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The usual advice applies. No domme is going to get excited by a guy saying he is a sub and 'wants...'.
You need, like on here, to put yourself about and go to socials and munches. Like here going to a club is not going to guarantee play.
You need to be clear about what kind of submission you are after, what type of domme you want. The fetish world is similar to fab in that couples and single women can pick and choose. The favourite phrases of dommes on here and on fetlife is 'what is in it for me?' and 'why should l want your submission?'.
I am someone who identifies as a dom but l am helping you out as l have been to a few parties where l have seen subs (primarily female) desperate for a dom. I hear from a female friend some subs really hurt if not in submission.
So get out and about and be respectful and who knows. Good luck. |
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"The usual advice applies. No domme is going to get excited by a guy saying he is a sub and 'wants...'.
You need, like on here, to put yourself about and go to socials and munches. Like here going to a club is not going to guarantee play.
You need to be clear about what kind of submission you are after, what type of domme you want. The fetish world is similar to fab in that couples and single women can pick and choose. The favourite phrases of dommes on here and on fetlife is 'what is in it for me?' and 'why should l want your submission?'.
I am someone who identifies as a dom but l am helping you out as l have been to a few parties where l have seen subs (primarily female) desperate for a dom. I hear from a female friend some subs really hurt if not in submission.
So get out and about and be respectful and who knows. Good luck."
What he just said.
Moreover, I've just commented on a thread about the very same topic which suggests people aren't looking very hard...  |
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