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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm new to swinging and find it hard to get meets I have a 10inch cock and med build and not the ugliest guy about lol "
Not the bet profile or photos by far.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm new to swinging and find it hard to get meets I have a 10inch cock and med build and not the ugliest guy about lol "
Well you have everything a woman could want! Can't help you there I'm afraid!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without applying any proper mathematical formula I would say 10% of blokes get 100% of the meets around about us.
Look at their profiles - you will find yours differs hugely
Oh and we would avoid anyone who thinks the size of their cock makes them a good meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I might be old fashioned but a good command of the English language makes me much more likely to engage with someone. It might be helpful to add some punctuation and perhaps a bit more detail to your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I might be old fashioned but a good command of the English language makes me much more likely to engage with someone. It might be helpful to add some punctuation and perhaps a bit more detail to your profile. "
Be careful you'll be told off for having an opinion and not commenting how others would like you to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm new to swinging and find it hard to get meets I have a 10inch cock and med build and not the ugliest guy about lol "
TBH the 10" cock is more of a poisoned chalice ...
I wouldn't mention it if I were you...
At least not until you have wowed someone with your scintillating wit and personality ...
Only then should you mention it... just in case they head for the hills screaming  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get what I need when I need it in here. I think women like someone who's interested in them not just for their tits and pussy! Women want to be seen as a woman, not just a cunt on legs!
It's not always easy to get noticed by the women you fancy most. Get over it! Sometimes the least promising meets turn out to be the most enjoyable!
Good luck mate! |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I was talking to a lady.. what's 16" long stiff and is an anagram of pensi..??
It was only when I'd taken her home I revealed ... It's my spine.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some do some dont bro my advice is dont get desperate haha it aint sexy.
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Hope i didnt sound like a dick with that message.
Hope ya get the drift of it anyway the old attraction thing works both ways rememeber |
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"I very good ????
Very good at what?
Sumone wrote cock too big lol"
It's not funny for those women who find a large cock can be uncomfortable, even painful.
Your response also suggests a lack of understanding of women's bodies, which coupled with the size would definitely put me off I'm afraid.
You may be surprised how few women will be interested in you because you have a large cock.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I very good ????
Very good at what?
Sumone wrote cock too big lol
It's not funny for those women who find a large cock can be uncomfortable, even painful.
Your response also suggests a lack of understanding of women's bodies, which coupled with the size would definitely put me off I'm afraid.
You may be surprised how few women will be interested in you because you have a large cock.
Nita"
Yes. Nobody wants to feel like they've had their cervix bashed in. Cramps is sufficient just once a month thank you  |
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"I very good ????
Very good at what?
Sumone wrote cock too big lol
It's not funny for those women who find a large cock can be uncomfortable, even painful.
Your response also suggests a lack of understanding of women's bodies, which coupled with the size would definitely put me off I'm afraid.
You may be surprised how few women will be interested in you because you have a large cock.
Nita
Yes. Nobody wants to feel like they've had their cervix bashed in. Cramps is sufficient just once a month thank you "
Someone offered to destroy my womb earlier
Naturally I declined |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be old fashioned but a good command of the English language makes me much more likely to engage with someone. It might be helpful to add some punctuation and perhaps a bit more detail to your profile. "
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"I'm new to swinging and find it hard to get meets I have a 10inch cock and med build and not the ugliest guy about lol "
To answer your question, not all guys struggle, the guys that read profiles, show respect and tend to be polite and don't expect their cock size to automatically to get the ladies swooning, do ok! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it to be nothing short of impossible, whereas other guys have literally dozens of verifications over the last few weeks. I think it all comes down to your broad appeal and sheer luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I very good ????
Very good at what?
Sumone wrote cock too big lol
It's not funny for those women who find a large cock can be uncomfortable, even painful.
Your response also suggests a lack of understanding of women's bodies, which coupled with the size would definitely put me off I'm afraid.
You may be surprised how few women will be interested in you because you have a large cock.
Nita
Yes. Nobody wants to feel like they've had their cervix bashed in. Cramps is sufficient just once a month thank you
Someone offered to destroy my womb earlier
Naturally I declined "
And they thought that you would be dying to meet them, with a proposition like that?? Hahaha |
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"I very good ????
Very good at what?
Sumone wrote cock too big lol
It's not funny for those women who find a large cock can be uncomfortable, even painful.
Your response also suggests a lack of understanding of women's bodies, which coupled with the size would definitely put me off I'm afraid.
You may be surprised how few women will be interested in you because you have a large cock.
Nita
Yes. Nobody wants to feel like they've had their cervix bashed in. Cramps is sufficient just once a month thank you
Someone offered to destroy my womb earlier
Naturally I declined
And they thought that you would be dying to meet them, with a proposition like that?? Hahaha "
It was once of the toughest decisions of my fab life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I very good ????
Very good at what?
Sumone wrote cock too big lol
It's not funny for those women who find a large cock can be uncomfortable, even painful.
Your response also suggests a lack of understanding of women's bodies, which coupled with the size would definitely put me off I'm afraid.
You may be surprised how few women will be interested in you because you have a large cock.
Nita
Yes. Nobody wants to feel like they've had their cervix bashed in. Cramps is sufficient just once a month thank you
Someone offered to destroy my womb earlier
Naturally I declined
And they thought that you would be dying to meet them, with a proposition like that?? Hahaha
It was once of the toughest decisions of my fab life "
I tell you what mind. You do attract the keepers... I'm jealous! |
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"I very good ????
Very good at what?
Sumone wrote cock too big lol
It's not funny for those women who find a large cock can be uncomfortable, even painful.
Your response also suggests a lack of understanding of women's bodies, which coupled with the size would definitely put me off I'm afraid.
You may be surprised how few women will be interested in you because you have a large cock.
Nita
Yes. Nobody wants to feel like they've had their cervix bashed in. Cramps is sufficient just once a month thank you
Someone offered to destroy my womb earlier
Naturally I declined
And they thought that you would be dying to meet them, with a proposition like that?? Hahaha
It was once of the toughest decisions of my fab life
I tell you what mind. You do attract the keepers... I'm jealous! "
I really do don't I? I find it hard having to let them down, sometimes a little part of me dies when I have to say no- some of these are grade a future husband material |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm new to swinging and find it hard to get meets I have a 10inch cock and med build and not the ugliest guy about lol "
"...hard to get meets..." Do you mean online?
As you can see in this thread too, the 'PC Brigade" can be arrogant and unforgiving. Real life is a different kettle of fish.
Have they not got any clubs at all near Glasgow?
I may not always get a shag when I go to a club, but I certainly always enjoy a chilled and pleasant atmosphere and meet people to chat to. And none of them have made any questionng comments about my English, the words I use, nor did they ever ask to see any photos of me, strangely enough...
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"Most guys struggle, swinging is not a friendly scene.
Congratulations on having a huge cock though - size matters "
Swinging is not friendly?
We've found that most swingers are very pleasant, even if they are not attracted to us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm new to swinging and find it hard to get meets I have a 10inch cock and med build and not the ugliest guy about lol "
No, some single men are very successful and in demand. I tend to find it's the ones who understand swinging, don't see this as just a "sex site", make the effort to network and build friendships for the long term and don't bang on about the size of their cock. Those are the fellas I have fun with in clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm new to swinging and find it hard to get meets I have a 10inch cock and med build and not the ugliest guy about lol "
My biggest problem is getting my messages even read. I think people are inundated with so many messages that most just don't get seen . Just persivere and find a good opening title in your messages to catch someone's eye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm new to swinging and find it hard to get meets I have a 10inch cock and med build and not the ugliest guy about lol "
honestly if you mention your cock size many women will shut off and think boring x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be old fashioned but a good command of the English language makes me much more likely to engage with someone. It might be helpful to add some punctuation and perhaps a bit more detail to your profile. "
Call me old fashioned but I do like a man who demonstrates good grammar. I'd take that over a 10 incher any day.  |
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"I'm new to swinging and find it hard to get meets I have a 10inch cock and med build and not the ugliest guy about lol "
I,m afraid on here being a single fella is like fishing and being extremely patient and I do mean extremely patient.Were just treated with suspicion and amusing novelty...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, it's impossible to get a meet if nobody even reads your messages. That's why I don't send many, it's a waste of time."
Ya can be hard getting messages read i was reading a thread on here the other morning from woman getting messages they were like "any boring 1s straight deleted others i check thier their profile if they are not tall enough bang deleted bla di bla telling you was such a downer thread lol
Hang in thier cause if ya do get some your gonna enjoy it big time |
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"And you having a 10 inch means what exactly? "
I don't think he said it means anything. I think he was just purely saying a fact that he hopes will give himself the exposure he wants. Why are people so quick to slate others and make them feel like they shouldn't post |
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"I've fairly normal but I have had no trouble meeting I keep my profile about myself and not my appendage and I do just fine...."
His profile doesn't mention anything about his appendage..how about actually give OP some advice and stop having sly digs. ffs  |
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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago
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"I've fairly normal but I have had no trouble meeting I keep my profile about myself and not my appendage and I do just fine....
His profile doesn't mention anything about his appendage..how about actually give OP some advice and stop having sly digs. ffs "
Wasn't a sly dig he did mention his cock size in his post it shouldn't be relevant for getting a meet but he made that one of his main feature by mentioning it here!!
I wish the OP all the best regardless as I know it's not easy here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've fairly normal but I have had no trouble meeting I keep my profile about myself and not my appendage and I do just fine....
His profile doesn't mention anything about his appendage..how about actually give OP some advice and stop having sly digs. ffs "
Well even his veri says " A genuine dick "  Good luck op . Keep the faith they do meet on here believe it or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be old fashioned but a good command of the English language makes me much more likely to engage with someone. It might be helpful to add some punctuation and perhaps a bit more detail to your profile. "
Sorry to offend this fellow but his poor English reminds me of Borat... It's nice, I like. Wowowewawee. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it to be nothing short of impossible, whereas other guys have literally dozens of verifications over the last few weeks. I think it all comes down to your broad appeal and sheer luck "
Try getting to a social and getting yourself known in the scene. That's partly why the successful guys do well, they get known as being reliable and hopefully a good shag. |
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"I find it to be nothing short of impossible, whereas other guys have literally dozens of verifications over the last few weeks. I think it all comes down to your broad appeal and sheer luck
Try getting to a social and getting yourself known in the scene. That's partly why the successful guys do well, they get known as being reliable and hopefully a good shag."
This has been such a genuinely funny thread. Thanks everyone! |
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"I'm new to swinging and find it hard to get meets I have a 10inch cock and med build and not the ugliest guy about lol "
Personality and attitude come into the equation.Most women will assume that you have a cock that works so hobbies and interests may be more important factors .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be old fashioned but a good command of the English language makes me much more likely to engage with someone. It might be helpful to add some punctuation and perhaps a bit more detail to your profile. "
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Op, there are thousands of fit as fuck, handsome men with big dicks on site. The older women you seek tend to be turned on with words so your profile has to engage. Limit the cock pics and say what you're looking for/what you bring to the party other than your dick.
Swinging can be demoralising if you assume a big dick, youth and a normal bmi will get you laid as the women on here are loose knickered, cock hungry sluts. We maybe, but there's so much choice from the smorgasbord of delights on offer, we are able to pick, choose and refuse.
Good luck! |
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"I very good ????
Very good at what?
Sumone wrote cock too big lol"
alot of ladies prefer a cock in proportion to thier body.so yea 10 inch can put alot but not all woman off as it will jus hurt more than pleasure them.size really isint everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I also think it's where you live that can have a big impact on getting meets. Lincolnshire seems to be a bit of a black hole for it compared to say the South East or Manchester/Birmingham/Newcastle etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I struggle myself to be honest. Especially being young it's even harder to find someone that will meet me "
This is very true.
It seems like fab is a big clique where i am and you have to be at least 30 to get in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I struggle myself to be honest. Especially being young it's even harder to find someone that will meet me
This is very true.
It seems like fab is a big clique where i am and you have to be at least 30 to get in "
To be honest same here it's like a clique for the men personally if you haven't got a young good looking body they ain't interested believe me it's a struggle we all have even if we are in certain county's |
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