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That time of the month...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Period sex... my sex drive is through the roof at that time of the month, but obviously wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with just anyone.
Is it a 'yay' or 'nay' for you... and how do you go about asking someone?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm (Mr) am in the 'don't mind' camp when it comes to time of the month play. I'm not squeamish and if the lady in question wants to, I will happily oblige.
As for asking. The best way is to be straight to the point and come out with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on where in the flow I am. If I'm just spotting, (the first, and last day), I may be tempted to go for it. Otherwise, I have, but only with a partner that I've known a while and trusted. You never know how a guy will react though. It really is a Marmite scenario when it comes to preference. |
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I'm the other end of the scale. During that week the last thing on my mind is sex, even with hubby. Don't even like coming on here, just can't be bothered with it at all.
The week I finish though, I'm horny as hell and am that way for a couple of weeks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does not make a great deal of difference to me either. I like sex either way.
Some preperation before hand is needed though to contain the mess (towels!), it does feel slightly different down there (wetter?) and you have to remember a lot of ladies feel uncomfortable so if they do have sex you need to be gentle.
Other than that I wish ladies were less shy about it all. However although I normally like going down on a lady, I won't if it's their time of the month. Good communication is key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We still have sex when I'm on my period excluding the 2 heavy days at the beginning. Haven't played with anyone else while I've been on, however discussed this with a friend who we have played with more than once as thought may being touch and go for our next meet and he says it doesn't bother him so we won't cancel if I'm still on.
The first two days I'm sat with a water bottle after that I'm a rampant minx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I've only done it with my ex husband, and one person since. I asked a guy I've known a while and felt comfortable with... his reply put me off asking again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've only done it with my ex husband, and one person since. I asked a guy I've known a while and felt comfortable with... his reply put me off asking again "
One persons response isn't representative so don't let it stop you asking again. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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I mention this every time it comes up but honestly. Sponges. Sponges are your friend.
Basically similar to the old fashioned contraceptive sponge, in Germany they are sold as sex tampons.
Comfy, you don't feel them, he doesn't feel them (believe me he doesn't, I used to have a nefarious source of income and if your working day is a Wednesday you work, never had anyone notice at all!)
Sponges are so comfortable I don't use tampons and pads now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I mention this every time it comes up but honestly. Sponges. Sponges are your friend.
Basically similar to the old fashioned contraceptive sponge, in Germany they are sold as sex tampons.
Comfy, you don't feel them, he doesn't feel them (believe me he doesn't, I used to have a nefarious source of income and if your working day is a Wednesday you work, never had anyone notice at all!)
Sponges are so comfortable I don't use tampons and pads now. "
I'd be scared of losing it  I work in A & E, and seen many a thing go wonderin up there! Haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I mention this every time it comes up but honestly. Sponges. Sponges are your friend.
Basically similar to the old fashioned contraceptive sponge, in Germany they are sold as sex tampons.
Comfy, you don't feel them, he doesn't feel them (believe me he doesn't, I used to have a nefarious source of income and if your working day is a Wednesday you work, never had anyone notice at all!)
Sponges are so comfortable I don't use tampons and pads now. "
A porn star friend of mine told me how if she was shooting with a guy who she didn't like or had been too rough before she would put two sponges in (even if she wasn't on) because if they are big AND rough sponges are a bit like sandpaper on their bellend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Period sex... my sex drive is through the roof at that time of the month, but obviously wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with just anyone.
Is it a 'yay' or 'nay' for you... and how do you go about asking someone?
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No freakin way. Period blood is a no-no lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I mention this every time it comes up but honestly. Sponges. Sponges are your friend.
Basically similar to the old fashioned contraceptive sponge, in Germany they are sold as sex tampons.
Comfy, you don't feel them, he doesn't feel them (believe me he doesn't, I used to have a nefarious source of income and if your working day is a Wednesday you work, never had anyone notice at all!)
Sponges are so comfortable I don't use tampons and pads now.
A porn star friend of mine told me how if she was shooting with a guy who she didn't like or had been too rough before she would put two sponges in (even if she wasn't on) because if they are big AND rough sponges are a bit like sandpaper on their bellend "
Might pop a couple in and do the ex! X |
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By *ita7Man
over a year ago
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First time was with a married girl. She was horny as hell and we just fooled around. She then started rubbing her pussy on my cock which got sore from the string so I said take it out. She pulled the tampon out which I had never seen before then said I need you inside me. Do you mind. Fuck I was horny as he'll. We got towels out out them under me and then she fucked me like a woman possessed. Happy days,we screwed at anytime of the month after that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always use sponges if I'm on, always retrievable, bit of lube and squat
Where do you get them from? I can't find them anywhere 
MrsSB  "
I get Beppy sponges from Amazon |
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"Period sex... my sex drive is through the roof at that time of the month, but obviously wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with just anyone.
Is it a 'yay' or 'nay' for you... and how do you go about asking someone?
Male here. It would depend on things like how heavy the period was. If it light then yes I would play, however I would not perform oral during time of the month
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It does not make a great deal of difference to me either. I like sex either way.
Some preperation before hand is needed though to contain the mess (towels!), it does feel slightly different down there (wetter?) and you have to remember a lot of ladies feel uncomfortable so if they do have sex you need to be gentle.
Other than that I wish ladies were less shy about it all. However although I normally like going down on a lady, I won't if it's their time of the month. Good communication is key."
It's that metallic taste that's sometimes not so good.....but if the lady is ok with period play then I wouldn't let it halt proceedings. My best friend has had a full hysterical rectomy so the problem doesn't occur.....she says best thing she ever did! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We wouldn't go down on a woman on her period, but everything else is fair game for us Personally I don't take a break from the pill, so I only get a period if I choose to. 2 sexual health nurses have told me that it's fine - Jas |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It does not make a great deal of difference to me either. I like sex either way.
Some preperation before hand is needed though to contain the mess (towels!), it does feel slightly different down there (wetter?) and you have to remember a lot of ladies feel uncomfortable so if they do have sex you need to be gentle.
Other than that I wish ladies were less shy about it all. However although I normally like going down on a lady, I won't if it's their time of the month. Good communication is key.
It's that metallic taste that's sometimes not so good.....but if the lady is ok with period play then I wouldn't let it halt proceedings. My best friend has had a full hysterical rectomy so the problem doesn't occur.....she says best thing she ever did!"
Hysterical rectomy - 
Anyway, it doesn't bother me. I think a lot of guys who are bothered by it probably assume it's an absolute bloodbath. More often than not with me there's zero mess anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to chat to a guy a few years back, who always wanted to meet me just when I was on my period... That is fetish territory though lol. "
Damn right that's fetish territory. If someone else finds it fucked up, 9 times out of 10 it's instantly a fetish lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Period sex... my sex drive is through the roof at that time of the month, but obviously wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with just anyone.
Is it a 'yay' or 'nay' for you... and how do you go about asking someone?
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Yay, apart from orally, never seen it as a problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm just thinking the elevator scene from The Shining
How have you managed to live to 39 and survived?"
I guess having a sense of humour has helped me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a definite no for me. However, I am always horny and it's unbearable bt at the same time I don't like people touching me or coming anywhere near me when it's that time. I like my personal space when it's the time do the month so it's a weird one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get the horn pretty badly at that time! For casual guys on light days I'll just give them the option. In full flow...yes I want it, but only if it's with someone more serious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always use sponges if I'm on, always retrievable, bit of lube and squat
Where do you get them from? I can't find them anywhere
MrsSB "
I just use makeup sponges, obviously new ones!! Or failing that I always have baby wipes! Xx |
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"I always use sponges if I'm on, always retrievable, bit of lube and squat
Where do you get them from? I can't find them anywhere
MrsSB "
Amazon beppe or joy division. But I've opted for depo injection now, no periods, it's brilliant
Bun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always use sponges if I'm on, always retrievable, bit of lube and squat
Where do you get them from? I can't find them anywhere
MrsSB
I just use makeup sponges, obviously new ones!! Or failing that I always have baby wipes! Xx"
Make up sponges work ? |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"So I'm just thinking the elevator scene from The Shining
How have you managed to live to 39 and survived?
I guess having a sense of humour has helped me."
Joke like that with women discussing periods, honey that's not a sense of humour, it's a death wish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always use sponges if I'm on, always retrievable, bit of lube and squat
Where do you get them from? I can't find them anywhere
MrsSB
I just use makeup sponges, obviously new ones!! Or failing that I always have baby wipes! Xx
Make up sponges work ? "
I bought some in Amsterdam fairly recently...thought they were the answer to my prayers. Until I had to go to the GP to get it removed after. Apparently I have a tilted cervix |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"I always use sponges if I'm on, always retrievable, bit of lube and squat
Where do you get them from? I can't find them anywhere
MrsSB
I just use makeup sponges, obviously new ones!! Or failing that I always have baby wipes! Xx
Make up sponges work ?
I bought some in Amsterdam fairly recently...thought they were the answer to my prayers. Until I had to go to the GP to get it removed after. Apparently I have a tilted cervix "
I have a tilted cervix, you get used to the angle and how to get it out, mine is so inverted that it essentially sits against where my g-spot should be (means I also need to cut mine down in size) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've only done it with my ex husband, and one person since. I asked a guy I've known a while and felt comfortable with... his reply put me off asking again "
Not everyone likes offal... Like you said it's marmite territory. I dislike marmite but I'm not adverse to a little cave painting prints. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always use sponges if I'm on, always retrievable, bit of lube and squat
Where do you get them from? I can't find them anywhere
MrsSB
I just use makeup sponges, obviously new ones!! Or failing that I always have baby wipes! Xx
Make up sponges work ?
I bought some in Amsterdam fairly recently...thought they were the answer to my prayers. Until I had to go to the GP to get it removed after. Apparently I have a tilted cervix
I have a tilted cervix, you get used to the angle and how to get it out, mine is so inverted that it essentially sits against where my g-spot should be (means I also need to cut mine down in size)"
They're called Beppys they are fairly similar to a makeup sponge... I've never tried them, but heard mixed reviews over the years would depend on your flow. The mooncup was never good for me due to that. I have a fibroid sits around that area.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't personally as I'm a heavy bleeder and quite tender round the vag area when on. I think it's fine to just ask though. It's only a period and we are all grown ups. Just post a status saying "horny and need fucking, message me if you have no issue with period sex" or something haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always use sponges if I'm on, always retrievable, bit of lube and squat
Where do you get them from? I can't find them anywhere
MrsSB
I just use makeup sponges, obviously new ones!! Or failing that I always have baby wipes! Xx
Make up sponges work ? "
Yes or a baby wipe! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I'm just thinking the elevator scene from The Shining
How have you managed to live to 39 and survived?
I guess having a sense of humour has helped me.
Joke like that with women discussing periods, honey that's not a sense of humour, it's a death wish!"
I've also got cat like reflexes at dodging thrown objects
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Not oral though 
Would be a shame to waste such unbridled horn 
... Steak tartare springs to mind... 