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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I was like this. It's completely natural and does not mean you're gay and going off women. All it means is that you sometimes have these thoughts.
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"Male here I am straight but I wank over men cumming and think what it would be like to taste his cum and feel his cock in me anyone else like this"
You are bi sexual. Not curious. You find the idea of a ed with a guy a turn on, therefore you are not curious. |
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"Male here I am straight but I wank over men cumming and think what it would be like to taste his cum and feel his cock in me anyone else like this
You are bi sexual. Not curious. You find the idea of a ed with a guy a turn on, therefore you are not curious. "
Nope. He's bi curious..Until such time he meets and enjoys sex regularly with a fella then he may be bi sexual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Male here I am straight but I wank over men cumming and think what it would be like to taste his cum and feel his cock in me anyone else like this
You are bi sexual. Not curious. You find the idea of a ed with a guy a turn on, therefore you are not curious.
Nope. He's bi curious..Until such time he meets and enjoys sex regularly with a fella then he may be bi sexual. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Male here I am straight but I wank over men cumming and think what it would be like to taste his cum and feel his cock in me anyone else like this
You are bi sexual. Not curious. You find the idea of a ed with a guy a turn on, therefore you are not curious. "
Not quite, you need to do the deed and still enjoy it to be bi sexual, thinking about it dosent count. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male here I am straight but I wank over men cumming and think what it would be like to taste his cum and feel his cock in me anyone else like this"
Bloody labels. Pigeon hole yourself as you wish to. |
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By *asyukMan
over a year ago
West London |
If you're sexually aroused by those of the same and the opposite sex then you're bisexual regardless of if you act on it or not.
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By *obyorkMan
over a year ago
Keighley |
Don't worry about labels. These are becoming less and less relevant these days. I'm sure many people who view themselves as straight have fantasies about various aspects of sex with the same sex.
I love women above all, and adore pleasuring a woman. But I also really enjoy sucking cocks and tasting men's cum.
I just think I'm greedy. The plus side is: I can get a hard-on with both sexes, and don't have to worry about whether it's right or not. If it's consensual and legal, enjoy! |
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Thing is, without some sort of 'label' or indication on a profile, folk like us who don't wish to meet straight guys would struggle harder than we do. Between the 'straight' guys messaging us professing to be bi and the 'I want to learn' brigade, we now only meet at clubs where we know we will meet and play with bi guys. That's just our preference. I (her) hate being labelled or pigeonholed but can see the sense on a site such as this. Good luck OP. We hope you have fun later. |
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"Don't worry about labels. These are becoming less and less relevant these days. I'm sure many people who view themselves as straight have fantasies about various aspects of sex with the same sex."
Nope, not if they are really straight and not "Fab Straight".
I always imagined it would be nice to be bi...have the whole menu to chose from...but any thoughts I have of men sexually have (at best) turned me off or (more usually) abhorred me.
So even though the concept doesn't upset me, there is no way I could have rude thoughts about men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My belief is that you are only gay or bi if you actively seek out men (or same sex). Most people experiment as I did in my teens but never actively sought men out until a few years ago, my wife was the same, she fantasized for years but only started to seek women out when we started swinging. |
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"My belief is that you are only gay or bi if you actively seek out men (or same sex). Most people experiment as I did in my teens but never actively sought men out until a few years ago, my wife was the same, she fantasized for years but only started to seek women out when we started swinging."
Most people don't experiment. Most people on here, maybe. But even there...I doubt it. |
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"if you fantasised about going into space,it wouldn't make you a fecking astronaut would it?"
No but, if after fantasising about it, you were given a chance to fulfil that fantasy. I bet you would take it |
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By *he2someMan
over a year ago
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I think of myself as straight. But have been in a 6some, on a bed together with other couples. Hands and mouths started to wonder in the excitement of all the sexual tension. We all ended up being sucked and sucking. Wow. What a turn on. Now I class myself as bi curious. |
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"I think of myself as straight. But have been in a 6some, on a bed together with other couples. Hands and mouths started to wonder in the excitement of all the sexual tension. We all ended up being sucked and sucking. Wow. What a turn on. Now I class myself as bi curious. "
If you ducked and was turned on....then you are bi.
Own it and be proud.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male here I am straight but I wank over men cumming and think what it would be like to taste his cum and feel his cock in me anyone else like this
You are bi sexual. Not curious. You find the idea of a ed with a guy a turn on, therefore you are not curious.
Not quite, you need to do the deed and still enjoy it to be bi sexual, thinking about it dosent count."
Yep...that would be curious.....if the deed goes ahead and is enjoyed...then he gets promoted to bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Male here I am straight but I wank over men cumming and think what it would be like to taste his cum and feel his cock in me anyone else like this"
Yes I do too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Male here I am straight but I wank over men cumming and think what it would be like to taste his cum and feel his cock in me anyone else like this
Bloody labels. Pigeon hole yourself as you wish to.
You moan about labels because your embarrassed or ashamed by the sounds of it.
The thought of someone saying your bisexual for thinking about sucking a cock is shocking to you.
Thanks for essentially inferring you dont want to be labelled as that cis you find it derogatory."
The funny thing is you never hear a straight saying labels don't matter - "describe me as gay if you wish." Lol
On the other hand lots of bi/gay guy's are desperate to make the labels don't matter.
Some on fab might agree with that but the majority find them a useful starting point to establish an understanding of ground rules with a complete stranger.
It is a sex site after all so of course they matter. It is simply nonsense to persist in arguing otherwise. |
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"Male here I am straight but I wank over men cumming and think what it would be like to taste his cum and feel his cock in me anyone else like this
Bloody labels. Pigeon hole yourself as you wish to."
Exactly. Sod anyone else's definitions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Male here I am straight but I wank over men cumming and think what it would be like to taste his cum and feel his cock in me anyone else like this
Bloody labels. Pigeon hole yourself as you wish to.
Exactly. Sod anyone else's definitions "
Fair enough. I see where you are coming from.
In which case I define myself as being 28 years old, 6'1" with a six pack, a 10" cock and a Porsche 911 in the driveway.
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"I'm happy to let's just woman play with my arse
Why choose? You could do a test. Blindfold and see who rims and fingers you best.
Winner needs a suitable reward of course.. "
Indeed. Whilst at it, add amy labradorite and an Anteater to the test. I am sure you non definitionists will be fine with that?
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