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Or more like just friends and sometimes not even that, so many not very happy couples about makes me think you are better off staying single. You see them on facebook playing happy families when its most of the time just an act.
I read on lovehoney facebook page that after just one year couples go off having sex with each other and do it less also that more couples now are having sex a lot less often than they used to. I think i know why that is. |
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"I read on lovehoney facebook page that after just one year couples go off having sex with each other and do it less also that more couples now are having sex a lot less often than they used to.
I think i know why that is."
Was it an advertising feature?
I'm sure I read on Match.com that all single people are basically unhappy and would prefer to be part of a couple.
(I took that with a pinch of salt too...  )
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OP: is your issue more that they're married, or not having sex with their wife?
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"Or more like just friends and sometimes not even that, so many not very happy couples about makes me think you are better off staying single. You see them on facebook playing happy families when its most of the time just an act.
I read on lovehoney facebook page that after just one year couples go off having sex with each other and do it less also that more couples now are having sex a lot less often than they used to. I think i know why that is."
But its not an either or. You can be happy in most part of your relationship, but not in the sexual side. Is it worth splitting an otherwise happy family for that alone? or is it better to find some sexual fun elsewhere? or better to just accept that the sexual part of your life is over? |
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"I read on lovehoney facebook page that after just one year couples go off having sex with each other and do it less also that more couples now are having sex a lot less often than they used to.
I think i know why that is.
Was it an advertising feature?
I'm sure I read on Match.com that all single people are basically unhappy and would prefer to be part of a couple.
(I took that with a pinch of salt too... )
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OP: is your issue more that they're married, or not having sex with their wife?
Mr ddc"
No it was one of those surveys may have been more than one. If your interested you can read it for yourself. It was writen by Tracy cox. |
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"Or more like just friends and sometimes not even that, so many not very happy couples about makes me think you are better off staying single. You see them on facebook playing happy families when its most of the time just an act.
I read on lovehoney facebook page that after just one year couples go off having sex with each other and do it less also that more couples now are having sex a lot less often than they used to. I think i know why that is.
But its not an either or. You can be happy in most part of your relationship, but not in the sexual side. Is it worth splitting an otherwise happy family for that alone? or is it better to find some sexual fun elsewhere? or better to just accept that the sexual part of your life is over?"
Most people find repetition dull and therefore sex with the same person is inclined to get less interesting. Hence why we supplement it with swinging since it makes the sex better for us when we are alone too. |
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"I read on lovehoney facebook page that after just one year couples go off having sex with each other and do it less also that more couples now are having sex a lot less often than they used to.
I think i know why that is.
Was it an advertising feature?
I'm sure I read on Match.com that all single people are basically unhappy and would prefer to be part of a couple.
(I took that with a pinch of salt too... )
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OP: is your issue more that they're married, or not having sex with their wife?
Mr ddc
No it was one of those surveys may have been more than one. If your interested you can read it for yourself. It was writen by Tracy cox."
I remember a while back a thread about new research that showed the average relationship is now just two years long. After much digging the research was traced back to a survey of people on a singles website. (used as a subtle form of advertising) I suspected they might have received a different answer had they surveyed users on CelebrateYourDiamondWeddingAnniversaryHere.com...
"Other people are having sex more than you" is always a good story to sell papers. (Especially if the dirty feckers are also doing it at an amusement park!!)
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"Other people are having sex more than you" is always a good story to sell papers. (Especially if the dirty feckers are also doing it at an amusement park!!)
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Any form of 'keeping up with the Jones' is guaranteed to find a market with the large part of the population that are obsessed with their relative, rather than absolute happiness. |
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"Other people are having sex more than you" is always a good story to sell papers. (Especially if the dirty feckers are also doing it at an amusement park!!)
Any form of 'keeping up with the Jones' is guaranteed to find a market with the large part of the population that are obsessed with their relative, rather than absolute happiness. "
I agree. I think it should be about doing what you feel best as a couple, what suits you. Although I have to say from experience, the sex between us and us alone just gets better and better .... and we'll probably be kicked off here soon as we haven't had any play meets for ages as we haven't felt the urge .... |
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"Other people are having sex more than you" is always a good story to sell papers. (Especially if the dirty feckers are also doing it at an amusement park!!)
Any form of 'keeping up with the Jones' is guaranteed to find a market with the large part of the population that are obsessed with their relative, rather than absolute happiness.
I agree. I think it should be about doing what you feel best as a couple, what suits you. Although I have to say from experience, the sex between us and us alone just gets better and better .... and we'll probably be kicked off here soon as we haven't had any play meets for ages as we haven't felt the urge .... "
Depends how you get your kicks really. For me, I love fucking a slut. The more my wife acts like one then the more I want her. |
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"I read on lovehoney facebook page that after just one year couples go off having sex with each other and do it less also that more couples now are having sex a lot less often than they used to.
I think i know why that is.
Was it an advertising feature?
I'm sure I read on Match.com that all single people are basically unhappy and would prefer to be part of a couple.
(I took that with a pinch of salt too... )
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OP: is your issue more that they're married, or not having sex with their wife?
Mr ddc"
LOL I've been single by choice for nearly 3 years now. For the foreseeable future, I can't see my _iews changing! I've got so much I want to independently accomplish, I just don't see the need for a real relationship. So I would say match.com is talking shite lol!  .
A friend with benefits would be most welcome though. A girl has needs and most men are pretty amazing creatures!   |
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If I was in a relationship I wouldn't be on here. If I wasn't happy with my partner and it was causing me angst I'd probably leave. I love being single and the freedom to choose who I meet and when I meet them. Everyone is different though but I agree married men aren't an attractive option for me. |
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I do find it interesting that many singles on here says they wouldn't meet if they were in a relationship, I guess that doesn't make them swingers at heart. I dont have an issue with it, and I certainly don't believe that people in a relationship who swing aren't really committed to their relationship(as is implied by those singles who say they wouldn't meet if they were in one). However, since being in a relationship, the urge to meet has gone, but never say never ... |
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"I do find it interesting that many singles on here says they wouldn't meet if they were in a relationship, I guess that doesn't make them swingers at heart. I dont have an issue with it, and I certainly don't believe that people in a relationship who swing aren't really committed to their relationship(as is implied by those singles who say they wouldn't meet if they were in one). However, since being in a relationship, the urge to meet has gone, but never say never ..."
I'm not a swinger at heart then. I like monogamous relationships and spending my free time with one person,focusing on them. While I'm single I don't have to take anything about the other person into consideration. |
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"I do find it interesting that many singles on here says they wouldn't meet if they were in a relationship, I guess that doesn't make them swingers at heart. I dont have an issue with it, and I certainly don't believe that people in a relationship who swing aren't really committed to their relationship(as is implied by those singles who say they wouldn't meet if they were in one). However, since being in a relationship, the urge to meet has gone, but never say never ..."
Well I meet attractive couples now and then and I've attended swinging clubs so I don't know if that makes me a swinger or not.
I just don't meet attached men looking for illicit sex. Just not my thing. |
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I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do? Go without because someone has a problem its been three years since I last touched her I'm going to end up pushing my nuts around in a wheelbarrow. |
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"I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do? "
Since you ask, I had an ex-girlfriend whose sex drive was considerably lower than mine.
I told her that a grown man in a relationship could have a reasonable expectation of weekly sex and if she didn't wish to supply the aforementioned sex, then I would find an alternative supplier.
No need to lie after that. |
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"I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do? Go without because someone has a problem its been three years since I last touched her I'm going to end up pushing my nuts around in a wheelbarrow."
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"I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do? Go without because someone has a problem its been three years since I last touched her I'm going to end up pushing my nuts around in a wheelbarrow."
Buster Gonad
I'm not getting into the blame thing everyone has a different situation.
I just speak from personal experience. My ex and I stopped having sex and I ended up moving out. We're better as friends and I prefer meeting single men, although not everyone is honest on here, but I usually suss them. |
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"I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do? Go without because someone has a problem its been three years since I last touched her I'm going to end up pushing my nuts around in a wheelbarrow.
Buster Gonad
I'm not getting into the blame thing everyone has a different situation.
I just speak from personal experience. My ex and I stopped having sex and I ended up moving out. We're better as friends and I prefer meeting single men, although not everyone is honest on here, but I usually suss them. "
You have to consider why her sex drive died. You can't just say "what else am I supposed to do?". You can survive without sex ya know. Its called masturbation |
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I have said maybe we should consider splitting up because its causing tension but then the threats start that ill never see my son again if I leave because financially she wouldn't cope. |
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Gets a bit boring though and you crave a females touch yes you can survive without sex but I want a relationship with a healthy sex life she wont open up about why she went off it herself |
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"I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do? Go without because someone has a problem its been three years since I last touched her I'm going to end up pushing my nuts around in a wheelbarrow.
Buster Gonad
I'm not getting into the blame thing everyone has a different situation.
I just speak from personal experience. My ex and I stopped having sex and I ended up moving out. We're better as friends and I prefer meeting single men, although not everyone is honest on here, but I usually suss them.
You have to consider why her sex drive died. You can't just say "what else am I supposed to do?". You can survive without sex ya know. Its called masturbation"
Why are you quoting at me? I'm single. |
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"I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do? Go without because someone has a problem its been three years since I last touched her I'm going to end up pushing my nuts around in a wheelbarrow.
Buster Gonad
I'm not getting into the blame thing everyone has a different situation.
I just speak from personal experience. My ex and I stopped having sex and I ended up moving out. We're better as friends and I prefer meeting single men, although not everyone is honest on here, but I usually suss them.
You have to consider why her sex drive died. You can't just say "what else am I supposed to do?". You can survive without sex ya know. Its called masturbation
Why are you quoting at me? I'm single. "
He was quoting the whole conversation, it didn't start with you ... |
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"I have said maybe we should consider splitting up because its causing tension but then the threats start that ill never see my son again if I leave because financially she wouldn't cope."
Yes but you could get that all sorted and so could she. Laws and structures exist now to ensure she and your son would have enough money and you could have access. It is about what is best for the child. Sounds like you two need to talk about it and get to the root of the situation. |
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Believe me I have tried to talk to her not just for my sake but hers and our sons too. She had a shit upbringing and a lot of stuff happened so opening up is not easy for her I truly don't know what to do I cant help or get help if her barriers are up and she wont let them down |
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My ex and I both wanted different things out of sex. Long before we spilt I suggested we swing so I could get the sex I wanted and he could get the sex he wanted. He wouldn't entertain the idea and that was his choice to make. He has since said he regrets not trying swinging. Who knows it mite of worked but tbh there were far more seriouse issues in our relationship then an incompatible sex life xxx |
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"Today's best message was the one entitled 'Dog'.
'You make my girlfriend look like a dog!'
Lucky woman to receive the adoration of such a charming man. "
Hahaha I've had that one too xxx |
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"Believe me I have tried to talk to her not just for my sake but hers and our sons too. She had a shit upbringing and a lot of stuff happened so opening up is not easy for her I truly don't know what to do I cant help or get help if her barriers are up and she wont let them down "
So your choices are to get her along to some counselling, tell you have needs that will be met elsewhere or cheat behind her back. |
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"If you gave me a £1 for every time I hear this I would be a rich lady...! It shows just that sex is indeed an integral part.of married life...
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Married men and their wives being like brother and sister... I thought that in Scotland they actually are.
Ps: lend us a tenner, I've heard you're minted! |
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I will suggest counselling I think I already know what her answer is going to be so I am going to be left with no choice but to cheat. I work with nurses everyday and some are flirty but its never gone beyond that so far. Its a horrible position to be in. |
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"I will suggest counselling I think I already know what her answer is going to be so I am going to be left with no choice but to cheat. I work with nurses everyday and some are flirty but its never gone beyond that so far. Its a horrible position to be in."
If she won't do the counselling then personally I'd go for hookers. They are available exactly when you get the itch, don't come with emotional baggage and frankly if you get caught then you are more likely to be forgiven. |
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"I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do? Go without because someone has a problem its been three years since I last touched her I'm going to end up pushing my nuts around in a wheelbarrow.
Buster Gonad
I'm not getting into the blame thing everyone has a different situation.
I just speak from personal experience. My ex and I stopped having sex and I ended up moving out. We're better as friends and I prefer meeting single men, although not everyone is honest on here, but I usually suss them.
You have to consider why her sex drive died. You can't just say "what else am I supposed to do?". You can survive without sex ya know. Its called masturbation
Why are you quoting at me? I'm single.
He was quoting the whole conversation, it didn't start with you ..."
Ooooooh OK . |
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"I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do? Go without because someone has a problem its been three years since I last touched her I'm going to end up pushing my nuts around in a wheelbarrow.
Buster Gonad
I'm not getting into the blame thing everyone has a different situation.
I just speak from personal experience. My ex and I stopped having sex and I ended up moving out. We're better as friends and I prefer meeting single men, although not everyone is honest on here, but I usually suss them.
You have to consider why her sex drive died. You can't just say "what else am I supposed to do?". You can survive without sex ya know. Its called masturbation
Why are you quoting at me? I'm single.
He was quoting the whole conversation, it didn't start with you ...
Ooooooh OK . "
Haha yeah. Wasn't refering to you :') sorry for the confusion |
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"I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do? Go without because someone has a problem its been three years since I last touched her I'm going to end up pushing my nuts around in a wheelbarrow.
Buster Gonad
I'm not getting into the blame thing everyone has a different situation.
I just speak from personal experience. My ex and I stopped having sex and I ended up moving out. We're better as friends and I prefer meeting single men, although not everyone is honest on here, but I usually suss them.
You have to consider why her sex drive died. You can't just say "what else am I supposed to do?". You can survive without sex ya know. Its called masturbation
Why are you quoting at me? I'm single.
He was quoting the whole conversation, it didn't start with you ...
Ooooooh OK .
Haha yeah. Wasn't refering to you :') sorry for the confusion"
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"I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do?
Since you ask, I had an ex-girlfriend whose sex drive was considerably lower than mine.
I told her that a grown man in a relationship could have a reasonable expectation of weekly sex and if she didn't wish to supply the aforementioned sex, then I would find an alternative supplier.
No need to lie after that. "
You should ask your wife if she is expecting you to live a lifetime of celibacy given that she no longer wants sex. |
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"If you gave me a £1 for every time I hear this I would be a rich lady...! It shows just that sex is indeed an integral part.of married life...
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For the married man with couples issues. Suggesting couples counselling is a great idea. I would also suggest that you make her aware that it does not require both of you to be in the same room at the same time.
She may prefer to sit down and chat first with someone who does not care whether she has sex or not.
About 6 years ago we went through a dryish spell. There was still occasional sex but bunny was doing it more out of duty than enjoyment, which I picked up on.
We sat down and had a chat together, but not all cpls can do that. We were still desperately in love, the sex was a stand alone issue. So fixing that was easier to resolve.
If there were more issues than simply sex then I'm sure we would have tried counselling too.
As for peoples anecdotal experiences, that does not equate to solid statistical findings.
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"I have said maybe we should consider splitting up because its causing tension but then the threats start that ill never see my son again if I leave because financially she wouldn't cope."
Yeah, I can see your point here. Then it becomes a physocological power struggle. The want for sex can become a weapon used by a partner to get what they want. If kids are involved it's even worse. With threats of 'weekend dad'. Relationships can be wonderful, or horrendous.
I've been there before.
You have my sympathies. |
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"For the married man with couples issues. Suggesting couples counselling is a great idea. I would also suggest that you make her aware that it does not require both of you to be in the same room at the same time.
She may prefer to sit down and chat first with someone who does not care whether she has sex or not.
About 6 years ago we went through a dryish spell. There was still occasional sex but bunny was doing it more out of duty than enjoyment, which I picked up on.
We sat down and had a chat together, but not all cpls can do that. We were still desperately in love, the sex was a stand alone issue. So fixing that was easier to resolve.
If there were more issues than simply sex then I'm sure we would have tried counselling too.
As for peoples anecdotal experiences, that does not equate to solid statistical findings.
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Yeah, I've had couples counselling in the past too.
I'd recommend. Although it failed to work in our case.
Our problem was my ex trying to 'trap' me into giving her a baby.
We were doomed from that moment on. |
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"I have said maybe we should consider splitting up because its causing tension but then the threats start that ill never see my son again if I leave because financially she wouldn't cope.
Yeah, I can see your point here. Then it becomes a physocological power struggle. The want for sex can become a weapon used by a partner to get what they want. If kids are involved it's even worse. With threats of 'weekend dad'. Relationships can be wonderful, or horrendous.
I've been there before.
You have my sympathies. "
Marriage should be about love first and foremost. She may no longer want sex but someone who loves you should not threaten you either.
My first thoughts if my wife wanted to leave would be how much I'd miss her not how can I make life harder for her.
Which makes me think that your wife's issues maybe greater than sex alone. |
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"I have said maybe we should consider splitting up because its causing tension but then the threats start that ill never see my son again if I leave because financially she wouldn't cope.
Yeah, I can see your point here. Then it becomes a physocological power struggle. The want for sex can become a weapon used by a partner to get what they want. If kids are involved it's even worse. With threats of 'weekend dad'. Relationships can be wonderful, or horrendous.
I've been there before.
You have my sympathies.
Marriage should be about love first and foremost. She may no longer want sex but someone who loves you should not threaten you either.
My first thoughts if my wife wanted to leave would be how much I'd miss her not how can I make life harder for her.
Which makes me think that your wife's issues maybe greater than sex alone."
I don't have kids, I will just add. That part was related to someone I know who went through the 'weekend dad' situation.
I was pretty much told you're not having sex again until you give me a baby. |
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I don't have kids, I will just add. That part was related to someone I know who went through the 'weekend dad' situation.
I was pretty much told you're not having sex again until you give me a baby. "
Why would anyone who loves you put demands on you like that.
I've never demanded anything of my other half.
I've asked for things but it was always a mutual discussion. |
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"I have said maybe we should consider splitting up because its causing tension but then the threats start that ill never see my son again if I leave because financially she wouldn't cope.
Yeah, I can see your point here. Then it becomes a physocological power struggle. The want for sex can become a weapon used by a partner to get what they want. If kids are involved it's even worse. With threats of 'weekend dad'. Relationships can be wonderful, or horrendous.
I've been there before.
You have my sympathies. "
I find a significant minority of women in this country think it's acceptable to use sex and children as weapons. |
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I don't have kids, I will just add. That part was related to someone I know who went through the 'weekend dad' situation.
I was pretty much told you're not having sex again until you give me a baby.
Why would anyone who loves you put demands on you like that.
I've never demanded anything of my other half.
I've asked for things but it was always a mutual discussion. "
Quite. That's what I always thought. A mutual discussion.
It proved to me she didn't respect me. |
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I've never heard this or even read it as a comment on the forums, and I've met a lot of married men. Maybe they only pull the bullshit on people they think will swallow it? |
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"All marriages are perfect aren't they?
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I find not all marriages have identical _iews on what marriage means.
Some share finances others don't.
Some spend lots of time together others don't.
Some see marriage as a solution to existing issues were other
Don't etc. |
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"I'm married and I have not touched my wife for years her sex drive died a long time ago. She is not like my sister though at times she can be my worst enemy. I have a big sex drive still and I do get urges now I'm of the opinion if I want a sex life I will have to stray, call it cheating if you want but what am I supposed to do? Go without because someone has a problem its been three years since I last touched her I'm going to end up pushing my nuts around in a wheelbarrow.
Buster Gonad
I'm not getting into the blame thing everyone has a different situation.
I just speak from personal experience. My ex and I stopped having sex and I ended up moving out. We're better as friends and I prefer meeting single men, although not everyone is honest on here, but I usually suss them.
You have to consider why her sex drive died. You can't just say "what else am I supposed to do?". You can survive without sex ya know. Its called masturbation"
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"Today's best message was the one entitled 'Dog'.
'You make my girlfriend look like a dog!'
Lucky woman to receive the adoration of such a charming man.
Hahaha I've had that one too xxx"
Must be the same guy! |
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"If they live in West Virginia they probably are Brother and sister .
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we did have a chat on another site last year from a guy in america, he was divorced and lived with his sister and 2 daughters 16 and 19, he said they often have mutual wanking sessions, he offered us a one to one cam session with all four of them, we turned them down, just didn't feel right somehow |
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Im not sure how much backlash i will get for this but its my opinion
I (mr) honestly believe a healthy sex life is integral to a healthy relationship its not the only thing needed but it is the key that seporates lovers from freinds and ive always found when your shagging like rabbits your allot more willing to forgive and forget the little things that would normally start an argument |
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"Im not sure how much backlash i will get for this but its my opinion
I (mr) honestly believe a healthy sex life is integral to a healthy relationship its not the only thing needed but it is the key that seporates lovers from freinds and ive always found when your shagging like rabbits your allot more willing to forgive and forget the little things that would normally start an argument "
Well it certainly makes it easier and adds something special. Unfortunately, not always on offer |
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"Im not sure how much backlash i will get for this but its my opinion
I (mr) honestly believe a healthy sex life is integral to a healthy relationship its not the only thing needed but it is the key that seporates lovers from freinds and ive always found when your shagging like rabbits your allot more willing to forgive and forget the little things that would normally start an argument "
It's not really a controversial statement, it's statistical fact. |
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