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If we get a message from a.profile like this,i delete.I get v frustrated with lack of male pics on profiles.
If its just the woman who plays,thats fair enough .
If its a couple looking for a couple,pics of just the lady don't cut it for me .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Better than the endless cock pics on single guys profiles  xxxxx Suzi"
But dont you think that if you're a couple, the photos should be evenly and equally distributed?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If we get a message from a.profile like this,i delete.I get v frustrated with lack of male pics on profiles.
If its just the woman who plays,thats fair enough .
If its a couple looking for a couple,pics of just the lady don't cut it for me .
Miss"
Yeh I would agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know the ones... endless face boobs and pussy pics of the fem, and maybe one sad solitary pic of the mans cock.
Discuss. "
...we're thinking about hiding our profile, so as to spare single guys the distress of looking at our endless pussy tits and occasional cock shots.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh we have tried many variations on the theme.
All of her, all of me a bit of both.
Unfortunately it's almost always ends up the same.
Messages wanting just jools.
It's not a "poor hard done by me"post it's just a fact.
She has her own profile for the single guys now.
Our profile is pretty much dead. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tbh we have tried many variations on the theme.
All of her, all of me a bit of both.
Unfortunately it's almost always ends up the same.
Messages wanting just jools.
It's not a "poor hard done by me"post it's just a fact.
She has her own profile for the single guys now.
Our profile is pretty much dead. "
I find that very sad tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We need more of both of us but it's difficult to take a photo of two of you. So we either need a photographer or I'll have to just get Mr to pose for me for a shoot. I do try but he's camera shy.
Sarah |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"If it's a couples profile and they meet together I would expect pictures of the couple in question... together!
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What you expect and what people are willing to show are entirely different things. Each profile on fab is an advertisement which shows people as they want to be seen. If you don't like the advertisement than move on - it's that simple.
As for us, I enjoy posing while my partner likes to take photographs - hence the imbalance on our profile. Others have different reasons, but their reasons are just as valid. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"You know the ones... endless face boobs and pussy pics of the fem, and maybe one sad solitary pic of the mans cock.
Discuss. "
While I prefer to have an inkling of what the male looks like from their public pics. It's not essential, as long as they have pics to send privately.
We have a mix of us both, but we haven't always.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe we have to think about it in more social terms.
Women are seen as beautiful objects to be shown off, men they appear to hang around looking non-descript. This social difference in how we see men and women drives me nuts and makes me sad.
I think due to the way society views men and women we will continue to see a lot more photo's of the female half in couples profiles.
On a lighter note I do receive some consolation from the social situation we have here due to the fact that I do enjoy looking at pictures of females, and just skip by the pictures of males - So it all works out quite nicely for me
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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There are a few (well three!!) of me in our public area and while I'd like more, by my own admission I'm also no ripped adonis, so finding shots that "work" and don't just look stupid/awful isn't easy (and trust me we've tried). We are however always looking for ideas so with time more will be added.
Besides all of that, Ms G is far more aesthetically pleasing to look at!! 
Mr G |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Better than the endless cock pics on single guys profiles xxxxx Suzi
But dont you think that if you're a couple, the photos should be evenly and equally distributed? "
I agree ESP if they are looking for just ladies I certainly look at some couples profiles and think where is the man as its all about the female and it bores me a little so move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very happy not seeing pics of the male half (although would want to see a face pic before any meet).
But then I'm only interested in my attraction towards his female partner. I presume he takes pleasure from seeing her 'double' pleasure from the MMF.
While I'm happy to be voyeur, I will have no interest whatsoever in what he looks like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We need more of both of us but it's difficult to take a photo of two of you. So we either need a photographer or I'll have to just get Mr to pose for me for a shoot. I do try but he's camera shy.
Sarah "
Same here we try to make ours a bit different . We do have pics together but tend to keep them private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very happy not seeing pics of the male half (although would want to see a face pic before any meet).
But then I'm only interested in my attraction towards his female partner. I presume he takes pleasure from seeing her 'double' pleasure from the MMF.
While I'm happy to be voyeur, I will have no interest whatsoever in what he looks like."
Yes but some woman do like myself I'm more turned on by the male so would prefer equal amounts of them together or on their own. Not one or two cock shots |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we get a message from a.profile like this,i delete.I get v frustrated with lack of male pics on profiles.
If its just the woman who plays,thats fair enough .
If its a couple looking for a couple,pics of just the lady don't cut it for me .
Miss"
Yes I agree....men should get equal photo time if they both play equally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we get a message from a.profile like this,i delete.I get v frustrated with lack of male pics on profiles.
If its just the woman who plays,thats fair enough .
If its a couple looking for a couple,pics of just the lady don't cut it for me .
Miss
Yeh I would agree. "
You would delete us then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the female of the couple I do find it frustrating when other couples have none of the male, some even message and only attach female pics.
I don't need to see equal amounts, maybe 2 or 3, ours aren't 50/50, we only have a few male ones in public.
We have lots more in our friends pics though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Better than the endless cock pics on single guys profiles xxxxx Suzi
But dont you think that if you're a couple, the photos should be evenly and equally distributed? "
No. I think it is for the couple to decide how to portray themselves. You, by the way, OP have a hidden profile so are displaying no photos other than your avatar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally we find that photos of Paul don't get the same attention as photos of me would. We love taking photos together and we try and have some of us together and separate but there is many more of me as that's what we find people want.
I do hate it when there is none of the man though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done alot of pics..even when by myself..
I'd say for a couple, get focus on the other half of the couple, use the self-timer, then get into position(I have two examples of this with my fab pal showing)
a great thing about most modern cameras is being wifi enabled, and can be linked with the smartphone as the viewer/shutter release, this makes it very easy to compose the shot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it can also be frustrating for the playing photographer lol- I'll usually hand over the camera in a group setting, and they end up taking shit ones of me in action...you know..something like that dreaded cumface(I dont mean cum on my face)... |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"You know the ones... endless face boobs and pussy pics of the fem, and maybe one sad solitary pic of the mans cock.
Discuss. "
One reason why stopped looking
Its also fair to say its their prerogative how they choose to run their profile though
I just take my own crappy photos  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Better than the endless cock pics on single guys profiles xxxxx Suzi
But dont you think that if you're a couple, the photos should be evenly and equally distributed?
No. I think it is for the couple to decide how to portray themselves. You, by the way, OP have a hidden profile so are displaying no photos other than your avatar."
Yes I do have a hidden profile, the reason being im not meeting at the moment, so giving my profile a rest. Doesn't really have any bearing on this particular topic though does it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Better than the endless cock pics on single guys profiles xxxxx Suzi
But dont you think that if you're a couple, the photos should be evenly and equally distributed?
No. I think it is for the couple to decide how to portray themselves. You, by the way, OP have a hidden profile so are displaying no photos other than your avatar.
Yes I do have a hidden profile, the reason being im not meeting at the moment, so giving my profile a rest. Doesn't really have any bearing on this particular topic though does it. "
You have decided not to display your photos. Nothing wrong with that. Nor is there anything wrong with a couple who decide to display their choice of photos. |
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"We need more of both of us but it's difficult to take a photo of two of you. So we either need a photographer or I'll have to just get Mr to pose for me for a shoot. I do try but he's camera shy.
Sarah "
Same here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a big proportion of ours currently is me (boobs)and another woman/couple...what on earth does that say? the only public one of buns is his bum...the funny thing is the amount of straight guys who fab it...I think they think it's me...(I wish) |
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"You know the ones... endless face boobs and pussy pics of the fem, and maybe one sad solitary pic of the mans cock.
Discuss. "
The fabs speak for themselves my wife's pic get lots of fabs mine don't lol |
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over a year ago
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"Ha, ha, ha. That's what people must think of ours. To be fair there's only so much you can do with a selfie stick, when you're both having fun, and we're not paying for a photographer "
phone tripod stand from the poundshop...selftimer...its easy with a few attempts. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Ha, ha, ha. That's what people must think of ours. To be fair there's only so much you can do with a selfie stick, when you're both having fun, and we're not paying for a photographer
phone tripod stand from the poundshop...selftimer...its easy with a few attempts."
We used the self timer function on our camera. It was quite funny, trying to get the shot right and get back in place in 10 seconds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ha, ha, ha. That's what people must think of ours. To be fair there's only so much you can do with a selfie stick, when you're both having fun, and we're not paying for a photographer
phone tripod stand from the poundshop...selftimer...its easy with a few attempts.
We used the self timer function on our camera. It was quite funny, trying to get the shot right and get back in place in 10 seconds. "
You can buy a wireless shutter much easier and you can then take more than one picture. You can get them in pound shops or with selfie sticks x |
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"Ha, ha, ha. That's what people must think of ours. To be fair there's only so much you can do with a selfie stick, when you're both having fun, and we're not paying for a photographer
phone tripod stand from the poundshop...selftimer...its easy with a few attempts.
We used the self timer function on our camera. It was quite funny, trying to get the shot right and get back in place in 10 seconds. "
That's sort of what we tried too. To be fair, after that, we'd rather take a quick snap and have fun
...and strike a pose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have lots of mildred as she is more easy on the eye than I am and loves poseing for pics, we do have one of me that does cover mainly what I look like in general, happy to post more if any fems asked for them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I'm messaged by couples all or most of the pics are of the fem. as I'm not fully bi and would want to play with the male as much as the female during a meet, I want to see what the male looks like. I find it even worse, though, when the fem is pictured playing with loads of different guys and you're playing 'guess the husband!'  |
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By *ilyflo1Woman
over a year ago
Horsham |
"When I'm messaged by couples all or most of the pics are of the fem. as I'm not fully bi and would want to play with the male as much as the female during a meet, I want to see what the male looks like. I find it even worse, though, when the fem is pictured playing with loads of different guys and you're playing 'guess the husband!' "
Totally agree with this. I've stopped meeting couples, and thus is one of the reasons |
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As a bi woman in a couple looking to meet other similar couples... Yes I want to see photos of both.
There don't have to be equal numbers but I want some idea of what the guy looks like too.
We have tried to give a flavour of us both on ours, as I assume most other couples will want to see what we both look like too.
Nita
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"our him pics are for friends only and they arent all cock pics at all - we are even dressed in some - imagine that"
Ours too, there were more of me st the start but gradually they got less as H's pics received the attention. I will be honest though & say it's mainly because I am still on a diet & not happy with how I look atm. I've lost a stone & half, be nice to lose that much again..which would put me at eleven & a half which was what I was at twenty five..
S
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually use this as a filter. Profiles that use the woman as bait but no picture of the fella are a big no no. Either the fella is pig ugly or it's not a genuine couple. If I'm to meet a couple I want to fuck both so I need to be attracted to you both. Sadly that is very very rare these days. |
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"As the female of the couple I do find it frustrating when other couples have none of the male, some even message and only attach female pics."
Yeah we've had this too. It's not blind date. Even though she's bi she will be playing with the guy too and won't agree just because the lady looks hot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally understand the comments on here. There may be a variety of reasons why the males pics are not on show. All discussed previously. In our case it's to do with my guys job. We are willing to exchange pics in conversation but do not display publicly for obvious reasons 
Kinky |
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