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Is it possible to be too polite
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over a year ago
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i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.
overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't understand why anyone would not want to be polite.
In my opinion, I wouldn't change the way I am for anyone on here.
If you or anyone else is polite I'd stay that way  |
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over a year ago
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Problem is its either impossible, or there's just a very very fine balance between going either way. If you're too polite, it's creepy however, if you aren't polite then everyone will tell you you're on to plums |
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"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.
overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy."
You mean theres men on a sex site that just wants to fuck??
Well I never........  |
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"I bern taking the polite approach which works ok, but is it possible that some just don't like it at all"
If they don't it means you wouldn't get along. Are you really asking that often asked question "why do women go for bad guys?" They don't by the way. |
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Being polite doesn't always work, I try to reply to every message I receive if I'm not interested I always type "polite no thank you happy swinging stay safe always" I get horrible messages back or bombarded like they don't understand I just said no thanks.... Block button is very very useful lol  |
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"I bern taking the polite approach which works ok, but is it possible that some just don't like it at all"
I've also thought this, after going round in circles, not pushing the envelope, and trying to balance the conversation, I just feel like somebody should just say 'bend over and let me fuck you so the niegbours know my name!'
But you know, it might change her _iew of me.  |
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"I bern taking the polite approach which works ok, but is it possible that some just don't like it at all
I've also thought this, after going round in circles, not pushing the envelope, and trying to balance the conversation, I just feel like somebody should just say 'bend over and let me fuck you so the niegbours know my name!'
But you know, it might change her _iew of me. "
There is a middle ground  |
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"I bern taking the polite approach which works ok, but is it possible that some just don't like it at all
I've also thought this, after going round in circles, not pushing the envelope, and trying to balance the conversation, I just feel like somebody should just say 'bend over and let me fuck you so the niegbours know my name!'
But you know, it might change her _iew of me.
There is a middle ground "
Saying 'please' after? |
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"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.
overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy.
You mean theres men on a sex site that just wants to fuck??
Well I never........ "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bern taking the polite approach which works ok, but is it possible that some just don't like it at all
I've also thought this, after going round in circles, not pushing the envelope, and trying to balance the conversation, I just feel like somebody should just say 'bend over and let me fuck you so the niegbours know my name!'
But you know, it might change her _iew of me. "
Hell yeah!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.
overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy.
You mean theres men on a sex site that just wants to fuck??
Well I never........ "
worded that wrong...
if often needs pointing out to polite men that we owe them nothing. especially if we don't wanna fuck them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.
overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy.
You mean theres men on a sex site that just wants to fuck??
Well I never........
worded that wrong...
if often needs pointing out to polite men that we owe them nothing. especially if we don't wanna fuck them."
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've also thought this, after going round in circles, not pushing the envelope, and trying to balance the conversation, I just feel like somebody should just say 'bend over and let me fuck you so the niegbours know my name!'
But you know, it might change her _iew of me.
Hell yeah!!!! "
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Who knew? |
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"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.
overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy."
That's me! |
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Politeness with a hint naughtiness is always a good to start with us, And remembering not asking the same old 'how are you finding it on here' or similar as will not hit the spot, also men asking about our meets? I mean WTF has it got to do with them lol;) |
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"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.
overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy.
That's me! "
only slightly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was brought up to show respect and am always polite. Trouble is, so many people mess me about, sometimes I want to be very unlady like. I find it better to just keep my mouth shut as hate confrontation. |
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"Being polite doesn't always work, I try to reply to every message I receive if I'm not interested I always type "polite no thank you happy swinging stay safe always" I get horrible messages back or bombarded like they don't understand I just said no thanks.... Block button is very very useful lol "
Why don't people take no for an answer and move on?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There is a difference between being polite, being respectful and being assertive.
I do try to be polite but you have to read the social situation before doing much else I find. |
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