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By *ana_M OP Woman
over a year ago
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Personal Preferences are a wonderful thing, they are a bit of everyones individuality.
Slim/Skinny-Large/Fat is a dangerous one.. Radical comments for either side is a large part of what causes young women (and men) to have serious eating disorders...
Fair enough if you have your own PERSONAL PREFERENCE, but their is absolutely no need to say bashing comments about one side or the other, "fat people are pigs and ugly" or "bones are for dogs, meat is for men" are both equally damaging..
As someone who saw their little sister try and starve herself at the age of 7 as she thought she was "fat" comparing herself to others I do have strong opinions on this type of thing, though trying to keep a calm opening post, and hoping any commenters can stay the same..
By all means, have your own preferences, no one can tell you different.. but to slate others for THEIR personal preferences is wrong and can be dangerous if it lands in the wrong persons ears at the wrong time |
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By *ana_M OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Personal preferences are derided on fab all the time. Try saying you don't kiss and have pubic hair  "
You animal! 
Lol, na, I know a few folk that don't kiss, and some that think bald women look like children so prefer the natural look. Everything is down to preference... Regardless what ya look like/shave/don't shave  their's always gonna be someone that finds it attractive.
I don't get it when people put others down for simple things that they aren't attracted too.. its like "well fair enough.. they probably aren't much attracted to you either.." |
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I completely agree with you op but unfortunately there will always be people trying to 'pit' people against each other to try and illicit a response to win favour. Best thing to do is ignore them and not respond |
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"Personal preferences are derided on fab all the time. Try saying you don't kiss and have pubic hair
You animal!
Lol, na, I know a few folk that don't kiss, and some that think bald women look like children so prefer the natural look. Everything is down to preference... Regardless what ya look like/shave/don't shave their's always gonna be someone that finds it attractive.
I don't get it when people put others down for simple things that they aren't attracted too.. its like "well fair enough.. they probably aren't much attracted to you either.." "
Lol, no ones ever called me an animal before  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personal Preferences are a wonderful thing, they are a bit of everyones individuality.
Slim/Skinny-Large/Fat is a dangerous one.. Radical comments for either side is a large part of what causes young women (and men) to have serious eating disorders...
Fair enough if you have your own PERSONAL PREFERENCE, but their is absolutely no need to say bashing comments about one side or the other, "fat people are pigs and ugly" or "bones are for dogs, meat is for men" are both equally damaging..
As someone who saw their little sister try and starve herself at the age of 7 as she thought she was "fat" comparing herself to others I do have strong opinions on this type of thing, though trying to keep a calm opening post, and hoping any commenters can stay the same..
By all means, have your own preferences, no one can tell you different.. but to slate others for THEIR personal preferences is wrong and can be dangerous if it lands in the wrong persons ears at the wrong time"
Hey don't blast us for having personal preferences. I have NOT seen any comments whatsoever on this forum, that are in line with your above statements. I prefer plumper people, that is what turns me on.I am not into skinny. I am a real person, that is my choice. I do not say anything against skinny, it just doesn't feel right having sex with them for me. This is Fab, don't blast us for what other people say in the real world please
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By *ana_M OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Hey don't blast us for having personal preferences. I have NOT seen any comments whatsoever on this forum, that are in line with your above statements. I prefer plumper people, that is what turns me on.I am not into skinny. I am a real person, that is my choice. I do not say anything against skinny, it just doesn't feel right having sex with them for me. This is Fab, don't blast us for what other people say in the real world please
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I am not at all! I put this post up because of such a post last night! In which part of my post was I blasting anyones preferences?? Quite the opposite if you read right! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This will be an enteraining thread. Just with people would grasp we can all be assertive in expressing our preferences. Myself I like bigger women, for example. But we also need to learn how to be respectful, for example saying "Real women have curves" is disrespect full to women who are less curvy - they are just a real as the next woman.
But yeah, there are some truly awful posts on here sometimes, you either have to laugh or cry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My preferences change all the time. Yesterday, I fancied an much older woman, I had that thought all day.
Today. She would be shorter than me, slim, small ish' breasts and Long blonde hair. Mmm,
I don't normally fancy blondes 
Tomorrow it will probably change again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is a bit like the racist threads that pop up now and then, just because someone says they only like a certain type of person.
Here is a ladder, get over it."
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By *ill74Man
over a year ago
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"Personal Preferences are a wonderful thing, they are a bit of everyones individuality.
Slim/Skinny-Large/Fat is a dangerous one.. Radical comments for either side is a large part of what causes young women (and men) to have serious eating disorders...
Fair enough if you have your own PERSONAL PREFERENCE, but their is absolutely no need to say bashing comments about one side or the other, "fat people are pigs and ugly" or "bones are for dogs, meat is for men" are both equally damaging..
As someone who saw their little sister try and starve herself at the age of 7 as she thought she was "fat" comparing herself to others I do have strong opinions on this type of thing, though trying to keep a calm opening post, and hoping any commenters can stay the same..
By all means, have your own preferences, no one can tell you different.. but to slate others for THEIR personal preferences is wrong and can be dangerous if it lands in the wrong persons ears at the wrong time"
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By (user no longer on site)
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if u don't like what's written on the forums or how this site does judge people especially body type then the simple answer is don't come on here ?
Like those that moan about programmes on tv . Switch it over or switch it off .
This site is not a place for the vulnerable in society .
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