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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm looking for a cuckold couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
It NEVER happened. In our experience.  "
If u don't mind me asking why didn't it happen? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have seen a few posts on this subject. Most cuckold couples don't ever find their ideal "bull" but I suppose some fun can be had in the search! J x "
Fun cam definitely be had |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"I have seen a few posts on this subject. Most cuckold couples don't ever find their ideal "bull" but I suppose some fun can be had in the search! J x
Fun cam definitely be had "
It sure can!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
It NEVER happened. In our experience.
If u don't mind me asking why didn't it happen? "
Because the right guy doesn't exist. |
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had? "
I met a cuckold couple for four years until the moved away due to his job changing, so it can happen and it is wonderful when the dynamic is right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't find single guys generally make good bulls in the long run. Single men are single for a reason, so the last thing they want to do is form a permanent arrangement with a couple. We've had a number of intermittent bulls (though I'm not partial to the word 'bull') and that seems to work better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package."
Do you just go round posting that same blurb on all these bull threads?
Just a wild stab in the dark here, but does it have anything to do with you having a muscular figure? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package."
It's not just about the size of the man buddy or being physically involved with the couples. A real cuckold and bull relationship It's about having a mental/emotional connection which could develop quickly or over time were the guy(bull) has now became apart of the couple.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
Do you just go round posting that same blurb on all these bull threads?
Just a wild stab in the dark here, but does it have anything to do with you having a muscular figure? Lol"
lol no, but I reckon as I seen it in different scenarios you know and in them they have muscle guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
Do you just go round posting that same blurb on all these bull threads?
Just a wild stab in the dark here, but does it have anything to do with you having a muscular figure? Lollol no, but I reckon as I seen it in different scenarios you know and in them they have muscle guys."
You've been watching too much porn lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
Do you just go round posting that same blurb on all these bull threads?
Just a wild stab in the dark here, but does it have anything to do with you having a muscular figure? Lollol no, but I reckon as I seen it in different scenarios you know and in them they have muscle guys.
You've been watching too much porn lol"
Lol |
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By *ebbsBamCouple
over a year ago
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The problem we have found on here is too many guys have watched porn on the subject and think thats how it is for everybody,so when they contact you they think you automatically want that.
The thing is every couple are different in what they are after in cuckolding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem we have found on here is too many guys have watched porn on the subject and think thats how it is for everybody,so when they contact you they think you automatically want that.
The thing is every couple are different in what they are after in cuckolding"
All couples have their own limits and desires. For example in some the husband just watches the wife and there's no words/actions towards him and in others there's more humilation for the husband and perhaps the wife too. |
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had? "
The absolute key to this, as someone posted above, is being clear what sort of cuck couple you are and what you're looking for as the point was made there's quite a variety between what cuck couples are after
I've always chatted quite a bit with a cuck couple before meeting to make sure that we all know what the others interests are and what the fantasises are and whether we're compatible at all - that way you avoid disappointment of a meet not going as expected |
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The best Bulls are probably those that have been Cuckolded themselves as they understand the dynamics.
Too.many men think that becuase they have a big dick or that they are shagging someones wife that they are a Bull... very few seam to be verified by cuck couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
It's not just about the size of the man buddy or being physically involved with the couples. A real cuckold and bull relationship It's about having a mental/emotional connection which could develop quickly or over time were the guy(bull) has now became apart of the couple.."
 it does help if the guy is "bull like", well hung and statuesque. Dominant, without being a prick. Able to tease the husband into begging his wife to give herself to her lover. |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
It NEVER happened. In our experience.
If u don't mind me asking why didn't it happen?
Because the right guy doesn't exist. "
Well we must have struck it lucky.WE have for some time now enjoyed MMF meets with a regular bull. He is a true gentleman, can hold a real conversation and is sensational in bed. He respects hubby, never takes anything for granted and has become a genuine friend. Our advice is be selective....somewhere out there is a genuine friend / bull for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
It NEVER happened. In our experience.
If u don't mind me asking why didn't it happen?
Because the right guy doesn't exist.
Well we must have struck it lucky.WE have for some time now enjoyed MMF meets with a regular bull. He is a true gentleman, can hold a real conversation and is sensational in bed. He respects hubby, never takes anything for granted and has become a genuine friend. Our advice is be selective....somewhere out there is a genuine friend / bull for you "
Lucky buggers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
Do you just go round posting that same blurb on all these bull threads?
Just a wild stab in the dark here, but does it have anything to do with you having a muscular figure? Lollol no, but I reckon as I seen it in different scenarios you know and in them they have muscle guys.
You've been watching too much porn lol"
We all know that a bull is a muscular animal, so why not all the attributes of it? Maibe a horse or another smaller animal is better suited for the description of it lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
Do you just go round posting that same blurb on all these bull threads?
Just a wild stab in the dark here, but does it have anything to do with you having a muscular figure? Lollol no, but I reckon as I seen it in different scenarios you know and in them they have muscle guys.
You've been watching too much porn lolWe all know that a bull is a muscular animal, so why not all the attributes of it? Maibe a horse or another smaller animal is better suited for the description of it lol."
Or you could call it a Guinea pig or a bush baby? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
It's not just about the size of the man buddy or being physically involved with the couples. A real cuckold and bull relationship It's about having a mental/emotional connection which could develop quickly or over time were the guy(bull) has now became apart of the couple..
it does help if the guy is "bull like", well hung and statuesque. Dominant, without being a prick. Able to tease the husband into begging his wife to give herself to her lover."
Ovcourse the guy having muscle and big cock makes the experience better for the couple. I was just implying that the bull needs to know what to do, what to say and know how to treat the couple x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
Do you just go round posting that same blurb on all these bull threads?
Just a wild stab in the dark here, but does it have anything to do with you having a muscular figure? Lollol no, but I reckon as I seen it in different scenarios you know and in them they have muscle guys.
You've been watching too much porn lolWe all know that a bull is a muscular animal, so why not all the attributes of it? Maibe a horse or another smaller animal is better suited for the description of it lol.
Or you could call it a Guinea pig or a bush baby?"
Yes or that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
It's not just about the size of the man buddy or being physically involved with the couples. A real cuckold and bull relationship It's about having a mental/emotional connection which could develop quickly or over time were the guy(bull) has now became apart of the couple..
it does help if the guy is "bull like", well hung and statuesque. Dominant, without being a prick. Able to tease the husband into begging his wife to give herself to her lover.
Ovcourse the guy having muscle and big cock makes the experience better for the couple. I was just implying that the bull needs to know what to do, what to say and know how to treat the couple x"
Surely depends on what turns on the hot wife although the muscles and big cock do fit in with the alpha male stereotype |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
It's not just about the size of the man buddy or being physically involved with the couples. A real cuckold and bull relationship It's about having a mental/emotional connection which could develop quickly or over time were the guy(bull) has now became apart of the couple..
it does help if the guy is "bull like", well hung and statuesque. Dominant, without being a prick. Able to tease the husband into begging his wife to give herself to her lover.
Ovcourse the guy having muscle and big cock makes the experience better for the couple. I was just implying that the bull needs to know what to do, what to say and know how to treat the couple x
Surely depends on what turns on the hot wife although the muscles and big cock do fit in with the alpha male stereotype"
It definitely depends on what the wife want's regardless of whether they are cuckold couple or not. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
It's not just about the size of the man buddy or being physically involved with the couples. A real cuckold and bull relationship It's about having a mental/emotional connection which could develop quickly or over time were the guy(bull) has now became apart of the couple.."
(Mr here) Have to agree, doesn't have to be all muscles as long as they know what they are doing and have respect for the couple. Even though it's not me choosing the bull I would prefer the Mrs to choose someone with a bigger cock than me though which I'm sure she would be happy with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
It's not just about the size of the man buddy or being physically involved with the couples. A real cuckold and bull relationship It's about having a mental/emotional connection which could develop quickly or over time were the guy(bull) has now became apart of the couple..
(Mr here) Have to agree, doesn't have to be all muscles as long as they know what they are doing and have respect for the couple. Even though it's not me choosing the bull I would prefer the Mrs to choose someone with a bigger cock than me though which I'm sure she would be happy with "
I'm sure she will be very happy with it and if he does his job right by treating your wife as the sexiest/sluttiest thing ever made and you as a cuck watching every second |
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This one couple I was cuckholding took them 10 months to actually have a meet with me. But when it really came down to it the male wasnst that comfortable of being submissive (like he has watched in porn) I've explained to them that more like humuliation ! Cuckholding is really passing your partner over to a man who you think can satisfy her lust THAT IS ALL.
So to answer your question on how long it'll take all depends on your partnerves being comfortable with you being used  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This one couple I was cuckholding took them 10 months to actually have a meet with me. But when it really came down to it the male wasnst that comfortable of being submissive (like he has watched in porn) I've explained to them that more like humuliation ! Cuckholding is really passing your partner over to a man who you think can satisfy her lust THAT IS ALL.
So to answer your question on how long it'll take all depends on your partnerves being comfortable with you being used "
(Mr) For me it's not about passing her over to someone who can satisfy her as I'm perfectly fine with that. It's more about how far I can be pushed with the humiliation. I think the Mrs just wanted the opinion of others on how long it took them to find the right one. I suppose there isn't an answer as everyone will be different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This one couple I was cuckholding took them 10 months to actually have a meet with me. But when it really came down to it the male wasnst that comfortable of being submissive (like he has watched in porn) I've explained to them that more like humuliation ! Cuckholding is really passing your partner over to a man who you think can satisfy her lust THAT IS ALL.
So to answer your question on how long it'll take all depends on your partnerves being comfortable with you being used
(Mr) For me it's not about passing her over to someone who can satisfy her as I'm perfectly fine with that. It's more about how far I can be pushed with the humiliation. I think the Mrs just wanted the opinion of others on how long it took them to find the right one. I suppose there isn't an answer as everyone will be different. "
I've got a few things in mind on how to treat both of you. Could punish you both. Could put you on to the bed naked, on you knees and whilst I whip you your wife could sit in front of you looking in to your eyes and vis versa. I could cum in her mouth and then she could share it with you and make you swallow my cum accepting me as your bull.
The 3 of us could go out and get you to wear a swinger/cuckold t-shirt.. I would love to share many more and actually do them with you but can't message you unfortunately... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This one couple I was cuckholding took them 10 months to actually have a meet with me. But when it really came down to it the male wasnst that comfortable of being submissive (like he has watched in porn) I've explained to them that more like humuliation ! Cuckholding is really passing your partner over to a man who you think can satisfy her lust THAT IS ALL.
So to answer your question on how long it'll take all depends on your partnerves being comfortable with you being used
(Mr) For me it's not about passing her over to someone who can satisfy her as I'm perfectly fine with that. It's more about how far I can be pushed with the humiliation. I think the Mrs just wanted the opinion of others on how long it took them to find the right one. I suppose there isn't an answer as everyone will be different.
I've got a few things in mind on how to treat both of you. Could punish you both. Could put you on to the bed naked, on you knees and whilst I whip you your wife could sit in front of you looking in to your eyes and vis versa. I could cum in her mouth and then she could share it with you and make you swallow my cum accepting me as your bull.
The 3 of us could go out and get you to wear a swinger/cuckold t-shirt.. I would love to share many more and actually do them with you but can't message you unfortunately... "
Going out wearing a cuckold t-shirt wouldn't happen with us, this part of our lives are to stay private. Unfortunately your out of our age range. |
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Prior to meeting my ex girlfriend (over 10 years ago); I enjoyed a wonderful long term cuckold friendship with a lovely couple that I actually met through work (at a conference).
Sadly, a few years back, cancer took her from us, and he has since met someone else - who doesn't share his "interests"
To be honest; I miss the eroticism and horniness and sheer debauchery associated with it all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Prior to meeting my ex girlfriend (over 10 years ago); I enjoyed a wonderful long term cuckold friendship with a lovely couple that I actually met through work (at a conference).
Sadly, a few years back, cancer took her from us, and he has since met someone else - who doesn't share his "interests"
To be honest; I miss the eroticism and horniness and sheer debauchery associated with it all. "
Sorry to hear about that. I love being told what to do and for her to do things that she wouldn't do with me. She is really getting into it and enjoying what we have started which I'm very happy about. Looking forward to pushing some boundaries now though and see how far we can go. |
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
Do you just go round posting that same blurb on all these bull threads?
Just a wild stab in the dark here, but does it have anything to do with you having a muscular figure? Lollol no, but I reckon as I seen it in different scenarios you know and in them they have muscle guys.
You've been watching too much porn lolWe all know that a bull is a muscular animal, so why not all the attributes of it? Maibe a horse or another smaller animal is better suited for the description of it lol."
or the penny may drop and one realises that its about more than the above, its as much to do with what is between the ears as between the legs..
I too blame porn.. |
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package."
Oh shit that means what I did for over a year with a couple was not what I thought. Oh king Bull please tell us what we were doing since you know it all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The 3 of us could go out and get you to wear a swinger/cuckold t-shirt.. I would love to share many more and actually do them with you but can't message you unfortunately...
Going out wearing a cuckold t-shirt wouldn't happen with us, this part of our lives are to stay private. Unfortunately your out of our age range. "
Same to an extent with us, she'll wear her anklet out and has danced, flirted and kissed other guys on the dance floor while another couple came up and asked if she was my girlfriend. However we pick where we go wisely as this is a fun aspect of our lives but we don't live it full time. The humiliation part appeals to me but not so much Ginger so has been about finding the right person to push our boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This one couple I was cuckholding took them 10 months to actually have a meet with me. But when it really came down to it the male wasnst that comfortable of being submissive (like he has watched in porn) I've explained to them that more like humuliation ! Cuckholding is really passing your partner over to a man who you think can satisfy her lust THAT IS ALL.
So to answer your question on how long it'll take all depends on your partnerves being comfortable with you being used
(Mr) For me it's not about passing her over to someone who can satisfy her as I'm perfectly fine with that. It's more about how far I can be pushed with the humiliation. I think the Mrs just wanted the opinion of others on how long it took them to find the right one. I suppose there isn't an answer as everyone will be different.
I've got a few things in mind on how to treat both of you. Could punish you both. Could put you on to the bed naked, on you knees and whilst I whip you your wife could sit in front of you looking in to your eyes and vis versa. I could cum in her mouth and then she could share it with you and make you swallow my cum accepting me as your bull.
The 3 of us could go out and get you to wear a swinger/cuckold t-shirt.. I would love to share many more and actually do them with you but can't message you unfortunately...
Going out wearing a cuckold t-shirt wouldn't happen with us, this part of our lives are to stay private. Unfortunately your out of our age range. "
I understand where your coming from. I was just suggesting a few scenarios x |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had? "
Please tell me if I ma being Gullible here but With the sheer number of men on here compered to couple ratio Surly you would after some discriminators in place in order to whittle down number, be able to find the right bull(s).
Ao how hard can it be for you guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many forget it is not just the size of the dick that makes the bull, but being muscle bound too completes the package.
Oh shit that means what I did for over a year with a couple was not what I thought. Oh king Bull please tell us what we were doing since you know it all. "
I meant like there is different scenarios being a bull, some like a big dick some like a muscle guy and so on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
Please tell me if I ma being Gullible here but With the sheer number of men on here compered to couple ratio Surly you would after some discriminators in place in order to whittle down number, be able to find the right bull(s).
Ao how hard can it be for you guys? "
The amount of men on here makes it more difficult for us as there are many that claim to be bulls but they have no experience. All they want is a shag. It can't just be anyone as they have to suit us and what we are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
Please tell me if I ma being Gullible here but With the sheer number of men on here compered to couple ratio Surly you would after some discriminators in place in order to whittle down number, be able to find the right bull(s).
Ao how hard can it be for you guys?
The amount of men on here makes it more difficult for us as there are many that claim to be bulls but they have no experience. All they want is a shag. It can't just be anyone as they have to suit us and what we are looking for. "
For a normal shag ect it's easier to choose but with cuckolding it's best to go with someone experienced X it's a shame I'm not in your age range, we could have had a lot of fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
Please tell me if I ma being Gullible here but With the sheer number of men on here compered to couple ratio Surly you would after some discriminators in place in order to whittle down number, be able to find the right bull(s).
Ao how hard can it be for you guys?
The amount of men on here makes it more difficult for us as there are many that claim to be bulls but they have no experience. All they want is a shag. It can't just be anyone as they have to suit us and what we are looking for.
For a normal shag ect it's easier to choose but with cuckolding it's best to go with someone experienced X it's a shame I'm not in your age range, we could have had a lot of fun "
Sorry, we stick to what we want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
Please tell me if I ma being Gullible here but With the sheer number of men on here compered to couple ratio Surly you would after some discriminators in place in order to whittle down number, be able to find the right bull(s).
Ao how hard can it be for you guys? "
There's plenty of guys looking to fuck but not many who can do it mentally as well as physically. Finding the person whose fantasies match that of both wife and cuck a little harder to achieve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
Please tell me if I ma being Gullible here but With the sheer number of men on here compered to couple ratio Surly you would after some discriminators in place in order to whittle down number, be able to find the right bull(s).
Ao how hard can it be for you guys?
There's plenty of guys looking to fuck but not many who can do it mentally as well as physically. Finding the person whose fantasies match that of both wife and cuck a little harder to achieve"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
Please tell me if I ma being Gullible here but With the sheer number of men on here compered to couple ratio Surly you would after some discriminators in place in order to whittle down number, be able to find the right bull(s).
Ao how hard can it be for you guys?
There's plenty of guys looking to fuck but not many who can do it mentally as well as physically. Finding the person whose fantasies match that of both wife and cuck a little harder to achieve"
With cuckolding an amazing sexual experience isn't always about physical stimulation and more about the connection and the chemistry that is taking place xx |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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This is a very interesting post can some please in there own words and opinions tell me what the difference is between those looking for a bull and the hot wife dynamic is .
You see I'm natural dominant so playing in another's dynamic doesn't really work for my sexuality.
as I'm turn on by being the driving force so to speak but I do find the idea of having a hot wife as my play thing my muse my sex toy a interesting thought .
But I cannot for the life of me see what the difference between bull dynamic and the hot wife dynamic is .
So as there are couples in here or reading this post who are interested in finding a bull maybe someone can express in their own words the difference between the two dynamics that is if there is one .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
Please tell me if I ma being Gullible here but With the sheer number of men on here compered to couple ratio Surly you would after some discriminators in place in order to whittle down number, be able to find the right bull(s).
Ao how hard can it be for you guys?
There's plenty of guys looking to fuck but not many who can do it mentally as well as physically. Finding the person whose fantasies match that of both wife and cuck a little harder to achieve"
Thank you for that, couldn't have put better myself |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
Please tell me if I ma being Gullible here but With the sheer number of men on here compered to couple ratio Surly you would after some discriminators in place in order to whittle down number, be able to find the right bull(s).
Ao how hard can it be for you guys?
There's plenty of guys looking to fuck but not many who can do it mentally as well as physically. Finding the person whose fantasies match that of both wife and cuck a little harder to achieve
With cuckolding an amazing sexual experience isn't always about physical stimulation and more about the connection and the chemistry that is taking place xx"
now that makes a lot of sence. emotions are apart of this world it seems. amount of fbs i know who felt they could not contiue their curent relationship for what ever reason whilst they are swingers.
thanks for bringing that to ny attention. |
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"This is a very interesting post can some please in there own words and opinions tell me what the difference is between those looking for a bull and the hot wife dynamic is .
You see I'm natural dominant so playing in another's dynamic doesn't really work for my sexuality.
as I'm turn on by being the driving force so to speak but I do find the idea of having a hot wife as my play thing my muse my sex toy a interesting thought .
But I cannot for the life of me see what the difference between bull dynamic and the hot wife dynamic is .
So as there are couples in here or reading this post who are interested in finding a bull maybe someone can express in their own words the difference between the two dynamics that is if there is one .
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By *fterYouMan
over a year ago
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"Hi
Just wondered how long it took cuckolding couples to find the right bull and what experiences u have had?
Please tell me if I ma being Gullible here but With the sheer number of men on here compered to couple ratio Surly you would after some discriminators in place in order to whittle down number, be able to find the right bull(s).
Hi everyone
Dont know if this qualities as a bull
Many many years ago before fab I had some very close friends who sadly are now living in Canada, sad for me, but happy for them lol. He traveled to work with me, she often made tea for us arriving after work. I even did their papering and painting
Jim, the hubby was an avid local football supporter and their spicy arrangements were,
If Jims team lost, Jim came home to be cumforted by His wife Mandy
If it was a draw.........there was to be no sex that week ;-(
If the local team won, Jim and the supporters went to the pub and dinner was on the table for me Jim would roll home same time every time on the dot with a food carryout for everyones supper. I made cups of tea, sandwiches for the three of us, sunday morning fry ups for everyone in the family. I was at there after work, at birthday parties, anniversaries, had Christmas dinner at my parents house and then over to Jim&Mandys for their christmas family dinner. I had the keys to their house when they were away.
They just had different sex drives and that was their spicey way of ensuring both of them got what they needed without one controlling the other and they are still married after 40 years so it worked for them.
I suppose it took years for them to choose me because I knew Jim for years from work and had been invited many many times for food on Saturday's after the match. This particular sat the home team won. Jim phoned, said he was off to the pub, I made my excuses as usual but Mandy insisted and had my dinner on the table. The chat went from wallpaper to sex and how often and would I stay till Jim came home.......
Now I was never there over night and her and I were never in bed when Jim was home. He always asked how Mandy was on the Saturday and ask about all we did and suggest I try certain things next time. A bit like two guys talking about 2 different girls they both went out with but not in a nasty way. All very affectionately and open. Mandy always gave me a big long hug every time we met and a full snog on the lips when leaving weather Jim was there or not. Everything was done with discretion and not flaunted.
It was nearly 5 years later that Jim announced that he had got a big paying job, house swimming pool the lot offer in canada. Think maybe I should have went out there with them but I couldn't speak french to save my life
Ahhhh them were the days
So was I a donkey, ass, stalion or a real proper bull ?
Ao how hard can it be for you guys?
There's plenty of guys looking to fuck but not many who can do it mentally as well as physically. Finding the person whose fantasies match that of both wife and cuck a little harder to achieve
With cuckolding an amazing sexual experience isn't always about physical stimulation and more about the connection and the chemistry that is taking place xx
now that makes a lot of sence. emotions are apart of this world it seems. amount of fbs i know who felt they could not contiue their curent relationship for what ever reason whilst they are swingers.
thanks for bringing that to ny attention."
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"This is a very interesting post can some please in there own words and opinions tell me what the difference is between those looking for a bull and the hot wife dynamic is .
You see I'm natural dominant so playing in another's dynamic doesn't really work for my sexuality.
as I'm turn on by being the driving force so to speak but I do find the idea of having a hot wife as my play thing my muse my sex toy a interesting thought .
But I cannot for the life of me see what the difference between bull dynamic and the hot wife dynamic is .
So as there are couples in here or reading this post who are interested in finding a bull maybe someone can express in their own words the difference between the two dynamics that is if there is one .
"
OK so really it's not dynamics but types of relationships and even then these can crisscross a and intertwine and would say there is 3 not 2.
1.) Hot wife: She is in control of who, when and where she fucks. Cuck can have full involvement to none but general consensus is that humiliation is kept to a minimum.
2.) Cuckold: Cuck plays active role in his partners fun with other men. This could be directing, watching or involve humiliation. Either way Cuck is an important point of the triangle.
3.) Bull led: A dominant male that acts as a master/owner of the couple. Again cuck may have little to no involvement as to what his wife gets up to at the behest of her bull.
This is just my interpretation of it all perhaps others might have a different idea which is the great thing bout cuckolding.....every is different |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"This is a very interesting post can some please in there own words and opinions tell me what the difference is between those looking for a bull and the hot wife dynamic is .
You see I'm natural dominant so playing in another's dynamic doesn't really work for my sexuality.
as I'm turn on by being the driving force so to speak but I do find the idea of having a hot wife as my play thing my muse my sex toy a interesting thought .
But I cannot for the life of me see what the difference between bull dynamic and the hot wife dynamic is .
So as there are couples in here or reading this post who are interested in finding a bull maybe someone can express in their own words the difference between the two dynamics that is if there is one .
OK so really it's not dynamics but types of relationships and even then these can crisscross a and intertwine and would say there is 3 not 2.
1.) Hot wife: She is in control of who, when and where she fucks. Cuck can have full involvement to none but general consensus is that humiliation is kept to a minimum.
2.) Cuckold: Cuck plays active role in his partners fun with other men. This could be directing, watching or involve humiliation. Either way Cuck is an important point of the triangle.
3.) Bull led: A dominant male that acts as a master/owner of the couple. Again cuck may have little to no involvement as to what his wife gets up to at the behest of her bull.
This is just my interpretation of it all perhaps others might have a different idea which is the great thing bout cuckolding.....every is different "
Every scenario you set out is the the same to my mind in one key way.
the wife chooses her lover or lovers not her husband so they all sound like a variant of the sane thing the wife has a lover big deal .
Still doesn't fully explain what the different is in my opinion I think the difference is only in the minds of the couples taking part or looking for such a dynamic .
If you can't put what you are looking for clearly in words and thoughts how the hell can you expect to find it .
Don't shoot me for saying that it just doesn't make sense to look for something if you can't articulate what you truly want .
I enjoy role play but role play only works when both parties define there roles in the play and clear guide lines are laid down as to both roles .
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Really enjoyed this forum. But think people are getting too hung up on definitive labels. It's always a continuum..as a single guy who plays with couples - inevitably I end up playing the role of "bull" in some way or another. With one couple, hubby will text me to say he wants to watch me give his wife a good pounding. Which I do, (of course !!). But he plays with the good lady as much as I do. But he wants to lean back and watch his wife ..get "fucked". Another couple I just played with - are much more role defined. Hubby is in a cock cage - and his wife will tell him how she is enjoying getting fucked by me. And another couple, hubby isn't even in the room. These are all examples from the last few months. As ever, the thing to do, is to ask the couple what they like and don't like. Every situation is fluid. |
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Every scenario you set out is the the same to my mind in one key way.
the wife chooses her lover or lovers not her husband so they all sound like a variant of the sane thing the wife has a lover big deal ."
Obviously the wife has to have the final word on who she's going to have sex with but that doesn't mean husband doesn't have a say himself.
"If you can't put what you are looking for clearly in words and thoughts how the hell can you expect to find it .
Don't shoot me for saying that it just doesn't make sense to look for something if you can't articulate what you truly want .
I enjoy role play but role play only works when both parties define there roles in the play and clear guide lines are laid down as to both roles.
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Don't know about the op but we chat extensively to any potential 'bull' before we meet so that we get to find out what they want and see if it matches up to what we want. Some times no it doesn't but we'll still meet because if we waited for Mr perfect could be awhile. After 18mths we possibly have found that person who can take our dynamic to a whole new level but are they a complete match? Not entirely to be completely honest but still going to be a lot of fun.....well definitely for Ginger and him |
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Every scenario you set out is the the same to my mind in one key way.
the wife chooses her lover or lovers not her husband so they all sound like a variant of the sane thing the wife has a lover big deal .
Obviously the wife has to have the final word on who she's going to have sex with but that doesn't mean husband doesn't have a say himself.
If you can't put what you are looking for clearly in words and thoughts how the hell can you expect to find it .
Don't shoot me for saying that it just doesn't make sense to look for something if you can't articulate what you truly want .
I enjoy role play but role play only works when both parties define there roles in the play and clear guide lines are laid down as to both roles.
Don't know about the op but we chat extensively to any potential 'bull' before we meet so that we get to find out what they want and see if it matches up to what we want. Some times no it doesn't but we'll still meet because if we waited for Mr perfect could be awhile. After 18mths we possibly have found that person who can take our dynamic to a whole new level but are they a complete match? Not entirely to be completely honest but still going to be a lot of fun.....well definitely for Ginger and him "
(Mr) Yes, we like to chat for a while too for your exact same reasons, never going to be perfect but we'll try our best. Mrs chooses though as its her that needs to be comfortable with them so I don't have a say in who she picks which I'm happy with. |
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