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The oldest you would shag
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't put a age on this, but I prefer older men, usually between 40-50, however it's less to do with age as Pauls 14 years older than me at 47 but he looks great, there are other men here who are similar age but look so much older so they don't do it for me. I have a swinging friend Who I met around 10 years ago and is 52 now and I still happily play with him.
Where as for Paul he doesn't find many older woman attractive although I have 2 friends who are older and he likes them so again it's not age it's the whole package |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't tend to care about age to be honest. If I'm physically attracted to someone then I'm attracted to them
When I was around 25 I had an ongoing fling with a women in her mid 50's I met through here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well any age....if he's not updated his will yet!
Just kidding.... Depends on his looks and how fit he is...generally late 50s! "
It's ok you don't have to pretend lol |
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I'm normally drawn by looks and then personality, I tend to go with girls upto 10 years younger than me.
But 4 years ago when I was 51 I used to see a girl that was 67 and I had sex with a 19 year old..... what an age gap   |
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It really depends on the lady. Back when I was 35 I saw a 60 year old lady a few times. I generally say up to mud 50s but I don't rule out older. Someone I see regularly these days is 53 and we have great times together. |
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The ladies I've met have ranged between 19 to 74 but mostly 40+ depending on how mature they are in their manner, I like women any age size colour & as long as there is a sexual spark I'm quite happy to play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some very old looking 35 yr old on here and a couple very young looking 55 year olds. So who cares about the age....If you do then it's more about yourself than the other person and that reflects the way you are in between the sheets to IMO. |
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"There are some very old looking 35 yr old on here and a couple very young looking 55 year olds. So who cares about the age....If you do then it's more about yourself than the other person and that reflects the way you are in between the sheets to IMO."
You are spot on with what you said here mate, some people are shallow in their approach & play with others depending on if their potential play partners measure up to what others think rather than what they think themselves.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've known 90-yr olds with more youth and spark than some 20-yr olds and some 60-yr olds who act and behave as if they're 20 years older! Some of the sexiest women I know are in their 60s and 70s - haven't shagged them but probably would if I could - they're retired so they're relaxed, happy and want to make the most of life and they want to look and feel young - and yes, they are young at heart. Very hot, energetic, fit and positive women. I also know women in their 30s who have become so obsessed with career or family that sex, relaxation and being happy just isn't on their agenda. They're stressed, worn out, frumpy and tragically unsexy despite their comparative youth.
It's the individual and their outlook that counts, not their age. |
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I use to say about 55 was my cut off before I came on here..... I've got no problem going upto about 70 if they are in shape now though!
Why not its only an age, if they are fit and healthy why not play  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of my best ever shags have been with men in their 60 but then I am in my late 40s.
Older men are more relaxed, often more skilled and more patient. But then again i make up for any lack of stamina by having 2 or 3 of them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like using a number to define my level of attraction; there are always exceptions!
Typically, I find women younger than me more attractive; it is unlikely that I would find a woman more than a couple of years older than me attractive.
I think I set my profile as 18-55 (I know, it is unlikely I will be attractive to an 18yr old!) but I can, and do, still receive messages from women outside that top limit. I just haven't met with any of them as yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am 79 and still love younger slim women, and what I love unfortunately have to pay for it ?? Stopped going to clubs with a girl friend three years ago but I have been on the Scene for over fifty years, I have always found great and friendly people ...(we are all on these web sites for the same thing )  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about looks and how they hold themselves. I'm aching to ask a customer I know here age. I know she's older than she looks but, wow she looks good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was 18 I had a fling with a guy who was 42.
A few years ago I spent an evening with a guy who said he was 58 but I think he was actually older. Didn't matter though, we both had a great time! Age isn't usually important to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I'm 57, I plan to be happily frolicking and shagging for another 15 years at least. Then perhaps I'll take it easy and start knitting (that's not a euphemism)
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We take ppl as we find them. So don't have any real limits. We would play with young acting 70 year old son and old acting 20 year olds. It's all about personality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I will say though is if a lady has filters and I'm outside her age ill not entertain her....If I'm unable to message to show interest then I move on and filter them out. I feel it would reflect the way they are between the sheets...I'd see my self as a replacement because they couldn't find a younger model so wouldn't meet. I've turned a few down because of that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My preference is older men, though not necessarily old men!
I guess upto 15 years older than me is ideal, though in reality it depends on the individual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would depend entirely on the person, personality, and degree of attraction felt. Age is just a number upon which judgement and assumptions are made, and can be very misleading. I prefer to judge a lady on whether we 'connect' and take matters from there, although I will admit a strong preference and attraction for ladies a good bit older than myself as the 'meaning of life' stuff tends to have been worked out and it's easier to decide (for both parties) if we want to enjoy each other in terms of a friendship, simply sex, or not at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would really depend on the woman. 50 is the oldest I've been with, but would go 10 years older than that if the woman turned me on. Unfortunately, my main frame of reference for women of that age are ladies like Nina Hartley, Helen Mirren, Madonna etc, which is probably not realistic at all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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65 a couple of years back....but she didn't look close to that......
But also been down to 19 recently....so I probably don't really consider ages...more the person. Physical and mentally attractive. |
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"No problem with 75 if that's how old carol vorderman is.
I was gonna say 70 as that's how old Helen mirren is."
I had no idea Helen and Carol are that old - in that case I'll set to 75 so I can have them both, ideally together.
Helen/Carol - if you're on Fab, PM me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was 19 I was at a party , for some reason nursing a big hard on.A 66 year old woman I knew, stuck her hand down my pants and asked if I wanted somewhere warm to put it.I was horrified and made my excuses but she was actually quite attractive and I went home and had a regretful wank about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vorders is my age (and local... and single... and yes I would )
Wife was 9 years older than me and died at 61. My age limit is for emotional reasons.
I'd consider someone a few years older than me, just for a shag - but not a relationship. The last one still hurts. |
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"No problem with 75 if that's how old carol vorderman is.
I was gonna say 70 as that's how old Helen mirren is.
I had no idea Helen and Carol are that old - in that case I'll set to 75 so I can have them both, ideally together.
Helen/Carol - if you're on Fab, PM me "
I said vorderman was 75, that statement might not be 100% factual lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No problem with 75 if that's how old carol vorderman is.
I was gonna say 70 as that's how old Helen mirren is.
I had no idea Helen and Carol are that old - in that case I'll set to 75 so I can have them both, ideally together.
Helen/Carol - if you're on Fab, PM me
I said vorderman was 75, that statement might not be 100% factual lol "
If Carol is 75 then I'm definitely changing my upper age limit!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is a number, i find women of a vast range of ages sexy, so i base it on an individual basis, there are beautiful women of all ages just like there are women i wouldn't find attractive of all ages, its about the twinkle in the eye, the cheeky smile and playful personality for me |
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I've noticed on some couples profiles, where one partner is outside of the age range they will meet.
I realise they are looking for younger people, it just makes me chuckle. Or maybe the older one isn't allowed to have sex with his partner, only the younger 'in range' meets?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had sex with a man in his early 60's. It was ok but he wasn't very energetic. I like to be thrown around the bedroom a bit to be honest.
And I don't do false teeth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are younger people who like older, luckily. But it can be a bit awkward when we end up fiddling with people as young as our offspring."
The use of the word fiddle makes you sound ever so seedy. |
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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago
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"There are younger people who like older, luckily. But it can be a bit awkward when we end up fiddling with people as young as our offspring.
The use of the word fiddle makes you sound ever so seedy. "
Mmm, that just about nails it |
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We were chatting about this,earlier this morning.
Me (Mr.) usually likes people slightly younger than me, or roughly a few years older. But the last few years, I've have had a couple of times were I've met people in their sixties and thought, 'ooo'. I'm more attracted to the qualities and the personality a person has though
Mrs. said she's had an interest in a couple of mature ladies. She said as long as they look after themselves, it's more about them and their personalities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Timey question. Mrs max is 60 at a stretch and would have to be very fit youthful and excited her brain. Mr is more shallow. Say 41 as that is Mrs age !!!!! Mr Classy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Much over 50 would be pushing it for me I think, unless they were exceptionally good looking and still young at heart enough to get my jokes and references |
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