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"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually? Surely good sex is not judged based on a race? Just a question out of curiosity." We guess the answer goes back to people's choices. If they decide it matters, then it does. That is all there is to it in our opinion. | |||
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"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually? Surely good sex is not judged based on a race? Just a question out of curiosity." too some yes it will... to others no.. For me i like light hair.. green or blue eyes and characteristics that are quite specific. So for me its sexual attraction.. so it matters to me. | |||
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"It doesn't matter to me. except that a cultural background that includes poor treatment of women would put me off meeting." Yep if a man can't treat a woman right they are not worthy to touch another. | |||
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"There's a certain race I'm not at all attracted to. " That's normal as people mentioned physical attraction is necessary | |||
"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually? Surely good sex is not judged based on a race? Just a question out of curiosity." Good sex is based on attraction,. | |||
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"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question. Your hear things like: Black guys got massive dicks Asian guys are small Asian girls are tight etc etc But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc." So you think that all black guys have big cocks?? | |||
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"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually? Surely good sex is not judged based on a race? Just a question out of curiosity." Yes - agree with another poster a certain race wouldn't meet | |||
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" Nope I'm just outlining the stereotypes I'm more interested to know where that stereotype originated from. " We are conf used. On one hand you say you don't believe in the stereotypes,on the other hand you ask if they are true. Is this all about trying to get some attention? | |||
"Attraction is important,not race. I can be attracted to a man of any race,not because of his race. " totally agree with this 
But...a huge turn off is a guy selling himself on his profile because of his colour  | |||
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" Nope I'm just outlining the stereotypes I'm more interested to know where that stereotype originated from. We are conf used. On one hand you say you don't believe in the stereotypes,on the other hand you ask if they are true. Is this all about trying to get some attention? " He's asking for clarification,as far as I can see. | |||
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"As for stereotyping,I've met black men with average size cocks,Asian men with above average cocks and white men with huge cocks. I also know black and white men who treat women deplorably. I'm attracted to whomsoever floats my boat,not the image someone else portrays them as. " Well said. Personally I can be attracted to women of all races, skin colour and stereotypes don't factor into attractiveness in my opinion | |||
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"Nope, all races are equal. It's a persons beliefs that can often turn them into a cunt." Agreed. | |||
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"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question. Your hear things like: Black guys got massive dicks Asian guys are small Asian girls are tight etc etc But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc. So you think that all black guys have big cocks??" In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true. But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types. | |||
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"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question. Your hear things like: Black guys got massive dicks Asian guys are small Asian girls are tight etc etc But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc. So you think that all black guys have big cocks?? In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true. But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types. " Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though. | |||
"For me personally race does not matter. I'm more interested in the person than the color of their skin. I've been with several races across 5 continents over my 10 years of swinging. " so if it dosnt matter why the username? Not having a pop just interested? | |||
"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question. Your hear things like: Black guys got massive dicks Asian guys are small Asian girls are tight etc etc But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc. So you think that all black guys have big cocks?? In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true. But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types. Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though." I wasn't trying to establish any facts, rather I was just responding to the OP's question based on my own personal experience. | |||
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"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question. Your hear things like: Black guys got massive dicks Asian guys are small Asian girls are tight etc etc But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc. So you think that all black guys have big cocks?? In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true. But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types. Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though. I wasn't trying to establish any facts, rather I was just responding to the OP's question based on my own personal experience. " Ok that's fine, in my experience black guys are no bigger than whites, perhaps I'm just comparing my own cock to them though. | |||
"For me personally race does not matter. I'm more interested in the person than the color of their skin. I've been with several races across 5 continents over my 10 years of swinging. so if it dosnt matter why the username? Not having a pop just interested?" WelI I wasn't trying to portray my race by using that username. I keep changing my username from time to time, so I just use whatever comes to mind at the time without actually thinking hard about it. | |||
"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question. Your hear things like: Black guys got massive dicks Asian guys are small Asian girls are tight etc etc But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc. So you think that all black guys have big cocks?? In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true. But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types. Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though. I wasn't trying to establish any facts, rather I was just responding to the OP's question based on my own personal experience. Ok that's fine, in my experience black guys are no bigger than whites, perhaps I'm just comparing my own cock to them though." Yes you probably comparing yours to theirs lol. You got a big one though !!  | |||
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"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question. Your hear things like: Black guys got massive dicks Asian guys are small Asian girls are tight etc etc But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc. So you think that all black guys have big cocks?? In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true. But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types. Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though. I wasn't trying to establish any facts, rather I was just responding to the OP's question based on my own personal experience. Ok that's fine, in my experience black guys are no bigger than whites, perhaps I'm just comparing my own cock to them though. Yes you probably comparing yours to theirs lol. You got a big one though !! "Well, we're all from Africa originally anyway, maybe I just held onto some of those genetics  | |||
"As for stereotyping,I've met black men with average size cocks,Asian men with above average cocks and white men with huge cocks. I also know black and white men who treat women deplorably. I'm attracted to whomsoever floats my boat,not the image someone else portrays them as. " - you got the nail on the head. Every colour ( I refuse to use the word race cos it is a word coined from a time when people were unenlightened and ignorant) has the best and worst (depending on what you think is best or worst) but stereotypes abound and are a poisonous thing. | |||
"Race matters to me when it's used against me and makes me into something exotic to be fetishized and ticked off a sexual to do list. Other than that, nope." Definitely echo this. I know the feeling all too well.. | |||
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"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question. Your hear things like: Black guys got massive dicks Asian guys are small Asian girls are tight etc etc But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc. So you think that all black guys have big cocks?? In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true. But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types. Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though. I wasn't trying to establish any facts, rather I was just responding to the OP's question based on my own personal experience. Ok that's fine, in my experience black guys are no bigger than whites, perhaps I'm just comparing my own cock to them though. Yes you probably comparing yours to theirs lol. You got a big one though !!
Well, we're all from Africa originally anyway, maybe I just held onto some of those genetics"
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"There's a certain race I'm not at all attracted to. " Me too! I hate the 1500m.... | |||
"Truth hurts "And the truth is...what, exactly? | |||
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"I challenge the very notion of 'race' - it's a construct, not a reality. On a purely genetic level, a Zulu from S Africa has more in common, genetically speaking, with someone from northern Europe than they do to someone from Ethiopia. Turns out skin colour is a bad marker for 'difference'." Last time I cared to read into it (which was well over a decade ago), Biologists felt that threre were 4 "races" of humans - African (modern, ie black), Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc), Caucasian (European, some parts of North Africa, India etc) and Aborigine (Aus, Tazmania). I couldn't be arsed to persue it academically because I feel that politics would get in the way of sensible biology. | |||
"Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc) " That's amazing, I knew it, always thought Native Americans had a similar look to those of the Far East | |||
"Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc) That's amazing, I knew it, always thought Native Americans had a similar look to those of the Far East "Siberia was once (in recent history, geographically speaking) joined to the USA, it is thought that is now people first came to North America. | |||
"I challenge the very notion of 'race' - it's a construct, not a reality. On a purely genetic level, a Zulu from S Africa has more in common, genetically speaking, with someone from northern Europe than they do to someone from Ethiopia. Turns out skin colour is a bad marker for 'difference'. Last time I cared to read into it (which was well over a decade ago), Biologists felt that threre were 4 "races" of humans - African (modern, ie black), Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc), Caucasian (European, some parts of North Africa, India etc) and Aborigine (Aus, Tazmania). I couldn't be arsed to persue it academically because I feel that politics would get in the way of sensible biology. " Race is a modern idea. Ancient societies, like the Romans, did not divide people according to physical distinctions, but according to religion, status, class, even language. A short-and-sweet definition of race is that it is a combination of biology and culture, the idea that your blood carries with it cultural traits, behaviours, rather than just outward appearances. The 19th cent. sees scholarship focused on this concept to explain differences between human populations, to explain economic, social, and cultural inequality worldwide. Africa was primitive and backward because they were African; Indians were unable to govern themselves because they were Indian, &c. This is markedly different than just acknowledging a difference in appearance or skin tone; in race, appearance and skin tone become markings of culture and behaviour. Ergo, race is a construct. | |||
"I challenge the very notion of 'race' - it's a construct, not a reality. On a purely genetic level, a Zulu from S Africa has more in common, genetically speaking, with someone from northern Europe than they do to someone from Ethiopia. Turns out skin colour is a bad marker for 'difference'. Last time I cared to read into it (which was well over a decade ago), Biologists felt that threre were 4 "races" of humans - African (modern, ie black), Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc), Caucasian (European, some parts of North Africa, India etc) and Aborigine (Aus, Tazmania). I couldn't be arsed to persue it academically because I feel that politics would get in the way of sensible biology. Race is a modern idea. Ancient societies, like the Romans, did not divide people according to physical distinctions, but according to religion, status, class, even language. A short-and-sweet definition of race is that it is a combination of biology and culture, the idea that your blood carries with it cultural traits, behaviours, rather than just outward appearances. The 19th cent. sees scholarship focused on this concept to explain differences between human populations, to explain economic, social, and cultural inequality worldwide. Africa was primitive and backward because they were African; Indians were unable to govern themselves because they were Indian, &c. This is markedly different than just acknowledging a difference in appearance or skin tone; in race, appearance and skin tone become markings of culture and behaviour. Ergo, race is a construct." well does me tick the box a pure celt!!  ? | |||
"Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc) That's amazing, I knew it, always thought Native Americans had a similar look to those of the Far East
Siberia was once (in recent history, geographically speaking) joined to the USA, it is thought that is now people first came to North America. "I thought as much, the 'slant' to Far Eastern eyes is a lot more obvious, but you can definitely see something similar in Native Americans, also, there's a uniqueness to the sound of both their voices, it becomes much clearer when they speak English, it seems to come from deeper down in the throat, around the clavicle. It's also interesting that both races are known for their traditional, naturalistic philosophies and holistic spiritual wisdom, I wonder similar patterns in their brain make up could be observed? | |||
"I challenge the very notion of 'race' - it's a construct, not a reality. On a purely genetic level, a Zulu from S Africa has more in common, genetically speaking, with someone from northern Europe than they do to someone from Ethiopia. Turns out skin colour is a bad marker for 'difference'. Last time I cared to read into it (which was well over a decade ago), Biologists felt that threre were 4 "races" of humans - African (modern, ie black), Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc), Caucasian (European, some parts of North Africa, India etc) and Aborigine (Aus, Tazmania). I couldn't be arsed to persue it academically because I feel that politics would get in the way of sensible biology. Race is a modern idea. Ancient societies, like the Romans, did not divide people according to physical distinctions, but according to religion, status, class, even language. A short-and-sweet definition of race is that it is a combination of biology and culture, the idea that your blood carries with it cultural traits, behaviours, rather than just outward appearances. The 19th cent. sees scholarship focused on this concept to explain differences between human populations, to explain economic, social, and cultural inequality worldwide. Africa was primitive and backward because they were African; Indians were unable to govern themselves because they were Indian, &c. This is markedly different than just acknowledging a difference in appearance or skin tone; in race, appearance and skin tone become markings of culture and behaviour. Ergo, race is a construct. well does me tick the box a pure celt!! ?"What is a Celt and how can you proved that you are descended purely from one? | |||
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"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question. Your hear things like: Black guys got massive dicks Asian guys are small Asian girls are tight etc etc But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc." Yes, it's sad to find a black guy with a little togder. You feel slightly short-changed. But I knew a Pakistani guy with an impressive shlong. Whatever. And Asian girls - what does that even mean? Everyone from Persians to Indians to Vietnamese to Mongolians to Filipinos? Their fannies do expand you know.  | |||
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"To OP's question. I'd say yes it does sadly. To cut to the chase, I think the whole notion of this site is based on objectification - choosing people purely on how they look and determined by preconstructed notions of preference. But that's what we do here. On the one one hand it's inherently depressing (for me), on the other hand people take their clothes off together and this probably breaks down those separations eventually so that's good (in my eyes). It's a minefield." No, it's a red herring, to mix a metaphor | |||
"I challenge the very notion of 'race' - it's a construct, not a reality. On a purely genetic level, a Zulu from S Africa has more in common, genetically speaking, with someone from northern Europe than they do to someone from Ethiopia. Turns out skin colour is a bad marker for 'difference'. Last time I cared to read into it (which was well over a decade ago), Biologists felt that threre were 4 "races" of humans - African (modern, ie black), Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc), Caucasian (European, some parts of North Africa, India etc) and Aborigine (Aus, Tazmania). I couldn't be arsed to persue it academically because I feel that politics would get in the way of sensible biology. Race is a modern idea. Ancient societies, like the Romans, did not divide people according to physical distinctions, but according to religion, status, class, even language. A short-and-sweet definition of race is that it is a combination of biology and culture, the idea that your blood carries with it cultural traits, behaviours, rather than just outward appearances. The 19th cent. sees scholarship focused on this concept to explain differences between human populations, to explain economic, social, and cultural inequality worldwide. Africa was primitive and backward because they were African; Indians were unable to govern themselves because they were Indian, &c. This is markedly different than just acknowledging a difference in appearance or skin tone; in race, appearance and skin tone become markings of culture and behaviour. Ergo, race is a construct." "Race" in this sense is "biologically distinct populations" (that are still capable of breeding, if they couldin't interbreed then it is a "species" question). Hence a "celt" is the same "race" as someone from Pakistan. And this is why I paid no more attention to it. There is no politics to get in the way of me saying that trout from stream (a) are genetically distinct from trout in stream (b).... | |||
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"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx" Funnily enough, two of my most disappointing encounters have been with Japanese people*. They both just *lay* there, like life-sized dolls for me to arrange. It was just weird. The Chinese are goer, tho'. . . . . . . . . . . . * based on a population sample of 2, one man, one woman | |||
"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx Funnily enough, two of my most disappointing encounters have been with Japanese people*. They both just *lay* there, like life-sized dolls for me to arrange. It was just weird. The Chinese are goer, tho'. . . . . . . . . . . . * based on a population sample of 2, one man, one woman "Celts? | |||
"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx Funnily enough, two of my most disappointing encounters have been with Japanese people*. They both just *lay* there, like life-sized dolls for me to arrange. It was just weird. The Chinese are goer, tho'. . . . . . . . . . . . * based on a population sample of 2, one man, one woman Celts?"I have fucked people who might identify as Celtish. | |||
"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx Funnily enough, two of my most disappointing encounters have been with Japanese people*. They both just *lay* there, like life-sized dolls for me to arrange. It was just weird. The Chinese are goer, tho'. . . . . . . . . . . . * based on a population sample of 2, one man, one woman Celts?"Celt isn't a race - it is caucasian. The same race as someone from India. | |||
so do you meeting with Polish guy them ?? If you have any Chance ?  | |||
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"A Pussy is a pussy no matter what. A Dick is a dick no matter what. It doesn't matter who what where if fucked properly they will cum regardless. The matter of race is preferential and attraction. However the stereotyping shows how ignorant and uneducated some people are. "the vagina has to fresh or I ain't goin near it I have standards lol | |||
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"Wow I wasn't expecting a response like this, it looks like the thread has turned in to the house of frigging parliament." Sorry about that | |||
"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually? Surely good sex is not judged based on a race? Just a question out of curiosity." Just like people like tall people, fat people, it is all donlawn to personal preference. | |||
"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx" | |||
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"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx "This | |||
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"It doesn't matter to me. except that a cultural background that includes poor treatment of women would put me off meeting." | |||
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"As far as I am concerned there is only one race and that is the human race. Racism is taught by example. " | |||
"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually? Surely good sex is not judged based on a race? Just a question out of curiosity." I seen the question as who IS better at sex.. I'm a mix..scottish/belizean..and I have no real heritage leanings(maybe aprt from scottishness) some times am great at sex..sometimes I'm not, even with the same person.. what I engage with, is my mind..and in most cases thats what people actually find pleasurable. | |||
"Race seems to matter to people who think they fall into some kind of race issue Case in point 'Black lives matter' I agree But then so do White Brown Yellow If you want them and us Please continue with this " Not sure what point is being made here. However, let's not detract from the real message of Black lives matter by deflecting and saying other lives don't. Black lives matter doesn't imply or mean other lives don't, it means just that. It signifies a very important message to remind people of the societal and systemic injustices that Black people have to fight and go through everyday. The fact that you don't see things through that prism doesn't mean that you have to really see it for it to be true or present. So to dilute that message by implying that they are saying that other lives don't matter is weak and brushing under the carpet what is fact. And yes there is a race issue whether you choose to see it or not. Something tells me deep down inside you as a human being, you know there is. | |||
"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually? Surely good sex is not judged based on a race? Just a question out of curiosity. I seen the question as who IS better at sex.. I'm a mix..scottish/belizean..and I have no real heritage leanings(maybe aprt from scottishness) some times am great at sex..sometimes I'm not, even with the same person.. what I engage with, is my mind..and in most cases thats what people actually find pleasurable."
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"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question. Your hear things like: Black guys got massive dicks Asian guys are small Asian girls are tight etc etc But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc." I have never heard the Asian girls are tight thing? | |||
"As far as I am concerned there is only one race and that is the human race. Racism is taught by example. " I always find the race issue is used by those who feel the need to justify their own failings and inadequacies, in 2016 most people have got over racial prejudices that were handed down from a different era | |||
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"As far as I am concerned there is only one race and that is the human race. Racism is taught by example. I always find the race issue is used by those who feel the need to justify their own failings and inadequacies, in 2016 most people have got over racial prejudices that were handed down from a different era" I know that adults are still handing down prejudices to children. And those children pass those prejudices on to their peers and influence them. We still have a long way to go. | |||
"As far as I am concerned there is only one race and that is the human race. Racism is taught by example. I always find the race issue is used by those who feel the need to justify their own failings and inadequacies, in 2016 most people have got over racial prejudices that were handed down from a different era I know that adults are still handing down prejudices to children. And those children pass those prejudices on to their peers and influence them. We still have a long way to go. " We really do....we live in rural Wiltshire and on the doorstep to Army bases....there are a pair of black twins in a predominantly white school where my daughter goes and she heard them say that they weren't going to talk to her because she's white and they weren't allowed to talk to white children. This confused the hell out of her! It still goes on and not always the way you expect. | |||
"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually? Surely good sex is not judged based on a race? Just a question out of curiosity." To be honest I don't care. If they were nice I'd be in there. | |||
"I think we're all related to bananas somehow. " We share half our DNA with them. | |||
"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually? Surely good sex is not judged based on a race? Just a question out of curiosity." Race doesn't come into it at all on our part . | |||
"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually? Surely good sex is not judged based on a race? Just a question out of curiosity. Race doesn't come into it at all on our part ." Snap! | |||
"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually? Surely good sex is not judged based on a race? Just a question out of curiosity. Race doesn't come into it at all on our part . Snap!" | |||
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"Nope, race doesn't matter Neither does height, nor weight nor whether he looks like Quasimodo or even if he is a he or she I'll fuck with anyone as long as they have a dick or a fanny and not because I am desperate; oh no [ the above complies with the Equalities Act 2010 ]" | |||
its about how you use it to satisfy the woman, someone called BD*** what ever his username is 10 years of swinging experience lol ok, and you found it to be true mate your wrong not every black guy has a big dick and not every black lasts long in bed its the same for all guys don't matter about their colour  | |||
"There's a certain race I'm not at all attracted to. " I could empirically deduce from your original post why you hid your profile. You not bold to spill whats on your chest out of fear of being judged on the grounds of race. What you need to realise is whatever race people are born with they didn't choose to come out that way! Even you OP now look at yourself again and ask...did you choose your race? | |||
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