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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do people feel about kissing during play? I mean proper passionate kissing, not just closed mouth, lip on lip (if you get my drift).
I love kissing and I wouldn't really want to have sex with a woman I didn't want to kiss (I think anyway). Similarly if I had sex with a woman and there was no kissing, I'm not sure I'd really be that turned on (maybe). It's a big thing for me. When a woman puts her tongue in my mouth I find it electrifying.
Some women I know/have talked to don't really want to kiss during sex. They think it is too intimate. That would be disappointing to me.
What do others think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do I get to cum? I still get to cum right?  |
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Kissing is a major turn on for me and I think you can tell a lot by how someone kisses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree with you, for me it doesn't work without kisses x |
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It's a totally essential part. Open mouth tongue sensual kissing. It's just not sex if that's not part of it . Just my opinion. Oh and hubby's. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a damn fine kisser, though I do say so myself... |
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I love kissing. It's an absolute must  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Do I get to cum? I still get to cum right? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is paramount and leads to very good sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing and I always make sure the person I meet does too if they don't then they're not for me. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
No kissing = No meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont do it during sex with anyone on here... not because i find it to intimate but because i genuinely find it turns me off more than on..
The funny thing is I can kiss my partner for ages and love it... but I find it invades my personal space and I cant let just anyone do that.. It stems from a very traumatic experience on my first ever sexual experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely yes to kissing, it's a wonderful horny start to a hopefully good session |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing tells a story you can't have a meet without it |
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Kissing - absolutely every time |
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I think i have been unlucky with guys i have met from fab and other sites...the majority cant kiss and i just get so turned off that now id rather not kiss. One guy just opened his mouth and stuck his tongue out....eewwwwwww! |
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Compulsory.....opens the flood gates so to speak  |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
Love kissing, slow sensual with a bit of tongue to start with them the passion builds. Sex without kissing just isn't the same. |
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By *anklerMan
over a year ago
Suffolk |
Nice sensual kissing really turns me on. It's great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You lot are sooooo easy. |
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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By *artletWoman
over a year ago
Kerry |
Its essential for me. That moment just before you kiss can be electric with the right person.
Had a meet once, where there was no kissing involved, never again. I just couldnt get into it!
Outside of Fab, was on a date and at the end of it, we had a kiss.... the worst kisser I have ever encountered, and I couldnt have a 2nd date with him over it, pity as he was a great guy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No kissing no meet, simple.
Love a good frenchie   |
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
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A kiss can be a wonderful thing.
That first kiss tells me everything I need to know... my current fb's first kiss was amazing, he just leant in and delivered the softest kiss I've ever had and then he pulled me in and grabbed the back of my neck and tbh that was all I needed to let me know we were going to have a fabulous adventure together.
We have soft sensual kisses and really hot passionate kisses, and simply couldn't play without a good snog |
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sometimes i realy enjoy it other times not so much or not bothered if i do or not. On some meets where the man likes to kiss i keep wanting to kiss them. maybe it depends how much you like them. |
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It's a must ..a deep long sensual wet kiss ..n lots of |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The sexiest part of any encounter is the kissing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good sex comes with all the trimmings. Sex without kissing is like roast beef without the Yorkshire pudding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he's not kissing then I'm not opening my legs. He would have to be content with a strap on fuck and some post orgasm torture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd not even consider meeting anyone if kissing was off the table. It's entirely engrossing and compulsory for me.
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"No kissing no meet, simple.
Love a good frenchie "
This has been noted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to have kissing on a meet |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I love kissing and I always make sure the person I meet does too if they don't then they're not for me."
This or it doesn't happen. For us it's so important we'd rather go without. |
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I love kissing but there are some guys who just don't know how to kiss |
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Got to kiss its a big turn on for everyone involved xx |
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"Got to kiss its a big turn on for everyone involved xx"
All over by the way lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started out with no kissing on meets that was my choice but now I have been kissing meets I won't look back definitely adds to the experience and makes it real for the Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deep passionate kissing is a major part of the erection process for me. It's a huge mental signal that both of you are getting responsive to each other and enjoying each other.
I love it. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Got to kiss its a big turn on for everyone involved xx
All over by the way lol"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow. Either this is a self selecting sample or I've just been unlucky. Or maybe I need to move haha. Perhaps geordie girls are different...I'd like to think I'm good at kissing but I guess you'd need to ask the recipients. At least I'm enthusiastic...and yes, all over is fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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YES. thats all that needs to be said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing totally does it for me! I wouldn't want to fuck someone without kissing them...it's what leads me ultimately to fucking them really...my last meet was an amazing kisser....I didn't want him to stop...I may just kidnap him next time...I may need a bigger house to keep all my favourites in....I may need to shush now before the police come looking   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow. Either this is a self selecting sample or I've just been unlucky. Or maybe I need to move haha. Perhaps geordie girls are different...I'd like to think I'm good at kissing but I guess you'd need to ask the recipients. At least I'm enthusiastic...and yes, all over is fine "
Certainly not my experience of our northern female friends. Infant I'd say the opposite is true! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow. Either this is a self selecting sample or I've just been unlucky. Or maybe I need to move haha. Perhaps geordie girls are different...I'd like to think I'm good at kissing but I guess you'd need to ask the recipients. At least I'm enthusiastic...and yes, all over is fine
Certainly not my experience of our northern female friends. Infant I'd say the opposite is true! "
Ok, that's good to hear... |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Kissing is 100% part of our play meets, don't think we could do anything without it as it is all part of the turn on for us. We have found if the other person can't kiss well then things tend not to go any further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just thinking about the way certain meets have kissed me gets me going! Soft and sensual to full on passionate..oh my! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No kissing no meet, simple.
Love a good frenchie
This has been noted "
Kissing is the appetiser to any fine sexual experience , we just hope there's some honey left for dessert |
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"No kissing no meet, simple.
Love a good frenchie
This has been noted
Kissing is the appetiser to any fine sexual experience , we just hope there's some honey left for dessert "
There is always honey for you |
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Wot no kissing...
Kissing has got to be the best part of being with someone..
The tension has been ratcheted up leading upto meeting that person.. The sexy pics going back and forth, the messages that get you aroused reading them..then that first kiss when you finally meet..
Passionate, frantic, discovering each other for the first time..
The kiss is where the passion lives, sex is just sex without the passion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont do it during sex with anyone on here... not because i find it to intimate but because i genuinely find it turns me off more than on..
The funny thing is I can kiss my partner for ages and love it... but I find it invades my personal space and I cant let just anyone do that.. It stems from a very traumatic experience on my first ever sexual experience."
I am not keen on kissing during a meet either. I have met some men that are really not compatable with my taste of kissing.
So I would rather just have the fun without the kisses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is a major turn on for me and I think you can tell a lot by how someone kisses "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't play without kissing. I find kissing a huge turn on and it would feel like something was missing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we love to kiss... have to kiss on a meet to get the 'spark'. |
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we have on our profile that we keep passionate kissing for ourselves. Our view on it is that we accept that some people find kissing necessary and we acknowledge that we aren't compatible, |
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Sex without kissing, is just sex, and a little empty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing but no-one has ever been able to reciprocate my kisses better than Mark - it's electrifying - so magical that when I'm not with him I crave kissing him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is an absolute must with us.
Sets the fires going so to speak and as long as the kissing is amazing so will the sex be |
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"Kissing is an absolute must with us.
Sets the fires going so to speak and as long as the kissing is amazing so will the sex be "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex without kissing, might as well be a prostitute, and get some money out of it, ffs. Kissing and the human connection is very important to me. |
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I adore kissing if people can do it properly! |
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We love kissing during a meet, makes it so much more sensual and really gets us into the mood.
Think if we had the option of meeting a non kissing couple we would turn it down. That's just our two peneth |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"Got to kiss its a big turn on for everyone involved xx
All over by the way lol"
Defo all over. Love Australian kissing, it's the same as French kissing but down under |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do people feel about kissing during play? I mean proper passionate kissing, not just closed mouth"
Does anyone kiss closed mouth apart from kids doing school plays? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing it's essential to me, if there is mutual attraction on a
Social meet I love a deep kiss at the end of the social- if it's crap that's where we say good bye, if it's good we will meet again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love kissing it's essential to me, if there is mutual attraction on a
Social meet I love a deep kiss at the end of the social- if it's crap that's where we say good bye, if it's good we will meet again. "
Will remember that |
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An essential part of desire... There is a neural link between lips on face directly to lips between legs somewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love kissing it's essential to me, if there is mutual attraction on a
Social meet I love a deep kiss at the end of the social- if it's crap that's where we say good bye, if it's good we will meet again.
Will remember that "
You naughty pair you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love kissing it's essential to me, if there is mutual attraction on a
Social meet I love a deep kiss at the end of the social- if it's crap that's where we say good bye, if it's good we will meet again.
Will remember that
You naughty pair you "
And............. |
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Snogging. All the snogging. Could happily snog someone for hours |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
As the song says its in his kiss
And there's more than one kind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing gets everyone in the mood. If there's no kissing then I'd sooner have a wank.
MrJ X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No kiss, no meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love kissing, one of my biggest turn ons. Essential for a good connection during a night of fucking and sucking.....
Any one fancy just meeting for a good kising session? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Big fan of kissing and prefer to meet with those who like to snog! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex without kissing is like fish without chips unimaginable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tried sex without kissing once because the guy had a cold sore. Just felt weird!!
You can tell so much from a good kiss and it turns me on. |
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I need kissing. Coincidentally had a chat about this tonight with a Fab chum.
And then had a lovely kissing session |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The eye connection ...
The touch of the hand....
The leaning in....
The feeling of my heart racing
....watching his lips.....
The tingles from his touch ....
My lips swelling .....
And then the KISS
.... Soft... Full.... Wet... Ripe..... Juicy....
And the exploration begins.... Oh a kiss X |
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"The eye connection ...
The touch of the hand....
The leaning in....
The feeling of my heart racing
....watching his lips.....
The tingles from his touch ....
My lips swelling .....
And then the KISS
.... Soft... Full.... Wet... Ripe..... Juicy....
And the exploration begins.... Oh a kiss X "
Yep, that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I played with a female at a club with her boyfriend there. He was very pussy for me to fuck her. The thing was he set the rules no sucking and no kissing. I was so turned off by this. I understand that some have rules but no kissing kills it for me. I just don't get turned on if I can't kiss. I love it too much. I have been told I am a very good kisser. I wouldn't know can't kiss myself lol
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Loving kissing. The more passionate the better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't meet anyone who didn't like kissing. It is one of my favourite things to do. Love the passion of it, and the connection in the moment. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Good sex comes with all the trimmings. Sex without kissing is like roast beef without the Yorkshire pudding"
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kissing is an absolute must for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is a must for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex without kissing is like fish without chips unimaginable "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most def a must for me...I would not get turned on without it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes better then sex if you're lucky enough to meet someone who can do it properly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I had sex without kissing... I'd think I was married again!
I LOVE kissing, it's a huge turn on |
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By *upofteaMan
over a year ago
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Kissing frenchies snogging
Neckline kissing shoulder kissing
Boob n cleavage kissing
Oh you know what I'm saying... Kissing all over
Mmmm
Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is a huge part of our swinging, Nicky loves real passionate sex, lots of kissing and caressing. Sex with no kissing seems very clinical. |
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Kissing is pretty much essential to get me going...long, passionate kisses....tangled tongues...two or more people into each other... |
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I would like to point out that sex with us isn't like having sex with prostitutes or clinical or not worth doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to point out that sex with us isn't like having sex with prostitutes or clinical or not worth doing. "
id like to add that no one has found that with me either and while the forums have mostly those that cant seem to understand fucking without..clubs are full of people that dont try to kiss x |
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I find kissing in a club to be very erotic, and a great way to begin...getting everyone's juices flowing and building up excitement before moving to a play area. Where the kissing can continue....
No kissing = no meet for me too. |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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For me sex with no kissing is just a bit, "meh", a bit boring, it just doesn't feel the same.
Kissing to me is part of foreplay, it gets me going, it gets me excited. Without kissing I'm definitely having to get my lube out because he is obviously enjoying himself but I'm just luke warm to be honest.
I agree with the prostitute comparison, it just feels so, not clinical, but there's no sexual spark. He's going to be finished before I'm halfway there so it's a shame I'm not being paid or else I would have got something out of this.
Thankfully I've not come across a really bad kisser but even the nothing special kissers have got my body going. |
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"What do people feel about kissing during play? I mean proper passionate kissing, not just closed mouth, lip on lip (if you get my drift).
I love kissing and I wouldn't really want to have sex with a woman I didn't want to kiss (I think anyway). Similarly if I had sex with a woman and there was no kissing, I'm not sure I'd really be that turned on (maybe). It's a big thing for me. When a woman puts her tongue in my mouth I find it electrifying.
Some women I know/have talked to don't really want to kiss during sex. They think it is too intimate. That would be disappointing to me.
What do others think?"
Totally agree, a decent kiss starts the whole scene for me.... |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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I love kisses to build....
To start at a simple touching of the lips..... Before getting more urgent, more passionate.
I like to tease and pull away before being pulled back in.... Slight touches with the tongue, little lick of the lips.... Back in for more as the tension builds
That said, we have to be compatible. I would prefer to have no kisses than bad ones where a tongue comes at me like a friggin washing machine from the first moment 
I know in my ten years on fab who my favourite kisser has been |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good sex comes with all the trimmings. Sex without kissing is like roast beef without the Yorkshire pudding"
What about the gravy? |
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Kissing can be intensely intimate.
In a relationship or marriage it's usually the first sign that there is a problem, if one or other partner stops kissing each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any meet I would have I have to kiss the woman it's a must you need some passionate kissing makes it better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We started out with no kissing on meets that was my choice but now I have been kissing meets I won't look back definitely adds to the experience and makes it real for the Mr "
We were the same initially, said no kissing but that soon went as we both enjoy it and adds to the experience. Hubby loves to see me have a nice soft kiss when we meet in clubs in the bar, not just during the meet if you know what k mean, that's with both the men and women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now I want a kiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now I want a kiss.
Mwah! "
A real one! If I'm not tasting warm, slippery saliva, the rough rub of tastebuds on mine, the occasional iron tingle of beneath their tongue...then it's just not a kiss  x |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Now I want a kiss.
Mwah!
A real one! If I'm not tasting warm, slippery saliva, the rough rub of tastebuds on mine, the occasional iron tingle of beneath their tongue...then it's just not a kiss x"
Well you are a bit piggin far for that and I'm not allowed to drive again yet!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now I want a kiss.
Mwah!
A real one! If I'm not tasting warm, slippery saliva, the rough rub of tastebuds on mine, the occasional iron tingle of beneath their tongue...then it's just not a kiss x
Well you are a bit piggin far for that and I'm not allowed to drive again yet!! "
Fine, then I'll just sit here and practice on my thumb |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love kissing but no-one has ever been able to reciprocate my kisses better than Mark - it's electrifying - so magical that when I'm not with him I crave kissing him "
Love this
Candy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a kisser here.. love a good kiss |
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over a year ago
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"Definitely a kisser here.. love a good kiss "
Cute eyes and would like to kiss u |
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I don't get the non kissers, its a massive part of play for me and I love to kiss.
Its such a soft, sensual exciting thing to do- couldn't have a play partner that didn't want to kiss- I would dislike them very quickly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As another poster said , clubs are full of people who aren't bothered about kissing . But it can be cold and clinical , and we've never had a one on one meet where there was no kissing . Group sessions yes , but not a swap or wife with a guy .
We actually stopped going to clubs partly because they don't float our boat in the sense that we love the passionate and erotic encounters so much more . And that's not gonna happen with no kissing . ' But you guys like dogging ' , I hear you say . Well that doesn't stop the build up , the kissing , the touching etc... We play it our way , and kissing is integral to a good meet .
Guys who just want their cock sucked or fuck and go aren't for us .
The more passionate and real a meet is , the better it is . So much so we now prefer to go out to more public places where there are more vanillas about . My wife will flirt and cop off with a guy , kissing , caressing and so on with me not too far away . This is more horny than going to a dogging spot to just suck and fuck .
She tells them she is married and has permission , and that I am about to keep her safe ( a friend of her husband ) . So there's no illusion or false hope for the guy . I never get too close .
After the build up which often involves so much flirting , caressing , kissing ( both gentle and passionate ) they find a quiet and secluded spot and go further . So hot and horny !
We love this and it certainly wouldn't work with no kissing . Clinical and cold sex for the sake of it isn't for us , and no matter how we try to see it any other way , there's no depth , passion or reality without kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alexa loves kissing...on her arsehole |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As another poster said , clubs are full of people who aren't bothered about kissing . But it can be cold and clinical , and we've never had a one on one meet where there was no kissing . Group sessions yes , but not a swap or wife with a guy .
We actually stopped going to clubs partly because they don't float our boat in the sense that we love the passionate and erotic encounters so much more . And that's not gonna happen with no kissing "
That's interesting. I'm planning to go a 'Club' (Club F) for the firm time on Saturday. Whilst I wasn't necessarily planning to get involved in anything too advanced (although you never know) the possibility that there may be little enthusiasm for kissing is kind of disappointing... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do people feel about kissing during play? I mean proper passionate kissing, not just closed mouth, lip on lip (if you get my drift).
I love kissing and I wouldn't really want to have sex with a woman I didn't want to kiss (I think anyway). Similarly if I had sex with a woman and there was no kissing, I'm not sure I'd really be that turned on (maybe). It's a big thing for me. When a woman puts her tongue in my mouth I find it electrifying.
Some women I know/have talked to don't really want to kiss during sex. They think it is too intimate. That would be disappointing to me.
What do others think?"
I have to be really attracted to someone to want to really passionately kiss, and have sex with them. Kissing for me is a majorly sexy foreplay session. |
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over a year ago
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Yeah kissing is a big thing for me |
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
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Love slow kissing,which can be the best thing going,running fingertips up and down also..its that extra closeness that makes for a lovely time... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alexa loves kissing...on her arsehole "
I can do that, but she'll get an equally passionate french kiss afterwards |
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Essential part of the build up for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it |
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Kissing is a must for us, just watching Lou passionately kiss someone else is as good as watching her getting fucked! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree, for me kissing is part of what winds the machine up. If you can't be intimate with mouths and tongues, how can you fuck properly? |
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over a year ago
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Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready |
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"Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready "
Very very very very if there's two? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is a must for us, just watching Lou passionately kiss someone else is as good as watching her getting fucked!"
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over a year ago
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"Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready
Very very very very if there's two? "
Oh yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love kissing and is a huge part of play. Hubby would prefer me not as he feels its too intimate but its part of what makes things fun. Makes me feel that the guys really wants me and not just to dump his load x |
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A good kiss gets the right physical reaction….
No kissing - No meet |
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IT is essential for me, before during and after! |
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"Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready
Very very very very if there's two?
Oh yes! "
Can't promise we would stop kissing at your lips though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love passionate kissing..
I'll start of by kissing first slowly and then more passionately. If were near the wall I'll put the lady against it and whilst kissing her I'll hold her hands above her head with one hand and slide the other hand down her arm on to her face. Then slide my hand down her neck on to her juicy breast and feel/grab/squeeze and pull the nipple a little.. We do this for a for a bit then take that hand lower into her nickers and feel and play with her pussy all whilst kissing her and holding her hands above her head.. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready
Very very very very if there's two?
Oh yes!
Can't promise we would stop kissing at your lips though "
Only if you let me pull off your underwear with my teeth? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't imagine 'no kissing' - in any case, I'd forget - it's a natural part of sex for me. |
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over a year ago
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Just adore it......as long as he is not the washing machine kisser......or so much saliva kisser I am drowning, or the bad breather kisser, or the childish poke poke poke kisser.....
The exploring kisser, the little bite kisser, the eyes peeking kisser, the gentle touch on the face kisser, the fingers around my mouth kisser, the build up kisser, the full on passionate kisser.....
YUMMY |
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"Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready
Very very very very if there's two?
Oh yes!
Can't promise we would stop kissing at your lips though
Only if you let me pull off your underwear with my teeth? "
As long as you can do that X2 and you're prepared for what you unleash |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No kissing equals no sex for me.
Rubbish kissing equals no sex for me.
I absolutely love kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is a must for us, just watching Lou passionately kiss someone else is as good as watching her getting fucked!"
Exactly this |
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By *asyukMan
over a year ago
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Without kissing sex would be mechanical and no fun at all.
I think it's the most intimate sexual act and without it there's absolutely no way of synchronizing to get that spark.
Open mouthed, deep, suffocating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't have lips like mine and not kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.
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"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.
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Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.
Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other "
it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x |
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"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.
Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x"
I won't for you if it's not you're thing.
But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.
Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x
I won't for you if it's not you're thing.
But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do "
yes but what im saying is in 17 year's of this lifestyle. I can count on my fingers how many guys have tried to kiss me during a meet x |
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We both love kissing it really turns us on. We dont meet couples who dont kiss. Just our preference. Jack. |
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"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.
Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x
I won't for you if it's not you're thing.
But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do yes but what im saying is in 17 year's of this lifestyle. I can count on my fingers how many guys have tried to kiss me during a meet x"
I guess that's down to what you're looking for.
Our meets have always involved it but that's the sort of thing we're looking for and go off profiles and socials.
I suppose the types of people you like just aren't into it either which works out great for you
I'm not sure where we're going with this other we're into different things lol
You don't like kissing on meets we do. We all like posting on forums.
Happy days x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone think passionate kissing with someone you click with could cause feelings to form? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone think passionate kissing with someone you click with could cause feelings to form?"
Definately. I have feelings for all my lovers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.
Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x
I won't for you if it's not you're thing.
But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do yes but what im saying is in 17 year's of this lifestyle. I can count on my fingers how many guys have tried to kiss me during a meet x
I guess that's down to what you're looking for.
Our meets have always involved it but that's the sort of thing we're looking for and go off profiles and socials.
I suppose the types of people you like just aren't into it either which works out great for you
I'm not sure where we're going with this other we're into different things lol
You don't like kissing on meets we do. We all like posting on forums.
Happy days x"
im not arguing that some like it some dont. My partner needs kissing on a meet... i love to kiss him.. but what im saying is that even though till recently i never said no kissing.. in actual play situations it just never happened.. that while on the forums you have the vast majority saying its a must... im arguing that in clubs it isn't something that seems to happen and more often than not my partner will lean in to kiss a lady and will get told sorry we don't kiss..
Where as on the forum its very pro kissing. I dont mind if people need it.... i just make it clear its unlikely to be with me. Besides as i tend to go straight for sucking cock in a play situation its hard to be kissed |
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over a year ago
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"Anyone think passionate kissing with someone you click with could cause feelings to form?
Definately. I have feelings for all my lovers. "
How do you stop them from being too strong? |
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Just give me the chance...............!!! |
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Depends if he is any good at it.
I hate the washing machine kiss, the wet sloppy kiss where he thrusts his tongue in my mouth and swirls it around.....urgh nasty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A kiss can be a wonderful thing.
That first kiss tells me everything I need to know... my current fb's first kiss was amazing, he just leant in and delivered the softest kiss I've ever had and then he pulled me in and grabbed the back of my neck and tbh that was all I needed to let me know we were going to have a fabulous adventure together.
We have soft sensual kisses and really hot passionate kisses, and simply couldn't play without a good snog "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone think passionate kissing with someone you click with could cause feelings to form?
Definately. I have feelings for all my lovers.
How do you stop them from being too strong?"
I don't really worry about it. It would be different if I were single I suppose. I'd have to be more careful then. I suppose my marriage prevents it getting too strong. And the fact that I have several partners so emotion is divided. If someone doesn't want to continue with me, it's upsetting at the time, but it doesn't matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends if he is any good at it.
I hate the washing machine kiss, the wet sloppy kiss where he thrusts his tongue in my mouth and swirls it around.....urgh nasty "
to be honest when i first started out as a couple on here as id loved my partners first kisses i was eager to kiss too.. seeing how much he enjoyed watching it too.. but guy after guy was how you just described and my original dislike and uncomfortable feelings came back.. with the exception of the one man i knows kisses match me perfectly...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone think passionate kissing with someone you click with could cause feelings to form?
Definately. I have feelings for all my lovers.
How do you stop them from being too strong?
I don't really worry about it. It would be different if I were single I suppose. I'd have to be more careful then. I suppose my marriage prevents it getting too strong. And the fact that I have several partners so emotion is divided. If someone doesn't want to continue with me, it's upsetting at the time, but it doesn't matter."
You sound nice x |
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"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.
Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x
I won't for you if it's not you're thing.
But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do yes but what im saying is in 17 year's of this lifestyle. I can count on my fingers how many guys have tried to kiss me during a meet x
I guess that's down to what you're looking for.
Our meets have always involved it but that's the sort of thing we're looking for and go off profiles and socials.
I suppose the types of people you like just aren't into it either which works out great for you
I'm not sure where we're going with this other we're into different things lol
You don't like kissing on meets we do. We all like posting on forums.
Happy days xim not arguing that some like it some dont. My partner needs kissing on a meet... i love to kiss him.. but what im saying is that even though till recently i never said no kissing.. in actual play situations it just never happened.. that while on the forums you have the vast majority saying its a must... im arguing that in clubs it isn't something that seems to happen and more often than not my partner will lean in to kiss a lady and will get told sorry we don't kiss..
Where as on the forum its very pro kissing. I dont mind if people need it.... i just make it clear its unlikely to be with me. Besides as i tend to go straight for sucking cock in a play situation its hard to be kissed "
Ahh thanks for clearing that up.
We can't speak for the club scene because we've not been yet
There's a lot of people the same. There was a thread here the other day exactly the opposite to this full of people saying it's not needed or a step too far.
I imagine thoughts of kissing go out of the window once you've started lol |
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"Depends if he is any good at it.
I hate the washing machine kiss, the wet sloppy kiss where he thrusts his tongue in my mouth and swirls it around.....urgh nasty to be honest when i first started out as a couple on here as id loved my partners first kisses i was eager to kiss too.. seeing how much he enjoyed watching it too.. but guy after guy was how you just described and my original dislike and uncomfortable feelings came back.. with the exception of the one man i knows kisses match me perfectly...
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One of the good things about club meets is that blokes rarely kiss, so I don't have to worry about the slobber. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.
Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x
I won't for you if it's not you're thing.
But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do yes but what im saying is in 17 year's of this lifestyle. I can count on my fingers how many guys have tried to kiss me during a meet x
I guess that's down to what you're looking for.
Our meets have always involved it but that's the sort of thing we're looking for and go off profiles and socials.
I suppose the types of people you like just aren't into it either which works out great for you
I'm not sure where we're going with this other we're into different things lol
You don't like kissing on meets we do. We all like posting on forums.
Happy days xim not arguing that some like it some dont. My partner needs kissing on a meet... i love to kiss him.. but what im saying is that even though till recently i never said no kissing.. in actual play situations it just never happened.. that while on the forums you have the vast majority saying its a must... im arguing that in clubs it isn't something that seems to happen and more often than not my partner will lean in to kiss a lady and will get told sorry we don't kiss..
Where as on the forum its very pro kissing. I dont mind if people need it.... i just make it clear its unlikely to be with me. Besides as i tend to go straight for sucking cock in a play situation its hard to be kissed "
I find there is less kissing in orgy and group situations. I'm less likely to kiss if it's relatively anonymous. And there's a place for that. But I think there is also a place for intimacy. We enjoy all that the swing scene offers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's on my must have list right at the top! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely love a good kiss.  Kissing is one of my favorite parts of sex, in general. I love the different connection you get with different people and how much more it brings to my own experience. And when I find someone who is particularly good at kissing it just makes me melt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Argh clearly in the minority here. In a relationship, kissing, yes yes yes! For no strings encounters I don't think it's for me. Saturday will be interesting Benditoy! |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
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I couldn't meet without knowing in advance that the lady enjoyed passionate kissing. Absolutely essential for me x |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
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time for kissing with partner .deeply madly .is part of our private love making .we play the fab game for fun and and thrill seeking .none committal enjoy ment.kissing not just for the act of sex .can be any time show of affection.[just our view point] |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No kissing no meet, simple.
Love a good frenchie "
Frenchie haven't heard that in about 30 years lol
People do love it and the minute they see my Traintracks braces top and bottom I'm toast. Sucks but it isn't for ever  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.
Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x"
I respect that you prefer to not kiss during a meet, even though kissing is integral to me, I know it's not for everyone, and people's preferences need to be respected |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A very underrated act of intimacy,
Eyes open, eyes closed two very different sensations
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Get kissing you lot who aren't
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Argh clearly in the minority here. In a relationship, kissing, yes yes yes! For no strings encounters I don't think it's for me. Saturday will be interesting Benditoy! "
Don't worry L, I'll protect you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be dissapointing to me and make it harder to get aroused if a lady did not kiss.
Each to their own I guess. |
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