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By *ed wine OP Man
over a year ago
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I know that most of the ladies (yes, you sinners...) would like a bi curious/sexual man in your bed.
But, for those that wouldn't, why not?
Here some suggestions:
-Not enough masculine?
-Can't see two men in a sexual intercourse?
Please, other constrains... |
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over a year ago
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Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off. |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off."
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. |
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. "
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. "
So what if he was to make you both suck him? Surely that is still alpha male behaviour. When I've been to fetish nights in the past its not unusual to have male and female submissive serve me. Sorry just that comment makes no sense what so ever. |
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off."
No honesty is good,can we ask you a question,would you go with a guy whoes been with another guy? We ask because we have soooooooo many guys (we only meet bi guys if meeting a single guy)who state they are bi after weve told them we only meet bi guys,but they have straight on there,there come back amongst other rubbish is it puts single women off,we reply so you are deceiving single women who will not meet guys that have been with another guy,what's your opinion? |
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. that's a lovely image and good use of a training bench photo 2 may "
And what of us bi guys who are tops?  (we dont do the sucking and we don't get fucked. We enjoy being sucked and being the dominant) |
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
No honesty is good,can we ask you a question,would you go with a guy whoes been with another guy? We ask because we have soooooooo many guys (we only meet bi guys if meeting a single guy)who state they are bi after weve told them we only meet bi guys,but they have straight on there,there come back amongst other rubbish is it puts single women off,we reply so you are deceiving single women who will not meet guys that have been with another guy,what's your opinion?"
oh i know that i will have at some point done so.. but i wont knowingly meet a bi guy... same as I wont knowingly meet a cheating guy. |
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off."
Same reason for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
No honesty is good,can we ask you a question,would you go with a guy whoes been with another guy? We ask because we have soooooooo many guys (we only meet bi guys if meeting a single guy)who state they are bi after weve told them we only meet bi guys,but they have straight on there,there come back amongst other rubbish is it puts single women off,we reply so you are deceiving single women who will not meet guys that have been with another guy,what's your opinion?"
this is one of my pet hates the number of straight males who want bjs ect from bi males is stupid number's to be honest and all use the puts single females off shite excuse it's still one more bloody lie   |
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. that's a lovely image and good use of a training bench photo 2 may
And what of us bi guys who are tops? (we dont do the sucking and we don't get fucked. We enjoy being sucked and being the dominant)"
It still doesn't do it for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. that's a lovely image and good use of a training bench photo 2 may
And what of us bi guys who are tops? (we dont do the sucking and we don't get fucked. We enjoy being sucked and being the dominant)
It still doesn't do it for me. "
I was directing that to the person saying they liked alphas, but ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. that's a lovely image and good use of a training bench photo 2 may
And what of us bi guys who are tops? (we dont do the sucking and we don't get fucked. We enjoy being sucked and being the dominant)"
we are just proper alphas or maybe slags |
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. that's a lovely image and good use of a training bench photo 2 may
And what of us bi guys who are tops? (we dont do the sucking and we don't get fucked. We enjoy being sucked and being the dominant)
It still doesn't do it for me.
I was directing that to the person saying they liked alphas, but ok"
And I said I agreed with them.
Sorry I'm not good enough to answer your question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"haha I think it's hilarious when I read they don't meet bi men, especially when I look at their veri's and see the men they've met I know are bi and they've fucked them hahaha"
Maybe they don't intentionally meet bi guys?
Its about communication and honesty! These guys may not have disclosed they are bi or lied or maybe the question asking them was never asked.... |
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. that's a lovely image and good use of a training bench photo 2 may
And what of us bi guys who are tops? (we dont do the sucking and we don't get fucked. We enjoy being sucked and being the dominant) we are just proper alphas or maybe slags "
We do tend to have high sex drives |
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. that's a lovely image and good use of a training bench photo 2 may
And what of us bi guys who are tops? (we dont do the sucking and we don't get fucked. We enjoy being sucked and being the dominant)"
Exactly!! So alpha we make everyone do it hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. that's a lovely image and good use of a training bench photo 2 may
And what of us bi guys who are tops? (we dont do the sucking and we don't get fucked. We enjoy being sucked and being the dominant)
Exactly!! So alpha we make everyone do it hahaha "
Thats why I get annoyed by people saying "100% bisexual. You need to give and take". Just like with gay men, you got your Tops, Vers, and Bottoms. No such thing as 100% or 50% bisexual |
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By *ed wine OP Man
over a year ago
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I understand that wacthing a men sucking other, can affect subjectively the image of macho alpha. No questioning about that.
But why couldn't he be in both sides?:
- Being masculine enough to satisfy a woman
and
-Being sensitive and hedonist enough to find pleasure from other body physically diferent?
On the other hand, is a lady less feminine if she enjoys getting pleasure from other woman? |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits.
So what if he was to make you both suck him? Surely that is still alpha male behaviour. When I've been to fetish nights in the past its not unusual to have male and female submissive serve me. Sorry just that comment makes no sense what so ever. "
It makes sense to me. As I said, it's my personal submissive train of thought. I have a very specific wish list in a dominant. Him being heterosexual is part of that. |
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If your bi your bi if your straight your straight if you don't want meet bi men then meet straight only then do that its all about personal presence btw I'm part of a bi cpl and we only meet bi men and bi cpls its all about personal preference |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't have a problem with meeting Bi men. I have an FWB who is straight but curious, he is an Alpha male and wouldn't be less Alpha if he had Bi action. I find it a big turn on thinking about seeing him get fked up ass and sucked by a man or doing it to them. XXX |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I never quite get why people need to know, who fucking cares what anonymous people on the internet do, or don't.
It just gives people the platform to down others. Not all will take that opportunity to try to lessen a bi guy in some way. Some just glory in it.
Note, some |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. that's a lovely image and good use of a training bench photo 2 may
And what of us bi guys who are tops? (we dont do the sucking and we don't get fucked. We enjoy being sucked and being the dominant)
It still doesn't do it for me.
I was directing that to the person saying they liked alphas, but ok"
It makes no odds if they are top or bottom. I don't desire to sub to a bi guy. However, two alpha males fucking (and me being no part of it other than a voyeur) is so... Hot! My sub brain and my vanilla brain work totally differently. |
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"haha I think it's hilarious when I read they don't meet bi men, especially when I look at their veri's and see the men they've met I know are bi and they've fucked them hahaha
Maybe they don't intentionally meet bi guys?
Its about communication and honesty! These guys may not have disclosed they are bi or lied or maybe the question asking them was never asked.... "
this for me. I wont intentionally meet bi or cheating guys but I'm not stupid enough to think i never do. |
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"Being a total pervert I love a bi man. More fun for me "
Nothing wrong with total perverts 
Some women certainly do not like to think of MM action, though this is unlikely during a MF meet it might still be off putting.
There is also the idea that a bu guy can pose more of an STI risk....but every person needs to be taken on their own merits. Not every bi guy has partaken in very risky activities, for example. |
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits.
So what if he was to make you both suck him? Surely that is still alpha male behaviour. When I've been to fetish nights in the past its not unusual to have male and female submissive serve me. Sorry just that comment makes no sense what so ever.
It makes sense to me. As I said, it's my personal submissive train of thought. I have a very specific wish list in a dominant. Him being heterosexual is part of that. "
I don't deny anyone their own thoughts on it but to say it makes them less alpha is a bit like saying your less submissive because you aren't collard or in chastity 24/7 that's all |
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"Being a total pervert I love a bi man. More fun for me
Nothing wrong with total perverts
Some women certainly do not like to think of MM action, though this is unlikely during a MF meet it might still be off putting.
There is also the idea that a bu guy can pose more of an STI risk....but every person needs to be taken on their own merits. Not every bi guy has partaken in very risky activities, for example."
Thats the point I don't understand. Gay men and bi guys are encouraged more to keep it wrapped and get tested for STI's. Yet, I find that there are a lot more heterosexuals who have them that I know of |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits.
So what if he was to make you both suck him? Surely that is still alpha male behaviour. When I've been to fetish nights in the past its not unusual to have male and female submissive serve me. Sorry just that comment makes no sense what so ever.
It makes sense to me. As I said, it's my personal submissive train of thought. I have a very specific wish list in a dominant. Him being heterosexual is part of that.
I don't deny anyone their own thoughts on it but to say it makes them less alpha is a bit like saying your less submissive because you aren't collard or in chastity 24/7 that's all "
Alpha wasn't the right choice of word. It was literally pulled from the comment I was replying to.
I have certain barriers that I can't overcome with submission. I struggle/don't wish to sub to switches. I struggle to peg my dominant. I struggle to straddle his face. Because in my weird brain, it doesn't work for my submission. Neither do bi men. That's just the way it is for me. |
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With regard to submitting, it is a very personal act and does need to be 'just right'
The STI supposition is that a bi man is likely to have had sex with gay men, etc. But I know people of all orientations who are extremely careful and some who are not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know that most of the ladies (yes, you sinners...) would like a bi curious/sexual man in your bed.
But, for those that wouldn't, why not?
Here some suggestions:
-Not enough masculine?
-Can't see two men in a sexual intercourse?
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
double Grrrrrrrrrrr
Sorry OP - not sure what planet your on
As a bisexual man who as been in two loving relationships as a Bisexual man - your well off the mark;
1. What makes you think a bi man is some sort of a whip/wuss - get a life mate - we are ordinary men who lead ordinary lives who happen to enjoy men bodies as well as women
2. I bet you get turned on watching two women fuck each other don't you ?? and not all bi men end up fucking, a vast majority of Bi men just enjoy oral sex.....again two women licking each ...tick the box ....two men sucking each......omg go to hell and burn
We are human and most genuine Bi men become so through "swinging" and at group meets where its hard not to get touched up occasionally.....
jon .....steps of his soap box and retires to the corner
Please, other constrains..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can't understand it. I wouldn't like to see any of my dominant play mates sucking another male but I would love to see those dominant males getting sucked or fucking another male.
It is actually my last fantasy to tick off. Me and two bi men. Nom nom nom  |
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits.
So what if he was to make you both suck him? Surely that is still alpha male behaviour. When I've been to fetish nights in the past its not unusual to have male and female submissive serve me. Sorry just that comment makes no sense what so ever.
It makes sense to me. As I said, it's my personal submissive train of thought. I have a very specific wish list in a dominant. Him being heterosexual is part of that.
I don't deny anyone their own thoughts on it but to say it makes them less alpha is a bit like saying your less submissive because you aren't collard or in chastity 24/7 that's all
Alpha wasn't the right choice of word. It was literally pulled from the comment I was replying to.
I have certain barriers that I can't overcome with submission. I struggle/don't wish to sub to switches. I struggle to peg my dominant. I struggle to straddle his face. Because in my weird brain, it doesn't work for my submission. Neither do bi men. That's just the way it is for me. "
That's all good, as someone the other side I have the same sort of wants and requirements from a submissive as I'm sure we all do |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"I can't understand it. I wouldn't like to see any of my dominant play mates sucking another male but I would love to see those dominant males getting sucked or fucking another male.
It is actually my last fantasy to tick off. Me and two bi men. Nom nom nom "
Just doesn't work for me. My previous dom was also a bull. He would sometimes get the cuck male to suck him off. I tried to be supportive of his bi side but my submission was just dying off each time he did it. I didn't see him as extra masculine for dominating a male into performing oral sex. However, him verbally dominating a male was hot. The actual sex act just crossed a line for me. The Ds side just died off between us. |
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"I can't understand it. I wouldn't like to see any of my dominant play mates sucking another male but I would love to see those dominant males getting sucked or fucking another male.
It is actually my last fantasy to tick off. Me and two bi men. Nom nom nom "
Can easily be arranged |
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"I know that most of the ladies (yes, you sinners...) would like a bi curious/sexual man in your bed.
But, for those that wouldn't, why not?
Here some suggestions:
-Not enough masculine?
-Can't see two men in a sexual intercourse?
Please, other constrains..."
Hee hee - This one is fun... Debate between preferences and discrimination and how some people can't see the difference
But the usual excuses I have had in the past are "it's a weakness to be fucked in the ass".
To "Ewww, AIDS" (and I've had this from both gay men and women).
To some "eww it grosses me out two men together".
But yeah, you can finding the swinging scene some of the most judgemental hypocrites next to priests really when it comes to Bi men.
Hence so many of the buggers say they are straight on their profiles, and we just won't meet them, and yet they still message...
*shrugs*
If you aren't out fighting the swinging scene prejudice, we aren't interested.
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over a year ago
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"I can't understand it. I wouldn't like to see any of my dominant play mates sucking another male but I would love to see those dominant males getting sucked or fucking another male.
It is actually my last fantasy to tick off. Me and two bi men. Nom nom nom
Can easily be arranged "
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I love the fact that people on this and other threads ask what people's preferences are and then question them when they don't agree.
Peoples preferences only have to make sense to the people who have them.
If some women don't like bi men, why do their reasons for it have to add up?
I don't like mushrooms. That doesn't mean my reasons for not liking them have to make sense to those that do. I just don't like them. |
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Hehe - It makes me laugh actually that on Saturday night I was in a "blowjob chain" where a guy was getting sucked off buy a trans friend of ours, who I was then sucking off, and her boyfriend was sucking me off...
That got some reaction!
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off."
I'm exactly the same. |
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"With regard to submitting, it is a very personal act and does need to be 'just right'
Some people just can't get their head around that. "
Having been on both sides of this coin (with different partners) I do believe it only works when it is just right...and a sub's own internal mental/emotional requirements are unique to them. If a bi Dom is not for you....then he's not for you. Similarly some subs cannot imagine being submissive to a dominant who sometimes subs themselves (even if they never see or hear of it). C'est la vie, as they say. |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"I never quite get why people need to know, who fucking cares what anonymous people on the internet do, or don't.
It just gives people the platform to down others. Not all will take that opportunity to try to lessen a bi guy in some way. Some just glory in it.
Note, some"
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"I love the fact that people on this and other threads ask what people's preferences are and then question them when they don't agree.
Peoples preferences only have to make sense to the people who have them.
If some women don't like bi men, why do their reasons for it have to add up?
I don't like mushrooms. That doesn't mean my reasons for not liking them have to make sense to those that do. I just don't like them."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being a total pervert I love a bi man. More fun for me
Nothing wrong with total perverts
Some women certainly do not like to think of MM action, though this is unlikely during a MF meet it might still be off putting.
There is also the idea that a bu guy can pose more of an STI risk....but every person needs to be taken on their own merits. Not every bi guy has partaken in very risky activities, for example."
Reading some of the stuff in here I don't actually get some people last trail of thought but each to their own I guess.
Any play partner/s carries risks male, female, straight , bi , gay that's why safe sex and condoms exist. I done think bi or multi partners carries any more risk from m/f FWB tbh. |
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"Being a total pervert I love a bi man. More fun for me
Nothing wrong with total perverts
Some women certainly do not like to think of MM action, though this is unlikely during a MF meet it might still be off putting.
There is also the idea that a bu guy can pose more of an STI risk....but every person needs to be taken on their own merits. Not every bi guy has partaken in very risky activities, for example.
Reading some of the stuff in here I don't actually get some people last trail of thought but each to their own I guess.
Any play partner/s carries risks male, female, straight , bi , gay that's why safe sex and condoms exist. I done think bi or multi partners carries any more risk from m/f FWB tbh. "
Which is why every potential partner should be looked at on their own merits, in my opinion.
There was a thread last week started by a couple who refuse to meet bu guys due to the perceived extra risk. Whereas it strikes me that people of every orientation can be safe, risky and everything inbetween. |
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There is of course a straight answer to this, but since it's an issue relating to women, and they control the social narrative it's not surprising to see it clouded and obfuscated behind ephemeral terms.
The answer is simple, bigotry. End of story.
The actions of a person external to you, which aren't inherently immoral and don't speak to their personality or leave some sort of permanent affect on them physically should be entirely irrelevant to a new situation. They aren't of course, but they ought to be.
The explanation you will get, and have gotten here of course is "preference" and yes, its technically true. It's also of course completely failing to answer the question. When OP raises this he KNOWS its your preference. If he didn't he wouldn't be asking the question. He's asking for the root of the preference.
And no matter which way you slice it the answer given are prejudicial generalisations based on bigotry.
The idea that a bi male is inherently less manly, or worthy as a man, or dominant. Hilarious claptrap. There are plenty of extremely submissive straight men and extremely dominant gay/bi ones. To ascribe a personality trait on the basis of sexual orientation is fundamentally no different to ascribing it based on race.
"I don't want to be friends with a black guy, they are all criminals and junkies." Does that sound reasonable? Bigoted? Because it's the same train of logic you are using ladies. Ruminate on that for a while.
I speak technically as an unaffected party. None of this of course stops me from meeting couples who won't play with a bi guy because I am for all intents and purposes straight. The most physical contact I've had with a male is a d*unken man hug. But it is a significant downmarker on a persons profile if they state it. Because it implies either outright bigotry or a lack of critical thinking. Either way it's a detriment.
I do say technically unaffected. Because in essence all males are affected by this. It is a major hurdle to our full sexual freedom. We are penalised for exploring our sexuality by being discriminated against should we ask ourselves those questions. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"There is of course a straight answer to this, but since it's an issue relating to women, and they control the social narrative it's not surprising to see it clouded and obfuscated behind ephemeral terms.
The answer is simple, bigotry. End of story.
The actions of a person external to you, which aren't inherently immoral and don't speak to their personality or leave some sort of permanent affect on them physically should be entirely irrelevant to a new situation. They aren't of course, but they ought to be.
The explanation you will get, and have gotten here of course is "preference" and yes, its technically true. It's also of course completely failing to answer the question. When OP raises this he KNOWS its your preference. If he didn't he wouldn't be asking the question. He's asking for the root of the preference.
And no matter which way you slice it the answer given are prejudicial generalisations based on bigotry.
The idea that a bi male is inherently less manly, or worthy as a man, or dominant. Hilarious claptrap. There are plenty of extremely submissive straight men and extremely dominant gay/bi ones. To ascribe a personality trait on the basis of sexual orientation is fundamentally no different to ascribing it based on race.
"I don't want to be friends with a black guy, they are all criminals and junkies." Does that sound reasonable? Bigoted? Because it's the same train of logic you are using ladies. Ruminate on that for a while.
I speak technically as an unaffected party. None of this of course stops me from meeting couples who won't play with a bi guy because I am for all intents and purposes straight. The most physical contact I've had with a male is a d*unken man hug. But it is a significant downmarker on a persons profile if they state it. Because it implies either outright bigotry or a lack of critical thinking. Either way it's a detriment.
I do say technically unaffected. Because in essence all males are affected by this. It is a major hurdle to our full sexual freedom. We are penalised for exploring our sexuality by being discriminated against should we ask ourselves those questions. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is of course a straight answer to this, but since it's an issue relating to women, and they control the social narrative it's not surprising to see it clouded and obfuscated behind ephemeral terms.
The answer is simple, bigotry. End of story.
The actions of a person external to you, which aren't inherently immoral and don't speak to their personality or leave some sort of permanent affect on them physically should be entirely irrelevant to a new situation. They aren't of course, but they ought to be.
The explanation you will get, and have gotten here of course is "preference" and yes, its technically true. It's also of course completely failing to answer the question. When OP raises this he KNOWS its your preference. If he didn't he wouldn't be asking the question. He's asking for the root of the preference.
And no matter which way you slice it the answer given are prejudicial generalisations based on bigotry.
The idea that a bi male is inherently less manly, or worthy as a man, or dominant. Hilarious claptrap. There are plenty of extremely submissive straight men and extremely dominant gay/bi ones. To ascribe a personality trait on the basis of sexual orientation is fundamentally no different to ascribing it based on race.
"I don't want to be friends with a black guy, they are all criminals and junkies." Does that sound reasonable? Bigoted? Because it's the same train of logic you are using ladies. Ruminate on that for a while.
I speak technically as an unaffected party. None of this of course stops me from meeting couples who won't play with a bi guy because I am for all intents and purposes straight. The most physical contact I've had with a male is a d*unken man hug. But it is a significant downmarker on a persons profile if they state it. Because it implies either outright bigotry or a lack of critical thinking. Either way it's a detriment.
I do say technically unaffected. Because in essence all males are affected by this. It is a major hurdle to our full sexual freedom. We are penalised for exploring our sexuality by being discriminated against should we ask ourselves those questions. "
And this is one of the smartest things I've read on this site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loving some of the assumptions on this thread, bi guys all suck cock, they're submissive blah blah blah
As a bi female who is dominant it makes me wonder if I'm masculine and won't lick pussy  |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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The idea that a bi male is inherently less manly, or worthy as a man, or dominant. Hilarious claptrap. There are plenty of extremely submissive straight men and extremely dominant gay/bi ones. To ascribe a personality trait on the basis of sexual orientation is fundamentally no different to ascribing it based on race. "
I'll respond to this as I feel it's directed at me from my comments.
Firstly, I'm not one of those subs that thinks submission is a gift and only a worthy Dom shall receive this. It's just a connection. It's either there or it's not.
Not at any point have I said bisexuality makes someone less manly.
It's just really simple for me. It doesn't work. It's something I've tried in the past and tried desperately to make work. It didn't. My submissive side just won't connect when I see my dom getting sucked off. Nothing I can do about it. I accepted my Dom's bisexuality (even though he classed himself as straight) and changed our dynamic accordingly. However, my vanilla voyeur side, rather likes watching two guys together. Subbing with a bi guy is now ruled out for me because it just went wrong in the past. That's the funny thing about psychological play, it's often irrational.
Fail to see why that's bigoted or claptrap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is of course a straight answer to this, but since it's an issue relating to women, and they control the social narrative it's not surprising to see it clouded and obfuscated behind ephemeral terms.
The answer is simple, bigotry. End of story.
The actions of a person external to you, which aren't inherently immoral and don't speak to their personality or leave some sort of permanent affect on them physically should be entirely irrelevant to a new situation. They aren't of course, but they ought to be.
The explanation you will get, and have gotten here of course is "preference" and yes, its technically true. It's also of course completely failing to answer the question. When OP raises this he KNOWS its your preference. If he didn't he wouldn't be asking the question. He's asking for the root of the preference.
And no matter which way you slice it the answer given are prejudicial generalisations based on bigotry.
The idea that a bi male is inherently less manly, or worthy as a man, or dominant. Hilarious claptrap. There are plenty of extremely submissive straight men and extremely dominant gay/bi ones. To ascribe a personality trait on the basis of sexual orientation is fundamentally no different to ascribing it based on race.
"I don't want to be friends with a black guy, they are all criminals and junkies." Does that sound reasonable? Bigoted? Because it's the same train of logic you are using ladies. Ruminate on that for a while.
I speak technically as an unaffected party. None of this of course stops me from meeting couples who won't play with a bi guy because I am for all intents and purposes straight. The most physical contact I've had with a male is a d*unken man hug. But it is a significant downmarker on a persons profile if they state it. Because it implies either outright bigotry or a lack of critical thinking. Either way it's a detriment.
I do say technically unaffected. Because in essence all males are affected by this. It is a major hurdle to our full sexual freedom. We are penalised for exploring our sexuality by being discriminated against should we ask ourselves those questions. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sinners are not the women, it is the bi ones lol.
What about the bi women? "
Yes, they are it too, but as the question was to the men, so was saying them there. |
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"The sinners are not the women, it is the bi ones lol.
What about the bi women?
We're the worse sinners of all  "
Yeah we are just the sinners that men like to watch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The amount of straight guys contacting me is ridiculous also ones from couples . They want me to fuck them and suck.me but they maintain there straight . Unreal any port in a storm lol "
Maybe they're just uncomfortable putting themselves on display as bi, possibly because of the way lots of people on this site seem to _iew bi guys |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Why would anyone want to meet someone who has expressed their de-selection of bi guys, marrieds, barebackers etc
Is sex so fucking important that you demean yourself to spunk your load or take a cock in your fanny by someone who has expressed their distaste.
It is truly beyond me why someone would
Dignity and self worth for Christ sake |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly it turns me off and Rightly or wrongly I like alpha males and for me a guy who likes other guys doesn't fit that for me.
Im sure I will get slated for that but honestly it just turns me off.
It doesn't turn me off. I adore watching gay porn or males playing together. I just don't want to play with one of them.
It's the alpha thing for me too. My own personal submissive train of thought. I see it a really submissive act, on my knees sucking off my dominant. Him on a pedestal. It doesn't work for me if I know he's previously been on his knees sucking off another man. Hard to explain. My fetish side deffo won't play with bi males. My nilla side... I doubt it but it's not off limits. that's a lovely image and good use of a training bench photo 2 may
And what of us bi guys who are tops? (we dont do the sucking and we don't get fucked. We enjoy being sucked and being the dominant)"
Exactly. The arguments to not meet a bi guy makes no sense whatsoever.
If you met me, you would say that I'm an alpha male. (which I am of course  )
Anyway, each to their own I guess |
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"Being a total pervert I love a bi man. More fun for me
Nothing wrong with total perverts
Some women certainly do not like to think of MM action, though this is unlikely during a MF meet it might still be off putting.
There is also the idea that a bu guy can pose more of an STI risk....but every person needs to be taken on their own merits. Not every bi guy has partaken in very risky activities, for example.
Thats the point I don't understand. Gay men and bi guys are encouraged more to keep it wrapped and get tested for STI's. Yet, I find that there are a lot more heterosexuals who have them that I know of"
It's statistically valid apparently - MSM are far higher risk than the general hetero poulation (because of both frequency and possibility of high risk sex). Mind you, how that would compare to heterosexual swingers I do not know - it may be similar!!
And before I get accused of bigotry, I have met openly bi guys on here. But yes, I am someone who tries to minimise my risk levels and I do think hard about EVERYONE I meet and try to judge what's best for me. |
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"haha I think it's hilarious when I read they don't meet bi men, especially when I look at their veri's and see the men they've met I know are bi and they've fucked them hahaha
Maybe they don't intentionally meet bi guys?
Its about communication and honesty! These guys may not have disclosed they are bi or lied or maybe the question asking them was never asked.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Exactly. The arguments to not meet a bi guy makes no sense whatsoever.
If you met me, you would say that I'm an alpha male. (which I am of course )
Anyway, each to their own I guess "
It doesn't need to make sense... its just some people's sexual preference.... more women want bi guys than dont... so why worry about those that for whatever reasons dont |
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Exactly. The arguments to not meet a bi guy makes no sense whatsoever.
If you met me, you would say that I'm an alpha male. (which I am of course )
Anyway, each to their own I guess It doesn't need to make sense... its just some people's sexual preference.... more women want bi guys than dont... so why worry about those that for whatever reasons dont"
That's fair enough.
I'm not worrying.
Like I said...each to their own. |
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