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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just recently we have had people asking for face pics straight away, without sending thiers first or even a promise of reciprocating on return.
We usually only send if we have chatted a while and get a good vibe etc.
I feel if you sent them straight off you might as well have them on your profile for everyone to see?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wouldn't ask straight away, but we'd want to swap them soon, there's no point chatting online too much before being disappointed to see that there's no physical attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always ask for one straight away no point chatting to someone I don't find attractive I feel I would be wasting their time as well as my own. I do send one back if I think there a chance. "
I do understand that view also like you say no point if your not attracted, but think its just rude to ask without sending or a introduction first, then are offended by a refusal  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always ask for one straight away no point chatting to someone I don't find attractive I feel I would be wasting their time as well as my own. I do send one back if I think there a chance.
I do understand that view also like you say no point if your not attracted, but think its just rude to ask without sending or a introduction first, then are offended by a refusal "
Yep there's no need to be rude or pushy about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel that if you don't have any face pics in public and you message first, then its only polite to attach a face pic. Similarly, if you're going to ask for one then attach one yourself also. As others have said, really no point wasting time if there's no attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel that if you don't have any face pics in public and you message first, then its only polite to attach a face pic. Similarly, if you're going to ask for one then attach one yourself also. As others have said, really no point wasting time if there's no attraction. "
This is what I do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont reply to a first message unless it has a face pic or they have one public on their profile ... I dont like talking to faceless people that i might not find attractive ... Waste of both our times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont reply to a first message unless it has a face pic or they have one public on their profile ... I dont like talking to faceless people that i might not find attractive ... Waste of both our times "
Proper gutted I'm 1 year outside your age range girlinlingerie  . I was going to send you a face pic |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I feel that if you don't have any face pics in public and you message first, then its only polite to attach a face pic. Similarly, if you're going to ask for one then attach one yourself also. As others have said, really no point wasting time if there's no attraction. "
This 
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"I feel that if you don't have any face pics in public and you message first, then its only polite to attach a face pic. Similarly, if you're going to ask for one then attach one yourself also. As others have said, really no point wasting time if there's no attraction. "
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ exactly what the lady says |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont reply to a first message unless it has a face pic or they have one public on their profile ... I dont like talking to faceless people that i might not find attractive ... Waste of both our times
Proper gutted I'm 1 year outside your age range girlinlingerie . I was going to send you a face pic "
Dave you are also miles out my distance range (not that fab lets you apply this filter)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't send, and don't expect, a face photo with a first message. It needs to be shared quite early on but you can tell within a few messages whether there's a possible interest and whether it's worth swapping face photos. I don't need to see the faces of men I'm never going to reply to, or vice versa. |
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