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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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going out with a bang us something we all think about, but it's something I will be doing.
I've been diagnosed with terminal cancer. I've left my job and I'm going to everything I've always wanted to do! Please don't feel sorry I'm not looking for sympathy at all, just people to help me do incredible things.
I will be deleting my profile fairly soon as I don't want people to know my strange past time.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's a real shitter and my heart goes out to you and your family.
If you have a pension you may be able to cash it all in and blow it on doing all the things you want to.
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I already have, I don't have a family so.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you made the bucket list? There are some incredible 1 offs out there to try and some insain things. Google will be a big friend to you on this subject. We have a few thing we want to do before the end
Hope you manage all you set out to do and fill all remaining time to the max |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Steven Sutton achieved a big chunk of his bucket list before he passed away, and raised over £4M for the Teenage Cancer Trust whilst doing it. It depends how publicly you want to go and how much of a difference you'd like to make?
But good luck and enjoy every second to the max x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good luck with everything you do op. Don't regret anything now is your time live it to the max. Be positive with all you achieve and most of all love life and love yourself.
Big cwtches
Lots of love prettytiedup xxx |
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This happened to a friend of mine she lived the last 6 months of her life to the full we held a fundraiser and sent them to Disney land something her kids will always have treasured memories of so mate do your worst and enjoy each day as its your last good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unattached
with no roots
with no barrier.
Free as a bird i want to be.
Despite the fears of freedom
depite the vuneralbility
of the unattached.
despite the unfamiliarity of the unknown.
Free as a bird i want to be.
Woven into the warmth of the evening wind
swaying on the willow tree branches
carried by the stars
Free as a bird i want to be.
From here to there
never missed and never expected
never recognized and never attatched
Free as a bird i want to be
to go and do whatever i wish.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear such terrible news OP. May I ask what type of cancer you have as I lost someone young recently to cancer, wondered if it was the same type? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that but admire your positivity.
Make a bucket list if you haven't done so and do experience the things you've always wanted to.
All the best to you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just lost two friends in the space of a week, one of whom was taken by cancer. To see a post of this nature serves as a reminder to us all just how fragile and cruel life can be sometimes.
OP, I hope your remaining time is filled with happiness and that you manage to do everything that you want to do within that time.
Maybe the people who constantly complain about not getting meets should be directed to this thread, then maybe they'll realise that some things are far more important.
Very best wishes to you OP, and much respect for being so brave by telling us all about your situation on here. |
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"What kind of thing's are you hoping to do?
Ive booked a round the world holiday a sky dive and that's it so far..."
If you don't mind me asking, how did you manage to get travel insurance to cover medical issues while you're away?
We recently tried to sort something for a relative and once we declared medical conditions, everything outside Europe became a non starter.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What kind of thing's are you hoping to do?
Ive booked a round the world holiday a sky dive and that's it so far..."
That's good for starters, prioritising what you really really want to do is important now.
I wish you all the very best x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would like to meet as many as possible and just live"
From trying to arrange dogging meets six days ago to this OP quitting your job and round the world bucket lists.
I hope it works out whatever happens. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would like to meet as many as possible and just live
From trying to arrange dogging meets six days ago to this OP quitting your job and round the world bucket lists.
I hope it works out whatever happens. "
Haven't been well for a while |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fair play for taking the news so well OP. Get out there and do all the things you can do make everyone else jealous. You only live once, no regrets!"
If you have any idea or advice get in touch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate hearing things like this, I'm sorry to hear that even tho I don't know you, it makes you thankful for what you've got. Why don't you start by publishing your bucket list on here, you never know, you might get a bit of help ticking a couple off the list. I hope a miracle happens for you mate. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would like to meet as many as possible and just live"
How are you going to do that if, as you say in your original op, you're going to delete your profile ? Best of luck anyway bud. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate hearing things like this, I'm sorry to hear that even tho I don't know you, it makes you thankful for what you've got. Why don't you start by publishing your bucket list on here, you never know, you might get a bit of help ticking a couple off the list. I hope a miracle happens for you mate. Good luck. "
Good shout. List a few things and people might want to help tick em off or tag along etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suspect a few of you doubt the OP is really sick judging by a few comments. Give the guy a break, I'm sure he's going thru hell and putting a brave face on. Surely nobody would be so sick to say they were terminal if they weren't. |
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"I suspect a few of you doubt the OP is really sick judging by a few comments. Give the guy a break, I'm sure he's going thru hell and putting a brave face on. Surely nobody would be so sick to say they were terminal if they weren't. "
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"I suspect a few of you doubt the OP is really sick judging by a few comments. Give the guy a break, I'm sure he's going thru hell and putting a brave face on. Surely nobody would be so sick to say they were terminal if they weren't. "
I don't know if you were referring to me there but I'm genuinely interested as the US was somewhere my relative wanted to visit however we've had to abandon that plan and we've tried all the specialist places for insurance with no joy. If there is anywhere that someone knows of that plan could be back on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Massive respect op!
Inspirational outlook, you can't change the cards you're dealt so make the most of the ones you get.
Hope you do everything you want and have a fucking awesome time doing so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suspect a few of you doubt the OP is really sick judging by a few comments. Give the guy a break, I'm sure he's going thru hell and putting a brave face on. Surely nobody would be so sick to say they were terminal if they weren't.
I don't know if you were referring to me there but I'm genuinely interested as the US was somewhere my relative wanted to visit however we've had to abandon that plan and we've tried all the specialist places for insurance with no joy. If there is anywhere that someone knows of that plan could be back on."
No I wasn't referring to you, nobody specific, just a few posts had a hint of doubt in them that's all, none of my business really, people can say and think what they like, I just think the op has got enough on his plate that's all. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suspect a few of you doubt the OP is really sick judging by a few comments. Give the guy a break, I'm sure he's going thru hell and putting a brave face on. Surely nobody would be so sick to say they were terminal if they weren't.
I don't know if you were referring to me there but I'm genuinely interested as the US was somewhere my relative wanted to visit however we've had to abandon that plan and we've tried all the specialist places for insurance with no joy. If there is anywhere that someone knows of that plan could be back on."
Agreed would be pretty sick if this isn't true very much so and I'm sure the op wouldn't do that,however have noticed a couple people asking for some advise but for some reason ignored.....oh well guess the op has his reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What did he mean by saying he would be deleting his profile as he didnt want people to know his strange pastime..Cant ask the poor chap now "
I think he meant that he didn't want his fab profile being discovered after he snuffs it, that's what I took it to mean anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What did he mean by saying he would be deleting his profile as he didnt want people to know his strange pastime..Cant ask the poor chap now
I think he meant that he didn't want his fab profile being discovered after he snuffs it, that's what I took it to mean anyway. "
..oh ok thankyou. |
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"What did he mean by saying he would be deleting his profile as he didnt want people to know his strange pastime..Cant ask the poor chap now
I think he meant that he didn't want his fab profile being discovered after he snuffs it, that's what I took it to mean anyway. "
Either that or he had a stranger pastime than fab and didn't want anyone here finding out. 
Not sure how anyone would mind you.
I guess we will never know.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive read his other threads and tbh i got a feeling his full ov s**t. We even messaged about a glory hole meet and other things,just seemed full ov BS "
Gotta say I agree. This thread was started pretty much the same time as another poster said his pics were maybe not his, and they disappeared from his profile, on another of his threads. He seemed desperate for attention. If he is terminally ill then I wish him all the best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive read his other threads and tbh i got a feeling his full ov s**t. We even messaged about a glory hole meet and other things,just seemed full ov BS "
He will be back in a week or so. Just a different name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thats it the problem we shall never know if he was being honest or dishonest,but i am willing to give him the benefit of the doubt,if he has lied then his mind must be troubled to invent sonething like that,to many people suffer and die because of it,if he is telling the truth then i hope he lives what time he has left to the full. |
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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago
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"Ive read his other threads and tbh i got a feeling his full ov s**t. We even messaged about a glory hole meet and other things,just seemed full ov BS
He will be back in a week or so. Just a different name "
this time with a 12" cock hehe |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Enjoy every second you have
Feel the sun on your face, the leaves as they blow down in the wind and then watch the snow fall in the moonlight
Then, you can be at peace
My thoughts x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was just a bit strange how he didn't answer anyone's questions,I may be wrong though I haven't read the whole thread. "
I have read the whole thread. He didn't reply to any of the questions but as someone said, perhaps he wasn't in the frame of mind to reply.. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Not read the thread, no idea who but I can spare a minute to wish someone well.
If he is ill, it's a kind thought.
If he isn't, he still may need some help and a kind thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not read the thread, no idea who but I can spare a minute to wish someone well.
If he is ill, it's a kind thought.
If he isn't, he still may need some help and a kind thought. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always amazes me how somebody can share something so personal to complete strangers.
If it's true ( don't judge my cynicism, a lot of people like attention on here ), I hope he goes and does some cool stuff. I always remember The chef who ate is favourite meal the night before he passed.
I think k would go out with a bang  |
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That's not a something you see everyday on here. Bloody hell. 
