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By *pices69 OP Couple
over a year ago
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I see a few questions on here about dating and swinging, challeneges with new relations, partners and complications.
I saw a post earlier, and if i may respectfully interpret. They implied they would be hiding part of they are, due to not dating a swinger. It made me think.
So my question is now: could you date someone who wasnt into swinging? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see a few questions on here about dating and swinging, challeneges with new relations, partners and complications.
I saw a post earlier, and if i may respectfully interpret. They implied they would be hiding part of they are, due to not dating a swinger. It made me think.
So my question is now: could you date someone who wasnt into swinging?"
Yes. But the more interesting questions are whether you'd give up (in my case, yes) and whether you'd tell them what you used to do (in my case possibly not or at least I might present it slightly differently) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, no problem at all. Not sure I'd tell them about my dalliances on here, men tend to either get super excited and think that means you'll be up for all sorts, or they think you're a slapper. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a hypocrite so I'd only date them if they weren't into swinging. Still be friends or swinging partners though.
I'd not be on here if i was dating someone but that's just me |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Only if they were ok with me swinging.
Cuckold relationships can have a situation like that occasionally.
I couldn't date someone who wasn't and wanted me to stop.
I would never say never but it's definitely not what I'm looking for at the moment. |
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"I hope I never have to date again but if I did I would be honest from day one about what I wanted from every aspect of a relationship, I think it would save time.
Yup. Me too"
I'm friends with someone who has asked his mum to arrange a marriage for him. She's introduced him to a couple of women and they sit down over the course of a few dates and discuss exactly what they want out of life and a relationship, so far they've decided they aren't compatible. It seems eminently sensible to me and while I dread to think who my parents would come up with for me  it's very similar to how I would go about things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, no problem at all. Not sure I'd tell them about my dalliances on here, men tend to either get super excited and think that means you'll be up for all sorts, or they think you're a slapper."
I wouldn't tell them about my past. Agree with the above re: men- there doesn't seem to be a middle ground.  |
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