront it and not let it build up to a bigger issue than it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do you watch a lot of porn? there is a condition which will cause this down to the brains impulses. google my brain on porn for an interesting read" Shit. I wank to porn every night, I'm nearly 60, get regular hard ons, hope the porn isn't damaging me!
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By *umCum999 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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Still looking for anyone that knows what treatments may be available. "BUT" still extremely grateful for the lovely replies without making an ARSE out of me with sarcasm. Lost my wife last year and still have an extremely heavy heart but need to move on as too lonely on my own and look to certain places for warmth and comfort, Thankyou everyone for helping, xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Still looking for anyone that knows what treatments may be available. "BUT" still extremely grateful for the lovely replies without making an ARSE out of me with sarcasm. Lost my wife last year and still have an extremely heavy heart but need to move on as too lonely on my own and look to certain places for warmth and comfort, Thankyou everyone for helping, xxxxx "
As numerous people have said, your GP is the best avenue to find out what treatments are available. You know, those medical folk trained to give medical advice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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First and foremost the most common cause of ED is purely psychological.
Go to your GP, talk to him. Tell him how you feel exactly, and leave nothing out.
Can I ask, do you get involuntary erections at all? Or can you get one if you're masturbating? |
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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago
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Like people say go to the doc, but if you drink alot that allways kills a hardon, if you do drink dnt jst stop cut down bit by bit then stop,im sure your good old pecker will come back to life xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There could be medical reasons also as to why you can't get or maintain an erection.
Only your doctor will be able to help you.
Although most men suffer at some point with it so don't beat yourself up over it.
Taking an ED medication without being prescribed has an element of risk. |
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+1 for seeing the doc. I struggled with depression and anxiety for a few years which really affected my sexual performance. I got past that and everything's now back to normal.
Not making the assumption that that's the root cause in you're case but psychological issues have a major knock-on effect elsewhere in the body. It's definitely something you can overcome but you need to take the first step yourself. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tried numerous Viagra tabs and they make no difference whatsoever. At 62 yrs old never had normal sex for about 12-15 years and frightened to have a relationship and really scared to be on my own for the rest of my life. Is there ANYTHING I can do or is it a case of acceptance, someone please help.??"
Try some L Cartinine. To get a erection you need a supply of nitric oxide on your blood to get the blood circulating. L carnitine is used as a booster. To find out there's nitric oxide test strips available from amazon and that will tell you your levels. It's been suggested up to 80% of erection problems can be fixed by taking a N.O boost. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I never read all through this first. Go to the docs as what is causing it could be life threatining. Still get the test strips as that way at least you can tell your doc about it and they can work with you.
If it comes back that you have diabetes, high blood pressure or anything diet related the L carnitine will help. |
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Look trust me it can be fixed I could not get a hard on for a few months and I was only 22 it boiled down to depression and antixy go to your doc tell them what's going on also yes we all love to watch porn and wank butt if you do that lots of at lest before your going to have sex it won't help hope your feeling better soon |
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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago
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"Tried numerous Viagra tabs and they make no difference whatsoever. At 62 yrs old never had normal sex for about 12-15 years and frightened to have a relationship and really scared to be on my own for the rest of my life. Is there ANYTHING I can do or is it a case of acceptance, someone please help.??"
You should post this in tge Irish forum, loads of guys in there have this issue and should be able to advise. |
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"Tried numerous Viagra tabs and they make no difference whatsoever. At 62 yrs old never had normal sex for about 12-15 years and frightened to have a relationship and really scared to be on my own for the rest of my life. Is there ANYTHING I can do or is it a case of acceptance, someone please help.??"
wow that is such a sad, heart felt thing to hear. I really hope something can be done to help you. have you tried alprostadil? It may be an option for you. |
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An erection that lasts 4 hours is serious reduction of blood flow can cause permanent tissue death. DOnt worry if all else fails get the doc to prescribe injection into shaft of penis. I used to help a couple out who had similar problems, Hope i never get there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Still looking for anyone that knows what treatments may be available. "BUT" still extremely grateful for the lovely replies without making an ARSE out of me with sarcasm. Lost my wife last year and still have an extremely heavy heart but need to move on as too lonely on my own and look to certain places for warmth and comfort, Thankyou everyone for helping, xxxxx "
There you have it, sorry to hear you lost your wife, but stress will be part of it...as others have said already you MUST go and get help.
Good luck hope it works out. |
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