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over a year ago
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Hey everyone, newbie here. My question is about gushing - my last bf clearly didn't enjoy going down on me because I would cum loads, so I did all I could to not orgasm that way. This has damaged my self confidence and made this amazing and natural process feel dirty! Can you guys let me know your thoughts on this soggy subject!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are always going to be those that dont like it but theres plenty that do.
You shouldnt think of it as dirty or hold back your orgasms otherwise sex will never be enjoyable for you, you just got to find somebody that will love it and help build your confidence back up
Btw we would love it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are always going to be those that dont like it but theres plenty that do.
You shouldnt think of it as dirty or hold back your orgasms otherwise sex will never be enjoyable for you, you just got to find somebody that will love it and help build your confidence back up
Btw we would love it "
That's good to hear, thankyou. I need to feel like I'm not abnormal, plenty do it for heavens sake!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first time my wife gushed she was very self conscious of it as well and worried about wetting me through. Fortunately the power of the organ she has when this happens is amazing and for me (the husband) hearing feeling and tasting her when she has this experience is a massive turn on for me. I love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... my last bf clearly didn't enjoy going down on me because I would cum loads, so I did all I could to not orgasm that way."
If you're restricting your own pleasures and the way your body naturally reacts, to suit someone else, are you really enjoying yourself and the moment?
I guess what im trying to say is, feel confident in yourself and what you enjoy and go with it. Personally, i think its sexy ! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are always going to be those that dont like it but theres plenty that do.
You shouldnt think of it as dirty or hold back your orgasms otherwise sex will never be enjoyable for you, you just got to find somebody that will love it and help build your confidence back up
Btw we would love it
That's good to hear, thankyou. I need to feel like I'm not abnormal, plenty do it for heavens sake!! X"
Abnormal? Certainly not! There's plenty that gush, Niki being one of them, and as another poster said, as the male half I love it when she does, the clean up operation aft wards can be a mission, but bloody hell its worth it! Lol
Must say your ex must have been a dick, giving you oral sex until you gushed, if he didn't like it he could have easily pleasured you with his tongue, but not to orgasm, and brought you to orgasm in other ways. That way you could have relaxed and enjoyed being given pleasure without being worried about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I luv women who gush when cumming its the most amazing thing gets me rock hard too ...i luv the taste too nothing more erotic than a lady who can do this xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are always going to be those that dont like it but theres plenty that do.
You shouldnt think of it as dirty or hold back your orgasms otherwise sex will never be enjoyable for you, you just got to find somebody that will love it and help build your confidence back up
Btw we would love it
He wasn't a sex man, was quite happy for the vanilla variety and his fingers were fab but he never used them enough!!
That's good to hear, thankyou. I need to feel like I'm not abnormal, plenty do it for heavens sake!! X
Abnormal? Certainly not! There's plenty that gush, Niki being one of them, and as another poster said, as the male half I love it when she does, the clean up operation aft wards can be a mission, but bloody hell its worth it! Lol
Must say your ex must have been a dick, giving you oral sex until you gushed, if he didn't like it he could have easily pleasured you with his tongue, but not to orgasm, and brought you to orgasm in other ways. That way you could have relaxed and enjoyed being given pleasure without being worried about it. "
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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The gushing thing is quite new to me and I do feel very self conscious about it. Despite a lot of reassurance and encouragement I still don't really know how I feel about it.
As someone who has a lot of insecurities about everything I understand how you feel. However its certainly not abnormal and lots of people love it.
If it feels good go with it. Lifes too short to hold back xx |
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"There are always going to be those that dont like it but theres plenty that do.
You shouldnt think of it as dirty or hold back your orgasms otherwise sex will never be enjoyable for you, you just got to find somebody that will love it and help build your confidence back up
Btw we would love it "
...great advice .. just relax and let self go .. and enjoy the flow ... |
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"Hey everyone, newbie here. My question is about gushing - my last bf clearly didn't enjoy going down on me because I would cum loads, so I did all I could to not orgasm that way. This has damaged my self confidence and made this amazing and natural process feel dirty! Can you guys let me know your thoughts on this soggy subject!! "
When G and I first got together she would often say sorry to me for soaking me, be that from oral, riding me or whatever position we were in. She was very self conscious of it.
It has taken a while but now she accepts that I love it and find it serious turn on, this in turn turns her on.
As for holding back your own pleasure, it takes two (or more) to tango and should be good for everyone. Personally I think he should have just 'manned up' and gone with the flow.....
And to both you and _yldstyle - neither of us would mind! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I sometimes go shit the carpets took a tankin but Mr A couldn't care less....if your partner doesn't like something that's his choice ... you take the good with the bad and get on with it....I'm glad he's now your ex and you can get on with your life....and remember your more important that the upholstery x |
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I personally love it, I wouldn't hold back and as previously mentioned I get a kick out of seeing the guy so turned on by what he's doing to me.
It's all about the pleasure and who cares about a bit of extra washing loads when there's so much fun to be had  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What all the fuss about this gushing lark I'm sure there's a lot of people on here who can remember back when women cum and enjoyed it there was no gushing back then so how come everyone seems to be gushing get a life and stop pissng your selves that's what I say lol |
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"Hey everyone, newbie here. My question is about gushing - my last bf clearly didn't enjoy going down on me because I would cum loads, so I did all I could to not orgasm that way. This has damaged my self confidence and made this amazing and natural process feel dirty! Can you guys let me know your thoughts on this soggy subject!! "
Both Bugs and I love it when a girl gushes!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I personally love it, I wouldn't hold back and as previously mentioned I get a kick out of seeing the guy so turned on by what he's doing to me.
It's all about the pleasure and who cares about a bit of extra washing loads when there's so much fun to be had "
Couldnt agree more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What all the fuss about this gushing lark I'm sure there's a lot of people on here who can remember back when women cum and enjoyed it there was no gushing back then so how come everyone seems to be gushing get a life and stop pissng your selves that's what I say lol"
Ok then!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What all the fuss about this gushing lark I'm sure there's a lot of people on here who can remember back when women cum and enjoyed it there was no gushing back then so how come everyone seems to be gushing get a life and stop pissng your selves that's what I say lol"
Yeah I genuinely wonder if that is what 'gushing' really is! Although I do get very wet myself when aroused and NOT through peeing although I'm an expert at watersports! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks everyone xx"
as someone who has sexual hang ups due to her past all I can tell you is that it is possible to overcome these worries but even now i can still feel concious.
When i really relax and enjoy i can get very wet and gush.. and due to that I wont ever let myself go except with my partner... and even then.. I have times where i can feel embarrassed... maybe in so wet there are squelchy noises... my ex would tell me it was because I was a bucket and for ages i believed him.. got into the habit of doing 2000 plus pelvic floor exercises a day...
My partner now does love it and that helps me but it is still a long process... but take it a day at a time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What all the fuss about this gushing lark I'm sure there's a lot of people on here who can remember back when women cum and enjoyed it there was no gushing back then so how come everyone seems to be gushing get a life and stop pissng your selves that's what I say lol
Yeah I genuinely wonder if that is what 'gushing' really is! Although I do get very wet myself when aroused and NOT through peeing although I'm an expert at watersports! "
It's a totally different feeling from having a pee, it doesn't taste like pee and although it comes from a similar area - just isn't pee!! So what if it's a new thing, who gives a shit - I love it and seems many others do!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What all the fuss about this gushing lark I'm sure there's a lot of people on here who can remember back when women cum and enjoyed it there was no gushing back then so how come everyone seems to be gushing get a life and stop pissng your selves that's what I say lol"
well unless i have a pee hole in the wrong place ( ie inside me) it's not pee...
When i gush its from inside me... and if for instance a toy or fingers or cock is in their.. the fluid wont come out till its removed... a bit like taking the cork out.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What all the fuss about this gushing lark I'm sure there's a lot of people on here who can remember back when women cum and enjoyed it there was no gushing back then so how come everyone seems to be gushing get a life and stop pissng your selves that's what I say lol well unless i have a pee hole in the wrong place ( ie inside me) it's not pee...
When i gush its from inside me... and if for instance a toy or fingers or cock is in their.. the fluid wont come out till its removed... a bit like taking the cork out.
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Ah well i must be a 'gusher' then! |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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"Hey everyone, newbie here. My question is about gushing - my last bf clearly didn't enjoy going down on me because I would cum loads, so I did all I could to not orgasm that way. This has damaged my self confidence and made this amazing and natural process feel dirty! Can you guys let me know your thoughts on this soggy subject!! "
I would love to be told that there's its highly likely that your going to gush. Then I'd reposition so I could get covered in as much delicious juice as possible. Mmm love it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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biker069, mention your gushing on your profile and turn your liability into an asset.
Attract the kind of people that love it and get off on it, so you won't have to worry about doing it, instead you will be encouraged to do it. Like Nymph&Manic said, bring a shower curtain and extra towels. Enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"biker069, mention your gushing on your profile and turn your liability into an asset.
Attract the kind of people that love it and get off on it, so you won't have to worry about doing it, instead you will be encouraged to do it. Like Nymph&Manic said, bring a shower curtain and extra towels. Enjoy!"
Dammit I will!!! I have used the adhesive bed mats you buy kids who are bed wetter! They work a treat but you are limited in where you can move so you have to stay on!!! Saves the mattress though!! |
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"Hey everyone, newbie here. My question is about gushing - my last bf clearly didn't enjoy going down on me because I would cum loads, so I did all I could to not orgasm that way. This has damaged my self confidence and made this amazing and natural process feel dirty! Can you guys let me know your thoughts on this soggy subject!! "
It's AWESOME !! Don't hold back just relax and let the flavour flood out. Easier said than done if you've been holding back for so long but any partner worth his salt will understand and be patient with you. It's an amazing sight to behold. X |
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