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Good Grief- we must be so unnaproachable.
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By *-and-K OP Couple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
Or so it seems. We must have 30 views of our profile a day, both couples and singles, none of em go further than look at whats there. No message or anything.
Even those that come back 3,4,5 or more times to view. None of em follow up with a message!
So we must be totally unnaproachable, even though we have verifications to meetings.
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Either that or we are just too plain ugly for people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah to me you have a good profile, says exactly what you are looking for !!!!
I would meet you guys any day lol !!!! and perhaps the next time I am up your way I will say hi !!!
just enjoy and don't let it bother you, I don't.
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By *exybabyMan
over a year ago
Canterbury....ish |
Must admit it does seem difficult to fathom as to why you're not getting messaged.
You've got a good profile, which speaks for itself, and an excellent selection of photos. All together a well thought out approach! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or so it seems. We must have 30 views of our profile a day, both couples and singles, none of em go further than look at whats there. No message or anything.
Even those that come back 3,4,5 or more times to view. None of em follow up with a message!
So we must be totally unnaproachable, even though we have verifications to meetings.
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Either that or we are just too plain ugly for people "
nothing wrong with you guys.if i was local to you both id send you a message.
your both fine looking people. |
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Too much information is the answer - if you wasn't site supporters you wouldn't know how many people are looking at your profile. In fact it will be worse than you think it is as ordinary members can block from being seen viewing your profile.
Swinger site = Free Porn Site for a large proportion of the people who sign up to them  And don't forget 'perving pics' is also a sport for genuine swingers too  |
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By *-and-K OP Couple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
"You live in Hull... that's the problem.
Move dahn Sarf."
And that dear friends is the real answer. Hull is too far out on a limb for most people. Even West or South Yorkshire is a 60 to 80 mile drive, we know we've done it often enough! York 40 miles away same to Lincoln.
Unless you want to meet people who live on the doorstep so to speak its a long long distance for most people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But you have regular meets and verifications so I dont see a problem. Swinging comes in fazes where one minute your inundated and the next its slow it will come round again. |
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Or so it seems. We must have 30 views of our profile a day, both couples and singles, none of em go further than look at whats there. No message or anything.
Even those that come back 3,4,5 or more times to view. None of em follow up with a message!
So we must be totally unnaproachable, even
though we have verifications to meetings
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Either that or we are just too plain ugly for people "
Possibly a little of both! (Tongue in cheek!)
Nothing new in what you're experiencing, I often find couples viewing from miles and miles away and on numerous occasions!
Oh and from so many from couples who are adamant they're not interested in any way shape or form in the dreaded evil single guy! 
People are funny things I mean how often do you see in the meets section looking for a meet looking for f fm ff mf m; mmmm you think and they're local and look good let's message them B*****S! Not looking for single males! What's that all about? Peeps need educating on how to use their profile details! Do they sit back and think hmmm all these guys looking but no one getting in touch, are we ugly or unapproachable? lol
Can I get the puzzle pics in Smiths ? lol
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"We must have 30 views of our profile a day"
Resist the temptation to view “looked at me” and you won't be disappointed
For us, no wink / mail from those who've “looked at me” only confirms those who are NOT interested  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would say ur a lovely couple and we would b interested if not for the miles thoughs who look and dont talk need sorted as its the same with us look no talk it means there shy or just not genuine enough |
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By *essesCouple
over a year ago
nottingham |
Probably looked at their "whose looked at me" seen you've looked at them and so have looked at you and that you haven't sent a message and so are then too shy to pursue, thinking you don't like the look of them ...lol.
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
harrow |
I liked your profile. I should think most single guys will resist messaging as you list wishing to meet MF couples.
You could try sending a wink to profiles you like, or send a message of your own.
Someone has to take the initiative. If waiting to be asked isn't working, whatever the reason, then get a little more proactive. You'll have fun just trying.
Good luck |
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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago
wrexham |
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Or so it seems. We must have 30 views of our profile a day, both couples and singles, none of em go further than look at whats there. No message
Either that or we are just too plain ugly for people "
same here, we get maybe 2 messages a week. Certainly not the amount most seem to complain about. We would love a wink even. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
well, they may have been looking at the profile after something you have written on the forums...
or before they reply they may be looking at your past writings using the green arrows....
and then deciding... "not for us".......
so maybe people are looking past the pictures... i know... really radical suggestion... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well, they may have been looking at the profile after something you have written on the forums...
or before they reply they may be looking at your past writings using the green arrows....
and then deciding... "not for us".......
so maybe people are looking past the pictures... i know... really radical suggestion..."
Yep Fabio's got a point about the forums
I have loads look at me daily
Then they see me profile and pics and block me in terror pmsl xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am always surprised by people stating - "you've got verifications, quite a few, whats the matter with ya"
How the hell do we know if the couple involved are happy with the quantity of meets they have having and who are we to say how many meets others have. If this couple want to swing every single day, then they havent got enough verifications have they?
I dont know why you dont get messages, your profile is good, your pictures are really good - love pic with the latex dress - I can only assume that its the voyeurs browsing.
I always have the attitude of dont change for other people. Do a bit more browsing, winking and approaching guys yourself, im sure the majority will come back to you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your lucky to get so many looking at you, we are lucky if we get 2 look a day !!!!! whats wrong with us?"
There you go. Just boosted it for ya. As _abio said, I usually look when somebody has posted on the forums.
I do my stealth perving on our joint profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your lucky to get so many looking at you, we are lucky if we get 2 look a day !!!!! whats wrong with us?
There you go. Just boosted it for ya. As _abio said, I usually look when somebody has posted on the forums.
I do my stealth perving on our joint profile. "
thanks for looking |
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you have to consider some people actually read the whole profile and whilst it may look great you may have restrictions like no smokers close the bottom of your text. not an issue for me but my lass smokes so that's a bummer lol many may look only to be disappointed but i'm sure you will get by you look great |
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We stopped being site supporters for just this reason as we spent loads of time looking at who looked at us and never sent a message and wondering why the same folks kept looking but never messaged us.
We came to the conclusion it was not worth the time or energy so now we live in blissful ignorance of who looked at us.
If folks are too shy to wink or message us then they are going to be too shy to meet us too.
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