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By *igjohn78 OP Man over a year ago

lincoln

bad smalls

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"bad smalls "

I agree cheap underwear is a sin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad kisser

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

bad smells

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fungal nail infections

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

Tightly tied bopbs till they go purple, rude words scrawled in lipstock or similar on naked bodies, anyone seen smoking.... All no no for attracting us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Close ups of genitalia of any sex or having a large object inserted into some orafice... I think I'm a prude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad breath!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Disgusting environments, made many excuses to take my leave due to the state of a home before now!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Turn off's for me.

Bad spelling and grammar.

Also, poor hygiene and awful teeth, chipped nail varnish, and if they are half cut in a club!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Turn offs that have put me off taking things further were:

Not looking anything like their profile pic.

Not clean, like they didn't shower since god knows when.

Far right ukip racist attitude.

Tapping away on their phone instead of being in the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad manners

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Close ups of genitalia of any sex or having a large object inserted into some orafice... I think I'm a prude"

I must be too

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

My biggest turn off has to be ignorance.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

A couple of big switches on my back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Poor hygiene

White heads

Unclean homes

Greasy hair

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By *reenleavesCouple over a year ago

North Wales

Online - poorly typed posts (forum, profile or status), angry profiles and close up / graphic photos.

In person - pushy or creepy behaviour. Excessively overweight or with lots of body hair.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The colour pink, I hate it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Close ups of genitalia of any sex or having a large object inserted into some orafice... I think I'm a prude

I must be too

Join the club!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"The colour pink, I hate it

True story

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Body odour

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By *rotiquexxxMan over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Smoking is a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Smoking is a turn off. "

It's not that hard to write in decent English, shower regularly, dress nicely and behave well, or is it?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has to be ignorance . Don't get why messages just get deleted. Takes two secs to say sorry not for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad smells and bad manners, poor environment as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has to be ignorance . Don't get why messages just get deleted. Takes two secs to say sorry not for me "

This

i've now resorted to just a wink, tired of writing a dozen meaningful messages just for it to be immediately deleted.

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By *rotiquexxxMan over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

"Smoking is a turn off.

It's not that hard to write in decent English, shower regularly, dress nicely and behave well, or is it?!"

Someone posted earlier. Because they were northern, didn't understand a word of it. Good luck to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has to be ignorance . Don't get why messages just get deleted. Takes two secs to say sorry not for me "

We often get messages where they haven't bothered to read our profile. Why should we reply to them?!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Bad teeth,bad manners and cockiness for me.

Miss.

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

BO, bad teeth, too much arrogance, hairy bodies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has to be ignorance . Don't get why messages just get deleted. Takes two secs to say sorry not for me

We often get messages where they haven't bothered to read our profile. Why should we reply to them?!"

Delete and block .. that's the answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has to be ignorance . Don't get why messages just get deleted. Takes two secs to say sorry not for me

We often get messages where they haven't bothered to read our profile. Why should we reply to them?!"

Just been nice. Maybe I'm to nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of tattoos, poorly written profiles, one-line messages and the dreaded Sydney University "disclaimer"........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arrogance, a gratuitous amount of dick pics, bad manners

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has to be ignorance . Don't get why messages just get deleted. Takes two secs to say sorry not for me

We often get messages where they haven't bothered to read our profile. Why should we reply to them?!

Just been nice. Maybe I'm to nice"

If you got the stupid messages we get from men who haven't even bothered to read the first few lines of our profile, you would soon get fed up of answering them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Prats.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Arrogance, a gratuitous amount of dick pics, bad manners "

Arghh so many cock pics with no attempt at any subtlety!!

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By *onny bigMan over a year ago

london harrow

Men turn me off and women turn me on it's quite a simple philosophy lol..

Bad hygiene isn't good either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wotsits crumbs all down their front.Doesnt look good esoecially on a white shirt

I'm here all week.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Especially!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hairy groins/backs, toothy kisses/oral, bareback pics, no pics, not much written on profile = couldn't be bothered, lying about height/age/non smoker

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hairy groins/backs, toothy kisses/oral, bareback pics, no pics, not much written on profile = couldn't be bothered, lying about height/age/non smoker"

And saying safe sex on their profile but having multiple bare back pics!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lady hoe haven't had top lip waxed

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By *ason_silverMan over a year ago

Newcastle

Hidden weaponry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People with no sense of humour and people who are negative x

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple over a year ago

Fareham

Bad teeth / breath, poor general hygiene, scruffy, dirty clothes, greasy hair, excessive pushiness, untrimmed pubes, massive foreskins, smelly cocks, smelly muffs, baggy undercrackers, a sense of entitlement *takes a breath* loud, brash people, arrogance, intolerance, sexual selfishness and whingers. Phew!

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I hate smoking.

Bad personal hygiene is another one, there is no reason on this earth not to wash regularly and keep yourself fresh.

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Poor hygiene

Bigotry

Misogyny

Txt spk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Watching TV and remote being turned off major turn off for me.

But seriously when a women does something you repeatedly say you don't like it and they keep doing it or say well mu ex liked it and other men.

Yeah we are all different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Talking about exwives or exgirlfriends and making it obvious they wanted them back. I even had a meet with a man who's ex had cheated on him. She kept messaging him during our meet and he woudnt turn he's phone off. Not good. I did however advise him not to go back to her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unkept hairy smelly vaginas ewwww

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dirty as smelly people,ugly cocks in updates with big belly and hair everywhere! Also picture of guys with spunk on their hand or cock! Must goss!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dirty as smelly people,ugly cocks in updates with big belly and hair everywhere! Also picture of guys with spunk on their hand or cock! Must goss!"

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By *itzhallMan over a year ago

birchington

"Has to be ignorance . Don't get why messages just get deleted. Takes two secs to say sorry not for me

This

i've now resorted to just a wink, tired of writing a dozen meaningful messages just for it to be immediately deleted. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hairy toes

shudders

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hairy toes

shudders"

Stop meeting Hobbits then

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By *litlicker77Man over a year ago

dirty old town

Profiles with a bottle in a pussy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tube cocks where even when it is fully erect the cock head is hidden by the foreskin.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Turn offs - bad hygiene, bad manners, bad teeth, inability to look in my eyes (Mrs)

- bad hygiene, obesity (Mr).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Putting an act

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and biggest turn off for both of us - people who are d*unk or on drugs.....

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By *mber GamblerCouple over a year ago

rugby

Any smell from anywhere. Bad teeth, disrespect, foreskin, no job, heavy drinker, untidy, religious, hard drug user, to much swearing, kills spiders, snores, noisy eater, liar, rudeness disguised as "speaking my mind ", sexist, racist, homophobic, bully and arrogant.

I think that's it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any smell from anywhere. Bad teeth, disrespect, foreskin, no job, heavy drinker, untidy, religious, hard drug user, to much swearing, kills spiders, snores, noisy eater, liar, rudeness disguised as "speaking my mind ", sexist, racist, homophobic, bully and arrogant.

I think that's it.

Plenty more one could add: loud, violent, smoker, unshowered, badly dressed, etc etc

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS over a year ago

Bolton

body odour, hairy legs while wearing stockings and hairy genital regions. awful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Body hair

Bad breath

Bad hygiene

Obesity

Lack of intelligence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hairy toes

shudders

Stop meeting Hobbits then

now now no need for that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad hygiene no need for it , leggings on over weight women and skinny jeans on men. Close up of genital areas ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just generally being rough as fuck.

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By *umpleteazerWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

Cock pics (especially flaccid ones or erect ones where they haven't pulled the foreskin back)

Pussy pics (whether something is inserted or not)

Cum pics

Pics where you can see more of another person than the account holder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Body Odour

People who can't kiss and jab their tongues in and out and wiggle it about like a big worm in your mouth....gross

Leaving socks on

Guys who don't know how to fingerbang and frantically stick one finger in and out which feels like you are being fucked by a tiny cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bad teeth / breath, poor general hygiene, scruffy, dirty clothes, greasy hair, excessive pushiness, untrimmed pubes, massive foreskins, smelly cocks, smelly muffs, baggy undercrackers, a sense of entitlement *takes a breath* loud, brash people, arrogance, intolerance, sexual selfishness and whingers. Phew!

"
That about covers all of my pet dislikes....another is women with Masters, what is that all about!

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